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Elaine Lancelotti Markovich

1939 - 2021

Elaine Lancelotti Markovich obituary, 1939-2021, Napa, Ca

Elaine Markovich Obituary

Elaine Lancelotti Markovich

1939-2021

Elaine Lancelotti Markovich was born July 1, 1939, in San Francisco and died suddenly November 15, 2021, in Napa. Elaine was the only child of the marriage of Rose Serrato and Fred Lancelotti. Each of her parents went on to other marriages, so Elaine has several step siblings. Elaine was raised in the North Beach district of San Francisco in an Italian household with her grandparents, aunts, and uncles nearby. She was a graduate of St Monica's Elementary School, Presentation High School, and earned her BA degree and teaching credential at USF, a master's degree from SF State and another masters from Seattle University. During her membership with Rotary Club International, Elaine was named a Paul Harris Fellow.

She joined the Sisters of the Presentation order of Catholic Nuns in 1956 so that she could use her gift of spirituality and teach. She taught or was the principal at St John Vianney's San Jose, St Mary's Gilroy, St Elizabeth's San Francisco, and St Agnes's San Francisco. She worked at St Patrick's Sonora for a year before joining the St Patrick's Larkspur Parish in 1985 as a Pastoral Associate. In Larkspur she managed the day-to-day jobs plus property management of the commercial buildings owned by the Parish.

Elaine left the community of sisters in 1989 but continued her work at St Patrick's until 2005. In October of that year, she sold her condominium in Corte Madera and moved to Napa. January 6, 2006, she married Tom Markovich, retired, and joined the Napa Valley Country Club. At the Club, she attained the rank of Captain of the Ladies Golf Group, was on the Board of Directors and made a hole-in-one.

When she and Tom had to quit golf in 2016, she was able to get a volunteer job at her beloved St Apollinaris Church. There, working nearly full time, she assisted the Pastor, Father Fergal, the priests Father Thomas and Father Pat, Nini, and Valentina. She also collaborated with the groundskeepers Chris and David, school principal Oliva, teachers, and school staff. She completed numerous tasks including editing the parish bulletin, assisted in counting the collection, streaming Mass during the pandemic shutdown and assisted as an usher, all with immense joy. Additionally, she managed and partially funded the church earthquake repairs, interior painting, replacement of the altar carpet, tile, kneelers, and sound system. Other work included managing the painting of the school and convent, sponsoring the CYO basketball team jerseys, and founding the Elaine Markovich Memorial Scholarship Fund for graduating eight grade students who served their Parish.

Elaine did find time for recreation such as swimming, playing golf, tennis, bocce ball and traveling. Elaine was able to take cruises through the Greek Islands, Scandinavian capitals, and St Petersburg Russia (plus golf in Copenhagen), the Caribbean and Alaska. She also was a pianist and a terrific singer. While basically a shy person, she was driven to serve others with her talents and skills, making a difference in the lives of many people.

Elaine is survived by her husband Tom, siblings Michael Cronan and wife Tenley, Sherri Sacks DiBasilio and husband Scott, Fred Pheiffer and wife

Lynn, Angelo Lancelotti and wife Sonia, Joe Peery and wife Kay and numerous nieces, nephew and cousins. Elaine will be missed by us all.

Elaine's funeral Mass will be at Noon, Saturday, December 4th at St Apollinaris, 3700 Lassen Street Napa, with lunch to follow with a private interment the following week. Should you care to donate in honor of Elaine, we suggest making it to the Elaine Markovich Memorial Scholarship Fund at St Apollinaris.

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Published by Napa Valley Register on Nov. 28, 2021.

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Vivian Tamayo

December 13, 2021

Tom, I don't know if you remember me from St. Patricks. I just heard of Elaine's passing and I am so sorry for the pain that you have in your heart. I enjoyed knowing and working with Elaine at St. Pats. She set such good examples to strive for excellence. Elaine made such a good impression on my son, Mark. Just know that my thoughts are with you and that you will enjoy happy memories of the years that you and Elaine had together.................
Vivian Tamayo and Mark Tamayo

Lynn (Wambeke) Simpson

December 10, 2021

This photo was taken in November 2019 at our Class Reunion in San Francisco.

Lynn (Wambeke) Simpson

December 10, 2021

(Sister) Elaine was my 7th and 8th grade teacher at St. Elizabeth's in San Francisco. She was such a beautiful person. November of 2019, our 8th grade class got together for a reunion (in San Francisco). Elaine and her husband Tom joined us. That was truly a Highlight to the gathering. After we hugged, she grabbed my shoulders and said, "Little Lynn Wambeke, I remember that you always had to have everything just right and precise"! I laughed and said, "And that is way before they even talked about Autism". Elaine was "One of a KIND". She will be missed. I have shared the picture that I took of Elaine; Charles and Terrance and everyone was shocked to learn that she was 80 years young (then). Another Angel got her wings.

Valentina Maffei Parkman

December 2, 2021

St Elizabeth´s class of 1972 will miss you Elaine as we celebrate our 50th class reunion. Thank you for your service and the time I spent volunteering with you at St Patrick´s church.

April and Art

December 1, 2021

Tom We send our deepest sympathy and love for you at this difficult time. We are so sincerely grateful that we had the opportunity to share some wonderful time with Elaine. Love, Art and April

Fr. David Jenuwine

December 1, 2021

I offered Mass for Elaine as soon as I heard from Tom of her passing, and have remembered her at every Mass since. Continued prayers and love.

Vicki Bullock

November 29, 2021

Dear Tom,
I am heartbroken. Elaine was such a beautiful person. I´m so thankful to have seen the two of you at the ballgames, this past season. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jerry & Peggy Larghi & Family

November 29, 2021

Dear Tom
We are sorry to read of your wife´s sudden passing, may all Elaine´s wonderful memories help to comfort you now and remain always in your heart. God Bless You
Our Heartfelt Sympathy and Love
Jerry & Peggy Larghi & Family

Janet and Peter Giddings

November 28, 2021

Elaine made the Catholic Church better. She spread the light of Christ. We are grateful to her and send our compassion and condolences to Tom, and all the family and friends of Elaine.

Norene (Malfatti) Mozzetti

November 28, 2021

I went to Presentation High school with Elaine. Elaine was always kind and generous with her talents. I am so sorry for your loss.

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