Patricia Wheeldon Obituary

WHEELDON Patricia Wheeldon Patricia Parker Wheeldon, owner of Pat's Beauty Salon in Algiers La. died of cancer Dec. 31, 2008 at Tulane Medical Center. She was born Feb. 2, 1949, to Earl and Mildred Parker in Arlington, Texas. She graduated from Vista High School in 1968 in Vista California and finished Cosmetology College soon after. She left this world the way she came in, up in arms. A resident of New Orleans since 1978, Pat always saw the best in others and spent every day of her life making her clients as well as friends and family feel loved. Pat had a contagious personality that would light up any room. She loved to cook Cajun dishes that ranged from her 8 hour gumbo to her chicken dish to her famous shrimp mold. She was an avid participant in the Boomtown Jalapeño eating contest, all the while still training to run in the Crescent City Classic. Some of her favorite activities were watching Saints football (Ducks and Dames) and caring for her pet dogs "Dude" and "Duchess". During the 1990's, she and her husband Paul would spend endless hours of shrimp trolling, fishing and crabbing at their fishing camp bringing home multiple ice chests full of their prize. She would sit in the backyard de-heading shrimp until her fingers were bleeding and say with a big smile, "I wonder what the poor people are doing?" Pat had a free spirit that you could not help but let rub off on you. We were all fortunate to have had Pat in our lives and she will be greatly missed. She is preceded in death by her mother, Mildred Hansen and father Earl Parker. Survivors include husband, Paul Wheeldon of New Orleans LA.; Sister In-Law, Virginia Messer of Cincinnati OH. sons, Robert Parker (Tammy) of Billings MT. and Jeff Kirk of Vista CA.; sister Peggy Hansen of Vista CA.; brothers, William Parker of Enid OK. and Robert Parker of Vista CA.; grandchildren, RJ Parker, Seth Kirk, Cameron Kirk and many nieces, nephews and friends. Visitation will take place from 9:00am to 1:00pm at Mothe Funeral Home, 1300 Vallette St. Algiers, LA on Monday January 5, 2009 with services to begin at 1:00pm. A reception will be held afterwards at J&K Bar on Gen. Meyer Ave. in Algiers. Cremation will take place and Pat will be kept with her husband Paul Wheeldon. Information: 504-366-4343

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Published by The Times-Picayune on Jan. 3, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Wheeldon

10 Entries

Joe & Lana Riley

January 13, 2009

We will miss you, your infectious smile and your sterling personality. Save a place for us up there.

Jeri Karmazin

January 13, 2009

Mrs. Pat did my mother's hair, Joyce Burke for years. Pat also did my hair. We just found out about her death. Mrs. Pat was always so cheerful. We will miss her.

Jeri Karmazin

Mindy Glenn

January 5, 2009

Mrs. Pat was my mother's hairdresser for many many years while I was growing up. I still remember her helping to fix my hair for dances in high school. Mrs. Pat did, indeed, have an infectious personality. She would always give me and my kids a big hug & kiss every time we saw each other. She was an incredible person and will be sadly missed. We love you Mrs. Pat!!!

Jerry & Shannon Ford

January 5, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Barbie Hansen-Quinones

January 4, 2009

Auntie Pat~ You were so loved. You lived life to its fullest. I am honared to be your niece. Thank you for showing me how to care for others with your happy spirit! You will be so missed...

Patty Hansen-Kepley

January 3, 2009

Auntie Pat..I will never forget your laugh and your stories. You truly lit up a room and you will be missed.

Rob Parker

January 3, 2009

Rest in peace mom. I miss you so much.

dean lassalle

January 3, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Nicky & Emily Castagnetta

January 3, 2009

Paul, we were saddened to hear about Pat's passing. She was such a sweet and affectionate person, and always made one feel special.

Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

Nicky & Emily Castagnetta

DEORAH DELAROSE DE JEAN

January 3, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

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