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David Coover Obituary

David Sansevero Coover

June 8, 1990 - January 13, 2014

Holly Springs

David Sansevero Coover, 23, of Holly Springs, died Monday, January 13, 2014. He was born in Sacramento, CA on June 8, 1990 to Raymond Merle Coover, Jr. and Rosana M. Caniglia Coover.

He is preceded in death by his father, Raymond M. Coover, Jr.

He is survived by mother: Rosana M. Thomas, and step-father: Aaron C. Thomas of Cary; maternal grandmother: Caterina Caniglia of Watertown, MA; brothers: Raymond M. Coover, III and wife, Alison of Fuquay Varina, and Robert A. Coover and wife Candace of Richmond, VA; sister: Erin M. Thomas of Cary; and nephew: Dominic Coover. He is also survived by his aunts, uncles, cousins and many, many friends.

David's kind heart and generous spirit made his years working at the Cary Family YMCA some of the happiest of his life. His compassion was further demonstrated through his missionary trip to Jamaica and most of all through his dedicated love for his little sister, Erin.

He was a unique and gifted young man who could always brighten the room with his smile and his charm. A North Carolina State University alumnus whose intelligence and love of science took center stage in his life, David's potential was unlimited. He enjoyed fishing and golfing, he was a lifelong Pittsburgh Steelers fan, he loved soccer, he loved music, he loved to make people laugh, and he loved his friends and family. The world was brighter for his presence, and the light he brought to all of our lives will never extinguish.

This obituary was written far too soon, as David had so much more to give. The contributions he made to the lives of all those who knew him, the lessons he taught us about love and respect and perseverance, and the joy he spread wherever he went, he did it all in a life that had only just begun. The incredible influence he has had on all of our lives and the wonderful memories we carry will keep David's spirit alive forever.

The family will receive friends from 2:00 – 4:00 PM Saturday, January 18, 2014 at Brown Wynne Funeral Home; 200 S. E Maynard Rd. Cary, NC 27511, which will be followed by a celebration of Dave's Life at 4:00 PM. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Cary Family YMCA's "We Build People" campaign.

Online condolences may be made to www.brownwynnecary.com.

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Published by The News & Observer from Jan. 16 to Jan. 18, 2014.

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F. M.

April 17, 2022

You are missed terribly. Your name brings joy at the memory of you, and sorrow that you are not here physically, I have faith you are watching and that you let those who love you feel you are with them in your own way. Bless your Mom, your brothers and sister, I know you are so proud of them. We are sending love to you.

Rosana Thomas

May 10, 2018

David,
You are always on my mind and forever in my heart.
Love,
Mom

Rosana Thomas

January 6, 2017

A memorial bench has been installed for David and his dad at Wake Memorial Gardens in Cary, NC. The bench is on the left hand side underneath some trees. It is a lovely spot. I like to bring some of the messages posted here and read them out loud. Thank you for the kind words and for sharing your stories.
Another year has almost passed since David died and it is still hard to accept. My heart is forever broken.
David, I miss you and your dad so much. Until we are together again....
Love,
Mom

Rosana Thomas

January 5, 2017

Wake Memorial Gardens in Cary, NC

Rosana Thomas

January 5, 2017

Lily Higginbotham

January 12, 2016

Dear Coover-

Tomorrow will mark 2 years since you died. Around this time, I remember you most. I'm sure that you wouldn't remember me- I was always a shy one, and I didn't come back to RSDC after 5th grade- but I will always remember you. You were my favorite counselor.

I remember you because you were always so kind to everyone, and you had so much advice to give. I remember that, one day, I had been crying, and you sat me down and cheered me up and then began to explain why you kept a penny in your shoelaces. (For good luck. I, too, started doing this, but I kept having to replace the penny, and in the end it got tiring.) I remember when you joined in on Pokemon/ YGO battles with the other kids. I remember when you kicked the soccer ball so high that it landed on the roof. I remember us putting mentos in coke bottles. I remember your dumb ghost stories. I remember you, and I miss you.

I also remember where I was when I heard the news. I was in the car, on my way to school, when the radio announced that a RSDC counselor had died. And I remember immediately thinking of you, and hoping upon hope that it wasn't true. As soon as I got to school, I ran to the library and checked. It was. There was your obituary, and a poem that someone had written. (I kept that poem and a penny in my binder for a long time. It's still in my backpack.) I cried and cried and the librarian thought I was crazy. I had to leave school early.

I remember wondering why someone so wonderful and happy had to die like this. My heart still aches. I hope, wherever you are, that you are in a happy place.

Rest easy, Coover. You are loved.

Lily H

January 12, 2016

Coov-
Tomorrow will be 2 years since you died. Every year, around this time, I remember you and miss you more than ever. I remember the penny you kept in your shoe because you swore it was lucky. I remember you kicking a soccer ball onto the roof. I remember you joining in on Pokemon/ YGO battles. I remember you as the best YMCA counselor I've ever had.
Even after a few years of no communication, your death still shocked me. I still feel it, even now, how I felt the day I heard- I remember where I was, what I was doing. I remember the car ride on the way to school when the radio announced your death; but I had to run to the library and check and make sure it was you. It was. And I cried because I remembered the epic spaghetti war in the woods. And the time we put mentos in coke bottles. And when I got a nosebleed and you helped me out. And when I stepped in an ant hill and you and DJ carried me to the office. I cried and the librarian thought I was crazy.
I miss you a lot, Coov. You probably wouldn't even remember me, but I remember you. You were always so nice to me, and you gave the greatest advice.
I'm sorry that you had to go so soon.
Rest easy. You are loved.

June 24, 2015

Not a day goes by that you are not remembered for your kindness and heart. Rest in Peace David.

Stephanie Perez

January 22, 2015

I keep the memory card from your service pinned to my message board at work,-Parexel. I miss your smile, and our little private pep talks...

December 15, 2014

Hey Coovs,
The LC Christmas party is tonight. Everyones gonna be in those ridiculous sweaters and I'm pretty sure Hannah is gonna take all the christmas cookies inCary and stuff them in the Pool Room. God I miss you. This is gonna be the first LC Christmas you won't be at. At least since I've been there. LC has really missed you, I've really missed you. It doesn't get easier, not really. I hope you're doing well up there. I love you.

Garrett Niconienko

June 2, 2014

I'm so very sorry that I found out this late, but Coover you are one of the most inspirational counselors to me, you helped me through some tough times in my life, I still remember the countless days you spent teaching me how to play soccer & trade tips with me on how to play COD, but most importantly you were my best friend when I was a camper, I wish I could've hung out with you more, you have no idea how much you've helped me, I really miss you Coover, you will be remembered, not just by me but by everyone else you touched

Richard Chen

April 20, 2014

David,

I don't know you very well, but I deeply apologize that you passed away of a sudden. I'm not sure how you died but I do know that you're watching us down from heaven. So I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, no matter what. The Cary YMCA staff will seriously miss you.

Angelo Frasier

January 30, 2014

words cannot express the sadness the hurt that I have my heart hearing of the loss of David he was such a kind fellow. My prayers will be continuous for the family. To Aaron and Rosana the boys and their wonderful lovely daughter I will go to God in the name of Jesus Christ continuously for the healing of your hearts I love you all a lot Angelo

January 22, 2014

David was always know as Coover in my house.

Cheryl Wehrle

January 22, 2014

David was known as Coover in my house. My daughter, Andreia spoke of him all the time during Camp Rising Sun days at the YMCA and often after their camp days had ended. I loved having him and Derr and Nicole over as their laughter filled the room. Such a funny group of kids. YMCA kids are the best!

I am so very sad and sorry for your loss and the worlds loss as David was a bright light and a wonderful person and I shall always remember him in my heart.

God speed for your healing.

January 21, 2014

David was a friend of my son, Michael, in kindergarten at Our Lady of Lourdes School. I remember David being a sweetheart and a gentle soul. We are sorry for your loss and pray that you feel God's healing presence at this time.
Nancy Cooley

The Agboola Family

January 20, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Coover family during this time of sadness. David is remembered as a caring and compassionate man, and he made a positive impact in our lives. May his legacy continue not only in the community, but in our hearts.

Renie Palmer

January 19, 2014

Rosana,Robert and Raymond. I am so sorry that you now have to live without your David. One of my fondest memories of David is how proud he was to receive his bible, and the time and care he took to tab it. I know it is hard for you to believe right now, but the time will come (it does take hard work and many years and it's like being slam dunked and banged around in a basketball hoop with you being the ball) when the pain wont be so excruciating that it incapacitates you. I have thought about all of you often and you are in my prayers. I pray that you feel God's loving presence enfolding you right now.

Aunt Maureen Scott

January 19, 2014

To Honor an exceptional young man: A video tribute to the light and life of David, who the world lost much, much to soon. For him, and all those who loved, respected, and admired him.
YouTube videos – “David Coover Really gonna miss you”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yf5opYTXpVU

January 19, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of great sorrow. Sharon and Tyler Knott

Kristine Huynh

January 19, 2014

You were an amazing person and an inspiration to everyone. You've changed so many lives and continue to bring people together even after you've gone. I love and miss you, David.

Group fitness department Zumba fitness team

January 19, 2014

David
You will be missed by alot of us at the Cary family YMCA, having soo many co workers love you. You've touched the lives of soo many kids including myself many years back.
Also on the behalf of the Group Fitness department and the Zumba® fitness team at the Cary family YMCA, we greatly love you and you will forever be in our hearts.

Love
Cary YMCA Group Fitness Team
And
Zumba® fitness™ department

Patrick Schaefer

January 18, 2014

David... David was my favorite counselor. He was a great mentor and a counselor but, he was an even greater friend. David will always be in my heart and will never be forgotten.

Rob Wolfe

January 18, 2014

Aunt Rosanna and My Coover Cousins;

There had not been a moment gone by that I am conscience of, in which, I am not thinking of you all and the extraordinary sadness you all feel.

I know I have no words or answers and in times like these I reflect on those wiser and more courageous than myself as a source, any source of inspiration. Here are quotes I personally reflect on when I see no explanation or logic to an incredibly sad outcome in which I have no control.

"TO HAVE COURAGE FOR WHATEVER COMES IN LIFE – EVERYTHING LIES IN THAT." ~ St. Teresa of Avila

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do." – Eleanor Roosevelt

"There is within you, waiting to be called, a great source of power called courage. Call its name and it will give you the strength to overcome fear and uncertainty and the heart to continue with bold confidence despite the pain of disappointment and even tragedy."— Michael S. Josephson

Kim Berthiaume

January 18, 2014

I know that losing a child is the worst pain to bear; losing a son like David is incomprehensible. He was like a member of my family, my son's best friend, a welcome face at our home as he grew from a little first-grade guy hopping the bus with Steve in Chesney Glen to the incredible young man I will miss so very, very much. His heart and compassion and quiet manner and quick intelligence and wit … his loyalty and sincere, deep kindness in the face of our family's devastating loss of our son and brother … his calm, steady way of always being there and caring and knowing how to show it in such gentle, genuine ways … his beautiful spirit that now soars in all our hearts and memories … All this and everything else that David gave to so many of us will never be forgotten and always be cherished. My deepest wish for you is that you find strength and support from all who loved him, and that your sweet memories of David comfort you through the tears that now accompany your life's journey. I am so sad. I am so very sorry. I will forever speak David's name aloud and remember him. I know.

Susan Liles

January 18, 2014

I have not seen David in many, many years, but I was his kindergarten teacher at Lourdes. He was unforgettable. At 5 years old, he had the sweetest soul (not to mention that adorable face). Some kids just warm your heart, and he was definitely one of those kids. My prayers are with your family.

How I have always seen him, loving others, that is his legacy.

January 18, 2014

David,
I am grateful that I had you as my co-counselor at the YMCA. My heart is broken that you are no longer here physically. My memory of you and the love you gave to others will always remain with me. I can still hear your voice comforting one of our kids, I can still feel myself getting hugged when I haven't seen you for awhile, I can still see you ninja diving during a dodgeball game. I will not take one breath, one beautiful starry night, one hug for granted because of you. I will choose to honor you by living my life in the here and now.

For me it will never be okay that you are not here and I will never allow you to be forgotten. Your name is David Coover, and in your name is wrapped up an amazing beautiful soul who stood for compassion, generosity, pure love, adventure, fun, and joy. Your life and work was not wasted, you made a difference, in a lot of lives, forever.

To David's family:
I am sorry this has happened, and although I do not know you personally, I love you, as I loved David and I pass my love onto you all in this time of great sorrow. You are all in my prayers day and night. May God help us all.

Love Always,
Amber Hart Damin

Kat and Pat King

January 17, 2014

David was very special to our family and it was such a privilege to watch him grow from a tiny 5 year old Rising Sun camper to counselor and mentor. He was a loyal friend to so many and always exuded such earnest goodwill. I loved seeing him at the Cary Family YMCA, he was an institution.

Moira and Sara

January 17, 2014

Words can't express the sorrow we feel. I wish we could be there with you. Rosana, Aaron, Ray, Robert and Erin, we want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 17, 2014

We have all been overwhelmed with sadness over the loss of such a great person. Although you're gone there is no way that we will ever forget you. Dave had a sort of "magical" presence that could cheer you up even in the saddest of times. We have all been so privileged to have known him. Even though his life was short, his spirit and compassion for others was so incredible that it seemed to make up for lost years. In his short time here, he managed to do so much, more than most people do in a lifetime. His compassion and love for others was, and still is, contagious and inspirational. Now more than ever I will allow his loving spirit to inspire me to become a better person each and every day.

Shelia King

January 17, 2014

May God grant the family peace and comfort in this time of sorrow (2Cor. 1: 2, 3).

cole barnack

January 17, 2014

Coover maneuver, i remember when you came up with that saying. The funny thing was that it stuck. And thats when all the other counselors started comming up with there own crazy names. You were the best. I looked up to you and infact i still do. As a previous camper and now highschooler, without you i wouldnt have grown up to be who i am today. I believe we shouldnt grieve over this moment. I believe we should recognize this as a chance of oppurtunity to celebrate all of your doings. There is one thing for sure that i know that david would want us all to do, and that is to keep smiling and have a possitave attitude as he did. Straight from a mans heart to another, i love you.

Lisa Quin

January 17, 2014

We are all completely heartbroken at the loss of such a special young man. He was a wonderful friend and compassionate soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Andy Hassell

January 17, 2014

David was a dear friend to me, while we both worked at the Rising Sun Day Camp. He was funny, bright and a great person to be around. I will always remember an adventure we took camping together with Paul Benzie in Hanging Rock State Park. We had just reconnected over the phone just before the new year and I'm glad I had that one last chance to hear how well he was doing. I will always think of "Coover", I called him by his last name, when I go fishing or to play a few holes of frisbee golf. The sad thing is now that he's gone there wasn't a person left I would want to do those things more with. I will have to continue to think on what David taught me by sharing his brief life with me. He will always be my friend and I know we will see each other again one day. -- To his family : I wish I could have told you these words in person about what a great son and brother you had, but unfortunately I cannot make the funeral. Know he was great also because of what each of you shared and taught him. He lives on in your memories of joy. He was a great guy, friend and brother. May each of you be surrounded with warmth and support in this time of need. Know that you are not alone. - All my Best, A.H.

January 17, 2014

Salembier Family

January 17, 2014

We are shocked and saddened by the sudden passing of David. He was a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Deborah and Jason Lowery

January 17, 2014

Words fail to express our sorrow for your loss. David's inner light shined so brightly through his smile. We know he had a most beautiful and compassionate soul. We love you and hope comfort shall find you all soon.

January 17, 2014

To Ray and family, my heart reaches out to all of you in the sad time. Please know that you are not alone and it is true when they say that time heals.
Jeanne

Sheila Moody

January 17, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 17, 2014

I am one of the many that was graced with getting to meet David, though for a brief moment in time. I immediately think of the kindness, energy and dedication to his job and that amazing smile that would light up the room when he entered! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at such a difficult time. His light will never be extinguished here on earth in our hearts and above eternally it will shine.

Tonia Groves
Holly Springs, NC

Charlyn Ellis

January 17, 2014

Oh Rosana, the agony of the past and present seem to slam together. I shake in disbelief and crumble in sobs. Heart to heart, I remember.

Lindsay Family

January 17, 2014

Words can't express the sorrow we feel for the loss of this fine young man...our next-door neighbor for 15 years. We watched him grow up, and he was always kind, generous, and courteous. We're praying his family will eventually be able to renew their hope and faith after this trajic loss.

January 17, 2014

Dear Rosana - My heart is breaking for you and your family's loss. Please reach out any time if there is ANYTHING you need. Much love and sorrow,Tina

Katie Cunningham

January 17, 2014

All the campers from the YMCA are gunna miss you buddy. Haven't seen you in a while, and now I'll never get to again. Rest In Peace among the angels. We love you Coover<3

Cathy Teague

January 17, 2014

My sons were extremely fortunate to have Coover as their YMCA counselor for several years...Coover was a favorite with the Teague boys. His constant smile, warm personality and strong leadership skills made him a fabulous role model for young, impressionable students. His family clearly raised a fine young man; he will be terribly missed by many.
With a heavy heart~

David with the Light

David Coover

January 16, 2014

Robin Thomas

January 16, 2014

Rosana,
I cannot even imagine what you are going through...my heart breaks. David was a wonderful, caring young man!! Prayers for all of you at this very difficult time!! Love to all

January 16, 2014

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I only met David a couple of times and he seemed to be so vibrant and portrayed a great sense of compassion, humility and humor. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Charlie Little Apex, NC

toni profetto nejad

January 16, 2014

My deepest sympathy to all of at this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Toni and Paul Nejad
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terry n kathy thomas

January 16, 2014

These are most difficult times that defy explanation and reasons are not found. A passage that I have turned to when there was a need is: be strong and of good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed; for the lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou Our hearts are with David, his mother and family. Terry and Kathy

J. Lockerby

January 16, 2014

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I have heard how great of a person he was at such a young age. It is never easy when someone leaves us when they are so young. My thoughts and prayers are with you every day.

Lauren Wright

January 16, 2014

I did not know David personally. We were coworkers at PAREXEL. I am deeply sadddened at the news of his passing. It is obvious to me he was a remarkable young man who touched many lives. I pray peace and comfort. May God hold you all a little tighter in his arms in the coming days and weeks. And may the memories of David bring comfort, smiles and joy during this time of unspeakable grief. God Bless!

January 16, 2014

My dear rosana. I am so saddened for your loss. My prayers are with you all. God bless you and give you strenght to bear this. Love Laura L ee

Grace Lodholz

January 16, 2014

My first time in Leaders Club I was super nervous and I didn't know anybody. I stood by the door and didn't know what to do. Coover was the first person to come up to me, he ran over and gave me the biggest smile and started talking to me right away. He said, "Hey. You're gonna be okay. It's gonna be okay, this is so worth it." and I only wish I could have said the same thing to him. His smile was the brightest thing I had ever seen and he was always so positive and people were just drawn to him. He was honestly so amazing and I can't picture him in my head without seeing his smiling face. I miss him so much and I'm sure you do too. Coover was an AMAZING person and he made a huge impact on me and lots of others. I'm so sorry for your loss and I will be praying for your family during this difficult time. I'm sure he's up there in Heaven having the time of his life. Your son was truly a remarkable person.

Heather Morgan

January 16, 2014

I had the pleasure of working with David briefly during his internship here at the Division of Water Resources Chemistry Lab. I sensed immediately that he was a person full of love and compassion. He had an enormously sweet smile and his character was truly the most upstanding of a young gentleman. I am sincerely saddened to hear of this terrible loss, and send my love and strength to the family of David. Wishing you sincere peace and light,

Robina Yannuzzo

January 16, 2014

Rosana & Family, Praying God will comfort and strengthen you and give you His peace at this most sad time.

Judy Ziboukh

January 16, 2014

Dear Rosana and family. My deepest condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I hope in time you will find peace and joy in your memories of David and in knowing how he made a difference to so many people. David touched many lives including our daughter, Iman. He was her counselor at the Y beginning in elementary school and quickly became her friend – someone she could count on for fun and sound advice. I experienced his spark – he had a warm and gentle manner always open and welcoming. David glowed.

Kiley Hall

January 16, 2014

My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult and sad time. May you have peace that surpasses all understanding and find comfort in the memories of David's laughter and smile. David's eagerness to learn and do well made him a pleasure to manage at Parexel and he will be truly missed by all that he came in contact with.

Dave Wylie

January 16, 2014

David will be missed. He was a true friend to my grandsons. RIP David

Robbi Dry

January 16, 2014

Nicholas, Jackson and I will miss you forever. You were such a gentleman and a mentor to Nick as you both lost your Dad's at the same age. You taught both my boys so very much and we enjoyed having you over on Thanksgiving and Christmas. Helping set up Jackson's new fish tank and taking him to buy his first fish is something he will never forget. Never met a better friend. You will be sooooo missed.

Kathleen Regan

January 16, 2014

Words are not possible to express the sorrow we feel for you all, David was a beautiful person who has touched us deeply and will continue to do so, we are forever changed by this wonderful young man. We love you and our prayers are with you. Kath and Patrick

January 16, 2014

My sincere condolences to the family. May God of all comfort keep you close to his heart and provide you with the strength to continue on. It will get a little easier each day.

Pilar Ferrera

January 16, 2014

As David grew up, taller than his old auntie, I still saw in his eyes, this same sweet, curious, fearless little boy who wanted his horsie to fly even faster. Rosie, Ray, Robert and Erin, I can only hold onto the thought that somewhere, somehow his spirit truly flies free tonight. David left us but we'll always remember him, and the many unique and precious memories he gave us.

Same sweet smile all those years later.

Pilar Ferrera

January 16, 2014

Ever the goofball

Pilar Ferrera

January 16, 2014

Ever curious, sweet David delights when he lures a deer.

Pilar Ferrera

January 16, 2014

David the fearless urging his horsie to go faster

Pilar Ferrera

January 16, 2014

January 16, 2014

Dear Rosana & Family…

Although I did not know David, I am very close to his Aunt Judy and Uncle Jim and I want to extend to you my deepest sympathies. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel at this moment and can only pray that you will heal in the days to come and hold dear the memory of your David dear and forever in your hearts. May peace and love comfort you at this most difficult time.
With love and sympathy,
Marianne Kopie Liggett and Family

Aunt Maureen Scott

January 16, 2014

Dear Rosana and Family,
Oh my – the absolute shock! My heart has dissolved into a puddle of tears! I can't bear the thought you, Raymond, Robert, Erin Marie and Aaron going through the agony of such a wretched, unspeakable loss. Nor can I bear the sadness that pervades our family once again as we grieve the passing of another young, promising, and loving member. It is so hard to comprehend the reality - and my mind struggles to understand what it wants to disbelieve or even ignore.

How can this be? How can we accept that David is no longer among us? Even for those of us who were not a regular part of his life it is almost impossible to endure the thought that he has been snatched away when so young. The light in the soul of such a beautiful, engaging, and caring person - as all who knew David to be - has dimmed. But it has not gone out. It is still there…in the Heavens, in our memories, and always in our hearts!

Each day let his light shine and sparkle brightly inside you. Feel it glowing. Eventually, even when sadness seems to overwhelm you, allow that light and the memory of his days soothe you like a gentle breeze in the summer, or warm you like a loving hug on a cold day, or make laugh like a feather tickling you from inside. As a family, you experienced the ultimate and incomparable joy of his years as your son and brother. And you know the true depth of the love he returned to each one of you and the happiness he spread unselfishly and generously among so many others. That love, that pure spirit, will never change. It remains safe and whole within you where no one can ever remove it or steal it away from that special place where you keep him always.

Each person is a unique and treasured gift from God given to us on loan. And though some stay with us for a shorter time than others…and we miss them so tragically when they have gone…we can also realize that we were so very blessed to have the time with them. There is nothing greater than to have experienced the unequaled delight of having someone close, loyal, and devoted to us and whose very presence made us happy and enhanced and embellished our own lives.

David is now at peace where love abounds all around him. And the greatest wish I can offer is for all of you to find peace as you hold each other closely…and share what can help you most during this dark time…which is love, comfort, and most of all gratefulness for all that David brought to you and the tremendous legacy of joy that he left for everyone he knew to embrace. My deepest sympathy, understanding and blessings to all.

Bouchra

January 15, 2014

John 10:27-29 “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand.”

Dear Mr and Mrs Coover,

I am so sorry for your loss. I was just getting to know David when he joined my team at Parexel. He was a delight to work with and showed great passion for his job.

i pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief. I send you thoughts of comfort.

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

Bouchra

Bouchra Sefiane-Rucker

January 15, 2014

Dr.Mr and Mrs Coover,

I am so sorry for your loss. David was a part of my team at Parexel and really was a pleasure to work with as he began his journey growing with the company. My prayers are with you and your family.

John 10:27-29 “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand.”

Renee Nicholson

January 15, 2014

David was such a bright, intelligent young man. He was my 'buddy' at work and my job was to teach him...however he never realized , I'm sure, how much he taught me. He taught me to be eager again and to ask questions and delight in the answers. He always had an amazing smile and such a quick wit! Although we didn't work together long, he definitely made his mark on my life. I am so saddened and heartbroken. May he and his family find the peace of God's love beyond all understanding. I will miss you my friend.

Stephanie Rochon

January 15, 2014

Rosanna, Words cannot express the sorrow in pain we feel for the loss of your son David.I Imagine there's no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child.My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Stephanie Liliana Maria and Giuseppe Ricci

Susan Wait

January 15, 2014

Rest peacefully thy good and faithful servant.You have done well and God is pleased with your work! You will be missed by all the lives you graced with your love laughter and energy!

This was the last recital he went to

erin thomas

January 15, 2014

There is not a minute that I am not pained by what happened. I am filled with sorrow for losing the one person I could always count on to talk or just relax and watch a movie or something. he was always so cool and I looked up to him for being such a wonderful person and accomplishing so much and I was always so jealous of him. he was more than a brother he was my best friend and I love him so much that it hurts too much inside and out that it is hard to breathe, speak, eat or anything. we all love him and he cared for every body and always around me had a smile. this pain will never go away. I cant go a second without crying knowing he is not going to be there when I get married or when I have more recitals or anything and I really wanted him to be there. he was just always there for me and I cant imagine him not being there with me. he was there when I took my first steps, when I said my first word everything. he was so important to me that it breaks my heart knowing he is gone. words cant explain how much I miss him. I love you so much Dave.
Your sister forever.

cemal unal

January 15, 2014

Dear Rosana & Family- I cannot find words to explain how sad and sorry I am about your loss. You are in my prayers.

Teri Sansevero

January 15, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Derby

January 15, 2014

There are not words that I can put together to express my condolences. I have nothing but the fondest memories of hanging out with Coover at the apartment over the past few years with Josh and Grover as well. From FIFA games to watching Game of Thrones, and much more, the memories that Coover is a part of for me are ones that I will never forget. David will be missed by many and thought of often, and family and friends are in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Stephanie Thomas

January 15, 2014

May you find comfort in your cherished memories of David at this time. Prayers for you and your family.

TONY TRACANNA

January 15, 2014

WE ARE VERY SORRY OF YOU LOSS.OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,AGAEN WE ARE VERY SORRY,
TONY AND ANGELA

TONY TRACANNA

January 15, 2014

WE ARE VERY SORRY OF YOU LOSS.OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,AGAEN WE ARE VERY SORRY,
TONY AND ANGELA

Steve Metcalf

January 15, 2014

We were supposed to send Christmas cards to each other through the later years of our lives. I held Dave to the highest esteem as he was the most intelligent, empathetic, and kind friend who was at my side since we were only six years old. To say that he will be missed is a remarkable understatement. I'll think of him everyday that passes for the rest of my life. Here's to you, Dave.

Pietro Barone

January 15, 2014

Dear Rosana and family we are sorry for your loss. There are no words to comfort you for the loss of a son. Our prayer are with you and your family.

April Bolinsky

January 15, 2014

We are so sad to hear of the loss of David. May the Lord comfort your family during this time. You all are in our prayers. -The Bolinsky family

January 15, 2014

Dear Rosana & Family; There are no words to express how sorry we are for your Loss . Our Prayers go out to you and your Family..
Anna and Frank Flores

Rosana, Your Zia Cenzine, said to tell you that her Heart Aches for you at this time and that she send her Condolences, Prayers and Love

Cathy Kitzmiller

January 15, 2014

My heart is breaking for David's family and friends. What an amazing young man with such a sweet, shining soul. May you find strength and comfort in the days to come, and know that many prayers are being sent skyward for all of you.

January 15, 2014

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family
Donna and Pat Remington

Syreeta Butts

January 15, 2014

While I did not know David personally, he was a colleague of mine and the news brought great sadness to me personally. I would like for the family to know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I pray you can find comfort and peace soon and celebrate his life through the memories you have shared with him during the dash.

Jeff & Janice Feldmann

January 15, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. David and our son Tim were friends since 6th grade. David was always a wonderful young man. He will be greatly missed.

Rebecca Bottorff

January 15, 2014

This is such sorrowful news. As his YMCA counselor, David was a beloved friend and wonderful mentor in my son's life. We are broken-hearted for the world to lose such a good soul. Please know how loved your son was by so many young people who looked up to him. "Coovie" will forever have a cherished place in this mother's heart for how he has shaped my own son's character and self confidence. And my son will carry David's own spirit with him for having been blessed with "Coovie's" friendship and leadership at such an impressionable and delicate age where boys need solid role models to help them become young men of strong character themselves. You gave such a gift to so many parents like me through the son you brought into this world and raised to be such an inspiring young man. Thank you for that from the depths of our broken hearts.

Lyndon Kirby

January 15, 2014

I am extremely sad for your family's loss. I will pray for healing and comfort for the family.
Lyndon

Jeanette Pryor

January 15, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He always took the time to find out how others were doing. David's thoughtfulness and kind words will be missed greatly.

Hannah Abdallah

January 15, 2014

My prayers go out to this young mans family. What a devastating loss it is. My daughter works for the Cary Family YMCA and mentioned this to me and I can not imagine what David's loved ones are going through. May David rest in peace.

Scott Rose

January 15, 2014

I am very sorry for the loss of such a bright and good young man. I pray for peace and comfort for you all.

Scott

January 15, 2014

My heart is totally broken by this news. I am so sorry for your loss. David was an amazing person and I remember him as a YMCA camper at Camp Rising Sun. His energy, passion, and spirit was always so bright. He was also a counselor at the Y and during that time, my daughter was able to share in his spirit. It was so nice to see him once as a camper, then again to see him as a counselor, working along side my child. David will always be in our hearts.

Stephanie Perez

January 15, 2014

Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times. We were coworkers of David, and words cannot express our sorrow. The office won't be the same without him, as he had a way of spreading sunshine on even the toughest of days. David will be missed…

Lynn Russell

January 15, 2014

I can only imagine the pain & grief you are all feeling. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that as time passes you are able to find comfort with the good memories you have of David.

Emily de Leon

January 15, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart and thoughts are with you.

Jim Metcalf

January 15, 2014

I am devastated by this awful, awful news. David was a such a wonderful young man. He was a splendid and tender human being filled-to-overflowing with kindness. He was such a gentle and thoughtful person. His positive impact on people's lives at the Cary YMCA surely measures in the thousands--those young people he mentored and the adults he worked around. He will be greatly missed and mourned by a very large community of people. We loved him like our own, Rosana. I'm so saddened by David's death. Words completely fail to convey how much.

January 14, 2014

Our hearts go out to you during this inexpressible time of sorrow. I never knew you, but knew and loved your son like he was my own. He was an unbelievable mentor, full of character and grace to my son, Zack. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for having lost such a bright light on this earth.

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