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LESLIE LAIKEN Obituary

LAIKEN--Leslie M. Leslie M. Laiken, known to friends and family as "Les," passed away peacefully at his home in New York City on Wednesday, February 19th. Les was born on April 4th, 1935 in Brooklyn, NY, to Sylvia and Joesph Laiken, originally of Coney Island, NY, and later, Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Les served in the U.S. Army where he was stationed in Germany and rode in armored tanks as a part of his communications unit. He was honorably discharged after his service. His time in the Army, filled with both challenges and camaraderie, instilled in him the discipline and resilience that would later serve him well in both his professional and personal life. After earning his undergraduate degree in Banking and Finance from New York University, he went on to complete a master's degree in Actuarial Science at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. He began his distinguished career at Metropolitan Life Insurance Company before founding Laiken Associates, Inc. in 1963. As a leader and innovator in his field, Les quickly established himself as a trusted advisor, helping shape the future of retirement plan design and administration. Under his leadership, Laiken Associates grew into one of the most reputable consulting firms in the industry, serving national and international corporate clients. In 1985, Les joined forces with a big eight accounting firm and became the National Director of Employee Benefits, a position he held for five years before deciding to resume operations at Laiken Associates. Over the next three decades, he continued to be held in the highest esteem as an expert and thought leader, deeply respected by colleagues and clients alike. In addition to his professional accomplishments, Les enjoyed a variety of personal passions, including jazz music, art, travel, reading, photography, hiking, riding a motorcycle, and socializing with friends. It was often said that his curiosity and zest for life were evident in his brightly shining eyes. Les was married first to Micki Laiken, with whom he had two daughters. He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Elizabeth "Eloe" Laiken, his children Tiffany Laiken Oestreicher (David Oestreicher) of Colorado, Paige Peck (Philip Peck) of Massachusetts, grandchildren: Axel, Aidan, Bibi, Gabrielle and Benjamin, sister Jane Goldstein and her children Brandon and Rachel. Les cherished his time with his grandchildren, often playing ball, talking about the world, fishing and sharing a good meal. Les leaves behind a legacy of integrity, hard work, and an unmatched passion for his craft. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Donations to the National Holocaust Museum or Doctors Without Borders, his favorite charities are welcome.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 2, 2025.

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Randall Iovino

May 13, 2025

I'm sorry to hear of Les's passing. Les was a mentor of mine and provided me with good advice early in my career that I carry with me today. He was tough but fair and challenged the people that he worked with to deliver their best for clients.

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