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Joshua De Boer Obituary

JOSHUA DANIEL DE BOER CHICAGO HEIGHTS, IL Joshua Daniel De Boer, age 21, passed away doing what he loved, flying, on Thursday, September 15, 2011. He is survived by his parents: Daniel and Ann De Boer; two sisters: Katie (Dan) Eenigenburg and Michele De Boer; and one niece, Abby Eenigenburg. Josh is also survived by his grandparents: Simon De Boer and Harold and Ann Brouwer; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. He was preceded in death by his grandmother, Alice De Boer. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, September 21, 2011 at 11:00 AM at the Bethel Christian Reformed Church, 3500 Glenwood-Lansing Rd. in Lansing with Rev. Calvin Aardsma officiating. Friends may visit with the family on Tuesday from 3:00 PM to 9:00 PM at Bethel CRC. Private interment will take place at Oakridge Cemetery in Lansing. Josh was a senior at Purdue University majoring in mechanical engineering and computer science. His many interests included photography, computers, technology and aerospace. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Illiana Christian High School for the establishment of a scholarship in his memory. www.schroederlauer.com

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Published by The Times on Sep. 19, 2011.

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William Reus

September 24, 2011

We were saddened to hear of the loss of your son. May God give you the strength you need to walk through this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. - The Reus Family

Jacki Dekker-Bush

September 21, 2011

DeBoer Family, This is a beautiful poem that I received from a relative that lost her son many many years ago. She passed on to me after the loss of my son a year and a half ago. And now I wish to pass it on to you. Know that there are many people praying for comfort and peace for you and your family and friends.
The Broken Chain
We little knew that day, God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly,in death we do the same. You did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us your beautiful memories, your love is still our guide; tho' we cannot see you, you're always at our side. Our family chain is broken, nothing seems the same, but God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.

Vonda Wiltjer

September 21, 2011

Dear Dan, Ann, Katie, and Michele (and the rest of the DeBoer family) We cannot express how sorry we are in the sudden loss of your son. We will be praying for your family today and always. Tim (my son) was in Josh's class. Keep God by your side and HE will help you through this....take comfort in Him. PJ, Vonda, Tim and Christina Wiltjer

September 20, 2011

Dan, Ann, Katie & Michele...We cannot express how truly sorry we are for the sudden death of your dear son and brother, Josh. Please rest assured that we will continue to pray for your family! May God surround you with close friends and family to be there to give you the strength and courage you will need to make it through each day, Mike & Gail Vermeulen & family

September 20, 2011

To the DeBoer Family, Please accept our sincere condolences in this difficult time.
Rick and Erin Kwolek, parents of Nick Kwolek

Paul and Deb Lindemulder

September 19, 2011

Dear DeBoer Family,
Words can't express the sadness in our hearts for your great loss. Know that our prayers are lifting you up during the days and weeks to follow. We know that God's grace will be new every morning and He is faithful, but that doesn't mean we can't and won't be very sad. He knows your sorrow and will walk through this valley with you, never leaving you in the valley alone. When you don't know how to pray, know that we will be praying for you.

Family Diane Woynovich

September 19, 2011

A life cut short of time aches the soul and breaks our hearts. May his family find strength thru God's love and the love of each other. There are no words on this earth that can heal such pain. Only thru the Lord's words can a family persevere and carry on. All our love and prayers to you all during this hurtful time

September 19, 2011

Dear Family & Friends of Josh,
We know life is so very fragile and that God's ways are not our ways but words are hardly enough to cover the shock and loss at this time. I'm sure hundreds of people and thousands of prayers are going to see you through this loss. I am one of those in prayer for you all. Barb McKinney

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