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Neal "Morris" Rowland

1941 - 2019

Neal "Morris" Rowland obituary, 1941-2019, Raleigh, NC

BORN

1941

DIED

2019

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Garner, North Carolina

Neal Rowland Obituary

Neal "Morris" Rowland

July 30, 1941 – March 7, 2019

Raleigh

Neal "Morris" Rowland, 77, passed peacefully into God's grace on Thursday, March 7, 2019 surrounded by his family. Born on July 30, 1941, in southern Wake County, Morris was the son of the late Dail Clinton Rowland & Leone Jordan Rowland. One of 11 children, Morris was preceded in death by sisters, Janet Hampton, Elouise Hicks, Clarice Tutor, Lois Lynam, Geraldine Wood, and Betty Jo Mascho "Tootsie"; brothers, Bennett Julian "B.J.", Carlyle, and Michael. He is survived by his son Chris (Shelli) of Raleigh, brother Donnie of Texas, and his two beloved grandsons, Aaron & Justin of Clayton. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, and loyal friends.

Morris was one of a kind as his family, friends, and business associates can attest. Although he could be an imposing figure, his thoughtfulness often dwarfed his stature. He would always try to help those in need or those whom he thought could better themselves. Morris was always true to his family and friends and never forgot where he came from despite his business success. He would always say, "Don't get away from your raising." To him, this simply meant not to forget where you are in life and what got you there, and most importantly, where you came from. Morris always believed that success started in the home with stern but compassionate parenting. Despite having only one son, Morris was a father figure and mentor to so many more throughout his career and personal life until his last days.

He admittedly was harder on those he cared about the most. Having been raised on a farm, Morris enjoyed and had a passion for working. He led by example in everything he did from business dealings to his work ethic. His beginnings in the construction industry were humble. He began his career in construction by working with local contractors, at one point digging house footings by himself with a pick and shovel, mixing cement by hand for local block masons, and various other manual labor positions, including a brief stint with the City of Raleigh. Morris was steadfast in wanting to achieve more and eventually saved enough money to buy a second hand backhoe. This enabled him to expand into public utilities. In 1977 Morris began his own successful utility construction company installing public utility systems for both large commercial and residential projects throughout the area including many throughout RTP. He remained busy with his company and residential land development ventures until retiring in 2000 due to health issues.

From there, he enjoyed time on the farm raising his beloved Red Angus cattle. He thoroughly enjoyed tending to his herd each day and would brag on them whenever given the chance. Morris also did his best to keep the older traditions on the farm he grew up with alive by raising and slaughtering his pork and beef each winter. Every spring and summer he was also sure to plant and attend to the families thriving vegetable garden. Morris loved the simple things in life and was a loving father, grandfather, and friend. Throughout his lengthy illness, he always remained positive and never once complained although he had every right to do so. His demonstration of toughness, graciousness, and nobility throughout was unparalleled. There was no one else like him and likewise, no words to describe the level in which he was loved or will be missed.

The family would like to thank the Organ Transplant Department and the Duke Oncology staff at Duke University Medical Center, especially Dr. Scott Palmer, Tracie Holland, R.N., Jennifer Tenhover N.P., and Dr. Neal Ready for their service and compassion for care as well as countless others who assisted in Morris's care through the years. The family would also like to thank the doctors, nurses, and staff of the PCU and ICU at Duke Raleigh Hospital for their dedicated service and attentive care.

The family greatly appreciates visits and support from friends during this difficult time. The family will receive friends at Bryan-Lee Funeral Home located at 1200 Benson Road in Garner on Sunday, March 10, 2019 from 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm. The funeral service will follow on Monday, March 11, 2019 at Pleasant Grove Baptist Church located at 10005 Lake Wheeler Road in Fuquay-Varina at 2:00 pm. Flowers are welcome or donations may be remitted to Pleasant Grove Baptist Church, Attn: Cemetery Fund.

Arrangements by Bryan-Lee Funeral Home, Garner. Online condolences may be made at www.bryan-leefuneralhome.com

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Published by The News and Observer on Mar. 10, 2019.

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Gerald Atkins, Sr.

March 12, 2019

Reminding you warmly how much others care and would like to bring comfort somehow. And hoping you feel that God's presence is with you, supporting and helping you now. With Deepest Sympathy.

Dottie West

March 11, 2019

There are no words to express the pain in my heart that I feel tonight when I learned of the passing of Morris Rowland. The only comfort is to know that he is no longer suffering. There are so many memories to share of this "one of a kind man". I was employed by Morris in the early 1980's. His company was MORRIS ROWLAND UTILITY" and Morris was in his 6th year of a company he worked hard to start. Morris was strong, determined to always do the best he could do. He was a kind man, a gentle man, and a generous man. Working for Morris was amazing. Morris Rowland was a well-respected man in his business from the City of Durham, City of Raleigh and all the contractors, Gelder, David & Jones and a dozen more. I was proud to be part of his company. In the winter he kept his crews on payroll when weather would not permit us to work on any of the jobs. The ones that wanted to work, could help him slaughter hogs, make sausage (family recipe), hang hams, make lard, the whole 9 yards. Morris gave us a hog of our own. We all worked together for each other with his beloved mother, Leone. The world was a better place with Morris in it. Morris will always be missed, and remembered for the fine gentleman he was raised to be. Many prayers are coming your way Chris. I am so very sorry about your loss. Much Love, Dottie

Dottie West

March 11, 2019

There are no words to express the pain in my heart I feel tonight, knowing Morris Rowland has passed. The comfort is knowing that he is no longer suffering. Working for Morris in the early 1980's for his company "MORRIS ROWLAND UILITY" was amazing. I never knew if I would be on my way to Charlotte at 3:00 a.m. picking up valves or at Pump & Lighting picking up what the crews needed at any given moment or Adams Concrete picking up manholes on the dump truck. No two days were ever the same. So many things were involved in his business. Just getting permits for water taps when there might be 100 or more at a time. This was so time consuming. Looking back I can see now how I saved him so much time. Morris was hard on the people that he cared about. He was hard on me but being a woman in this business, he wanted me to excel. Morris was always a gentleman, a great boss, and a mentor. He went on a fishing trip to Florida in 1985, for a whole week, he told me to meet him at his home and keep his truck for him. He said: "DO NOT MOVE THE SEAT BACK". Morris was 6'4" and I was 5'4". I never put the seat back and a whole week went by-a long week of stretching to reach the petals. The RTP job (Imperial Center) Northern Telecom & ending with the Sheraton on that contract was about 2 years more or less. Morris had worked hard to get where he was and he was strong in his business sense. Morris only had one son, Chris. Morris was so proud of Chris always. Chris was in high school when I was employed by Morris. Morris & I talked through the years, many times after his transplant but more in the last 3 years. We both were supporting each other fighting cancer last year and now - telling each other fight "DON'T EVER GIVE UP". Morris believe me was a "ONE OF A KIND" He cared really cared about his family and friends. Morris Rowland you will be missed, RIP my dear friend. (Chris, my prayers go out to you & all your family). Much LOVE, Dottie West

Angie Thompson-Heigl

March 10, 2019

Sorry to hear of Mr. Rowland's passing. I worked for his utility company many, many years ago during my Sr. year of high school. Mr. Rowland was always a nice man and he worked hard. I was proud to have worked for him. My condolences to all of his family.

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