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Gerald Hebert Obituary

Gerald Blake Hebert

WEST LAFAYETTE, IN - It is with heavy hearts that the family of Gerald Blake Hebert announces his passing at the age of 84. He died June 8, 2019, at 7:55 p.m. EST after minimal suffering. He was with two very good friends, Chesterton residents John Johnston and Randy Bolde, when he passed. Gerry was able to spend his last week surrounded by friends and family at the Indiana Veterans Home in West Lafayette, IN, where both he and his family were treated with the highest caliber of care and compassion.

Gerry's life was filled with many adventures, shenanigans, and projects. Gerry was born in Gary, IN, on February 11, 1935, to French-Canadian Harry Hebert and Irish-American Mazie Blake. His life was marked by the vim and vigor for which both cultures are known. Gerry often told stories of his childhood in Gary's glory days, from inter-school rivalries and neighborhood fights, to playing "Cowboys and Indians" in back alleys and fixing the family car with his dad, to discovering "ancient steps" in the lake at his francophone grandfather's modest resort outside of Brenard, MN. He was voted "Prettiest Eyes" of Horace Mann High School his senior year – a title of which he was distinctly proud. Some of Ger's early exploits: getting arrested after starting a bar fight in Marquette, MI, while working as a cook on the Joseph L. Block ore ship; leading the self-proclaimed biggest "panty raid" in the history of Purdue University; moonlighting as a gynecologist when on fishing trips with Marine friend Harry Schultz in Northern Wisconsin; becoming "best buddies" with Elvis Presley during his Army service in Germany; driving a chuck wagon in a reenacted Union charge against the Confederacy; developing a unique way of cooking trout with catalpa leaves and horse manure; announcing the birth of his son in a meeting with the governor of Indiana, the lieutenant governor, and the mayor of Gary to thunderous applause.

Gerry was well known as a force with which to be reckoned. He was an ardent government watchdog, frequently penning letters to the editor or leading anti-war protests while his son served with the Marine Corps during Operation Iraqi Freedom. He did not accept luke-warm soup at restaurants, and felt it was his duty to hold any and all service providers to his draconian standards. He was likeably irreverent and judged others by how interesting they were, rather than their titles. If anything, Ger was always his own man.

Yet, Ger viewed his greatest achievement to be his family. He would often brag about his two children, Lora-Marie McCaffry (Hebert) and Jacques-Rene Hebert, and their musical, academic, and professional accomplishments to anyone that would listen – and even to some that were probably not very interested. He adored his three grandchildren, Michael Jon Dye, Conall Odhran McCaffry, and Aine Mead McCaffry, and found a deep respect and admiration for his superhuman son-in-law, Michael Jon McCaffry. His only mistake in life – his sentiment, mind you – was the loss of his second marriage. He continued to love and respect his ex-wife, Diane Kay Fuller, until the day he died, and attributed much of the success of his children to her loving, compassionate, and ever-altruistic care.

Known as "Ger" to many and "Pickleman" to some, his loss leaves a large hole in many lives. His presence on Keweenaw fishing trips, family gatherings, and Pete Visclosky's inbox will be sorely and tearfully missed.

In addition to his children and grandchildren, Gerry is survived by his brother, Thomas Alan Hebert, of Spring Hill, FL, and his sister, Patricia Ann Parker, of Valparaiso, IN. Family and friends may gather at MOELLER FUNERAL HOME, 104 Roosevelt Rd., Valparaiso, IN, on Sunday, June 16, 2019 from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m., followed by a service at 3:00 p.m. Interment will occur at Calumet Park Cemetery, 2305 W. 73rd Ave., Merrillville, IN, on Monday, June 17, 2019.

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Published by The Times on Jun. 12, 2019.

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Sandra Bonadonna

June 14, 2019

I send sincere wishes of condolences to the Hebert family. Positive thoughts are with you all at this time of family sadness.

Julie Mayfield

June 13, 2019

I was very sorry to hear of Gerry's passing. I met him through the dental practice I work for. He was very pleasant to work with and always had interesting stories to share with us. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time of loss.

richard schaefer

June 13, 2019

One of my best loved and respected cousins! I will sorely miss his e-mails and occasional letters. God rest his soul.

Jessica Metros

June 12, 2019

I had the privilege of serving on the Southlake Salvation Army Board with Gerry. He was truly a man who carried out his mission and he cared about others. I am very saddened at his loss. Gerry had a positive impact on my life and I am so thankful for his influence in making me a better person.

Liz and Eddie Godard

June 12, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of Gerry's passing. Although we only met a couple of times,through his Brother Tom, we remember him as being very nice to both of us. Our thoughts are with all of his Family at this very sad time.

Kenneth Keller

June 12, 2019

We are very sorry to hear about the passing of Gerry. Our children grew up together in school, and we knew him through church and community. Ken had a nice visit a couple of years ago, as they talked about days in the Steel Mills. Our Very Best Wishes to the Family! Cheryl and Ken Keller, Chesterton

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104 Roosevelt Road, Valparaiso, IN 46383

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2305 W. 73rd Ave., Merrillville, IN

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