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DEMARAY--John G. 84,

died October 24 at Lennox Hill Hospital of bilateral pneumonia. Writer, Renaissance scholar, professor Emeritus, Rutgers University, and gentle man, he was the intensely loved and wonderfully loving husband for 55 years to Hannah Disinger Demaray; and the best of sons to John and Marjorie Coyle Demaray of Somerville, NJ. After the Army, and Notre Dame Law School, he earned his Ph.D with honors at Columbia where he met Hannah. Years of adventure, reflection, and writing began--all leavened with humor and Jack's pleasure in magic. "Gladly would he learn and gladly teach"-- and so he did at universities in Cairo, Beirut, Damascus, Florence, Los Angeles, Kentucky, and New Jersey. His many books on Shaw, Milton, Dante and Shakespeare were about philosophy, pilgrimage, history, and literary genre. His life was about integrity, faith, and love. He retained, even in his final illness, anachronistic courtliness, geniality, and devotion. He is survived by his wife, several cousins, and many friends. Funeral November 7, 2:00pm, Church of the Ascension, 5th Ave. and 10th St.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 30, 2015.

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December 1, 2015

Dear Hannah,
Sincere condolences. I smile to remember our wonderful times at the Huntington, and our lovely evenings together. My very best wishes to you and the family. -- Arlene Stiebel

David Loewenstein

December 1, 2015

John was a very lovely man and a fine scholar-critic whose work lives on after him. My deepest sympathies.

November 18, 2015

Hannah. Please accept our sincere condolences. As long-time research visitors to the Huntington Library in San Marino, CA. you are both remembered with much affection. Chris Adde (Reader Services) on behalf of the Library.

November 11, 2015

Dear Hannah: Saddened to hear of Jack's passing. We lost a beauty. But what a life. And you were there.
Love, Norman stahl

Peter Baker

October 31, 2015

Dear Hannah,
I was sorry to read about John's passing. I hope his illness was not too long. May he rest in those green pastures beside the still waters of which Psalm 23 speaks. God bless you and other family members. Love,
Peter

Hilma Brown

October 30, 2015

May your memories give you peace and comfort.

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