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ALFRED SMITH

1951 - 2019

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New Canaan, Connecticut

ALFRED SMITH Obituary

SMITH--Alfred E. IV. On Wednesday, November 20, 2019, Al died suddenly at home in New Canaan at the age of 68. Great-grandson of the New York Governor and 1928 Democratic presidential candidate, Al was himself a Happy Warrior, consummate New Yorker, longtime member of the New York Stock Exchange, and dedicated leader and fundraiser for charitable causes of the Catholic Archdiocese of New York and cancer research. Born May 24, 1951 in Brooklyn to Walter J. and Helen (nee Conroy) Smith, he was raised in Rye, NY, attended Iona Prep and Villanova University, before assuming his father's seat on the NYSE after Walter's early death in 1972. Al was a specialist broker for most of his 36-year career on Wall Street, and was a longtime partner at Adler Coleman & Co., later CMJ Partners, and then at Bear Wagner, from which he retired in 2008. He was a longtime member of the Board of Directors of the Alfred E. Smith Foundation and served for 35 years as Master of Ceremonies at the annual Al Smith Dinner. As MC, he maintained the dinner's long tradition of polite, good-natured and humorous interaction among civic and political leaders, most memorably every four years when the candidates for President of the United States were the honorees and objects of Al's "I can't believe he just said that" jokes. A three-decade survivor of cancer, Al was the founding force behind Hackers for Hope, an annual golf tournament that funded more than $15 million for cancer treatment and care. Al was the adoring (and adored) husband for more than 44 years of Nan (nee Moore) Smith, the devoted father of Alfred E. (Amy) Smith, V, and Catherine (Matt) Totero, and the grandfather of six perfect grandchildren, Emilie, Spencer and Clara Smith, and Charlie, Grace and Ellie Totero. Survived by six brothers and sisters, eight brothers- and sisters-in-law, 26 nieces and nephews, and friends too numerous to count. Visitation Monday, November 25, from 4 to 8pm, Hoyt Funeral Home, New Canaan, CT and funeral Tuesday, November 26 at 11am at St. Patrick's Cathedral, New York City. Memorial contributions may be made to Hackers for Hope or The Smith Foundation of the Catholic Archdiocese of New York.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 24, 2019.

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Tom White

February 15, 2025

December 1, 2019

May the God of all comfort sustain you at this time Psalms 119:76

Peter Kenny

November 27, 2019

I worked for Al, as his clerk, and with him for years at the NYSE. Wonderful man. Always in service to others and genuinely one of the most compassionate souls I have ever known. He will be profoundly missed by many. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you, Nan and family.

Ray Flynn

November 26, 2019

Al was a special friend whom I admired his loyalty to his commitment to Irish, American Catholic values. Say hello to Gov. Smith for me in Heaven. Mayor Ray Flynn of Boston.

Bernadette Schmoelzer

November 26, 2019

what a great man!

Denny LeRoux

November 26, 2019

Great memories of AL singing with my band at parties and events he could really make me laugh what a great guy

Jim Berry

November 25, 2019

I met Al when I had Mackenzies and he would come in almost every day for the papers and conversation. Such a smart,caring and fun guy to talk to. I know he helped many people.I'am sure he has lots of friends in his new home,who will love to hear his stories.You have many good memories to fall back on and your love of each other will last forever and ever

Patricia OCallaghan

November 25, 2019

I reached out to AL when I needed help at SLoan Kettering and he made a call for me that saved my mothers life- He was a good friend,one of the best-so funny,smart and the guy you always wanted to be around. Love to you Nan Trish

Roz Hubbard

November 24, 2019

It was a pleasure meeting,conversing, and keeping him safe for so many years at the NYSE. May you rest in Eternal Peace!

Karen Hackett

November 24, 2019

Al was a great humanitarian, he helped so many people. So sorry for your loss

Liam Powell

November 24, 2019

God, keep your comforting arms around Nan, Alfie and Catherine and all of Al's family and friends. And God keep your eye open for Al. He's one of the good ones for sure.

November 24, 2019

Nan,My condolences on the passing of Alfred,he was a fine person and a good man, I am sure he is in the arms of Our Lord. Sincerely Peter Igoe

November 23, 2019

My deepest condolences to the family. May the God of all comfort sustain your family during the days ahead. Psalms 119:76

Peter Biancardi

November 23, 2019

We are saddened with the passing of Alfred. Our deepest condolences to Nan and family.
Uncle Peter & Aunt Mary Biancardi

Gina Yockey

November 23, 2019

Dear Nan,
Sending prayers and condolences on Alfreds passing .
With much love,
Gina and Denton
Grayson and Gwyneth Yockey

Suzanne McNally

November 22, 2019

I am very thankful to have had an opportunity to meet and work with such a Wonderful , Caring, Individual. R.I.P.friend ❤

Douglas Matthews

November 22, 2019

Dear Nan and children. I was deeply saddened by the passing of Alfred. Please accept my condolences on this occurrence. He was a great person of immense accomplishments and will be missed.

Jennifer Falvey

November 22, 2019

Along with my children, Bryar, Griffin and Wynn, I send heartfelt condolences to Nan, Alfie, Catherine, and the entire family. May you find comfort knowing that Al was a great man, beloved by all who knew him. He gave more than he took and he will be remembered as a hero.
All my love, Jennifer Falvey

Joseph Corradino

November 22, 2019

RIP Al. Great man.

Ed Lopez

November 22, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Al on the NYSE. A true gentleman and a most caring person. Al would go out of his way to help anyone he worked with. Be it the lowest to the most important , made no difference . A class act in every way. R.I.P. my friend .

Tom O'Brien

November 22, 2019

A loyal friend, colleague, and the best MC in history. So saddened by his passing at much too young an age. He will be missed by all who knew him. Deepest condolences to Nan and family. RIP

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Hoyt Funeral Home & Cremation Service - New Canaan

199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT 06840

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11:00 a.m.

St. Patrick's Cathedral

New York City, NY

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