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Harry "Vann" Latham Jr.

Harry Latham Obituary

Mr. Harry “Vann” Latham, Jr., age 88, died Thursday, April 2, 2009, having lived a long, well and productive life. He was a poet, author and a philosopher. Vann was born in Haslin (3.8 miles east of Belhaven) on February 6, 1921, oldest of four children of Harry Vann Latham and Sarah Matilda Respess Latham. Vann graduated from John A. Wilkinson High School in 1938, N.C. State College with a B.S. degree in Mechanical engineering in 1942 and from East Carolina University with a Master’s degree in Psychology in 1968. Vann and Hester Mae Rose were married on December 7, 1946 (Pearl Harbor Day). Hester preceded him in death, February 2004. They had two children, Val (Harry Vann Latham III, who preceded him in death in December 1995 and Cynthia and her husband, Steve Wilson, who survives and lives in Greenville. Vann attended ECU and then stayed to teach math at John A. Wilkinson High School from 1963 to 1967. Then, the family moved to Greenville where Van attended graduate school and joined the faculty at ECU, teaching math and psychology. In 1974, he joined the math faculty at E.B. Aycock Junior High School and retired from there in 1986. Since then, he was involved in various activities such as writing a book, writing poetry and mentoring others. Vann is survived by his daughter, Cynthia “Cyndy” Wilson and her husband, Steve of Greenville; a brother, Charles F. Latham and his wife, Ann of Belhaven and a sister, Ann Latham of Washington Park. In addition to his parents, his wife and his son, Vann is preceded in death by a sister, Jane Latham Dilday. A memorial service will be held 1:30 p.m., Sunday, April 5, 2009 from the Chapel of Paul Funeral Home in Belhaven. Entombment will follow in Belhaven Community Cemetery Mausoleum. Following the entombment, the family will receive friends at the First Christian Church in Belhaven. A celebration of Van Latham's life will be held at the home of Dr. and Mrs. William Cox, 102 Long Meadow Road, Brook Green, Greenville at 6:30 p.m. Sunday, April 5, 2009. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the "Val Latham Memorial Fund" for perpetual flowers for the chapel of Pungo District Hospital, c/o Paul Funeral Home, P.O. Box 6, Belhaven, NC 27810. You may sign Mr. Latham's guestbook by visiting www.paulfuneralhome Paul Funeral Home of Belhaven is serving the Latham family.

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Published by The News & Observer on Apr. 4, 2009.

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Steven Fuchs

May 19, 2025

Found this old newspaper clipping with my great uncles pic and also Mr Latham´s pic. Thought someone in the family would like a copy. Blessings..Steven Fuchs, Washington, NC

Tom & Sarah Pohlman

April 20, 2009

Cindy & Steve,

Vann will be in our hearts always. He was a terrific man and valued his family above all. Our prayers are with you.

Vicki Allen

April 12, 2009

Dear Cyndy, I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mark Garner

April 10, 2009

Cyndy:
I'm very sorry to see that your Dad has passed. I saw him not too very long ago out walking the dog. As Mont said, I always thought he was a "hip" guy! My best to you and Steve.

Peg Gemperline

April 8, 2009

Dear Cyndy,
When I was living on Third Street in Greenville I would see your father faithfully walking his dog past our house almost every day. I didn't know him well, but I enjoyed meeting him and spending time talking with him about neighborhood issues. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Terry Newsom

April 7, 2009

Cyndy
It has been a pleasure and enrichment of my life to have known your Mother,Father and your Brother. I look back in these troubled times with fond memories of them all. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Kay and Mari-Lee also send their best wishes. I am truly sorry I could not be with you and Steve for the Service and Memorial.

April 7, 2009

Maria and I miss you and hope that you are alright despite the loss of this wonderful man...Latham. I was very happy to have known him in the twighlight of his years and to learn a little of his life story. Please take care and we love you both! Chris and Maria Ruff

April 6, 2009

Cyndy,

Although, I did not spend much time with your Dad, I always thought he was a pretty cool guy. I had no idea of the breadth of his talents and life experiences until I read the obit. Quite an interesting life history. Hope all is well with the rest of your family.

Lamont Wooten

Judy Beaman

April 6, 2009

Dear Cyndy,
I really wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and Steve, and am so sorry for your loss. I remember your Dad well, and I always admired him... for several reasons. I know that he was a devoted husband to your mother, but I also know that he was such a wonderful father too. I will never forget seeing him at Special Olympics so many times. I would often see him and Val together at other functions in Greenville. I know that you (as well as Val) were so special to him. He was a kind hearted, gentle man and I'm sure you will miss him. I hope that time will ease your sorrow, and I'll have you both in my prayers.

April 5, 2009

Dear Cyndy and Steve,
Please accept our deepest sympathy at the passing of your father, Vann. We know that you will truly miss him. We have enjoyed getting to know him. Our sons also send their thoughts & prayers to you. God Bless.
Kenneth & Bonnie Cox & Family

April 5, 2009

Dear Cyndy & Steve: Please know we sorrow with you & extend our comforting thoughts in the passing of your dad. Vann was a most admirable person, as so expressed in the morning paper of April
4th,but more so, we knew him to be a loving & devoted father to his children, & especially, in the later years of his life, he showed a closeness to you, Cyndy, with enough love & support to last you the rest of your life. Love, Christine Kellerman, Los Angelos, Lyn Howell, Greenville

Carol Martoccia/Bickel

April 4, 2009

To Vann's daughter...You have my deepest sympathies. I have been away from Greenville for several years and didn't know that your Mom had passed away until I read your Father's obituary. Vann and my late husband, Tom Martoccia, were friends and colleagues. I admired your Dad and your Mom. I have many fond memories of conversations with both of them. They will be missed.

lou bowen

April 4, 2009

your father was and will always remain a very good man in my eyes .He did love his good and trusted friend Mylee .She was all he had to take care of in the end .I guess that in truth she took care of him .
I wish to confer my deepest wishes that
the lord will be welcoming him home ,and he is in a much better place with his beloved Hester.
I hope you will all cherrish the things that ment soo much to his ,His family ,and his dog ,and his home.
may God bless you and in his faith carry you through this very sad time for you .
my name is lou .

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