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Stephen Shafer Obituary

SHAFER-Stephen Joel, died unexpectedly on September 14, 2004, He was a beloved colleague and friend and Professor of Biology and Natural Sciences at Dowling College for more than 30 years. Steve was a leader at the College and in the faculty union Dowling College Chapter of NYSUT. He was a past president and successfully negotiated many contracts, including this last one beginning September 1, 2004. Steve was also a founder of the Faculty Scholarship Fund and embodied the College's motto: Learning, Wisdom and Compassion. Steve received his BA from Haverford College, MS from the University of Pennsylvania and Ph.D. from Temple University. His wise counsel, unflappable demeanor and respect for others brought people together and bridged differences in may arenas. Steve was a kind, good, generous and wise man. We are all better people because he touched us--his colleagues, friends and students. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. Our sincerest condolences to his wife, Gail and daughter, Cindy. Visitation, Friday and Saturday 2-4PM and 79PM at Robertaccio Funeral Home, 85 Medford Ave., Rte. 112, Patchogue. Funeral Services, Sunday 9:30AM at funeral home. The Executive Board, Dowling College, Chapter NYSUT.

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Published by Newsday from Sep. 16 to Sep. 17, 2004.

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Lisa Agnelli

October 9, 2004

Dearest Cindy and Family,

You are always in my heart and in my thoughts. My deepest sympathy to all. Always your friend, Lisa

Marshall Banana

October 2, 2004

I'm sorry to hear about Professor Shafer's passing. I didn't know professer Shafer personally, but by virtue of his daughter. Cindy must have gotten her professionalism from her father, tho she did not talk about her family much at all. His family has my deepest sympathies.



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Maria Mitchell Murray, DO

September 22, 2004

Dr. Steve will truly be missed. As one of his students (Dowling College Class of 1987) and my educational advisor, he had a tremendous influence on the direction of my professional career. I thank him very much. Not only was he a dedicated and wonderful teacher, he was a great friend. My heart and much love goes out to Gail and Cindy. I have such wonderful memories. You all will be in my prayers. I am always here for you! Forever friends and Love, Maria

Bernard Haske

September 20, 2004

I am saddened by Steve's death and respect the many contributions that he made to his students and to Dowling College.

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