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William McCaffrey Obituary

McCAFFREY - William Thomas, of Long Beach, N.Y. and Palm Beach Gardens, FL died June 18th, 2009, at his Long Beach home with his wife Mary by his side. Bill had endured a long illness with ALS-Lou Gehrig's Disease. Bill was born in Washington Heights on July 7, 1936. He attended Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish School and Cardinal Hayes High School before joining The Equitable Life Assurance Society in 1954 as a clerk. While working full time and supporting his young family, he graduated from NYU and earned a Masters Degree in business through the executive degree program at Columbia University. Through his dedication and perseverance he held over twenty six positions at the Equitable before retiring in 1999 due to his illness as Senior Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of AXA/Equitable. Bill met his wife Mary, at the Equitable and they have been married for forty nine years. They raised their family together in Rego Park, NY. He is dearly lved by his family and is survived by his wife Mary, three children Ann Nicoletti (John), William E. McCaffrey, and Christine Lodato (Joseph), his grandchildren Danielle,Gianna, Samantha, Kian, his brothers Daniel, John (Martha), and Joseph, and sister-in-law Dolores. His family is very proud of his many accomplishments, his vast generosity, and unwavering compassion for those in need. He was a great advocate in assisting his community and organizations of many realms. As Chairman Emeritus at Xavier University of Louisiana, he chaired the development committee where he raised over $50 million dollars towards the expansion of the campus. He has personally sponsored the education of over thirty students at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs where he attended grammar school. He also worked closely with the Inner City Scholarship Fund, Deafness Research Foundation, Bronx Lebanon Hospital, and Marymount Washington, D.C. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Our Lad Queen of Martyrs School, 71 Arden Street, New York City, NY 10040 or Xavier University, Drexel Road, New Orleans, LA. Reposing Macken Mortuary Island Park Chapel Sunday June 21 and Monday June 22, 2-4 and 7-9 hours. Funeral Mass will be held at St. Ignatius Church on Tuesday, June 23 at 10:30am. Interment All Faiths Cemetery, Middle Village, N.Y. mackenmortuary.com

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Published by Newsday on Jun. 20, 2009.

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Ann Marie Lamperit

July 1, 2009

Dear Mary and Family
I was saddened to learn of Bill's passing. I saw Bill at the OLQM Reunion. We lived in the same apartment house growing up and knew Bill well. He will be truly missed.
Ann Marie Beatty Lamperti

John Bambach

June 25, 2009

I knew Bill from the demutualization of Equitable where he was a senior officer and I headed up the team from First Chicago. Despite his very high position, Bill was always very hands on and asking all the right questions. He was such a gentleman, and a pleasure to work with.

June 24, 2009

Dear Mary and Family,
Yours was a loving a close knit family. Something to be very proud of these days. Bill's loss is heavens gain. He will be deeply missed and rightfully so. Our love and sympathy go out to all of you at this tragic time.
Love,
Phil and Marie Ann Gama

June 22, 2009

Dear Mary and McCaffrey family,

I am so saddened tonight to learn that Bill has passed away and want you all to know that I am thinking of you.
Bill and I knew each other from our Equitable lives. I remember his quick intellect, sense of humor and ability to maintain perspective even when circumstances seemed muddy.
His love of his family, generosity to individuals and communities and his Equitable career were extraordinary.
You'll be in my thoughts and prayers -
Deb Ewen

Kathy & Don Cramer

June 22, 2009

Dear Mary and family,
Our sincere condolences to you and to all of your family.
Don & I have such wonderful memories of card games and dinner gatherings we would have with you & Bill. Bill always made our evenings more pleasurable when he would hand us Lotto scratchoffs & would take pictures with the getups he had for us. He seemed to take such delight in making others happy. What a very special man. May God bless you and all of your family.

With love, Don & Kathy Cramer

Carol Goldberg

June 22, 2009

To the family of Bill McCaffrey--

Although I never met Bill in person during my tenure at AXA Equitable, I was always aware of his concern and awareness of everyone in the Equitable family. I enjoyed his yearly birthday greetings, which were just one mark of his humanity.

My thoughts are with your during this time. Know that he has left memories with many.

Carol Goldberg

June 20, 2009

Dear Mary and Family,

I had the pleasure of knowing Bill for many years at The Equitable. I also recall my many walks with Bob Sheehan and friends on the Long Beach boardwalk, when occasionally, Bill would spot us from the balcony.
Mary, my wife Lucy and I send our sincerest condolences to you and the family and be assured we will keep all of you in our prayers and thoughts during these difficult days.
God Bless all of you.

Most sincerely, Lucy and Al Mullery

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