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ERLICH Benjamin "Benny," age 59, of Matthews, NC, formerly of Glen Rock, NJ, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, December 8, 2009. Beloved son of Israel and Dora Erlich of Glen Rock, NJ, dear father Elizabeth, Marc, Jeffrey, and Amy Erlich all of Maryland, devoted brother of George Erlich and his wife Karen, of Fair Lawn, NJ, dear uncle of Laura Becker and her husband Jason and Jennifer Erlich and former husband of Jacqueline Erlich.Benny was born in Israel and came to America in 1959 settling in Passaic, NJ and lived in Glen Rock until moving to Matthews, NC. Benny was the owner and operator of Benny's Luncheonette on River Road, in Fair Lawn and subsequently later at the Plymouth Park Mall on Saddle River Road, in Fair Lawn, was also the owner of Erl's Grill on Prospect St., in Glen Rock and after relocating in Matthews, Benny was the co-owner of Benny's New York Deli in Charlotte, NC. He was a former member of the Benjamin N. Cardozo Lodge #163 Knights of Pythias, in Fair Lawn, Temple Beth Sholom in Fair Lawn and the Glen Rock Jewish Center. He was a recipient of a Silver Card from the Fair Lawn Police Department #67 PBA. When Benny was not working he was a motorcycle enthusiast and Benny received great joy in serving his restaurant patrons. Services will be 11 AM, Sunday December 13, 2009 at Louis Suburban Chapel 13-01 Broadway (route 4 west) Fair Lawn, NJ, burial will follow at Cedar Park Cemetery, Paramus, NJ.Memorial donations in memory of Benjamin "Benny " Erlich may be made to: United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, P.O. Box 90988, Washington, DC 20090-0988 or the American Diabetes Association.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Dec. 11, 2009.

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Axel Dahlberg

December 31, 2009

Benny was an astonishing and charmingly unique man. We always enjoyed the pleasure of being in his presence, and we always craved his great cooking. We will miss him tremendously, and we will always think of him and smile. Some people are a glorious shooting star in life who bring light and warmth to others--this remains always Benny.

Michelle Fanwick

December 29, 2009

I will never forget when Benny brought Aunt Lil to Greenwich for my mother's funeral on a Sunday, his only day off. In general his kindness and thoughtfulness of others will always be a strong memory for me!
Best of all he has four amazing children who will make a difference in this world and that is what it's all about!

Adam Schwartz

December 27, 2009

Benny was a great man, and he will be missed.

Dave DeLucca

December 27, 2009

I had the pleasure to know Benny and his family a very long time. I don't know of a harder working man that truly loved his family. I would converse with Benny on many occasions and there was not a time that he did not say that all of his hard work was so that his kids and Jackie could have everything that they needed. We shared some great times traveling too, especially to motorcycle shows and I can honestly say that I felt most wanted around Benny when he was making fun of me, he made you feel wanted, God Bless this man, he truly had a huge heart.

Francine Selzer

December 27, 2009

He was a great brother-in-law and a uncle to us. We will definately miss him. Also he did alot ,so much for Grandma Lil and Grandpa Ben.He was always there to help them and having grandpa Ben eating and enjoying the food at Benny's. He always there to help everyone. He was a caring,loving person. A "Mensch" his memory will be in our hearts like a flame that burns a brights light . He will be missed..
Love from,
Francine, Joel, Amanda, Natalie ,Benjamin Selzer..
Owings Mills, Maryland

Jeff

December 27, 2009

I love you and miss you more and more each day. You will forever be in my heart.

Bill Blanchard

December 27, 2009

I was sad to see that Benny had passed away. I'll never forget that when Liz was in my class, Benny showed up for back to school night. I was so surprised because I knew he was up at 2 AM to bake for the day. But he said that his daughter wanted him to meet Mr. B so he was there. That was the SOFT side that not everyone knew. I was fortunate to teach Liz,Marc, and Amy. Jeff I got to visit !

Lewis Fanwick

December 27, 2009

I always had hoped to get down to North Carolina to ride the Dragon's tail with Benny. I guess that will end up one of true regrets in my life. Benny was one of the people that could always make me smile.

Liz Erlich

December 26, 2009

Dad, I'm reminded of you every time I walk Tovi. You were my early morning phone buddy; walks aren't the same without you. I miss you so much. Thanks for the memories...never a dull moment with you--you were truly one of a kind and left your imprint wherever you went. That's all I know for sure when I look back on your life. I love you. RIP.

Steven Solomon

December 26, 2009

I worked across the street from Benny's luncheonette on Saddle River Road for a few years when I was the first ever full-time reporter at The Shopper. Everyone in my office knew when it was getting close to lunch time because I'd bolt out the door and run across the street to Benny's for a hamburger and fries. It was usually around 11 a.m. Benny always made me feel special, which I think was because I had gone to college (FDU) with his wife's best friend. I also enjoyed kibbitzing with George too, who seemed to have more time to exchange pleasantries than Benny did. I'm long gone from New Jersey, writing now for the Tampa Tribune, but I'll always remember Benny fondly during my good old days chasing after fire engines, police cars and the mayor in Fair Lawn, Saddle Brook and Elmwood Park...

December 24, 2009

I worked for Benny at my first job in H.S at the mere age of 14. I worked there for 3 years cleaning up after hours. We all remember him shouting into the back to the "grints" and making snide remarks as customers left the restaurant. That was Benny. You don't get any more real than that. I will never forget the best tuna sandwiches and the homemade iced tea! We will miss you Benny!

Peggy (McEntee( Camden

December 21, 2009

I remember Benny well as a GRHS "68 grad. He was in our senior prom group! I had many "greaser" friends and he was such a great guy to have as a friend! I left Glen Rock in 1972 when I got married but my memories of Benny are within my heart!

AH F

December 20, 2009

I was rather shocked to hear of Benny's passing. I will never forget those burgers and sandwiches. Last time I saw him was on the Food Network. I am sure he knows he will be missed by many and that his food satisfied more than a few hungry customers and garnered him praise and legions of fans.

Diane Nicastro

December 20, 2009

I worked for Benny a a good few years in Fair Lawn and he was very important part of my working years. He may have appeared to be a little tough but always made time to pull you on the side to tell you his real thoughts or "help" you if he saw a mistake coming in your personal life.
As a kid i remember going with my father to their bakery, seeing benny and George and his parents always hard working and a smile.
Sending Angels to his parents and George and family...
RIP Benny....you were a bigger part of our lives than you may have thought.

Jackie

December 15, 2009

Missing you more than you'll ever know...

alan van heest

December 14, 2009

Still in shock upon hearing the news. Growing up in Glen Rock and Prospect st where "the stores" and the Prospect bakery were, I knew the Erlics and hung around the bakery with George in the evening. I worked down the sidewalk at Joes Sweet Shop and the Erlichs are the finest people Glen Rock has to offer.

Cathy Beame

December 13, 2009

Stuart and I will never forget the night we met Benny at the diner. He never forgot our names and was always happy to see us. Our hearts go out to his family and Rhonda and Sam as they heal from their loss. Rest in peace Benny.

Larry Gorin

December 13, 2009

George, My heart goes out too you and your family. Benny had a great reputation in Fair Lawn. I remember the great reception when i frequented that great Prospect bakery, Your parents are the best.

Kathleen Davoodian

December 12, 2009

I would like to send my deepest sympathies to all of the Erlich families.
I too have many wonderful memories from working at the Prospect Bakery
in the 70's including how much love Mrs. & Mr. Erlich had for their boys!
God Bless you Benny!

Corinne Hemkes-Lindenthaler

December 11, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

December 11, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

December 11, 2009

Dear George and Karen, I was so very sorry to hear about your brothers passing. Our love and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Debbie and Lenny Azzarone

December 11, 2009

Rest in Peace Benny!!!! We will miss you.

Gloria "DeFalco" Smith

December 11, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the Erlich family. I have so many great memories from years ago in the bakery days and I'm so glad I got to see Benny here in Charlotte a few years back. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Harold and Betty Bogert

December 11, 2009

We are so sad to hear of Benny's passing. I worked with George and remembered Benny from Glen Rock and Matthews, N.C.
Our condolences to the family.

Harold and Betty Bogert, Charlotte, N.C.

December 11, 2009

We are so sad to hear of Benny's passing. I worked with George and remembered Benny from Glen Rock and Matthews, N.C.
Our condolences to the family.

Harold and Betty Bogert, Charlotte, N.C.

Harold and Betty Bogert

December 11, 2009

We are so sad to hear of Benny's passing. I worked with George and remembered Benny from Glen Rock and Matthews, N.C.
Our condolences to the family.

michael garfinkel

December 11, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

December 11, 2009

Benny was a great guy. We all enjoyed listening to his stories here at the shop. We was fortunate over the last few months Benny stopped in more then usual for a visit. He will be missed greatly by many.

Harley Davidson of Charlotte Service

Jennifer Keeser

December 11, 2009

You will be missed Benny. My t-shirt sales will be down at Harley since you always gave so many as gifts. Your heart was filled of gold. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Eric Fanwick

December 11, 2009

I will always remember Benny's kindness and his portions

mark beaudry

December 11, 2009

I have truly lost a good friend, with a heart of gold and a good soul. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I hope the good memories of Benny will comfort you as they do me. Miss you, Pal.

Sandy Pullin

December 11, 2009

Benny was quite a character! He was such a generous person and always willing to lend a hand to anyone. I'm so glad I had the chance to know him and he will be fondly remembered and greatly missed. Rest in peace Benny.

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