Whitman Alvin

Whitman Alvin obituary, Quincy, MA

Whitman Alvin

Whitman Alvin Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts on Mar. 2, 2025.

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Whitman Alvin, "TaiDo" (Peaceful Way), born in Hyannis on September 1,1948, passed away on Tuesday February 18, 2025. TaiDo lived most of his life on Cape Cod. He is survived by sister Virginia Alvin Bibler married to George of Billerica, MA; by brother Gillette Alvin married to Barbara of Southbury, Conn; by brother Mark Alvin married to Sally of Northfield, MA; and by ten nieces and nephews; and, by fifteen grand nieces and nephews.
Whit, who was known as TaiDo was a practitioner of Zen Buddhism. Devoted in his meditation practice, he lived the principles of peace, kindness and generosity to family and to everyone. He was dedicated to his practice, always seeking Truth, and is now a Revered Ancestor of his Sangha. His studied with spiritual master Rev. Fugan Dineen, of Hyannis Zendo.
A graduate of Barnstable Tech H.S., he was employed building homes on the Cape before enlisting in the U.S. Army in 1968. He trained to become a sergeant and was sent to Vietnam with his platoon. He was injured very soon after by a land mine and lost one of his men, Manuel Hernandez, Jr. Whit suffered a head injury, lost one eye and injuries to lower body. A wounded veteran, awarded the Purple Heart, he was returned to the U.S. in 1969.
In spite of his injuries, Whit went on to Dean Junior College for his Associates Degree. He then went to the Rhode Island School of Design for a degree in Architecture. He worked for several years helping veterans secure jobs before going onto disability with the VA, due to PTSD. Whit took care of his aging mother for over 14 years. He created paintings in oil, owned and restored several antique cars, and enjoyed repairing Persian rugs. Whit also enjoyed helping support other family members.
After the Cape waterway to Lewis Bay was dredged, dumping tons of sand over previous vegetation, Whit worked alone to restore plant life on a huge area along Kalmus Beach, bringing native grasses and young beach pines in to transplant.
Of especial note is his creation and funding of a scholarship program for graduating H.S. seniors in Corpus Christie, Texas. This is in honor of his fellow comrade who died at the time of his injury, Manuel Hernandez,Jr. This fund continues to help students to this day, giving $1500 each year to two students from the Ray Miller High School. Donations can be made in honor of Whitman (TaiDo) to: https://www.cbcfoundation.org/scholarships/online/hernandez-manuel-hernandez-jr-memorial-scholarship/.
Tai-Do spent his final weeks at the Regency Health Center, Centerville, MA. He was in Hospice care for his final days, visited frequently by his loving family and friends.

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April 12, 2025

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Dean Ayres

April 12, 2025

With much sadness I found out about Whit's passing while on a months stay in Florida in February. It was devastating news to me to have lost one of my most cherished friends. I am thankful that we shared one of our last, of many, intimate and loving conversations at Regency Health before my departure south. His life and friendship has enriched my life beyond measure. His spirit and presence is still with me and forever will be. God bless you my friend.

Bob (Jr) and Alice Casavant

April 11, 2025

Our family has been friends with Whit for many years beginning with our parents many, many years ago when they were all associated with the South Shore Antique Auto Club. They enjoyed many activities together with their cars at Club events and also other occasions to socialize. After my parents passed, my wife and I continued to spend time with Whit and found him to be a valued friend. We will miss his kind and peaceful nature and thank him for his friendship.

Ralph Montecalvo

March 5, 2025

Mama Bear Whit´s companion he adored her and always shared her with me in our conversations

Ralph Montecalvo

March 4, 2025

Ralph Montecalvo

March 4, 2025

My condolences to all of us who love Whit. I´ve been friends with Whit since the fall of 1980 and since then our relationship only grew stronger. He shared his kindness and compassion for life with me and I´m grateful and blessed to have experienced his friendship.

Pam Court

March 4, 2025

My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Whit, my late husband Dick were good friends and they worked and discussed many car projects that started with the mg whit had and also the packard! I´ll remember him as a very kind and gentle soul who stayed in contact with me after Dick´s passing and we both shared in his loss. He took his struggles with his health both in courage and grace and now may he Rest In and may we all know that he is in a better place.
Sincerely,
Pam Court and family

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