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Patricia Flaherty Obituary

Funeral Mass for Flaherty, 78, of Mentor, will be 7 p.m. Friday, Jan. 27, 2023, at St. Bede the Venerable Church, 9114 Lakeshore Blvd., Mentor. Family will receive friends one hour prior to the Mass at church. Pat passed away at her home Friday, Dec. 23, 2022, surrounded by her loving husband and four children. She was born June 13, 1944, in Cleveland, to the late Richard Brown and Ruth (nee Schneider) Brown. Pat attended Miami University and graduated from Cleveland State with a degree in social work. She made an impact on many children whom she mentored and placed in foster homes. After her social work career, she continued to work with children by founding and teaching at Delightful Day Preschool, within St. Bede the Venerable Church in Mentor. She was a loving mother of four, grandmother of 11 and great-grandmother of four. "Grandma Pat" was the best of the best in all of these categories. Pat lovingly welcomed everyone into their home. Visitors were greeted by the quote, "May our house always be too small to hold our friends." Pat is survived by her husband of 56 years, William "Bill" "Flash" Flaherty, whom she married Nov. 24, 1966; children, Colleen (Chip) Ebert of Riverview, Fla., Alyson (Carl) Dondorfer of Concord Twp., Ryan (Christina Mueller) Flaherty of Ann Arbor, Mich., and Melissa (Kevin) Jenkins of Mentor; sister, Cynthia (Ted) Johns of Richmond Hts.; grandchildren, Jarryd (Carrie), Jeremy (Erin), Jordyn (Ricky), Zach, Mallory, Carley, Kellen, Liam, Anna, Myrna and Ally; great-grandchildren, James, Finley and Asher; Beau; brother-in-law, Dan Flaherty; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. A Celebration of Life ceremony will be held Saturday, June 17, 2023. Please check back at the funeral home's website for detailed updates. Arrangements are entrusted to McMahon-Coyne-Vitantonio Funeral Homes in Willoughby and Mentor. To leave condolences for the family or order flowers, visit www.MCVfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by News-Herald from Dec. 30, 2022 to Jan. 1, 2023.

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Nancy Spelich

January 27, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. I met your mom through Hands On Therapy, working with Alyson and Missy. What I remember most is your moms huge smile and she always was happy. We liked to compare notes on our kids and the grandkids. I didn´t know your mom real long but what I did, I know she is " sleeping with the angels" because she was one herself. She will be in my prayers.

chris /chuck kalinsky

January 24, 2023

Every time I think of Pat, it puts a smile on my face. She was such a kind and thoughtful person. This is a perfect example: It was late summer right before my preschool, Caring Tree, was to open. One of my assistants resigned. I thought Pat might be able to help me find someone to work. She knew I was in a bind and offered to work that year for me. What a caring friend to help me out. Of course all of the children loved her. We would go to lunch and share stories about our families. She always wanted to know what was going on in their lives. Pat was a Blessing to so many. She will truly be missed.
Chris and Chuck Kalinsky

Dan and Chris

January 23, 2023

Our deepest sympathies to Bill, Colleen, Alyson, Ryan and Missy and their families. Our memories go back many years and every memory of Pat remains the same - kind, generous, unselfish, sincere, loving, thoughtful, positive, upbeat, a friend to many and the best sister - in - law ever. Our Vacations for 25+ years will never be forgotten. We will miss Pat but she remains in our hearts forever.
Dan and Chris

Bernadette (Bernie) Koeth

January 1, 2023

My deepest sympathy to Bill and the entire family. My prayers are with you all.

Marcia & Bob Liddy

December 31, 2022

Pat was the sweetest and kindest person we've ever known. We loved her and will miss her dearly.

Skip Meinke - WGHS Class of '62

December 31, 2022

From all her classmates of West Geauga HS, we send our sincere condolences to her family and friends. She will always be remembered by her classmates.

Frank Margheret

December 31, 2022

Flash - My deepest sympathy to you and the girls on Pat's passing. Among her many qualities, she was a gracious and patient woman and has left you with many wonderful memories to treasure.

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Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

St. Bede the Venerable Catholic Church

9114 Lake Shore Blvd., MENTOR, OH 44060

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27

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7:00 p.m.

St. Bede the Venerable Catholic Church

9114 Lake Shore Blvd., MENTOR, OH 44060

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McMahon - Coyne - Vitantonio Funeral Home - Mentor

6330 Center Street (Route 615, north of Route 2), Mentor, OH 44060

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