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MICHAEL ROBERT COMPARE

1978 - 2015

MICHAEL ROBERT COMPARE obituary, 1978-2015, Milford, CT

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MICHAEL COMPARE Obituary

COMPARE, MICHAEL ROBERT Michael Robert Compare, age 36, beloved husband of Agnieszka Compare, was called to heaven unexpectedly on June 22, 2015. A Milford resident, he was born on September 28, 1978 to Gary and Marie Compare. Michael graduated from Jonathan Law High School in 1996 where he was the captain of both the Swim and Cross Country teams, as well as on staff of The Advocate newspaper. The proud Lawman went on to graduate from the University of New Haven with a Bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice. Michael attended the Police Academy, where he graduated in 2000. He then served with the City of North Haven Police Department for eleven years before relocating to Kentucky and serving briefly on the Jefferson County Sheriff’s Department. Upon his return to CT, Michael followed in his father’s footsteps and joined the City of Milford Police Department, where he was assigned to the traffic division. He was also a member of the Milford Police Marine and Dive Teams and Milford Police Honor Guard. He also taught at the police academy and was a Certified Accident Reconstructionist. Michael was passionate about helping his community and contributed his time and energy with several charities, including: Kisses from Katie, Operation Blue Christmas, the Beth El Soup Kitchen, Swim Across the Sound and The Police Unity Tour during Police Memorial Week. He participated in the Special Olympics Torch Run, Tip-A-Cop and Penguin Plunge programs. Michael was also an avid runner, and combined his deep love of the sport with his charity work. He founded the running club at the Boys and Girls Club of Milford; he raised money for Race4Chase; he ran with the torch for the Special Olympics since age 11. Michael raced in many marathons and triathlons. One of his proudest accomplishments was completing an Ironman Triathlon in Louisville, KY in 2012. Michael will be greatly missed by his friends, family and his two rescue dogs, Molly and Atticus. He leaves behind his wife and parents along with his maternal grandparents, Mary and Earle Hanson, of Milford. He also leaves one brother, Brian and his wife Serene, and their two daughters, Natalie and Audrey, all of Fairfield. Michael is also survived by several aunts, uncles and cousins. Michael was predeceased by his paternal grandparents Fred and Marie Compare. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, June 27, 2015 at 10 a.m. at Saint Ann’s Church, 501 Naugatuck Ave., Milford, CT (please meet directly at the church). Interment will follow at Saint Mary’s Cemetery, Buckingham Avenue, Milford. Friends and family may call from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Friday, June 26, 2015, at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Connecticut Special Olympics, The Milford Boy and Girls Club or the Animal Rescue Foundation of Rincon. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jun. 24 to Jun. 25, 2015.

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Hilary Stinard RN

June 19, 2025

10 years later and I still remember this night. Each year I say a quiet prayer for Michael´s family and all of Milford PD. To the family know that Michael is not forgotten.

June 28, 2015

Dear Aggie,
My sincere and deepest sympathy to you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Donna Cambria

Babette Ferrando

June 27, 2015

My sincere condolences for your loss.

June 27, 2015

To the Compare Family
Our deepest heartfelt condolences. May God give you strength and love at this difficult time. You are in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Barb, Chris, Nicole and CJ Cavuoto

Hilary Stinard RN

June 26, 2015

My sincere prayers and thoughts to the entire Compare family. As well as the fellow officers in Milford who so proudly serve us all.

Sarah Jones~ (Evaluation Sciences)

June 26, 2015

To the Compare Family,
May the constant love of caring friends soften your sadness, May cherished memories bring you moments of comfort,and May lasting peace surround your grieving hearts.

Rebecca Kowalski

June 26, 2015

We are shocked and saddened by the sudden death of officer Michael Compare. He put his heart into honoring our son, while raising funds and bringing awareness to the Chase Michael-Anthony Kowalski Sandy Hook Memorial Foundation. He completed the Quassy triathlon wearing a specially designed Race4Chase tri kit in honor of Chase. Our deepest condolences to his wife, family and friends.

June 26, 2015

Rest in peace, Officer Compare.

A citizen from

June 26, 2015

Sincere condolences and prayers to the entire family at this time.

A Stratford Family

June 25, 2015

We would like to offer our sincere sympathy to Officer Compare's family and friends. We did not know him,but after reading his story we realized how wonderful of a man he was. Please accept our condolences for your loss.May he rest in peace.

Jim and Jen Patterson

June 25, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss..

grace adley

June 25, 2015

Rip brother

Christian Munoz

June 25, 2015

On behalf of Christian, Kelly, Connor, and Jordan Munoz, we are so sorry to hear about Michael's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May you find comfort and peace knowing that he touched many lives through his genuine kindness and generosity.

June 25, 2015

Marie,
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to
you and your family at this sorrowful time.
Carol Froiger

June 25, 2015

Aggie
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been praying for you and your family.
Alicia Gerbert(TCC)

Bill & Coral Mealia

June 25, 2015

It's with our Family's deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers offered to the Compare Family, Friends of Michael and All the Officers of the Milford Police Dept.
Bill (Jocko) and Coral Mealia
The Mealia Family
The Dzialo Family

Barbara Stolarik

June 25, 2015

Aggie,
Please accept my deep, sincere condolences. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

James Hemingway

June 25, 2015

FOr the family of Michael Compare, although I did not know Mike on a personal level, my counterparts that did said was a awesome example of of a man with the public and with his family. During this time I hope the following words provide some solice and relief, that your family is not alone during this time. God bless. Isaiah 43:2 When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.

June 25, 2015

Gary I was heartbroken when I got he news. My Family and I will pray for you and your Family. May God be with you and may Michael rest in peace. Tony Crisafi

Eileen Cavanaugh

June 24, 2015

Gary and Marie and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eileen Cavanaugh
Milford Bank-Retired

June 24, 2015

Gary - My heart goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time. My deepest sympathy.
Marsha Kochiss (Marshall's daughter)

Jennifer Grannis

June 24, 2015

To the Compare family, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My ex-husband and I were his neighbors in North Haven and had many great times with him. He was a great, funny guy and will be missed by many. May each of you find peace during this unbearable time.

Eileen Munoz

June 24, 2015

My deepest sympathy to Brian, Marie & Brian Jr. on Michaels untimely passing. Rest in peace Michael

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