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RAYMOND RASKIN Obituary

RASKIN--Dr. Raymond.

Dr. Raymond Adrian Raskin died at age 95 in New York City on April 8, 2017. A man of exceptional intellect, humor, and warmth, he had profound concern for others. He will be deeply missed and mourned. A psychiatrist and psychoanalyst in private practice in NYC who was devoted to his patients, he was admired by colleagues for his clinical excellence. A training and supervising analyst at the Columbia University Psychoanalytic Center, where he received his psychoanalytic training, Ray was also an attending psychiatrist at the Harlem Hospital Center where he taught and supervised candidates for almost forty years. Ray was particularly proud of his time when, as a young man, he served as a Lieutenant in the U.S. Naval Reserve; he traveled around the world on an oil tanker, serving as M.D. for eight destroyers. He often delighted in saying that he had thrown up in each of the world's oceans. Deeply committed to social justice, he spent many years as Chair of the Social Issues Committee of the American Psychoanalytic Association as an activist. He urged the Association to take a stand on controversial issues and championed the causes of women, minorities and homosexuals. Ray was also an artist. Enamored of the Southwest, particularly Santa Fe, where he and his family had a second home, he was inspired to create exquisite turquoise and silver jewelry; he also created small statues in gold and large ones in steel. Encouraged by galleries to give up psychiatry and become a full-time artist, he proclaimed that his dedication to his patients was paramount. His first wife and love, Judith Raskin, a renowned lyric soprano at the Metropolitan Opera, died young. His second wife, Arlene Saunders, also a celebrated opera singer survives him. Ray loved music and, as a former member of a barbershop quartet, he loved to sing. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his son, Dr. Jonathan M. Raskin, his daughter, Prof. Lisa A. Raskin, his daughter-in-law, Dr. Joanne Tejera, his son-in-law, Prof. David Sofield, his adored grandson and granddaughter Joshua and Julia Raskin, and his niece Michele Mahoney. We are greatly saddened by his passing, but know we are far better people for having experienced his love, wisdom, and generosity.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 11, 2017.

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Lisa Raskin

April 8, 2021

On Dad’s fourth Yahrzeit we remember him —as always.We are grateful for all he gave us and all of his warmth and generosity to his friends, family and patients. Love.

June 16, 2019

Happy Fathers Day , Dad 2019. We miss you.

Lisa and David

Brian Rutenberg

June 6, 2019

Dear Arlene,
I just learned of Ray's passing. Katie and I want to extend our belated condolences. He was a true gentleman, one whom I am grateful to have known. Our love to you and your family.

Lisa Raskin

April 8, 2019

Thinking of Dad today on his 2 -year Yahrzeit. We carry his spirit , his values, and his love with us everyday.

November 27, 2018

Tomorrow we are selling Dad and Mom's apartment in NYC. An end of an era for us. Such generous, loving and wonderful parents. We are grateful and we miss them both.

Lisa Raskin

April 6, 2018

Dads Yahrzeit is on Sunday. Its so hard to believe hes been gone a year. We think of him every day.

January 25, 2018

I was a colleague and friend to Judith, and Ray surprised me with a beautiful pair of gold earrings one night at dinner in their home. My heartfelt condolences. MOLLY STARK

Mary Bailey

August 30, 2017

I saw Dr. Raskin over the course of several years, starting in 2007. He was so helpful to me as I dealt with depression following a cancer treatment. I never felt so "seen" nor so profoundly understood in any therapy situation. I knew I was so fortunate to get to know him a bit in those late years of his career, and my life was changed and made better by the attention and care he gave to me. I know I stand among so many others from the many years of his distinguished practice, and I feel the honor he brought to all of us. I send my condolences to his family.

Larry Sandberg

April 17, 2017

Ray was a warm, genuine and down to earth psychoanalyst. I was fortunate to have him as a supervisor early on in my training also appreciated his wisdom and kindness.

April 13, 2017

We have loved and admired him for a very long time and will miss knowing he is around. We send all our love to our dearly loved friends.Cindy and Carl

Raymond Raskin

April 12, 2017

In 1948 my mother Gladys F. RASKIN, MD, pregnant with me at the time signed the roll of physicians immediately following Raymond A. Raskin, MD.

She obviously liked the name. I have had the pleasure of a few telephone conversations with Dr Raskin but unfortunately never met him.

Condolences to the family

Raymond A. Raskin, Esq.

Beth Haase

April 12, 2017

Oh, sad. Ray was one of the first psychoanalysts I ever met. On my very first birthday with Andy Meyers, his first wife sang happy birthday to every major opera tune. We celebrated so many holidays together chez casa meyers. He was a warm, elegant, fun loving, hard working and smart man. Much love to all of you and sympathy for your loss.

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