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James Parrott Jr.

1947 - 2025

James Parrott Jr. obituary, 1947-2025, Raleigh, NC

BORN

1947

DIED

2025

James Parrott Obituary

James (Jim) Parrott, Jr.

February 8, 1947 - January 11, 2025

Raleigh, North Carolina - James Marion Parrott, Jr. died on January 11, 2025. He was born in Kinston, North Carolina on February 8, 1947, the son of James M. Parrott and Erwin W. Parrott.

After spending his early childhood years in Kinston, Jim graduated from Woodberry Forest School. He treasured his time at Woodberry, where he was an all-prep second baseman and made lifelong friends. Three of those friends, Si Sitterson, Tom Parrott, and Ben Carey, honored him in 2022 with the donation of a pew in the Woodberry Forest Chapel. Jim also graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he was a member of the Order of the Gimghoul, the Zeta Psi fraternity, and left a lifelong basketball fan.

Following graduation, Jim moved to Raleigh, where he worked with Wachovia Bank for almost thirty years. Upon the death of his father, Jim retired from banking and took over the family farm in Kinston.

Jim was active in his church and his community. As a member of White Memorial Presbyterian Church, he drove the church shuttle van and traveled to Mexico on mission trips. He served as President of the Board of Directors of The Boys and Girls Clubs of Wake County, and he was on the Board of Visitors for the Institute of the Environment at UNC-Chapel Hill.

Jim was a quiet, kind gentleman whose life revolved around his family, close friends, the family farm and his communities in Raleigh and Kinston. He belonged to several social clubs, including the Sphinx Club, Terpsichorean Club, Capital Cotillion, Lamplighters, and the Carolina Country Club. For nearly forty years, he played golf weekly with Harold Berry, Joe Cheshire, and Tim Nicholls. Jim also loved to travel, hiking on Mount Everest, Mount Kenya and Ben Nevis, and exploring Tibet, Sri Lanka, Patagonia and New Zealand, collecting an eventually overwhelming number of national flags along the way. He never took his opportunities for granted.

Jim is survived by a family he loved dearly and who loved him in return, including his wife, Susan Milner Parrott, his sons, Jimbo Parrott (Elizabeth Sasser) and Josh Parrott (Hillary Parrott), his stepdaughters, Macy Parker (Kilian Betlach) and Hannah Parker (Owen Sucoff), and his grandchildren, Martha, Carter, Ella, and Atticus Parrott, Leo and Alta Betlach, and Oscar Sucoff. He is also survived by his sister, Erwin Boyd (Bill Boyd) and her family. In addition to his parents, Jim was predeceased by his grandson, Jacob Parrott.

A service of Witness to the Resurrection will be held at White Memorial Presbyterian Church, 1704 Oberlin Road, Raleigh, on Thursday, January 16th at 2:00 p.m. The family will receive friends at the church immediately following the service. The family requests that those wishing to make a memorial gift consider The Boys and Girls Clubs of Wake County or White Memorial Presbyterian Church.

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Published by The News & Observer from Jan. 13 to Jan. 15, 2025.

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Adam and Jane Marchington

January 16, 2025

Jim, a true gentleman and fair player. Quietly spoken but a steely competitor who will be sadly missed but fondly remembered by his British Ryder Cup II friends.

Christopher Wykes

January 16, 2025

Dear Susan and family
The UK Ryder Cup 11 team and their wives are so sad to hear about Jim. I have very fond memories of him as part of the US team for many years. I played golf with him many times - and always lost! Jim was a real gentleman and very good company.
Susan, our thoughts are with you and we hope you will find comfort from the many tributes I am sure you will receive.
Our love and best wishes
Chris and Shinaine Wykes

Hal Young

January 15, 2025

It was my honor to share the middle infield positions with Jim Parrott all 4 years at Woodberry. Jim always kept you alert with his strong throws at point blank range to second base. Our senior year ended with a 9 game win streak heading into our final game at archrival Episcopal, where our co-captain hit a line drive home run to left field that was stopped only by the woods surrounding Episcopal's ball field. Jim was comfortably in our dugout by the time the ball was retrieved. What a way to end an outstanding high school baseball career. Jim, may you rest in peace. Your middle infield partner, Hal
P.S. Jim's Parrott Farms was one of the first established Angus farms in the state of North Carolina, a proud legacy indeed.

Ike grainger

January 14, 2025

A kind soul.

Conor Ashby

January 14, 2025

Jim was a special member of the WFS class of '65.Fun to be around and such class act and a true gentleman. He shall be missed.

Edna Harvey

January 13, 2025

I am thinking of you and sharing your loss.
Edna Harvey

Benjamin Carey MD

January 13, 2025

Ivy and I are so saddened about Jim's passing. He was a lifetime friend and a true gentleman. I will always treasure our times together at Woodberry. Jim, Si, Tommy, and I were the Four Horsemen (Notre Dame football backfield 1924) and I will lays treasure these memories.
Ben

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