Search by Name

Search by Name

Rev. Robert Vargo

1962 - 2019

Rev.  Robert Vargo obituary, 1962-2019, Madison, CT

BORN

1962

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

807 Bloomfield Avenue

Windsor, Connecticut

Robert Vargo Obituary

Vargo, Rev. Robert
Rev. Robert Barry Vargo, J.C.L., 57, of Madison, passed away on Friday, November 8, 2019, at Yale-New Haven Hospital. Born in Milford on March 19, 1962, son of Charles Robert Vargo of Madison and the late Lois Constance (Green) Vargo he was raised in Milford and was a graduate of St. Ann Elementary School in Devon and Notre Dame High School in West Haven. After graduating from high school, Father Vargo continued his education at Pennsylvania State University in University Park, PA and after discerning his call to the Priesthood he enrolled at St. Mary Seminary and University in Baltimore, MD. He was ordained on February 25, 1989 at the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Hartford by Archbishop John F. Whealon. After serving as Parochial Vicar for two years at St. Lucy Church in Waterbury, he was assigned to the Metropolitan Tribunal as an auditor/case instructor. In 1992, Father Vargo began graduate studies at The Pontifical University of St. Thomas Aquinas, also known as the Angelicum, in Rome, Italy where he earned a Licentiate in Canon Law. In 1994, he became canonical adviser to the Moderator of the Curia and Judge and Defender of the Bond at the Metropolitan Tribunal. Father Vargo also assisted at St. James Parish in Rocky Hill for one year before being assigned to St. Joseph Parish in the Poquonock section of Windsor. In 1996, he became the Vice-Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Hartford and in September, 2003 he was appointed as the Judicial Vicar of the Archdiocese of Hartford. Father Vargo continued to serve at St. Joseph Parish in Poquonock being appointed as Pastor in March, 2002. In 2013, he was appointed as the Pastor of the linked Parishes of St. Joseph and St. Gabriel in Windsor, now St. Damien of Molokai Parish. In 2016, Archbishop Leonard Blair appointed Father Vargo as the Vicar for Clergy and later as the Director of the Mission Office for the Archdiocese of Hartford. Father Vargo's time in Rome gave him a comfort and ease to travel to many parts of the world even if he was not familiar with the language or the culture. He loved skiing and cycling and often did both while traveling domestically and internationally. The consummate priest, he was a tireless worker both at the chancery and in his parishes. Through his devout faith, he encouraged everyone who knew him to be their best. Besides his father Charles, he leaves a sister, Gale Margonis of New Haven; and a brother-in-law, George Haight of Milford. He was predeceased by his mother, Lois Vargo; and a sister, Karen Haight. His family will receive friends on Thursday, November 14, 9:30-10:45 a.m., followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m., Celebrated by The Most Rev. Leonard P. Blair, S.T.D., at the Chapel of St. Thomas at the Archdiocesan Pastoral Center, 467 Bloomfield Ave., Bloomfield. A graveside service will be held on Friday, November 15, 11 a.m., at St. Mary Cemetery, Milford. Memorial donations may be made to The Hartford Bishops' Foundation, Inc., 467 Bloomfield Ave., Bloomfield, CT 06002 or by visiting, www.hartfordbishopsfoundation.org or to Yale New Haven Health, Smilow Cancer Hospital, Office of Development, P.O. Box 1849, New Haven, CT 06508-1849 or by visiting, www.givetoynhh.org. Carmon Funeral Home has care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit, www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The New Haven Register on Nov. 10, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Vargo

Sponsored by NHRegister.com.

Not sure what to say?





Pasquale Moscato

November 22, 2019

R.I.P. Bob,,,I wish we were all back at ND living our Youth in Blissful Ignorance. This Life is So Very Short~~~ Pasquale Moscato

Linda McGovern

November 14, 2019

My condolences to the Vargo Family. I live next to St Joseph Church and for 17 years we were neighbors. In that time we shared many laughs and waves. What Father Vargo brought to the St Joseph community will never be surpassed. Father was a very Special person and Priest. He had such a light about him. We at St Joseph's parish were privileged to have him as a priest and we were better people for having him touch all our lives. Rest in Peace Father Vargo. You will be missed!

arthur maglieri

November 12, 2019

To the family of Father Vargo, please accept my condolences, what a great man and priest he was!.. Several years ago when I was new to the parish he welcomed me and my family with open arms. I will miss the times he and I spoke privately, he always imparted such wisdom. He was a wonderful Shepard, may he rest in peace.

Andrew O'Connor

November 12, 2019

I will remember Fr. Vargas at mass. We were classmates from Notre Dame H.S. He served the Lord energetically and humbly and is a hard loss to the Church. In Christ, Fr. Andrew O'Connor St. Mary NYC

James Calegari

November 12, 2019

Fr.Vargo was a wonderful Priest of Christ. I was a daily communicant of St. Joseph's before moving to New Hampshire. I'll always remember our conversations and especially the last time we spoke in 2013. Rest In the Arms of Jesus my dear friend. You will always be in my prayers.

Rev. Claude R. Gendreau

November 12, 2019

My most sincere sympathies to the Family and to his Diocesan Family. Be assured of my thoughts and prayers. Fr. Vargo was on my wing at St. Mary's Seminary & University. He was always such a good and kind person. May he rest in peace.

Nancy Peeke

November 11, 2019

Father Vargo was very special. He had a glow about him every time he said mass. He had a singing voice that stood out. I will miss him. He was my neighbor for 17 years. Father may you rest in peace you will always be remembered.

November 10, 2019

Extending our condolences to the Vargo family. My personal prayers for the repose of the soul of Fr. Vargo and the class times shared at Notre Dame...

Michael Mattie DDS
North Haven, CT

Seamus & bernadette Sheelan

November 10, 2019

With sincere sympathy from a fellow parishioner at st Gabriel's. Fr married our son and christened one of our grand children. He had a great rapport with his parishioners and knew us by name. His talents were immense and his love for god even greater. Rip.

Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results

Make a Donation
in Robert Vargo's name

Memorial Events
for Robert Vargo

Nov

14

Visitation

9:30 a.m. - 10:45 a.m.

Chapel of St. Thomas at the Archdiocesan Pastoral Center

467 Bloomfield Ave., Bloomfield, CT

Nov

14

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Chapel of St. Thomas at the Archdiocesan Pastoral Center

467 Bloomfield Ave., Bloomfield, CT

Nov

15

Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

St. Mary Cemetery

Milford, CT

Funeral services provided by:

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

807 Bloomfield Avenue, Windsor, CT 06095

How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Robert Vargo's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more