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FOX - David , suddenly on May 29, 2007. Beloved husband of Shannon Elizabeth Fox (nee O'Hara). Loving son of Raymond and Bernadette Fox. Cherished brother of Bernadette Lucchesi, Mary LynnRuocco, Joanne Troyansky, Katherine Johnston, Karen Diolosa, Raymond, Brian, Sean, Michael, James and the late Robert Fox. Reposing Friday 2-4 and 7-9pm at the Robertaccio Funeral Home Inc. 85 Rte 112, Patchogue. Funeral Mass Saturday 10am St. Joseph the Worker Church. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

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Published by Newsday on May 31, 2007.

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Michelle Fox

May 29, 2025

No matter how many years go by this day never gets any easier to bare. We all know it´s coming as the month of May comes to and end, and yet the pain and the hurt are not as strong as this day 18 years ago, it´s still there. It still hurts and it still wears on our hearts. No amount of time can erase our love our or memories and the ache deep in all of our hearts. You are always with us Dave. Always. Ever present in soul and our hearts and our minds and our favorite memories. That will never change. Love & miss you terribly. Rest in eternal peace Uncle Dave. Until we meet again.

Michelle Fox

February 12, 2025

Happy Birthday Uncle Dave

Cliff

May 29, 2024

Hi Dave, Miss You All The Time

Michelle Fox

May 17, 2024

Hey Dave! Been thinking about you a lot. Rangers and Knick´s and Mets games always on. What Brian and I wouldn´t give to have you here with us watching these games like the good old days. We miss you so much.

Cliff

May 27, 2023

Hey Dave, that time of year again. Still Love you and Miss you... we visited on Mother´s Day - but you knew that... Job still sucks, worse than when you left anyway.

Michelle Fox

May 26, 2023

Michelle Fox

May 26, 2023

Michelle Fox

May 26, 2023

Dave, goodness do we miss you! We sure felt your presence (as always). How you would have loved this get together we had to celebrate Brian & Sharon´s 50th wedding anniversary. We had laughs and some tears thinking of you and remembering you. I know you know all this already. I am confident you were there in spirit. The years are flying by, but the heart ache remains. You remain an ever constant in our lives and in our hearts. We reflect on these last 16 years and are still saddened at not having you physically here with us, but we are oh so grateful for the time we did have with you and for the joy you left in our hearts. Loving you and missing you forever.

Brian & Michelle

February 16, 2023

Happy belated Birthday Uncle Dave. Sorry we didn´t post on your actual birthday on Sunday. You were so much on our minds as we were watching the Super Bowl that day. You know we are thinking of you always. How we miss watching football with you. We sure wish we could have celebrating your birthday with you. We love you & miss you immensely. We will forever feel the void of your absence.

Cliff

May 30, 2022

Love you Dave

Michelle Fox

May 20, 2022

Uncle Dave, here we are 9 days away from the day you physically left us here on Earth 15 years later. It still feels like yesterday but also feels so long ago. As Brian & I sit here watching the Rangers playoff game we were just reminiscing about a Rangers game back in approx. 1998 in our basement apartment where you got so excited that you put your fist through the drop down ceiling. we loved watching Mets, Jets and Rangers games with you. We love you & miss you everyday. Until we meet again know that you are forever in our hearts. #LetsGoRangers #LetsGoMets #LetsGoJets

Michelle Fox

February 12, 2022

Happy Birthday in Heaven Uncle Dave. We love you and miss you so much. Love always, Brian, Michelle, Brianna & Nicholas

Michelle Fox

December 28, 2021

Michelle Fox

December 28, 2021

Michelle Fox

December 28, 2021

Uncle Dave, I am a little late in posting this but we didn´t want Christmas to pass without telling you that we miss you & love you always.

Michelle Fox

June 3, 2021

Not sure why the picture didn´t attach in last post of Nicholas wearing Uncle Dave´s tie for graduation.

Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

Michelle Fox

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Michelle Fox

June 2, 2021

We know you would have been proud of Nicholas on his graduation day Uncle Dave. Here he is wearing your tie to the graduation ceremony. You are always with us. We love & miss you everyday.

Brian & Michelle Fox

May 30, 2021

14 years without you and it´s still not easier. We miss you beyond words and love you beyond measure.

Cliff Troyansky

February 13, 2021

A Day Late Again Dave! Happy Birthday in Heaven! Spent all yesterday thing about you while working our old crappy job. Miss you all the time! Love You- Cliff

Michelle Fox

February 12, 2021

Happy Birthday Uncle Dave

Brian & Michelle Fox

February 12, 2021

Dear Dave,

Happy 54th Birthday in Heaven. We sure wish we could celebrate with you. We know you are always with us. We love & miss you bunches. XOXO Love, Brian & Michelle

Cliff Troyansky

May 30, 2020

Sorry I am a day Late-Still miss everything about You. Kristen's baby's (Harlan David) Middle Name is for You! He is also Smart and Well Dressed!

Michelle Fox

May 29, 2020

On the anniversary of your leaving us we are thinking of all the happy times together. Because someone we love is in Heaven theres a little bit of Heaven in our home. XOXO Uncle Dave

Michelle Fox

May 29, 2020

Uncle Dave, thinking of you today & everyday. Its been 13 years and it sometimes feels like yesterday. Then other times it feels like its been 25 years since we last heard your voice or saw your smile. No matter how many years go by that we are here without you we will never forget you. You are always with us. Love always, Brian, Michelle, Brianna & Nicholas

Michelle Fox

December 7, 2019

miss you

Shannon

December 6, 2019

miss you

Shannon

December 6, 2019

miss you

Shannon

December 6, 2019

miss you

Shannon

December 6, 2019

Cliff

December 5, 2019

Still think about you all the time, Told some funny stories about your clothing preferences the other day-Miss you

Michelle Fox

May 29, 2019

Uncle Dave,
It's hard to believe that 12 years have gone by without you. In some ways it seems longer and in some ways it seems shorter but still not much easier. You left an enormous hole in our lives and our hearts. We have never become hole again. You were always the most anticipated arrival to our home. Your presence just made everything better and way more fun. Your smile was infectious. We miss the simple things with you. Just having you around or having you come visit. Always a good time with lots of laughs and memories. We hold these dear to our hearts. Brian and I always wish that Brianna and Nicholas had gotten to spend more time with you, but they remember you from our stories. We always talk about you and you are ever present in our home. There are pictures and reminders of you everywhere. It makes us feel like you are still with us. We know you are. We just wanted to let you know that even though 12 years have passed since we saw your handsome face and heard your laugh we still love and miss you every day. 100 years can pass and that will never change. Know we are always thinking of you, loving you and missing you.

January 29, 2015

Hey, It's been a while. Still miss you every day.
Cliff

Brian Fox

May 29, 2011

David. I miss you so much

February 19, 2010

Dear Dave and my Foxes,
I just want you to know that I think of and experience Dave's spirit every single day. He makes his presence known to me regularly in the most spritual and unbelievable ways. He was, is, and always will be the only being that ever really knew me and for that I am immensely blessed. He continues to motivate me in the most beautiful and mysterious ways. Thank you for being a part of his life, for it is largely because of your love for him that his love lives within me. I love you all and think of our connection daily. David, I know when you visit. You absolutely and completely rock. I am a more productive being because of you. Please rest in peace. It's all good.
Chrissy.
PS: Good night, sweetheart.

May 30, 2009

Uncle Dave,

I miss you now more than ever. I cant believe you are gone 2 years. Hey the Mets look good. I miss your pessimistic views on our sport teams. I remember how much fun we used to have watching those Knick playoff games in your apartment in east patchogue. I miss you

Say hello to Grandpa and Dad.

Joanne Troyansky

May 29, 2009

Dave,
I can't believe it's been two years. Sometimes it feels like it was only yesterday. I think about you all the time. I miss you, I miss your quick wit and sense of humor. We were saying today how you and Bobby shared the same sense of humor. I find comfort in thinkng that you, Bobby and Dad are together. We love and miss you all!

Brian Fox

February 12, 2009

Dave,
I wish more than anything in this world that i was enjoying your birthday with you with the usual jokes and laughter that we shared. To this day i look at my cell phone when it rings and hope to see Dave Fox or LAS NY. That tuesday morning when we spoke has been a conversation i replay everyday of my life. I wish i was the friend you needed as you always were to me. The sadness and missing feeling i had that day is still with me today, it is so hard to walk back to a golf cart and not have someone say "what was that, get in ". The friendship we shared on the phone, golf course or a ball game is something that i miss and i hope you had as much fun as i did. I will have you know i have done my best to speed up the speed of play... Your memory is with me everyday.. Love your nephew and friend .. Brian

chris veitch

February 4, 2009

Dear David,
I know it's not your birthday yet but it's your birthday month. I couldn't wait to wish you a happy b-day...so happy d-day!! You are still here to me. I miss you and still, yes, still, think of you daily. You're my favorite being in the whole wide world. I will never abandon your memory. Miss you.
Love,
Chris

Mary Ruocco

December 26, 2008

I wrote to you on Christmas eve but I guess I was too sad to hit the right buttons through my tears and my letter was never posted. I guess that's because you would not have wanted me to be so sad. This was a tough Christmas for me. Like you I feel very alone sometimes. We are never alone but at times we feel that way. I miss you a lot and want you to know how very much we all miss you. Take good care of Bobby and give him a big hug from all of us! Merry Christmas! Love and hugs, MaryLynn

Karen Diolosa

December 26, 2008

I wish you were here to share in Amanda and Carly's excitement with the holidays. My eyes can't help but to well up with tears, thinking about your smile and humor. I love and miss you. What I would do to have you here, playing guitar hero in the den with Pete, I and the girls.

christine veitch

December 26, 2008

Dear Dave,
Merry Christmas, doll!! You are the reason I live and love.

Thank you for looking out.

Much love,

Chrissy

Joanne Troyansky

December 20, 2008

Dave,
It's hard to believe another Christmas is upon us without you here. Although I think about you and miss you all the time it is much more prevalent at this time of year, when I think back to Christmas time when we were kids or the times you spent at our house for the holiday's or how about the times you played Santa Claus for the family Christmas party. Have a Merry Christmas in Heaven.
Love,
Joanne

christine veitch

May 29, 2008

Dear Dave,
Thought of you today. A year since the world has been a lesser one because of your absence.
Love,
Chrissy

Derek Fox

February 16, 2008

Uncle Dave,

I have had a trying couple of months. I wish so much you were here to talk to in person. I miss your blunt honesty, and humor you always displayed when I was going through a rough time. I will be ok because I believe you will be there to watch over me. I love you and miss you. I dont know If I ever told you that.

Your loving Nephew and Friend

Derek

Jim Fox

February 12, 2008

Dear Dave,

If I could only go back in time, I would give the world to have 10 minutes to wish you a Happy Birthday and tell you how much I love you.

I will celebrate your life today.
Happy Birthday Little Brother. I love and miss you.

Jim

Amy Fox

December 26, 2007

Uncle Dave,

For the past few years I have thought long and hard about what I could get you for Christmas that would show you how grateful I am to have you in my life. After searching high and how I realized that there is nothing in this world that could express how important you have been to me. So I guess the one thing I can give you is my words. I want you to know that your kindness and generosity has meant the world to me. However, I would give everything back to have one more chance to see and talk to you. More importantly I want to thank you for being such a kind hearted and loving uncle, friend and father figure. I love and miss you more than you will ever know.

Love Always,

Amy

Karen Diolosa

December 19, 2007

David,

I can't believe I have not yet signed this book. Maybe that's because signing it means that I have to accept you are not here. I think about you every day and miss you more than words can say. You were such a special person.

I replay that last conversation we had, over and over again in my head. I just wish I knew it was going to be our last, because there were so many more things I would have said to you. I'll say them now and you can just listen from heaven. Big brother you are kind and loving and such an important person in my life. Your wittiness is so refreshing and your smile lights up any room. I wish you could see how beautiful you are, inside and out. I love you. The sadness you are feeling is not fair. Lean on me, I can help you.

Last year at this time, we had dinner with you in the city. We had such a great time. The girls loved seeing you, as did Pete and I. I would pay any amount of money to be doing that again this year. Instead, we skipped the city this year (the first time since Carly was born). We knew it would not be the same.

Dave, please help me work through the sadness I am feeling. It hurts so much to think that you were as sad as you were before you died. My faith in God has been severely tested. Please give me a hug from Heaven. Actually I could use one from Bobby as well. Please pass that along.

Missing and loving you!

your sister,

Karen

Joanne Troyansky

December 17, 2007

Dear David,
I was picking out Christmas cards the other day and as I often do I thought of you. I remembered how much you enjoyed and appreciated the simple things like receiving cards from friends and family. So I picked out a card for you that reflects upon the memories we shared as kids, how you can't choose your family and how lucky I am to have a brother like you (we all are). It speaks of how hard you worked and all the things you did for the people you love, what a wonderful person you had become, how proud I am to tell the world your my brother and even prouder to say your my friend. We love and miss you so very much. Wishing you and Bobby a "Merry Christmas" in heaven.
Love,
Joanne, Cliff, Matt and Kristen

Chrissy Veitch

November 25, 2007

Dear David,
I came across a picture of our first Christmas tree in Sayville. You were so proud. It didn't take much to please you.

Although a few months have passed since you left, I still feel as sad as I did on that day. I will never forget you. Never.
Love always,
Chrissy

SHARON FOX

October 3, 2007

DEAR DAVID
YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART.I LOVE AND MISS YOU.

LOVE SHARON

DAVID, FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS, WITH ALL OUR LOVE, YOUR FAMILY

Joanne Troyansky

September 25, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Uncle Dave we all love and miss you!!

September 22, 2007

BARBARA FUCCI

September 11, 2007

MY DEAR SISTER SHARON,BRIAN,CHRIS,BRIAN,AND TO ALL THE FOX FAMILY
DAVE WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON AND WE WILL MISS HIM SO. HE WILL BE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS BARBARA

BARBARA FUCCI

September 11, 2007

MY DEAR SISTER SHARON,BRIAN,CHRIS,BRIAN
DAVE WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON AND WE WILL MISS HIM SO. HE WILL BE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS BARBARA

Margaret Love

August 12, 2007

Dearest Mary and Family,
We are so sorry for your terrible loss. The world is a much sadder place without David in it. Embrace his life, his love and his memory will live on in the hearts of all the lives' he touched. Love, Margaret, Melissa, Samantha and Bobby Love xo

Dave, We Love and Miss You, Kathy Tim Bobby Kevin and Connor

August 7, 2007

R Mon

July 2, 2007

I am sadden to hear of your loss. Dave was a great person and I'm glad to have known him.

Derek Fox

June 30, 2007

Uncle Dave I will always love you. For all you have done for me and Amy. You were not only an Uncle but a father and brother to me.

NANCY RUOCCO

June 14, 2007

Dearest Mary and Fox Family-

I am so sorry for you and your family. May you find joy in David's memories, may you find comfort in the incredible man that he was, may you find peace in his everlasting love.

Sincerely,
Nancy Ruocco

Candy Palcovic-Behling

June 14, 2007

To the Fox family:

I am very sorry about your loss. David was a great guy and he will be missed deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Dana DeNicola-Pace

June 13, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the Fox family. Boots without Shoes Dave. You will be missed by all of us - and never forgotten.

Celeste Fosmire

June 12, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Platform Learning

June 12, 2007

Shannon,
Our deepest sympathies, from everyone at Platform Learning.

Tamika Morales

June 12, 2007

Shannon,

My deepest condolences to you. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Tamika

Gerard and Mary Veitch

June 6, 2007

To the Fox family
Our deepest sympathy to your family. Dave was a kind and caring person and we are so proud to have known him. May God bless your family.

Diana Curylo (Wright)

June 5, 2007

To the Fox Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. It was great to see David at the 20th reunion. Please accept my condolences.

Anne Nelson

June 4, 2007

Doug and I were so saddened to hear about your loss. Dave was a kind and gentle person who helped us early in our marriage. He was a good friend to us when we needed one and I will never forget him for that. Our thoughts will be with you.

my wonderful husband & my best friend...I will love you, David, always

June 4, 2007

Mary Russell & Laurent Poulain

June 3, 2007

Dear Shannon,
We are sorry to hear about Dave. Our thoughts are with you during this time.

Christine Gaynor-ElShahat

June 3, 2007

To the Fox family:

My deepest sympathies. May God bless all of you in this time of grief. Know that David is with God's mercy. To God we belong and to Him we return.

ricky gaynor

June 3, 2007

to all our friends at the fox family.
we are so sorry to hear of the passing of our good friend david
he was always a great guy and it was a pleasure to know him as a friend.
the gaynor boys. ricky dennis ronnie gary.

Karin Galea

June 3, 2007

Shannon and the Fox Family,

I am so sorry for the loss of Dave you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Ann Russell Joseph Acton

June 3, 2007

Shannon

We were saddened to hear of the loss of your husband, David. We offer our condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Christine Veitch

June 1, 2007

To my friends of the Fox family,

Please accept my deepest sympathies for your most enormous loss.

It was a privilege to have been a part of Dave's life.

I love you all.

Chrissy Veitch

Anna Johann-Rera

June 1, 2007

To the entire Fox family,
Words can't express the sympathy I have for you all.

Ruth & Ed Russell

June 1, 2007

Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your husband, Dave. We will remember you and him in our prayers.

Carol Sweeney

June 1, 2007

To the Family of David Fox,

I knew David as a fellow real estate appraiser. He was a wonderful person, and I am very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. God Bless you.

Carol S. Sweeney, MAI

Lynn Arroyo

June 1, 2007

Dear Shannon, Bernadette, Raymond, Joanne, and brother's and sisters,

Please accept our sincerest condolences on the passing of your beloved husband, son, and brother, David. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeanne veitch-Rojas

June 1, 2007

Dear Fox Family,
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Hold the wonderful memories you have of Dave close to your hearts. I will forever remember his kind, gentle ways and the great times he shared with our family.
Jeanne Veitch-Rojas

Louis Bono

June 1, 2007

I was saddened to hear the news of Dave. I have fond memories of Dave from high school. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

Cynthia & Bill Rummler

May 31, 2007

Sorry about your loss. Our deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family.

Norm Nhaisi

May 31, 2007

Dear Fox family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I will always remember Dave as a great friend growing up. We had not been in touch in many years, but the hilarious times we spent together will be in my memory forever.

Shannon O'Cain

May 31, 2007

We are so sorry for the loss your family is experiencing. We appreciate the many appraisals completed by Mr. Fox. May you be comforted by one another during this most difficult time. Valocity

Judy Greene

May 31, 2007

Dear Fox Family,
My prayers are with you all at this time. No words can express the saddness that I feel for each one of you.

Patricia Porsche

May 31, 2007

Dear Karen and Family,
We are very saddened by your loss. May the wonderful memories you have of your brother comfort you in your time of sorrow.

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