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Joseph Dehler Obituary

DEHLER - Joseph A. "Joe Cool" on October 17, 2020. Beloved husband of Kathleen (nee Casserly). Cherished father of Joseph (Debbie), Richard (Beth), Eileen (Rich), Kathleen, Rosemary (Steven) and Maryann. Adored grandfather of Kathryn (Dirk), Richie (Danielle), Ryan, Joe (KiKi), Jaclyn (Chris), Tyler, Bryan, Sarah and Tommy and great grandfather of James. Loving brother of Larry (the late Elizabeth), Rosemary (Tom), William (Pat), the late Frank (Jean) and the late Irene (Bill). Dear brother-in-law of Maryann (the late Donald) and uncle to many nieces and nephews. A Korean War Veteran, Joe proudly served in the United States Marine Corps, and was a devoted lifetime member of The Knights of Columbus (Seaford) and The American Legion (Wantagh). In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Multiple Sclerosis Society or Toys for Tots. Visitation will be on Wednesday 2-4pm & 6-9:30pm at Charles J. O'Shea Funeral Homes, 603 Wantagh Avenue, Wantagh, N.Y. 11793 (Exit 28N SS PKWY). Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday 10:00am at St. Frances De Chantal R.C. Church (Wantagh). Interment to follow at Calverton National Cemetery. www.osheafuneral.com

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 20, 2020.

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Thomas Heiser

October 22, 2020

Dear Dehler family,

My dearest sympathy to the entire family for the loss of such a loving father, beloved husband and a dear friend and mentor to many of us. I believe I speak for many, as I say that the world was blessed to have an individual like Joe Dehler. A kind and gentle man who's generosity went far beyond the normal scope of any individual I have ever known. I have learned from the first day I met Joe, and the entire Dehler family, that "having the time of your life" is an essential part of being human and is a necessary trait as we move ahead in such a sorrowful moment in time.

My heart goes out to the entire Dehler family and my thoughts and prayers will be with all of you throughout this journey.

Be well, be safe, and most of all...."have the time of your life".

Respectfully,
Thomas

John Brtalik

October 20, 2020

I worked at concord cleaners for years and Joe was one of the nicest customers we had! Always a smiling face that would light up a room! He was a great person and will truly be missed...

Pat Daly

October 20, 2020

An old friend of the gang at 351 Duckpond, especially the claracter they call Reese, I have many fond memories of Joe, starting with his showing me as Little Leaguer to hit with confidence. He'd always make me and many others feel good. Over the years any one of my siblings would come home and say that they met "Joe. D" somewhere in town- and that he made them smile and laugh. Of course Joe was a super hero to my oldest son, who was Joe's guest at both fishing trips and Old Timers games. I know Joe will be sorely missed, and I send my heartfelt condolences to his lovely bride of many years.

ANN FROHDER

October 20, 2020

What a remarkable man Joe was. His kindness and generosity meant so much to so many of us in the community... not to mention that contagious smile. Sincere sympathy and prayers for the Dehler family on the loss of their beloved husband, father and frind.

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21

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Charles J. O'Shea Funeral Homes, Inc. - Wantagh

603 Wantagh Avenue, Wantagh, NY 11793

Oct

21

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Charles J. O'Shea Funeral Homes, Inc. - Wantagh

603 Wantagh Avenue, Wantagh, NY 11793

Oct

22

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Frances De Chantal R.C. Church

Wantagh, NY

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603 Wantagh Avenue, Wantagh, NY 11793

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