Theodore R. Cuson, Jr.
Sep 29, 1945 - Sep. 16, 2022
VALPARAISO, IN - Theodore R. Cuson, age 76, of Valparaiso, passed away peacefully on September 16, 2022 surrounded by his loving family.
Ted was born on September 29, 1945 to Ray and Geneva in Gary, IN. After graduating from Valparaiso High School, he went on to study civil engineering at Purdue University. Ted led a successful 50-year career in construction engineering and management, working first for JM Foster and retiring in 2017 from Superior Construction.
In 1966, Ted married the love of his life, Barbara (Wasemann), going on to have four children. They were married for 56 years, and together Ted and Barbara enjoyed a thriving, rich married life. Ted was a dedicated and inspiring father, grandfather, and coach. In his free time, he loved coaching soccer for Valparaiso High School and later helping as an assistant coach at Morgan Township High School. He loved fishing and vacationing with his family; he and Barbara spent many happy winter months in Tucson over the years.
Ted was predeceased by his parents Ray and Geneva (Hoskins). He is survived by his wife Barbara; his children: Theodore (Brandy), Elizabeth Stupar (David), Stephen, and Michael (Dana), and seven grandchildren: Alexander, Margaret, Samantha, Kyle, Natalie, Brayden, and Maddox.
All are welcome to meet with the family at St. Paul Catholic Church at 1855 Harrison Blvd in Valparaiso on Thursday, September 22 from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. Memorial Mass will be held directly afterwards at 11:00 a.m. at St. Paul Catholic Church. Rev. Douglas Mayer officiating.
Ted was deeply admired and respected by his family and friends, his coworkers, and countless soccer players he coached over the years. His life was full and blessed, living up to his favorite adage, "When in doubt, do what's right".
In lieu of flowers please send donations to the American Cancer Society.
Arrangements by DYKES FUNERAL HOME. 219-462-3125

Alice Rios
September 14, 2025
I will always remember Ted for his leadership, his inclusion of his colleagues and witty friendship. Thanks Ted. Enjoy eternal life.
Trudi Neil
September 25, 2022
Sincerest sympathies go out to Barb, family, and Ted´s brother, Dan, and family. May you keep your memories close and be comforted. Ted led a good, productive life, and leaves a beautiful legacy for his family. I will remember our good time having lunch in Arizona. Love and prayers. Trudi and Tom Neil
David M Bass Sr.
September 21, 2022
My sincere condolences to Barbara and the entire Cuson family. He was my mentor at J. M. Foster taught me how to estimate, build self confidence a thrive to do your best. He was a man of great character. I will miss him.RIP.
Kenneth Kollasch
September 21, 2022
Coach Cuson´s wisdom and belief in me shared a dozen years ago still inspires and impacts me today. My marriage, career, and life and better because I knew him. I pray the peace of Christ fill his family and friends in this time of grieving.
Judy Farah
September 21, 2022
Wishing the Cuson family joy in all the happy memories. I especially want to include Ted's brother Dan who also is suffering this loss. Prayers for all during this painful process.
Julie Daugherty and family
September 20, 2022
Not having met Ted since I was very small, but the entire Dan Cuson family being so very dear to me, I know in my heart if he was anything like his brother, he was the kind of man you´d want around forever and always. My deepest condolences to the entire Cuson tribe.
Alice Rios
September 20, 2022
My sincerest condolences to the Cuson family. Ted was a great man, boss and coworker.
Ted was a professional in his field; honest and fair with colleagues. I have great respect for Ted and I will always remember him.
Sam Biscuso
September 20, 2022
Ted is a great man among men. Professional, honest and always a pleasure to do business with. Whenever Ted and I spoke, I always grew from the experience. With tears I am sad to see him pass on as one of the best in our business.
Betty and Jim Franz
September 20, 2022
Our sincerest sympathies to the entire Cuson Family on the passing of Ted. We will always remember him fondly as a VHS soccer coach who was a true class act and really cared about his players. Our sons truly benefitted from his care, concern and example both on and off the field.
James Doppler
September 20, 2022
All my sympathies to Barb and the Cuson family on your loss. Dad was always intuitive and a great guide both on the field and in the office, but he was always a friend and leader!
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