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Richard Whiteside Obituary

WHITESIDE, Richard ("Dick"), 71, of Glen Allen, Virginia passed away peacefully surrounded by many family members on March 5, 2019 after sustaining injuries in a car accident. Dick is survived by his loving wife of forty-six years, Kathleen, his daughters Megan Whiteside and Elizabeth Whiteside (Nicolai Shuman), his three granddaughters Mia Vernon, Grant Shuman and Mathilde Shuman and many in-laws, aunts, nieces, nephews and cousins. He was born on June 9, 1947 in Pawtucket, R.I., son of the late Edward Jefferson Whiteside and the late Doris (Cardin) Whiteside. He was predeceased by his brother Edward Whiteside and his sister Doreen Whiteside. A lifelong learner, Dick graduated from St. Raphael Academy in Pawtucket, R.I. He earned a B.A. from Manhattan College and holds two master's degrees from The Johns Hopkins University. His Doctor of Philosophy degree in Educational Leadership was conferred by the University of Connecticut. Throughout his career, Dick worked at various higher education institutions including The Johns Hopkins University, The University of Hartford and Tulane University, before transitioning to consulting work that he did with Royall & Company and EAB. He was considered an expert in higher education enrollment management and belonged to many professional organizations. During his time at Tulane University he was an integral part of the team responsible for bringing the university back after Hurricane Katrina and subsequently became a sought-after speaker in university emergency planning and recovery. Additionally, Dick authored many articles and book chapters on enrollment management. Dick was a consummate storyteller who believed in the power of the spoken word and was always looking to entertain and include those around him. He put these skills to use professionally by tirelessly dedicating himself to helping colleges and universities manage their enrollments and strengthen their brands. He mentored countless colleagues, family and friends. Dick cherished his family, especially his three granddaughters, to whom he will always be their beloved "Papa." A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11AM on Saturday, March 23, 2019 at St. Mary Catholic Church, 9505 Gayton Road, Richmond, VA 23229, followed by a Celebration of Life luncheon. The family would love to gather remembrances of Dick and ask that any stories or pictures be emailed to [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Richard Whiteside Scholarship Fund at Manhattan College, Manhattan College Development Office, and 4513 Manhattan College Parkway, Riverdale, NY 10471.

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Published by The Times-Picayune from Mar. 14 to Mar. 17, 2019.

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George Mentz

October 12, 2023

Dear Mrs. Whiteside & Family,

I was good friends with Richard in NOLA for many years.

He was like a big brother or uncle and we even co-authored some articles together.

We did not know that he had passed, as we moved to Colorado 14 yrs ago. Our deepest regards to you and your family.

Sincerely and Kindest Regards, Comm'r George Mentz, Esq.

Ted Whiteside

June 11, 2019

Kathy, Certainly belated, but, my thoughts of late run to you, the girls, and the grandchildren. Richard was a good man and will be surely missed. You are in my prayers
- Ted Whiteside

Pamela Lawson

March 24, 2019

Dear Kathy,

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel, as it has only been 6 months since I lost Jonathan. Dick was a good person and he will be missed by many. Take time to care for yourself and soak up all the love and caring your friends and family give you. Peace to you and your family.

Kelley Schmidt

March 23, 2019

My condolences to the family. It was a lovely service today. I enjoyed hearing so many stories about how loved he was and the lives he touched. In the short time that I knew Dick I wish I had the opportunity to spend more time with him. I hope that Kathy & her family will find peace In the days going forward.

Joan Kay

March 21, 2019

Over the last twenty some years of friendship with Dick and Kathy I always felt welcomed and part of their lives. I will miss Dick, his wit, and his sincere concern. I am glad to have had him in my life, and I will always remember him with love.

Shirley Cai-Adams

March 21, 2019

Deepest condolences

Sarah Cloonan

March 21, 2019

Dear Kathy and Family,
I have many fond memories of my time spent with your family - from your West Hartford days, to New Orleans.Dick is deeply admired and greatly missed.

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Arline Hetland

March 19, 2019

Dear Kathleen - I heard of your family tragedy from Laura Bruckmann, my colleague where I work. I am truly sorry for your loss. I will pray for Richard and for your speedy recovery. May God bless you both. My prayers are with you. Respectfully,

Suzanne Hammel

March 19, 2019

Bill and I do not know the proper words to offer at this tragic time. Please know we send prayers and condolences. We value the time we had you in New Orleans.

Bill Stull

March 19, 2019

As newly hired Director of the Writing Program at the University of Hartford in the 1980s, I relied on Dick Whiteside's expertise in all matters related to student enrollment. His leadership was inspiring, as was his Cheshire Cat smile. Dick and his gracious wife Kathy enhanced the community we shared. I am grateful to have known him, and I send my deepest sympathies to his beautiful family.

--William L. Stull, Professor of English, Emeritus
University of Hartford

Terry Cardin

March 19, 2019

To know him was to love him,you will be missed greatly. Aunt Terry cardin

March 19, 2019

Richard was my first boss when I began working at the University of Hartford. He was a good man and working for him was a pleasure.

Tanya Coppolo Boushee

Bobbir

March 18, 2019

I knew Richard as a very special friend and positive influence on my life. He was open and honest. I am saddened by his passing.

Mary & Jim Leffler

March 18, 2019

Kathy,

Richard is such a remarkable man, thank you for sharing him with us. He will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers to you and the family.

Love and friendship

Maureen Huerter

March 17, 2019

In my life I have had the privilege of meeting many people. One person etched forever in my memory is Richard Whiteside. He captured my dear friend Kathy's heart many years ago and has been her escort on this journey called life. While raising our families our communication was sparse, but in these golden years we have been able to reconnect and continue our friendship where we left off. Getting to better know this wonderful man was a blessed gift. He was all that dear Kathy's escort should be, witty, kindhearted, a natural storyteller and a loving caring spouse. His abrupt passing has been a shock to all who love him. His spirit will live on in his family, his grandchildren and in our memories. We don't understand why God called him now. We do know He is entrusting us to escort Kathy and be her strength during this difficult journey. It would certainly be Richards loving request.

March 17, 2019

Kathy
My sincere condolences to you and your family on this terrible loss
Bill Reda

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Sandy and Lee Gordon

March 17, 2019

March 16, 2019

Kathy, Megan and Elizabeth, what a shock when I was told of Richard's passing. Upon reminiscing of my younger years, I go back to all the fun times we had when all the cousins would get together. Richard was definitely the one who urged us to get involved in so many different things and to play jokes on our parents. As we became older our paths took us different ways but when reuniting at family gatherings our memories took us back to wonderful times, going to the Lake, the Cardin annual cook out, vacation weeks spent together and so much more. My prayers for you will be for the Strength and the Knowledge of his Love for you to continue on.
Love,
Cousin, Marylou Boyer, Cumberland, RI

Bob Chernak

March 15, 2019

I loved being a colleague and friend to Dick Whiteside when we were both employed at the University of Hartford. Dick was always full of innovative ideas, many of which I gleefullyI took credit. He practiced university administration not only competently, but with a combination of passion and integrity. I am saddened by his untimely and tragic passing and relay my sincerest condolences to his wife Kathy and his family. Dick will be missed by many in the academy who benefitted from his wisdom and experience, but equally so as a kind hearted and compassionate friend. Rest In Peace! Bob Chernak

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

March 15, 2019

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any mans death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

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