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Robert Barker

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Robert Barker obituary, 1948-2021, Manchester, CT

BORN

1948

DIED

2021

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John F. Tierney Funeral Home, Inc.

219 West Center Street

Manchester, Connecticut

Robert Barker Obituary

Robert Barker
April 19, 1948 - December 18, 2021
Robert T. Barker, 73, of Manchester, CT passed away on December 18, 2021, with his family by his side after a two-year courageous battle with cancer.
Robert dedicated his life to public service. He was a distinguished member of the Manchester Fire Rescue EMS Department for nearly 40 years, serving 29 years as a firefighter and 10 years as Deputy Chief & Fire Marshal. He was recognized in 2001 as Firefighter of the Year and won a distinguished service award in 2006. Robert loved Manchester and always said his job was, "to keep the residents of Manchester safe."
Robert was born April 19, 1948, to the late Barbara and Charles Barker. He graduated from Cheney Technical High School and worked as an electrician for four years before becoming a member of the Manchester Fire Rescue EMS Department. During his career he served as President of Local 1579 IAFF for four years, Board Member of Manchester Municipal Federal Credit Union, member of CT Fire Marshals Association, Capital Region Fire Marshal Association, CT Fire Chiefs Association, Town of Manchester Building and Safety committees, the Dutch Fogarty Independence Day Celebration committee, Manchester Elks Lodge #1893, and was a lifetime member of The Hundred Club and the International Association of Arson Investigators.
Robert was always involved in his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren's lives. He was active in PTO organizations, founded the soap box derby program in Manchester and was New England Regional Director of the All-American Soap Box Derby in Akron, Ohio.
Robert was a car lover and owner of two antique cars. He always participated in Cruisin' on Main, served as Chairman, and was named Cruisin' on Main's Volunteer of the Year in 2018. He was an antique toy collector and was affiliated with the A.C. Gilbert Society.
Robert is survived by Linda Barker, his wife of 28 years who he always said, "was the love of his life" and marrying her was "the best thing that ever happened to him."
He leaves his daughter Kimberly Natale and her husband Nicholas of Windsor Locks; his daughter Terri Jurewicz and her husband Francis of Vernon; a stepson Gregory Layok (Kimberly) of Chicago, IL; two sisters Susan Barker of Vernon, Carol Barker of Windsor; a brother Scott Barker of Stafford; the mother of his children, Elaine Villano of Orlando, FL; his sisters-in-law, Marjorie Doolan and Debbie McDonald of Danbury and Kathy McDonald of Southbury; as well as many special nieces and nephews.
He was predeceased by his Aunt Nancy Olsen with whom he was very close and a dear friend Charles Smith.
Robert was also the proud grandfather of six grandchildren, Nicole Natale-Lombardo (Ben), Joseph Natale (Jacki), Jessy Jurewicz (Frances), Katelyn Barker, Zachary Jurewicz, Andrew Jurewicz and 11 great grandchildren, Connor, Chloe, Alexandria, Olivia, Jose, Giovani, Jace, Abriella, Joseph, Gia and Luca.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to his kind and caring oncologist, Dr. Jessica Clement and her equally amazing APRN Colleen Brown. They fought hard to keep him with us for two years after his initial diagnosis. For that, we are very grateful.
After their retirement Linda and Robert spent time traveling and enjoying their favorite spot, Brewster, MA on Cape Cod. Even though his life was cut short by his bout with cancer, he still left his entire family with a mountain of treasured memories that will live in their hearts forever. - 143 –
Family and friends may call on the John F. Tierney Funeral Home, 219 W. Center St., Manchester, on Tuesday, December 28, 2021, from 5-7 pm. A funeral service will be held at Bolton Congregational Church, 228 Bolton Center Rd., Bolton on Wednesday, December 29, 2021, at 11:00 am, with burial to follow at East Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to either the American Cancer Society or Manchester Fire-Rescue-EMS, 75 Center St., Manchester, CT 06040.

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Published by Danbury News Times on Dec. 24, 2021.

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Ed Goldman

January 14, 2022

We are very sorry to learn of Bob's passing.
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Lynn & Paul Accarpio

December 27, 2021

LInda and Family: Robert T. was a very special person in my life. We could talk about anything, tell each other our problems and our good times. He was an amazing friend, co-worker and a caring person. He was an excellent Deputy Fire Marshal and then Fire Marshal. He loved Manchester and helped the community whenever he could. Linda, I know how much he loved and admired you. You were the perfect couple and most important our friends. Paul & I send you and the entire family our sincere condolences. You now have a guardian angel watching over you and protecting you. Our love and prayers are with you and the family. Lynn & Paul

Bob Nattrass

December 26, 2021

Bob was a skilled & dedicated Fire Marshal who served and led in the campaign for fire safety, fire education & the battle against arson in his community and throughout Connecticut. I worked with Bob at fire scenes, on fire education projects, and fire safety legislation. He was a true professional with love, concern and dedication for his community. Sincere condolences to his family.

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John F. Tierney Funeral Home, Inc.

219 West Center Street, Manchester, CT 06040

Dec

29

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11:00 a.m.

Bolton Congregational Church

228 Bolton Center Rd, Bolton, CT

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