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FAY MATSUDA Obituary

MATSUDA--Fay Chew. Was born and raised on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, born on April 11, 1949 to first-generation immigrant parents, Chock Nom and Bick Koon Chin. In the 1960's, Fay was one of a few Asian- American women to attend New York City's Hunter College High School, where she developed a strong foundation and lifelong friendships. Fay's world was New York City's Chinatown and Lower East Side communities. She was an integral voice in the Asian American and Chinatown Community, dedicating her life to the communities she served. Upon receiving her Bachelor's degree from Barnard College and Master's degree in Social Work from NYU, she went on to work at the Hamilton-Madison House, a non-profit serving Asian American and LatinX communities in Lower Manhattan. While there, she worked with the community for thirteen years. She later became Executive Director for the New York Chinatown History Project, and was instrumental in its transformation to the Museum of Chinese in the Americas (MOCA). Following work with the Charles B. Wang Community Health Center, Brooklyn Children's Museum, and the Asian American Federation, she returned to MOCA in 1997 as Executive Director. In 2006, she served the Chinatown and Lower East Side community's senior population as Program Director of the City Hall Senior Center, a division of Hamilton-Madison House and where her professional career had begun 33 years earlier. She retired in 2016, and was honored by MOCA as a Community Hero. Fay was known for her unique blend of kindness, compassion, and leadership. Her selfless generosity was felt by many, and she will forever be a beloved family member, a trusted partner, a valued mentor, and a cherished friend to many. She is remembered lovingly by her husband of 40 years, Karl Matsuda; her daughter, Amy Matsuda; her grandson, Miles Alexander Chin; her sisters, Vivian Eng, May Chew Ortiz, and Rose Chew; and many cherished family members and friends far and wide.

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 2, 2020.

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Shirley Wong (Fong)

October 9, 2020

I remember, we met along with her sister, May Chew, when we were 10, going to Chinese school after regular elementary in True Light Church on Mulberry Street, Chinatown. It was a struggle for us because we both came from upper Manhattan & hurry up, hop on the M15 (2nd Ave bus) to be there by 4:30. At 6PM, school ended. I would walk with Fay & May to their Grandfather's restaurant (beginning of Mott St) to wait for their Mom. I would then go met my Mom at the garment factory. Fay only stayed 1 year in Chinese school but May & I would graduate 6 gr Chinese school at age of 15. Lol. What memories!!!! My condolences to May, Rose & Amy. I don't know why today I just decided to search in Internet about Fay 10/09/20 Shirley Fong Wong

Shirley Wong (Fong)

October 9, 2020

I remember, we met along with her sister, May Chew, when we were 10, going to Chinese school after regular elementary in True Light Church on Mulberry Street, Chinatown. It was a struggle for us because we both came from upper Manhattan & hurry up, hop on the M15 (2nd Ave bus) to be there by 4:30. At 6PM, school ended. I would walk with Fay & May to their Grandfather's restaurant (beginning of Mott St) to wait for their Mom. I would then go met my Mom at the garment factory. Fay only stayed 1 year in Chinese school but May & I would graduate 6 gr Chinese school at age of 15. Lol. What memories!!!! My condolences to May, Rose & Amy. I don't know why today I just decided to search in Internet about Fay 10/09/20 Shirley Fong Wong

Sandy Lee Kawano

August 16, 2020

Fay was sweet, smart and sensitive, and a true unsung hero in our community. We loved her for bringing out the best in people and we’ve had the opportunity to work with her at Hamilton Madison House, MOCA, AALDEF , the Chinatown Health Clinic, the Brooklyn Musuem and Asian American Federation. Her sprit will endure although she will be greatly missed. With admiration and gratitude for our long time friendship, our hearts go out to Karl, Amy, and all her family ,
Sandy Lee & Arn Kawano

Maris & Chuck

August 6, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you feel comforted by the memory of your beloved Fay.

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