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for Rachael Goodpaster
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Ashley T
August 18, 2024
Thinking of you miss you.
MaDeare
August 8, 2024
It is hard to believe that 17 years have passed since you left this world. I was telling Mr. Ray that I remember when your mom and all of you helped us paint the house front. I still love and remember you.
Jackie J Starr
September 1, 2022
Rachel you will always be dear to me. You had such a bubbly personality on my shift at MN Teen Challenge. I will always remember you and will love you till we meet again
Gloria Twiggs
August 7, 2022
Remember you on this 37th birthday.
I think of you and the family so often.
Love, [email protected]
MaDeare
August 5, 2021
Remembering you with love on your 36th birthday.
Ashley T
September 16, 2015
Hey Rachael, I think about you all of the time. You left too soon, I love to imagine what your life would be like today. I do not know if you can read all of these posts that everyone puts up, but they do not stop. You are loved and your relationships and imprints you had on people are cherished. You left too soon.
-Ashley T
Renée Lapino
May 31, 2015
I love you. Your 30th birthday is in 11 days... I wish you could still tell me what it is you want. I miss you so much.
Renee Lapino
March 22, 2013
Hey - I miss you. You should see these shoes I have on. I wish you could steal them, cause you'd love them. They look like those black wedges you wore to Carson's kindergarten graduation. I love you, you brat. I can't believe you stuck me with being the only girl... I love you SO much! I hope you're having fun. XXXX
carissa stahosky
March 29, 2011
Even though we knew each other for shorter than 2 years, it felt like an eternity <3
Ruth Bowser
March 27, 2011
We played together as children and we can't wait to spend eternity with you. It will be a great celebration.
Madeleine Goodpaster
March 27, 2011
My heart breaks from missing you. Before you left I held this life tight.I have loosened my grip and long to go to you. I must remain for your Dad and sister and brothers. I move forward with courage, but long for the day when I see your face again. I am grateful the Lord has given me that peaceful assurance. I can still hear your voice the last night I talked to you. You said "Mom, I love you" before you hung up the phone. I cherish that memory. Thank you for loving us Rachael. You were the strong one that loved our family so fervently. You still do. It will not be long. We will soon see you.When the pain of this life ceases and we are one with our Lord. We will be together eternally where there is no sadness. Thank you for teaching me all that you did. I think of you every day. I love you. Mom
Carissa Stahosky
March 5, 2011
Rachael,
Life moves so fast, we blink and moments are gone. So making sure we all hold onto those ones dearest in life that we may even hurt the most, in the end it is all worth it though. I love you soo much and wish I had been there to say goodbye and give you another hug that only certain friends with Gods bond could feel! As time goes on I find myself going back to thinking of the times we had at Teen Challenge even with Deanna and all the late night, rolling on the floor, laughter spells because God gave us three such a connection that started there! I love you again and can't wait to get to heaven with everyone else besides us where we will know no pain. All my love to your great parents and your brothers and sister too. God is still good!
Rebecca Pecquet
February 1, 2011
I love you Rach and miss you. There's not a day that goes by in my life that i dont think about our good times. We were inseperable. You are my heart. I miss you soooooo much. You were my sunshine when I was down and always found a way to brighten my days when times were rough throgh thick and thin you were always there for me and i love you with all my heart. I feel like I'm missing a piece of me that's been gone since u left us. Even just your bright smile would make all my sorrows disappear. U were honestly one of the truest friends I've had.I wish you could have met Brianna Gabrielle. She is wonderful and truly a blessing and she reminds me so much of you!I miss you dearly you were and will always be in my heart. I will always love you.
Mom
October 9, 2009
Rachie,
I love you and I miss you. This little girl in my class reminds me so much of you. She brings me such joy. I wish I had been a better mother to you. God had a special plan for you. He wanted you now. We will see you again. I have so many regrets. I cannot go back and change anything, but I can look forward to seeing you again. I know it is not about this life. This life is temporary. I realize now that somehow I knew. I always knew. I miss you so very much. My heart is heavy every day with missing you. I have to go forward for your brothers and sister. You gave us such joy and life to our family. I am so glad for listening to you and our family being together in Minnesota. It was such a meaningful trip for all of us. We miss you so much.
Dad
August 7, 2009
Rachie,
My heart is heavy and the pain of our family loosing you is still so fresh. I see you in every little girl. Sammy and I just did "Sports Camp" at church where we did little girls softball. I was constantly thinking about your smile and laugh and how much energy and enthusiasm you had. I miss you terribly. Well, I don't think it will be much longer before we're reunited in Glory. I can't wait to see you again. I love you very much.
M Goodpaster
December 31, 2008
Rach,
Seth sent me a beautiful poem. He encouraged me to write a poem about you. It was in October and I only just found the letter.
Dear Rachael,
You were the one beside me all the time. When things went crazy, you were there to tell me everything is going to be alright. I remember the roller coaster ride when I was crying, and you held me tight saying "don't worry, it's going to be alright." Death is a sharp pain in the heart. Something that can't be taken away. This world is cruel and I can't wait for it to end.
Death is not the end. Death can never be the end. Death is the road, life is the traveler. The soul is the Guide... our mind thinks of death. Our heart thinks of life. May my journey soon be over.
Love your brother,
Seth
I am so proud of Seth right now. His letter has blessed me. We are all seeing eternity through God's eyes because of you Rachael. We cling to this life, yet we cannot wait for eternity so we can see you. Death, where is your power, death where is your sting? Jesus abolished death. We look forward to death, for we will see our beloved Rachael again.
Love,
Mom
Katie stiele
December 30, 2008
Hey Rach, I was just reading some of the entries that your mom wrote, and I can't stop from crying right now. I miss you, and can't wait to see you again. katie stiele
Madeleine Goodpaster
December 28, 2008
Rachael,
I found the poem you wrote and read for your graduation from MTC today. I am going to put it in your guestbook so I will have it when I eventually purchase your book.
Thank you, Rachael, for such a beautiful poem. You still are shining bright. You are changing my life even now. I love you...
Written by Rachael Goodpaster
I used to be bitter, shameful and sad
I listened to the devil and eventually became bad
Numbed feelings made my heart turn hard as coal
I lost my self-respect, my dreams, and my goals
Things I once loved and held so dear
Were taken and lost without shedding a tear
What started out with laughter and fun
Turned into a nightmare, I almost ended with a gun
God heard my cry and came to my rescue
Said he'd take me and make me new
I entered Teen Challenge a frightened girl
A miracle happened, I can hold my head high
No longer will my heart need to cry
God has softened me and set me free
Self-respect and dreams have been restored to me
I'll forever be faithful to my God up above
And shine like a light to show all His love
Fear is now gone for Jesus lives within
And He has shown me how to resist Satan's sin
I thank you God, my Savior and Friend
For making a bridge and helping me mend
Rachael I was and am so proud of you. You knew how to love and give laughter. I was blessed to have such a treasure as you. I regret so many things, but stand in the light of His glory and faithfulness. He is still using you to spread His light, even now. Till we meet again, you remain in my heart for life. I pray whoever was responsible for you and Heath leaving us so early will come to know Him as their Savior. Shine your light right now sweetie, shine your light...
Love,
Mom
Madeleine Goodpaster
December 21, 2008
Rachael,
We will never forget you. I know you were sent before us to prepare for our homecoming. It is going to be so joyous! :-) We remember you and talk so often of you. Jesus made a way so we could. It will not be long till we see you again :-) Your brothers and sister and Dad and I are so much better now. We suffered so much because we cling to this life, but the Lord has placed deep faith in my heart. This life is temporary, we will have joy in eternity. So Rachael, get ready for us. We are going to have a party New Orleans style when we get home to the Lord. Do they have crawfish boils in heaven? Oysters on half shell? Now shrimp, your favorite, there must, because He tells us we cannot even imagine, because it is so wonderful there. You lucky duck :-) I love you so much, I miss you, but it will not be long. Merry Christmas my precious angel :-) "Soon and very soon we are going to see the King!"
Mom
Madeleine Goodpaster
December 17, 2008
Rachael,
I can move on now. I have forgiven myself for failing you. I miss you so much, but have comfort because I KNOW I will see you again. God has placed this deep hope and faith in me and I KNOW. I now have true hope for eternity. Greater than ever before. I am happy again and moving forward for your brothers and sister, like I know you would want. I miss you my sweetheart.
I heard that Delilah song tonight at the hairdresser and was sad. I thought of you. Nathan, you and I were at the movies one week before you died and you commented to me about that song. I always think of you and Eliel when I hear it. So many people loved you Rachael. I know you saw and knew before you died. I am so glad you were happy. We miss you and love you,
Mom
Stephanie Smidt
August 6, 2008
Dear Rachie,
I can't believe its been one whole year already without you. You have spent one entire year with our LORD! How amazing is that thought...I wonder if it feels like only an hour or a day to you. Rachie I love and miss you and know that this was all in God's plan even if its hard to understand. I am thankful that you are with our Lord and Savior and enjoying real LIFE with him forever. I cant wait to see you again some day...I miss you and think of you so often. I truly cherish every single memory of you and am so thankful for the friendship we had. I will never forget you or the impact you had in my life. You knew how to love and never judged. I miss our talks. Cant wait to have them again some day! :)
love always,
Steph
Madeleine Goodpaster
August 6, 2008
Rachael,
It has been a rough year missing you. I still can't believe it. I was so proud of you. You were so beautiful. You had such a kind and loving heart. Everyone tells me it is not true, but I will always feel responsible. I would have taken your place, I would have given you my life. No one understands why we have never blamed God. It is because of God that death has no power. Oh death where is your sting? You are living in glory now because of what He did. This life is temporary. Eternity is the prize! I know that and I am actually happy you don't have to go through the trials and pains of this earthly life. But I and our family miss you so much. You were such an important part of who we were. We will always remember you and love you. Your beautiful smile and laugh. Ellio came to visit a few days ago. He is such a wonderful young man. You had so many true and good friends. I see now just from talking to them, it was because you knew how to be a loyal and loving friend.
I am looking forward to when we will see each other again. You and Heath save a spot at the dinner table in heaven for us, we will have a good time in eternity with our Lord who saved us from the pain and failures of this world.
I deeply love you,
Mom
Bob Mayer
August 4, 2008
Rachael,
It's hard to believe it has almost been a year, the toughest year of my life. A year with much sorrow, but also of the joy of the memories of you and Heath enjoying a movie, munching down on Taco Bell (of course you had the salad), and getting yourself primped up to go out and have fun. The excitement in your voice and in your eyes the previous night when you were going to get that tatoo of "HEATH". You were so excited to be getting it that you did not want to be late. I picture you often, getting ready in the mirror on the floor by Heath's bed. You are so beautiful, both inside and out. The only comfort I get is that Heath and you are together for eternity with our Lord and one day we will all be together again. I'm so glad you were a part of my life and I know Haley feels the same way. We miss both of you so much, but we take it day by day waiting for our turn for the Lord to take us.
Rene'e Goodpaster-Lapino
August 3, 2008
Rachael - I can't believe you've been gone a year. I still reach for my phone to call you, or text you, and for the tiniest of split seconds I forget. And then I remember and my stomach falls out. I'm trying to keep it together, but I need you too much. What am I supposed to do?
M. Goodpaster
July 3, 2008
Guess what Rachie. You know we talked about enrolling in college together? Well, I finally did it. I am going back to school :-) I wish you were there with me though. It has been good for me. I am working my brains out.
Something that happened recently has made me realize just how much God blessed us before He took you home. You were happy. Heath's dad told us how you'll were laughing and being silly and talking about your future that night. Making plans about things you wanted to do. He said you were both very happy that night and just enjoying yourself. You know now, the Lord warned me and I urgently called you. I was surprised when nothing was wrong. But we did talk for about 30 minutes. Both Dad and I spoke with you. We laughed together and teased you. You had just given Skippy a late birthday present and spent your whole paycheck on it. The boys were so important to you. I am so very happy that when you went home, it was in your sleep, and you were in the process of enjoying many rich relationships and life. You were at the home of a family that loved you and thought the world of you. You were a good girl. You always were. I expected too much. I wish now I had just plain loved you, instead of trying to force you into a mold of other people's standards and expectations. Standards that I thought were mine, but weren't. Well, Rachie, you don't have to worry. I won't do that to your brothers. I will let them grow in freedom and love. The pain is becoming bearable now. But in an instant it can flood back slicing deeply. I am learning of Christ's suffering. You on the other hand are in Glory! I hope you are partying it up. Heaven will be a fun place I know. We are gonna have a blast. Just think, it will be for eternity and there won't be any tears or failures.
I just wanted you to know that I am grateful to God that you went home happy and peaceful. If it had to happen, I am grateful, God took you the way he did.
See you soon,
Mom
Stephanie Smidt
June 23, 2008
Dear Rachie,
I can't believe your birthday has already come and gone. I remember 3 years ago when you were at TC and I was just an intern and that we had immediately clicked. I started working there in Feb. but by June (around your birthday) we had become fast friends and started going out on Sat. passes together. I will never forget our many many days together for that next year and a half almost. We had so much fun shopping :), going to a twins game, driving up to Duluth with my family to watch my brother play baseball. We all loved you so much. Rach, I just miss ya. This last month has been especially hard. I've been struggling with you being gone, but I came to the realization that to some extent I am being selfish. Because you are with our heavenly Father! You are forever happy, the struggles and pain of this sinful world are no longer yours! Why should I be upset that you are not here because I want you here. I am trying to be happy for you, its just always hard to be the person left behind. But when I dwell on how wonderful it must be in heaven, I am thrilled for you to be there first! :) Because when we meet again you can fill me in on all that I've been missing! I love you Rach, I do miss you terribly, but I am trying my hardest to be happy for you.
Love you always,
Steph
Jackie Starr
June 12, 2008
Oh Rachel,
I can not believe it is time for your birthday again. I remember the jeans that you went and purchased for your birthday while in TC and you wanted me to tell you how they looked on you and then that laugh that you gave. Just know I think of you often, I want ever forget you and can not wait to see you again. Soon and very soon we are going to see the King. I love you so much.
Madeleine Goodpaster
June 11, 2008
Happy Birthday Rachael!!!! :-)
I am not going to tell you how sad we are today. Not for your birthday. Someone recently said us to "think about what Rachael would want". First I know you would be so upset to think we were caused so much pain by your leaving us. Second you would want us to move on and not be sad because it would break your heart at your sister and brothers hurting, all of us, you would not want us to hurt.
So for your birthday Rachael, for today I am going to try to move forward and not feel pain. Give the pain to the Lord and be only grateful for having known you and loved you. Thankful that we did have 22 years. Thankful that the last year especially was so special and we were so close with you. Thankful that even though I did fail as a parent in many ways, I did do a lot of things right. Thankful that I have 5 more children that need me. Thankful that I will see your precious face again when I go home to the Lord. Thankful that the Lord overcame death, which is why I will see you again. Thank you Jesus. Send me your strength Rachael, help me to go forward and be strong,for your siblings. They all are hurting so much.
For today Rachael, it will be my first step to go forward. It is your birthday present. Help me Rachael. I know and sense you are with me. Help me to go forward and live again. I am trying. Just for today I will do this. I might not be able to tomorrow, but I promise for today, I will not think sad thoughts, but thoughts about how much fun you were. I love you. Happy Birthday Rachael :-)
Mom
Madeleine Goodpaster
June 9, 2008
Rachael,
As your birthday approaches I long for eternity. When I will see you again. The pain is so great, at times I cannot bear it. I feel like I have a sliced open wound that is throbbing and aching and there is no relief.
At the same time, God gives me insight into the life of Jesus. He died young. His father missed him and probably grieved for him in his absence while he was here on earth. He tells us over and over and over about how this life is passing away, it's temporary, don't hold on to it. But it is not until now that I fully understand. I long for the day when I will hold you again and hear your laugh and know your wonderful sense of humor again.
Jesus appeared to the disciples after he died. He was giving them hope and letting them know He was alive, and proving it by His appearance.
I know you are alive. I have hope to see you again. But it is just not enough. The pain is so great in losing you. I made so many mistakes. You had already told me you forgave me for any mistakes I made as a parent and I know how much you loved me and your family.
I know you are in glory and the Lord is growing us spiritually and He is in control. I love you and miss you. You would have been 23 this Wednesday. You offered so many wonderful qualities to our family, we all miss you and hurt. May the Lord allow this life to pass quickly so we may see you soon.
Love with all my heart,
Mom
Madeleine Goodapster
March 1, 2008
Rachael,
I miss you so much. My heart breaks when I think of how happy you were and how you were just beginning your life. You were so proud of your brothers and your family. After MTC you finally realized what you had and you expressed that pride and gratefulness to us just in the way you looked at us and talked to us. I am so sorry I failed you in so many ways as a mother. I am so sorry I was deceived by so many things I was taught were right. That I did not allow you to grow in freedom and learn for yourself.
Our family has a hole in it now. You were our laughter and our fun. You brought so much joy to us. Your brothers hurt and ache so much from missing you. We all cannot wait till we see you again.
I could see the last week before you left to be with the Lord that you and Heath were becoming serious about each other. I could see how much he cared for you. I could see the harmony in your relationship. I was happy for you.
I am sorry that we were decieved and taught you so many false truths. Had we allowed you to stand on your own more, you would have been stronger and not so trusting. Trusting of whoever did this to you.
Trusting of the wrong people.
I regret the relationship we will not have now with you and Heath in the future. His family is so wonderful. He was a very good young man. He was a perfect match for you. I had begun to see just how perfect and the peaceful strength between you both the week before you went home to the Lord.
I don't know much about heaven, but I know my Lord and I know you both must be enjoying yourselves in His glory.
I am having trouble moving forward. We have lost so much. Our home in N.O. and then you. I have become accustomed to pain. I wish I could see your smiling face again. Hear your laugh. The boys loved you so much. Your sister misses and hurts so. She hides it from me and tries to encourage me with gifts and love. I know you are and were so proud of her. So many people have told me how you would brag about her and our family. My baby, I am so sorry I was not a better Mother. I did the best I could, what I thought was right. I love you so and miss you so and I miss how much you loved us.
If it is possible, please let the boys know you are okay and you are happy. That it is okay to trust God. They are hurting so badly. They blame God. They do not understand. Seth prays for a dream of you. I don't know how heaven works, but if it is possible, please let them know. Seth is hurting the worst. Nathan and Samuel are also hurting badly. They hurt and miss you and do not understand why their big sister that loved them and doted on them is gone now. They miss your loving them.
We love and miss you so very, very, much.
Mom
P.S.-One more thing. Your friends from MTC really loved you a lot. Their calls and cards and letters have been encouraging. I had no idea how many lives you touched and how much they loved you.
You really and truelly were an amazing girl with so much laughter and fun. Thank you for the time I knew you. Thank you for allowing me to be the mother of such a loving heart as yours.
Terry Goodpaster
February 8, 2008
My Dear Rachael,
I am really struggling today with my loss of you. I went through some recent pictures of you and Heath and see the happiness on your face and it reminds me so much of hearing your unpretentious laugh and the joy you shared. I know your with Our Lord and that comforts me greatly. But I miss you dearly. I wish I could make up for the mistakes that I made as a father. I wish I could have been there for you more. Nothing can change what is now. My heart longs for the moment I see you again. I know it will seem a fleeting moment since you last saw us but it will seem a lifetime for me. I love you so much and you were always my "jellybean". I wish I could have held you in my arms one more time the last time we saw each other. I love you. I envy the joy that you are enjoying now. I am so glad that you do not have to suffer through the struggles of life. I don't understand all of that and I get mixed emotions. But, I know God is faithful and he loves you greatly. Your Loving Father
Bob Mayer
November 7, 2007
It has been a very rough 3 months since you left to be with God. I miss seeing your smiling face when I come home from work. I miss the excitement in your voice about your future plans, your family and when talking about Heath. Although I did not know you for long, you were an important part of Heath's, Haley's and my lives. You will NEVER be forgotten. I wish you had introduced me to your family because now I see how special they really are. I know you are proud of them and you should be. You definitely come from a loving and caring family. I'm looking forward to seeing you again.
dana Mayse
November 6, 2007
Dana Mayse
807 14th Ave NW a-34
Altoona, IA 50009
Rachel was my friend at MNTC. I have wonderful memories of her gentle nature and loving heart. She will always remain in my heart. I will miss you, my friend.
Love and Godspeed to you.
Elena Vorobyov
October 16, 2007
Rachel was an amazing girl. She had so much to live for!!! She was always smiling. She seemed to be very transparent at times and mysterious at others. I knew Rachel while I was employed at Teen Challenge Grace Manor. We had long talks about life, God, & family. She sure had so much to handle at her age. Yet it was wonderful knowing that she put her trust in God, and didnt give up. It is wonderful to know she is in the arms of Jesus now. We will see her soon! Praise be to God that he rescued her and brought freedom to her captive soul. It is just heart-breaking to know she did not live out this freedom in Christ to a ripe old age. Goodpaster family, my prayers and thoughts are with you. May the Lord be your comfort. Rachel will truly be missed.
Kellie Tahtinen
September 30, 2007
Dear Goodpaster family,
I, too, was in Minnesota Teen Challenge with Rachael. She could light up a room with her beautiful smile. I long for the day when we too will be together with Rachael in a place far better than we can even fathom. Your family is in my continued prayers as life goes on for us. Until we are together again...much love Kellie
Jack & Becky Fremont
September 30, 2007
Dear Goodpaster Family,
Becky and I got to know Rachael through our daughter Stephanie, and her frienship with Rachael while she was in Minesota....we hurt, and are sad, but we are so thankful to have gotten to know Rachael. She brought joy to our family, and we loved her very much! We were there for her graduation and were so proud of her, and for her sweet spirit. That graduation was one of the best days of our lives, seeing lives tranformed, we will always remember it. Rachael touched so many lives, and I know the Lord brought her into so many lives for a reason, we all benifited from knowing her! We too will pray for your family and lift you up before our God for strength, and wisdom. A verse we shared with Rachael was Psalm 32:8 "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go, I will counsel you with my eye upon you"
with Love,
Jack And Becky
Stephanie Smidt
September 29, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Goodpaster and Family,
I was a good friend of Rachael's. I met her while volunteering at TC and had the privilege to take her out on Sat. passes and weekends. I am so thankful for that wonderful year and a half I got to spend with Rachie while she was in MN. Rachie was so loving and sweet spirited. I will always treasure the many conversations we shared and the many outings we were together. She was such a sweetheart and will be truly missed. I was devastated to hear the news of her passing just today. But please know that you are all in my prayers, and that right now Racheal is at peace, she is happy, she is with our heavenly Father. Once again, I am so very sorry, and know that some how the Lord will help us all through this very hard time. You are in my prayers.
Love in Christ,
Stephanie
Krystal Elizabeth Alwin
September 28, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Rachael's death & have a hard time believing that she's really gone. I will never forget her even though she was only in my life for a year she made a real impact on me & I saw a lot of myself in her. I am so deeply saddend all I can think about is her eyes... those beautiful eyes so full of life & youth. I would do her hair & make-up we she was always so realistic. She never made me feel bad alwys so loving. I am so hurt that I am just now finding out, but i know shes with God & I know she is ok
Callie Bergland
September 27, 2007
Rachael, What Can i say there were so many fun times we had i think the best one i can rembmer i when we went to vally fair and we took a picture in the water fall right as u walk in and i didn't know there was dip and i feel in and got all wet. That was the funnist thing that happend with you but was great i ahve that picture and I will always rember you cuz you were a friend that was there to listen and you know what it was like to have family far away and we both have had some good time with naitle and with her eating in the middle of the nite and her sleep walking and other thing Also with julie and haging out in her room and we always got told it past in room time.. I can't belive to this day my friend is gone but i know in the end i'll see you agin and when i do i will be glad to see you.. I hope the best for the family and I am very sorry. I am hear if you need anything 1-641-592-1514 and i am praying that you all feel peace..I love you guys
Bonnie Kantor
September 18, 2007
I am praying for the family. Rachael had many friends who love her very much, she will not be forgotten.
Amber Fimon
September 11, 2007
Rachael is a person that will never be forgotten! My name is Amber and i also roomed accross from rachael(nicole s. roomate). she would often come and visit and need friends to talk with. Rachael often talked about her family and how much she loved and missed them. i remember many times where she would talk about her little brother and show me pic., and letters he would send her. rachael was a girl that could have fun. i have many pics. of her and i goofing around and of our adventures through teen challenge. i am praying for you(the family)! God bless you all! love Amber Fimon
Nicole Saathoff
September 10, 2007
Rachael lived accross the hall from me at TC and eventually became my best friend. I have a scrapbook full of memories of her and her beautiful smile. I love her so much and although it hurts to know I won't see her again in this life, I find strength and joy in knowing I'll see her in the next. I just want you all to know that she is a very special friend. My prayers are with you.
Carmella Gudan
September 10, 2007
Dear Madeleine, Terry,and Love Ones,
As I have been thinking of Rachael over the past few weeks many precious memories have come to me. Many from our days at Reserve. The stops for snowballs and Icee's, conversations about school, events, people, hairstyles (the flat Iron:), and doing our nails. Little did any of us realize how those times spent together would change and shape us, or how precious memories of her facial expressions would become. My heart is crushed and it is only in God's Word can I find comfort. In the first chapter of II Corinthians Paul writes,"Praise be to God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of COMPASSION and the God of all COMFORT, who comforts us in all our troubles,... On him we have set our hope..." I am comforted to know that she is with the Lord and we will all be with her again.We are praying for each of you daily and I know the Faithful One hears and answers and He is our comfort.
Love and miss all of you very much, Johnny, Carmella, and Family
Katie Stiele
September 10, 2007
Rachael was a good friend who I met in Teen Challenge. She listened and laughed with me on many occasions. She had such an amazing sense of humor, and her comical timing was perfect. When I heard about Rachael, I didn't know what think, and I still have trouble comprehending it all, but what I do know for sure is that she is with the LORD now, and we will hang out again someday. My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time, and always.
Jeff and Teresa Bartels
September 6, 2007
We were deeply saddened in hearing of Rachel's passing. No words can ease the pain of such a loss, but prayer can do miracles. So, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always cherish the memories we had together with her and never forget the things she brought to this life. May Christ always be the rock to run to for those who knew her and loved her. In deepest sympathy,
Bridget (Hanson) Murphy
September 6, 2007
Dear Rachie~ what am I going to do without someone to tell me I have a zit on my forehead or I am a geek.
You will never know how much you ment to me or how you touch the heart of God by perservering thru your times ont this earth. Even though we are only mortal beings on this earth~I can't wait until you and I can dance before the Lord and not worry about having zits anymore. All my love from deep within my hear Rachie`
Jackie Starr
September 6, 2007
To Rachael's Family
Just know that Rachael was a very special girl to me. When I think about God places people in your life for a reason or a season, it feels my heart with joy for the season that we shared at Minnesota Teen Challenge. I will always love Rachael and she will forever have a place in my heart.
September 4, 2007
Terry, Madeline and Siblings,
You already know how deeply sorry we are for the pain you are feeling. We DO KNOW that Rachael is in perfect peace now and is experiencing joy beyond human thoughts. And yet we are feeling such sadness. We have to hold on to what we know to be truth. We have grown to love your family and you know how much I loved Rachael and was burdened for her.I am honored that I got to help you in a small way with the Memorial service in New Orleans. We love you guys and miss you!
Love Alvin, Lisa, Derek and Drewby Schlesinger
Jim and Sheila Parrie
September 1, 2007
Dearest Terry and Madeleine
We are praying for you and your special family
Leanna Blackman Mohr
September 1, 2007
I have just learned of Rachael's passing and want to assure you of my continuing prayers for you all. I enjoyed seeing your family at FBC Kenner and witnessing the love that you all shared for each other.
Rachael and Eliel December 2006
September 1, 2007
Rachael with her sister Renee kissing Carson
September 1, 2007
Rachael with her whole family on earth
September 1, 2007
Rachael's family on earth
September 1, 2007
Rachael having fun taking a picture of herself like loved to do June 2007
September 1, 2007
She loved her brothers and sister so much
September 1, 2007
Our Precious Rachael November 2006
September 1, 2007
Natalie Harris
August 31, 2007
MY Dearest Rachael I Love you with my whole heart. You will never be forgoten, the times we shared together mean more to me now than ever. when I think about us together for that year and half, sharing all our hopes, plans, dreams ,even our midnight talks. I'm so happy to have all those memories with you
Bob Mayer
August 28, 2007
Terry, Madeleine, Renee, Adam, Seth, Nathan James, Samuel, Carson,
I am so sorry for your loss. I miss seeing her smiling face each day when I come home. Her smile just lit up the room and seemed to make everything brighter. She was a lovely lady who loved her family so much and talked about them quite often. Rachael was already like a member of my family and I am honored to have spent time with her. She was like a sister to Haley, a big sister she never had. She was such a great addition to my family and it is nice to know now the loving family she has. I know that she is in a better place, but I guess I am just selfish for wanting her back with all of us. I know we will all see her again when we enter His Kingdom. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Bob Mayer
Eliel Parrales
August 18, 2007
Dear Goodpaster family,
I can not express enough how sorry I am.Theres not a minute that goes by that I wish I can make everything better.I know that it is realy hard for your family right now but I just wanted to tell you that she loved everyone of you very much as I know you all loved her very much.I just wont to say that if you ever need anything I will always be there and that i love you all I will keep you in my prayers.
Deanna Martin
August 16, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Goodpaster, this is comming from Deanna Martin I met Rachael at Teen Challenge, I was one of her close friends, I was with Rachael when she watched your family's house go under the water of Katrina, I was so hurt, but I have to tell you, she still worshiped god! I have to tell you one more thing, I am so very glad that they had this page for me to write my goodbyes, because I am writting to say alot more than goodbye, I felt so mad when someone told me, I wanted them to be making a mistake, but now Rachael is with God, so I am no longer mad, still sad, but not mad. I cannot forget to tell you that Rachael and I were sitting in the lobby at Teen Challenge, and she said, do you know that I hear from God Deanna? I just don't tell too many people because they won't beleive me. I said I beleive you. She said, God keeps giving me this number, 2007, he's comming back, right now Mr. and Mrs. Goodpaster, God gives us all a vision I think God was comming to Rachie in 2007 for her to be his bridegroom, and Rachie really did hear from God, and I beleive in her last breath, she said the name of Jesus, she strenghthend my faith by seeing her loose everything she had in the flood and still worship God, Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Goodpaster for sending Rachie to Minnesota if it meant the world just to witness to me, I will never forget her as long as she lived, and I feel that I can be at peace if I could know what really happend, Love Deanna Martin.
Kathy Knowles
August 15, 2007
Dear Sam, Madeleine, and family,
I am so sorry for your pain at this time. I pray for your peace and comfort as you deal with the loss of your daughter and sister.
Kathy Knowles (Parkwood Hill)
Stephanie Guerra Henderson
August 14, 2007
We are praying for you and trusting that the God of all comfort is holding you during this time. Know that you are in our hearts and in our prayers.
Megan Criswell
August 14, 2007
Rachael i love you so much. you were my best friend. i will pray for you ever night until we meet again. god be with you. If there is anything that i can do let me know. she was like a sister to me and i will miss her smile and laughter.
Will Kieferle
August 13, 2007
Dear Goodpaster Family,
I am deeply sorry to hear about your recent loss. Rachael was and always will be in my thoughts and prayers. She will truely be missed. I will continue praying for yall during this most difficult time. Love always, Will
Rosalin Miranda
August 13, 2007
Dear ms Maddie and Mr. Terry,
I'm really sad about Rachael leaving us and I will always remember her. She was a great friend! I can always remember how funny and goofy she was, I really cared about her w/ all my heart, and I always will. It really hurts to know that she's no longer w/ us. But the struggle is over and I know she's in a better place. I will always remember her. Even try to dream about her. I miss her. don't forget to write me ms. maddie. I will always think about you guys and remember all the fun I had with rachael at your house..
I'm really Sorry. I will keep u in my prayers...
Lcpl. Allison Bott
August 13, 2007
Dear Goodpaster Family,
I was really sad to hear of your loss. Rachael was a dear friend and everyone will miss that great smile she had. She could always brighten a room up with that smile. I will keep y'all in my prayers.
August 13, 2007
I am unable to put into words the sorrow I feel for you and your family. However, we know we will see Rachael again one day. She is now living in a perfect place. We will keep your family in our prayers during this difficult time. If you need anything please call.
Martin, Jennifer and Justin West
Debbie Jonnes
August 13, 2007
Dear Goodpaster Family,
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy and heartfelt sorrow for this tremendous loss in your lives. Rachael was a bright young woman with tremendous potential. Your godly example in her life is one that, I believe, made an eternal difference in her life. We loved her here in Minneapolis, and are grieved with you over her death. Your family is in our heart and our prayers.
With love and prayers,
Amanda Whitchard
August 12, 2007
Mr. Terry and Ms. Maddie,
I am so sorry about your loss. I will keep you both and your family in my prayers.
Larr & Penny Bowser
August 12, 2007
Dear Terry and Madeleine,
We are grieved to hear of your loss. However we know that Rachel is with our Lord.
"Precious in the site of the Lord is the death of His saints" Psalm 116:15
Reuben Mabry
August 11, 2007
Dear Terry, Madeleine, and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy and know you are in my prayers during this most difficult time. I know your family as one of unshakeable faith, which will keep you and guide you in the upcoming days. This has weighed heavily on me, and I just had to express my concern for you all.
Mark & Becca Girod
August 11, 2007
You are in our prayers. May God comfort you in the coming days. Remember you are in our prayers!
We love you all
Mark & Becca Girod
Don & Cathy Whitchard
August 11, 2007
Terry and Maddie and family. We are so sad to hear about Rachael. Words cannot express our sorrow. We know that the Lord is faithful and will carry you through this time of grief. We too have a Rachael who is with the Lord. We know they are both together at the foot of the Throne!!!! Please remember that you are in our prayers
With love in Christ
Walta Thomas
August 11, 2007
Renee and Madeline, I was shocked to see Rachael s obit in the paper. I am so sorry for you loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Kelly Bott
August 11, 2007
Dear Terry, Madeleine, and family,
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. Rachael was always a sweet, funny girl to me. I never make macaroni and cheese without remembering her telling me how much she loved it.
My thoughts an prayers are with you all.
Ronald Biagas, Stephanie Boone, and Hedwig Bohme
August 11, 2007
We were stunned to hear the tragic news about Rachael. There are no words to adequately express our sympathy for the loss you and your family must be feeling. Please know we are thinking of you and your family and praying for you every minute.
Dominic Janet Schlesinger
August 11, 2007
Maddy Terry I was deeply moved when Jan call me and told me of your loss. We hope and pray you can deal with thisand make ya'll stronger and we know how this is a hollow feeling that takes time to deal with. Best to all and the boys. Dominic
LANA Rhinehart
August 11, 2007
Dearest Terry and Madeleine,
We have been praying with family and friends for your precious family. Only the Lord's Strength and Grace will carry you through this. God's mercy endureth forever. Know that all the Rhineharts are lifting you up in prayer. We love you!! Glynn and Lana Rhinehart
Glynn and Lana Rhinehart
Joshua Davis
August 11, 2007
I loved Rachael from the first time I saw the sparkle in her eyes. I knew she was something special. She changed my life and she was my biggest influence in my work to turn my life around. She made me want to be a better person. I loved her more than I was ever able to express to her and I will never stop loving her.
Gloria (MaDeare) Twiggs
August 10, 2007
My heart is so sad to learn of the loss of such a precious loving girl. Until the Hurricane Katrina separated us, Rachael would give me hug and say,"Love you Madeare."
Rachael's love will always be one of the "Treasures" in my life and we will meet again someday.
Katherine Farnsworth
August 10, 2007
I was her Sunday School teacher when she was a little girl and watched her grow up in our church,up-lifting you all in prayer,and will see you on Monday
LOTS OF LOVE
KATHRINE
John and Angela Mayer
August 10, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Goodpaster,
Rachael will be missed. She had a beautiful smile. May God grant you peace in your lives. May God bless you and your family and keep you safe always. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family now in this hour of need.
Rachel Robinson
August 10, 2007
I am very sorry to hear about Rachel. She is such a precious person, and I just imagine her resting in the arms of Jesus. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Kent & Becky Coker
August 10, 2007
Dear Goodpaster Family,
We are so sorry to hear the news of Rachael's death. Please know that we are praying for all of you during this difficult time.
in Christ,
Douglas & Diane Truesdale
August 10, 2007
Terry & Family,
We have not the words nor wisdom to allay your grief during this most difficult time. May your faith and love for the Lord and your family serve you well. Rest assured we will continue to pray for you, your family, and your precious daughter, Rachael. God Bless you!
Locke & Susanna Morgan
August 10, 2007
Dear Goodpasters,
We send our deepest sympathies in what must be the darkest time for any parent, sister or brother. We love you guys and hold you in our prayers.
Sara Thorson
August 10, 2007
Goodpaster Family,
I am so deeply saddened by the news of the loss of Rachael who holds a very special space in my heart as does your entire family. I mourn this loss with you but I rejoice that I was able to be a small part of showing Christ to this wonderful and beautiful young lady. I pray that the unsurpassable Peace of God will reign on your family in this very challenging time. I have been trying to locate your phone number that I know I had at one time and have been unsuccessful. Please contact me at some time so that I can share my heart with you and offer my prayers and support to you. I have a picture of Rachael and I from her Teen Challenge Graduation as well as a picture of the entire Goodpaster family that is in my office. I will cherish this picture as I cherish you and your family always! I will never forget the special bond that God allowed me to share with Rachael while I was staff to Rachael at Teen Challenge. I no longer work at Teen Challenge. Please feel free to contact my personal cell phone at 612-432-3354. I have attempted calling Rachel's cell number because I had that in my cell phone hoping to contact Madeline or Terry but have been unsuccessful with that as well. I love you all dearly and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginger Davis
August 10, 2007
Thinking of you during this difficult time and wanted to tell you that we love you all and hope to see you Monday evening.
Ginger, David, Moira and Madison
Larry & Jan Richels
August 10, 2007
My wife and I had a ministry to the women of Teen Challenge during the entire time Rachael was in the program. We loved our contacts with her and we loved her smile, personality and genuineness. Getting the news of her death was a shock but we know her decision to make Jesus Lord and Savior now finds her home with Him. Our sympathies and prayers for you, her family.
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