William Kenneth DeFee

William Kenneth DeFee obituary, Dallas, TX

William Kenneth DeFee

William DeFee Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Aria Cremation Service and Funeral Home - Northwest Highway on Sep. 17, 2024.

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William "Bill" DeFee's 6-year battle with Alzheimer's Disease ended on September 13th, 2024. He was 79 years old and surrounded by his wife and children at the time of his passing.
He will forever be remembered as a loving husband, father, and grandfather. He is survived by his wife, Linda Boon DeFee; his two boys, Brian and Mark; his two daughter in-laws, Kelly and Nicole, and his 5 grandchildren, Cayden (16), Grayson (13), Lincoln (12), Boon (6) and Rose (3).
Bill was born in Flushing, NY in 1945. Shortly after his birth, Bill's family moved to the Dallas-Fort-Worth area. He grew up in Fort Worth and graduated from North Richland Hills High School (1963). Bill served in the Army before obtaining his bachelor's degree in finance at Texas Tech University (1971). He's also a graduate of The Southwestern Graduate School of Banking at Southern Methodist University (1976). He went on to have a 40-year career in the banking industry.
He often talked about how he loved helping small business owners' firm up their business plans in order for Bill's bank to approve their loan. He was known to all as a virtuous man who would speak his mind and do the right thing, even to a fault.
Volunteering was a large part of Bill's life. His volunteer work included being a Board Member of the Fort Worth Chapter Board of Governors of the American Institute of Banking, The President of The Mid-Cities Optimist Club, Secretary and Treasurer of The Northeast Tarrant County Chapter of Texas Tech Ex-Students Association, a Committee Chairman of the Longhorn Council of Boy Scouts of America, and Chairman of the Board for The Make-A-Wish North Texas Chapter. Serving on the Board with Make-A-Wish brought him great joy. He was also a Charter member of St. Andrew's Methodist Church in Plano, TX.
Whether it was on his sailboat, The Pinata, or his motorboat, Bill loved being on the water. He spent countless days at the family's Lakehouse on Lake Cypress Springs in Mount Vernon, TX.
Later in life, Bill was fondly known as "Pops" to his family and grandchildren. He loved playing with his grandkids and being around them as much as possible.
His fortune cookie sized bits of wisdom like, "You gotta plan your work and work your plan," will happily be handed down to the next generation of DeFee's, cue the teenage eye-rolling.
He always kept his family at the center of his world and found a professional calling that energized him. He was a great man who crafted a life anybody would be proud to live.
A memorial service will be held in his honor on Saturday, September 28th at 11:00 am in Hasley Chapel on the St. Andrew's Methodist Church campus in Plano, TX.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you make a donation to either The Make-A-Wish North Texas Chapter or St. Andrew's Methodist Church Dementia Support Ministry
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August 10, 2025

Don Poulsen posted to the memorial.

September 28, 2024

John Mattox posted to the memorial.

September 17, 2024

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Don Poulsen

August 10, 2025

Bill became my Banker when First Texas Bank opened at Royal Lane and Denton Road in Dallas. I had acquired a food brokerage company and we had offices in a new neighboring building. He was great, always giving good advice and encouragement. It´s 2025 and that is still my Bank! We were around Linda and Bill on many occasions! He helped my son financially when he built a car wash in Coppell. We honor him in his passing and extend blessings to his family. On to your new adventure Bill! Don and Phyllis Poulsen
Seattle, WA

John Mattox

September 28, 2024

The Defee home was one of my absolute favorites to visit growing up, and Bill was a huge part of that. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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