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JAMES SMALLMAN Obituary

Dr. James L. Smallman Jim Smallman, DDS, 92 years young, was born in East Chicago, Indiana. He passed away on December 8, 2018, and was surrounded by his family and friends. His parents Laura and Jim Smallman, and his beloved grandparents Nuncia and Dino Baccelli, all preceded him in death. He will finally be reunited with them. Their family was a close knit Italian- American family. Jim was a loving husband, father, grandfather and friend to many. Jim graduated from East Chicago Roosevelt High School, then attended Indiana University and continued and graduated from Loyola University School of Dentistry. He practiced dentistry for 42 years in Hammond, Indiana. Jim belonged to the Northwest Indiana Dental Society, the American Dental Association, and the Illinois Dental Society. Jim had an incredible practice and truly loved dentistry and his many loyal patients. Jim married Nancy Mason in 1962. He leaves behind two daughters, Lynn Compton along with her twin granddaughters Kate and Kristin Compton (California), and Dawn Smallman (Oregon); a very special nephew Rob Mallehan (DiAnn) of Michigan and their family; one aunt Gloria Chechi and her children Maria and Robert. Jim had many Smallman cousins: Jack (Joan) Smallman, John (Grace) Smallman, Tom (Carol) Smallman and Chuck (Kris) Smallman. Chuck and Kris Smallman have been like a son and daughter to Jim and Nancy over the years. Cousins include Rene (Kathy) Morelli and family; Bill (Barb) Cataldi and family; and special friends Jim O'Donnell, Donnie Harvey, Gene Fort, Doug Irk, and Tom (Carol) Smith. Tom and Carol Smith were his forever friends. Drs. David Harvey (deceased) and Mickey Goldenberg (deceased) were his best fishing buddies and longtime friends. His sister-in-law Drella Mallehan Crankshaw (deceased) of Michigan introduced Nancy to Jim in 1957. Jim and Nancy recently celebrated 56 happy years together. Jim relished all aspects of growing up Italian in an Italian-American family. He loved the music, the food, the operas, the language (and spoke it fluently) and loved visiting Italy. Jim's passion for Italian operas began with his cousin Vivienne Della Chiesa, a well-known soprano, inviting him to Chicago to attend her debut at the Chicago Civic Opera House. Jim loved all animals, especially his faithful cocker spaniels named Buddy and Rusty. Jim cherished his daughters as they grew up (too quickly he would add) and often made college campus visits after they went away to their respective universities. When he finally retired (something he really never wanted to do), he learned how to cook, and loved cooking authentic northern Italian style cuisines for all of his friends and family members who were eager to taste his new creations. His summers were spent fishing on Lake Michigan and with his friends. In his later years he wintered in Las Vegas with Lynn and her family. His granddaughters adored their only grandpa. Jim lived life to its fullest with integrity, dignity and loyalty. Jim had a love of God, a love for his family, and a love for his country. His incredible sense of humor will be truly missed by all. Good journey my husband, father, grandfather and friend…you will be missed but will always live within our hearts. Ora e il momento di dire addio (translation: "And now it is time to say goodbye.") A special thank you to Hospice of the Calumet Area for their loving care during his final days. Visitation will take place at KISH FUNERAL HOME, 10000 Calumet Ave., Munster, Indiana from 4:00-8:00 p.m. on Wednesday, December 12, 2018. A Christian Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, December 13th, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Thomas More Catholic Church on Calumet Avenue in Munster, Indiana. Private interment. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Hospice of The Calumet Area, 600 Superior Ave., Munster, Indiana 46321, or St. Joseph's Soup Kitchen, 5310 South Hohman Ave., Hammond IN, 46320, or to the charity of your choice. www.kishfuneralhome.net

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Published by The Times from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2018.

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Nora Lee Hebard Tarney

January 14, 2019

Nancy, in the intervening 60+ years, your friendship has always been part of my memories. Don and I send our condolences and prayers to you. Jim must have been a very loving person, and a smart one, to have chosen you!

John Crankshaw

December 13, 2018

I am saddened at Jim's passing. May he Rest In Peace and his family find solace.

John Taylor

December 11, 2018

Dr. Smallman was our family dentist for a couple of decades. He and Nancy always made a big fuss over our children during their visits.They'd hang our kids artwork on the office walls. We always felt welcome there. I'll never forget the pre-appointment rituals of following him into his office for his cigarette and some good conversation. I missed him when he retired and am very sorry to see his passing.He was one of the most pleasant men I've ever met.

John Taylor

December 11, 2018

Dr. Smallman was our family dentist for a couple of decades. He was a very pleasant person to share stories. He and Nancy always made a big deal over our children's visits to the office. The welcomes never ended. I'll never forget the ritual before each dental appointment, he had me follow him into his office for a cigarette and some hearty conversation. I missed him retiring from practice and will miss his place here. Glad to have known him.

December 10, 2018

Condolences to the family and friends of
Dr. James, may the love and laughter you once shared together comfort you. And the God of love be with you during this difficult time. (Psalm 147:3)

John Smallman

December 10, 2018

Over the years we maintained a sometimes close and always enduring friendship with Jim, Nancy and the girls. Great and contributory citizens of the Calumet Region as well as great dinner companions at the Sherwood Club! I still recall, discovering the hidden pictures in "Highlights" magazine prior to "drilling" rituals. we had the pleasure of fishing with Jim's Dad, also Jim, at Jim Sr's home on the shores of Lake Griffin, Florida. Deepest sympathy to all, Jim will never leave our collective memories.

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John Smallman

December 10, 2018

We had the great pleasure of years of good times with Jim, Nancy and the girls. Jim was of course our "uncle" and dentist. Many fond memories of reading "Highlights" before the drilling ritual! I was even lucky enough to visit Jim's Dad, also Jim, at his home on Lake Griffin in Florida. A solid citizen who will be missed. Peace.

Linda Smallman Taylor and Thomas Richard Smallman

December 10, 2018

Jim was our father, Dick Smallman's, cousin. He provided free dental services to our family when we couldn't afford to pay for them. He was very kind to us and was my brother and my first dentist. Apparently our father lost touch with him later but I'll never forget how nice he was. He went to high school with our mom, Dorothy Horan, as well. Thinking of Jimmy's family at this time. Sounds like he lived a good life. ♥

Anne P.

December 10, 2018

I met Dr. Smallman once, several years ago, when he came to pay respects to my father (a fellow opera lover) at his wake. I'll never forget Dr. Smallman's smile as he reached to shake our hands, his genuine warmth, compassion, and comforting presence as he greeted us in the line. What a wonderful and enduring legacy, and an honor to have met such a noble and kind man. May the God of all Comforts, and the peace of the Savior, Jesus Christ, comfort you all.

December 9, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Dr. Smallman. May the love of God and heartwarming memories of your dearly loved family member and friend give you comfort beyond measure. (1 John 4:9)

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