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Amy Vance Obituary

VANCE--Amy Sloane, a lawyer and advocate for the poor and needy, passed away this past Monday after a long and brave struggle with cancer. A native New Yorker who spent her entire professional life in New York City, Amy graduated from Mt. Holyoke College and Fordham School of Law. As a young lawyer, Amy practiced law at the Carter Ledyard law firm before working as a program officer at the Ford Foundation. She then spent more than 20 years working for the New York State Office of Court Administration, most recently as Deputy Counsel to Chief Judge Judith Kaye, before retiring in 2007. Throughout her career and life, Amy devoted her heart and soul, intellect, energies and leadership to help the city's most vulnerable, applying her lawyer's training and problem solving talents to serve the needs of the poor. An active member of the Church of the Heavenly Rest, she was also Chairperson of the Board of Directors of the Federation of Protestant Welfare Agencies, supporting the Federation's historic legacy of caring for those most in need. Amy had a strong interest in health care ethics, serving on the Mt. Sinai Hospital Institutional Review Board. Amy was the daughter of Cyrus R. Vance, and is survived by her mother, Grace Sloane Vance, three sisters, Elsie Vance Askar, Camilla Vance Holmes and Grace Roberts Vance, her brother, Cyrus R. Vance, Jr., a nephew and niece, Simon and Clare Vance, step-nephew Kemal Askar, sister-in-law Peggy Vance, and brothers-in-law Attila Askar and William Holmes, and a large community of loving friends who were inspired by her courage, sense of humor, and commitment to public service. Services will be held this Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 4 pm at the Church of the Heavenly Rest. In lieu of flowers, Amy asked that any donations be sent to the Memorial Sloane Kettering Cancer Center in memory of Amy Vance, P.O. Box 27106, New York, New York 10087.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 12, 2008.

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Ghebre Mehreteab

March 6, 2025

A day does not go by, when I do not think of you. You are up there with my late wife and friend Sally.

Gabe

Laurie Kammler Kaye

January 5, 2025

Amy- With the passing of President Carter last week, I started reminiscing about our time together in law school and the admiration I felt for you and your respect for your father“s dedication to public service. Has it really been 16 1/2 years since your passing? I miss your laughter, smile, humor, and most of all, your friendship. Much love, Laurie

Ghebre Mehreteab

May 14, 2024

It is hard to imagine that Amy has died 16 years ago. I miss Amy's laughter and friendship.
Love,
Ghebre Selassie Mehreteab

Robyn Tamura

December 30, 2008

Dear Amy,
You always made me laugh and smile no matter how you were doing or how you felt on any given day. I am honored to have been your friend, to have known your kindness and the wonderful spirit you gave to us all. Much Love, Robyn

Alice Capson

June 19, 2008

Amy was always a very nice, very smart person. I hadn't seen her since our reunion at Mount Holyoke. Sincere condolences to her family.

Gayle Gutekunst

March 20, 2008

Altho I hadn't seen Amy since law school, I was saddened to hear of her passing. I will always remember her as funny, compassionate and very bright. Her friendship helped me through.

Brooke Chamberlain Cook

March 18, 2008

Dear Amy, I can see your shy smile in my mind's eye and hear your soft voice in the recesses of my memory. At Foxcroft, you were a quiet leader - a model of integrity - who inspired all of us. You are now, and long will be, deeply missed. Brooke Chamberlain Cook (Class of 1967)

Kelly McDowell

March 12, 2008

Amy- you are a wonderful cousin and I will miss you dearly. You fought a brave fight and you will always be my hero.

Jeffrey Silverstein

March 12, 2008

With the deepest respect for your work and your humanity on behalf of your friends and colleagues from the Mount Sinai School of Medicine

Liz Vance McDowell

March 12, 2008

You are in our hearts forever, Amy. I will always remember your warm smile and sweet spirit. You were loved by so many people, and I was blessed to have you as my cousin.

Liz

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