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BERNARD SCHARFSTEIN Obituary

SCHARFSTEIN--Bernard,

passed away peacefully at home in the loving embrace of his family on October 4, 2018 at age 92. Bernie devoted his professional life to Jewish scholarship and education. In close collaboration with his late brother, Sol, he published Jewish scholarly books and educational material at KTAV Publishing House, which was founded by his parents, Asher and Fannie in the 1940s. He was recognized for his impact on Jewish scholarship and learning with an honorary doctorate from Yeshiva University in 1997. Born on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, Bernie attended Yeshiva College, where he starred on the basketball team, which in its day competed against leading college teams. He graduated from New York University and received a law degree from Brooklyn Law School. He was an avid reader of The New York Times, where many of his letters to the editor were published. He is survived by his wife, Barbara, to whom he was devoted for 59 years and their three sons, David (Sarah), Jonathan (Suzanne) and Daniel (Julie). He is also survived by nine loving grandchildren (Allison, Rebecca, Michelle, Benjamin, Julia, Kayla, Eliza, Ava and Nadia). It gave him great joy that all of his children and grandchildren were educated at Jewish day schools, where they learned from many KTAV books, and that they continue to have a deep appreciation for Judaism. Contributions may be made to the Fannie and Asher Gemilus Chessed Fund at Yeshiva University c/o Rabbi Dr. Herbert Dobrinsky, 500 W. 185th St., BH312, NY, NY 10033.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 7, 2018.

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Leslie Narvaez

November 28, 2018

Bernie will be missed very much so. Words cannot express my sadness. He lived a great life and was loved by all. It was a pleasure being able to be a part of his care for so many years.

Rabbi Yossy Goldman

October 14, 2018

I was so saddened to hear of Bernie's passing. I was very fond of him and had much respect for his opinion ever since I met him when he published my first book in 2012. When I sent him an email proposal he first rejected it out of hand. But when I asked him to read the samples he did and then changed his tune. When I visited the USA he invited me over to KTAV in New Jersey where we spent many hours in amimated conversation. I visited him in his Manhattan apartment as well. He was a great raconteur. I was deeply flattered when he told me that mine was the best Parsha book he had ever published. Coming from the doyen of Jewish publishing it was a compliment I will forever cherish. May his dear soul rest in peace and be a blessing for his family for generations to come.

Reuven Ziegler

October 14, 2018

Bernie was a truly fine person with whom I always enjoyed working. He had tremendous nachas from his children and grandchildren and a wonderful marriage. We stayed in touch after he retired and he never failed to mention how proud he was of his family. He also made tremendous contributions to the world of Jewish publishing. Truly a gentleman and a good friend, who lived a good life and leaves behind a wonderful legacy.

MILCH FAMILY

October 12, 2018

We will miss Bernie in more ways than he could ever have imagined. He was a fixture in our lives for more than four decades.

October 8, 2018

To his friends and family, my condolence. May our heavenly father bring great comfort and peace. Psalms 9:9

JR

October 8, 2018

To the family and friends of Bernard Scharfstein. It is very difficult to accept and cope with the death of someone you love. God will fulfill his promise to comfort you in this time of mourning. Matthew 5:4

Ron and Blossom Offenkrantz

October 6, 2018

He was a good friend and will sorely be missed

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