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Richard Halperin Obituary

HALPERIN--Richard. There was no truer, more faithful friend than Richard. We were blessed with his love and loyalty for 30 years. His qualities live on in his beloved Lucy, his strong sons, and all who cherished him. Bob Abrams and Jim Conroy

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Published by New York Times from Jun. 21 to Jun. 22, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Richard Halperin

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32 Entries

Robert Morie

January 1, 2025

Lucy, we met in Bermuda in July of 1984. We were both on our honeymoon. Richard had friends and or family in Scarsdale where I am from. I know Richard died many years ago but I just wanted to express my condolences to you and your family. Bob Morie

Richard always encouraged my photo hobby.

Ida Lebron

June 10, 2013

Has it been 5 years? I still choke when I think of Richard not being with us anymore. He was always such a giving, enthusiastic, loving human being and h e had a wonderful outlook on life along with his quirky sense of humor. I'm sure. He has all the angels in heaven in stitches.. Always celebrate his life.
FDA

Owen Mckoy

June 9, 2013

Mr halprin confirmed that we we not crazy bringing Gatorade onto the football field ...unreal loss so very very sad ...we talked a about his humble start.,,,he was easy to talk to r

David Gorberg

December 24, 2009

Dear Mrs. Halperin,
I was shocked to hear the belated news of the passing of Richard. I will always remember our early morning coffee meetings in Nevis, waiting to sign up for dinner reservations. My sincere condolences to you and your sons. David Gorberg

Robert Boyd

October 11, 2009

Dear Lucy:

I pray that you are well.

It has been almost 30 years since I have seen you and 21 years since I had seen Richard. I recently returned to the New York region after 21 years in Texas and 2 in DC. I Googled Richard this morning to see how to reach him and learned of his passing.

Thank you for this opportunity to belatedly share the view through my window of my brother Richard.

Richard and I served together on the staff of Bob Abrams during his first run for Attorney General of NY State. I told a funny story to a friend about Bob and Richard giving each other the business about law schools just yesterday.

Richard was smart, funny, focused and he loved him some Lucy! I helped him move back to Rye after law school and all he talked about was marrying you.

Richard was highly valued by everyone with whom he worked. He was a professional and he was good at what he did. It was his sense of humor that I remember best. He could give it as well as he could take it. His spirit was always pure and he was the most loyal person I have ever known.

The world is a little less pure with his passing. I am bolstered though knowing that he left the children behind. I know that you and Richard have prepared them well to make a great contribution to the world. They have broad shoulders on which to stand and they should stand strong.

I offer a prayer common to our faiths, for you Lucy and the children:

May the Lord bless you and keep you.
May the Lord make His face and His grace to shine upon you.
May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you.
And May the Lord grant you Peace!

Bless you all. You will always be in my prayers and Richard in my thoughts.

Robert Boyd

Thomas Weber

January 17, 2009

Dear Mrs. Halperin and Boys: I was shocked when I discovered so belatedly that Richard had passed away. Someone in an entry here recalled his walk - it is how I remember him and how it bespoke total optimism and there was indeed an aura about him that was positive and strong. I am so very sorry.

Harriet Winer- Ayola

July 13, 2008

Dear Lucy, I am moving to Manhattan and was just thinking about people I had known who may still be in the area. I was shocked that when I "googled" Rich''s name, I found the untimely notice of his death. You may not remember me, but Rich was an intern at John Hancock in Boston in the 70's while he was attending law school and worked with me on various projects. Every once in a while, I 've contacted him over the years to see how he was progressing. I had not been in contact with him for at least 15 years and am so sorry to learn that he is gone. I will always remember his great sense of humor, smile and the way he bounced as he walked as though he had conquered the world. He had such a terrific air of confidence and a zest for life. I knew he would succeed with whatever he set out to do. I a felt proud of him when I heard about his progress and hoped that in some small way I was able to teach him a about business and communications. I hope that you find comfort in knowing what a great and special person he was andthat my thoughts are with you at this time . If I can help you or your family in anyway, please feel free to contact me. With my best wishes, Harriet Winer (Ayola)

Jeff Henkelman

July 6, 2008

Dear Lucy,

I was so saddened to learn of the passing of Richard.

I will always remember Richard's warm personality, caring nature, wonderful sense of humor, and of course his forehand that we worked on each year. It was always a highlight to see Richard, and never have I met a nicer or more genuine guy.

Richard cared about his family more than anything else in the world. He was happiest spending time with his family and he told me that on more than one occasion. He was so proud of all the boys and he has left a wonderful legacy behind in these outstanding young men.

My deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

Linda and Peter Keil

July 1, 2008

Dear Marsha and Lucy
As friends of Marsha and Martin Epstein we got to know Rich over the past 30something years. The one thing that always impressed me was that inspite of all of wonderful things he had accomplished in his life, he always remained a sincere friendly, regular guy whose humanity was ever present. He was a real mensch. Our thoughts and and prayers are with you and your families. We are thankful to have known him as you are lucky to have had him as your brother and husband. Linda and Peter Keil

Ira Schulman

June 27, 2008

Dear Lucy-- Richie and I were bunkmates at Camp Oquago from 1963 through 1969. I saw him again in 1979 when we were both studying for the NY Bar Exam and one final time in the fall of 2001 when the entire bunk had a reunion in Westchester. News of his death came as a horrible shock to me. While we had little to do with each other in the years after summer camp, when a good friend of one's youth passes away, especially in his prime, it is jolting. I can tell from all that has been written here and elsewhere that Richie enjoyed a terrific life of which you were the focus. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Ira Schulman

June 27, 2008

Dear Lucy-- Richie and I were bunkmates at Camp Oquago from 1963 through 1969. I saw him again in 1979 when we were both studying for the NY Bar Exam and one final time in the fall of 2001 when the entire bunk had a reunion in Westchester. News of his death came as a horrible shock to me. While we had little to do with each other in the years after summer camp, when a good friend of one's youth passes away it is jolting. I can tell from all that has been written here and elsewhere that Richie enjoyed a terrific life of which you were the focus. Please accept my deepest condolences.

PAUL Feiner

June 27, 2008

Lucy: Please accept my sympathies on the passing of Richard. I have always been grateful to Richard for his advice, support, holiday cards & friendship. Richard was smart, loyal, caring. I will never forget him. My heart goes out to you during these difficult times. PAUL FEINER

Audrey Gordon Wilson

June 27, 2008

Lucy my condolences to you and the family. I don’t’ know if you remember me but I met you while I shared the office with Richard in the World Trade Center, when we worked in the Attorney General’s Office. I am still at the Attorney General’s Office, on Broadway this time. I never met Richard’s children but I am sure at least one have to be his duplicate. I have two daughters of my own also. There is very little to say of Richard as everyone has said it. Some of the comments that stick in my head is that he really loved you Lucy, he really didn’t let anyone forget their roots, I always remembered the grin and bouncy step, he delighted in the good fortune of others. Richard use to say to me when I come in with the shopping bags at lunchtime, Audrey stop shopping. He even introduced me to First Investors Corporation, which I joined for a while. Richard would never believe I still have a can of the Olive Oil he gave me until this day. I was younger then and didn’t know the benefit, but now I use Olive Oil and will use the can if it is still good after all these years. With a personality like Richard’s, one would never forget you. He was just a good character and I hope his body rest in peace.

Jeanette Andersen

June 26, 2008

Dear Lucy,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Richard's untimely passing.

Richard will always be remembered as one of my all time favorite people ever!

Richard was as brilliant as they come, and as his achievements and career progressed, as all great men do, he always kept a sense of humility, always had a sense of humor. His loyalty to me when I worked with him in NYC was unfailing, never taken for granted, very much appreciated.

He used to remind me that he came from the D.A.'s office and he knew how to ask questions! I used that line a lot with people that were going to meet him, it was so true.
He had a boyish charm that could throw you off guard if you didn't know better.

Richard had the highest standards and the strictest requirements, yet he made it almost fun to meet the goals, even under extreme pressure.

In the early 90's, he actually helped me sustain my busienss by giving me sage advice which I remember to this day, it was simply, "Jeanette, cut your overhead to the bone". He was right and we survived to this day. He didn't have to do that, and I never forgot it.

To me, Richard was a leader, he could inspire people and bring out the best in them. He made an strong impact wherever his presence was.

When the Halperin annual holiday cards would arrive, it was always a thrill to see how the family had grown. I've kept all the cards since the boys were born. I know he was always so proud of you Lucy, and his boys and felt so blessed for all his good fortune on all fronts, he took nothing for granted.
Richard was the epitome of integrity, his word was his bond, a rare trait in today's world. He could be trusted with anything, to do the right thing without compromise.

He taught me so much, I am grateful
and won't ever forget the lessons.

Lucy, words on paper cannot depart my sympathy for yours and the boys' loss, but you have each other and
your boys are, no doubt, a reflection of their father in many ways which will hopefully be a comfort to you.

Richard, sorry this is so long, but it's the only way I have of saying goodbye to you, you shall be missed.

Rest in peace.

Jamie Hoffman

June 26, 2008

I received a phone call last night from a high school friend, who gave me the sad news about Richard's untimely death. Although I have not seen Richie for probably 25 years (!) the memory of him literally bouncing down the high school halls of Harrison High is the first thing I think of while remembering him, followed by his huge smile and his great hair!! He was the nicest guy and all around great friend. I had the priveledge of calling him "friend" and graduating High School with him, and then going on to Boston University where we lived in "The Zoo" together as freshman. He was a wonderful and happy person and he radiated that to everyone he came in contact with. Again, I have not seen Richard in years, but just thinking about him now makes me smile. I remember him fondly. Reading about all he's done through these many years is not at all surprising and I know his family is rightly so proud of all he's accomplished. My deepest sympathies to his wife and children and to his entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of tremendous loss.

Malva Dixon-Payton

June 26, 2008

Dear Lucy & family,

I have very fond memories of Richard when I worked at Revlon for Sol Levine. Richard was always kind, compassionate & much fun to be around.

My deepest, heartfelt condolences to you & your family at this time.

Carolyn Schwartz

June 26, 2008

My family moved to the neighborhood a few years ago. Although we do not know the Halperins, their reputation as wonderful, thoughtful and generous people is known throughout the community.Each year on Halloween, Lucy and Richard have hired an ice cream truck to sit in their driveway and give out free ice cream to trick or treaters. What could be a more ingenious, generous, open hearted thing to do?

Everyone I have spoken to talks of Richard Halperin as a unique and special person. I only wish I had the pleasure to know him. I think I used to see him while I was bicycling, and he would wave, while whizzing past me on his bicycle.

Carolyn Schwartz Rye, NY

ARLENE EPSTEIN

June 25, 2008

PEACE TO RICHARD'S FAMILY AND PRIDE FOREVER IN HIS ACCCOMPLISHMENTS....WITH FONDEST THOUGHTS ARLENE AND MARTIN EPSTEIN

Jeff Rosner

June 25, 2008

Lucy, I was shocked to read about Richie, I am so, so sorry for your loss. From the moment I met him at BU's CBS I knew he was special. The spring in his step and that great spirit, he seemed destined for great things. It was so classic for him to be president of our class, he was such a great character. He always knew how to get things done and take care of us. We were all so young, but he figured stuff out early. One of those things was to find a girl like you and never let go. It's great to have that memory of the both of you falling in love.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

wendy greenberg

June 24, 2008

Last night I opened an email from a high school friend asking me if this was our Richard who had passed away. I knew immediately that it was, just on the DOB. listed as he and I always joked about his birthday being on Pearl Harbor Day and my birthday was the same as his dog Bambi's if I recall the name correctly. We were good friends and neighbors on Pleasant Ridge Rd. Reading the comments, I smiled to think that he still had that bounce in his step and I recaptured memories of him walking down the hall at Harrison High with that huge smile. He was the original teddy bear. Although we lost touch after college,I saw him at our 20th reunion. Now as I read the messages I realize with all his success, he never changed his ways of relating to others. That is the true measure of success. My condolences to his wife, and his family and friends.
Wendy Greenberg(Liberman)
Los Angeles, California

Colleen Quinn

June 24, 2008

Dear Lucy and family,
My name is Colleen Quinn, and I worked with Richard at MacAndrews and Forbes. We shared politics in common, and he was great about keeping in touch. When both of our sons got into Harvard, he always thought of me with emails and updates from the press. I am so shocked to hear of his passing. Please know our love and prayers are with all of you.

Robert Abrams

June 24, 2008

It was with a heavy heart that I delivered the following eulogy for my good friend, Richard Halperin, who worked closely at my side in the Attorney General's office and whose friendship, loyalty and trust I was privileged for have for more than 3 decades.

Robert Abrams Eulogy for Richard Halperin

If I had to select the one human quality or attribute that I felt was the most important or valued that a person could posses – it would be LOYALTY. Richard Halperin was the most loyal person I ever met.
If you were lucky enough to be his friend, you had the greatest ally in the world. There was nothing he would not do to be of help to you. There are probably many in this room who considered Richard to be their closet friend. How can one man be a best friend to so many people? Because he was a giant of a man in terms of his warmth, compassion and giving.
If you were in need, Richard would muster every possible resource and relationship to be of assistance. He would go through the proverbial “brick wall” for you. I can’t count how many times I saw that in our relationship. You would tell him what you need, he’d say one word “Done”.
I saw it up close, first hand. Richard and I worked together for six years – in my campaign for Attorney General and then as my Administrative Assistant in the Attorney General’s Office. He traveled with me everywhere I went. He planned my trips, gave me sage advise, laughed with me a thousand times a day about what was happening around us, he bolstered me when I need a boost of confidence, he was at the strategy meetings, the press conferences, the T.V. debates with opponents. He was so caring and committed that he was like a member of the family. In fact, when he came with me, my wife and daughter, Rachel, to Israel and Cairo some years ago, people thought he was my son.
He was hard working, reliable, honest, trustworthy and a person possessed with boundless energy. Filled with humility he always chose to stay in the background.
After his work in the Attorney General’s Office, Richard went on to a brilliant and successful career in business and finance.
He was unbelievably giving and filled with love. He would demonstrate it in substantive ways and symbolically. When you meet people you shake their hand. I often talk of John Sexton, the former Dean of NYU Law School and now President of the University. When he meets someone he knows he doesn’t shake that person’s hand he gives him a hug. Whenever I’d see Richard, he would kiss me and when we would part he’d kiss me again.
You could place your life in his trust. You knew he would never let you down. Just a couple of weeks ago, my wife and I decided that when we are gone, Richard should be our Trustee to administer our assets for our children. I called Richard and asked if he would do that for us and he said “Done”. Richard I asked “do you know what’s involved?” Sure, he replied I am a named trustee for dozens of people. His response didn’t surprise me – those who knew Richard had the same idea – there’s no one in the world we would have more trust in then Richard.
He was the best problem solver I ever encountered. You had a problem – Richard found a solution and he would not sleep until it was effectuated.
Richard established proper priorities in his life. Number one was his family. He loved and admired Lucy. Indeed he worshiped her. They met in their first year at B.U. They grew together personally and professionally. Richard was a tower of support in every facet of her life.
He was so proud of his boys. Each with his own individual personality and strengths, brought him so much pleasure and pride -- . their accomplishments in school, their special projects and activities, their achievements in sports, their love and appreciation for each other.
So many times I said to Richard, you have justifiable cause to be proud. You and Lucy have done such a magnificent job in raising those boys. Every time I am in their presence I marvel at the respect they show to their parents and to everyone else. They are exceedingly well grounded and mature beyond their years. And now we know, that strength and maturity is going to be called upon in the difficult period ahead.
Of course, Richard’s sister, Marsha, was also so close and important to him.
Jim Conroy and I were going to have dinner with Richard next Monday night. That won’t happen. But the memory of Richard and all that he was about and all that he gave to the world will be forever indelibly etched in my mind and heart.
I was privileged to be Richard Halperin’s friend.

marcia feder schultz

June 23, 2008

Dear Lucy and Family,
I've known Richie since we were little kids growing up in Harrison. He was always so kind and sweet to everyone. I'll always remember that walk and smile! However considerable his professional success, he never let on. He will be greatly missed by all..
Marcia Feder Schultz

Ida Lebron

June 22, 2008

I am so deeply saddened to learn of Richard's untimely passing. I worked with him a long time ago with the Attorney General Robert Abrams. He was a unique, one of a kind, individual who loved life was honest, loyal and kind. It was a delight just to watch him bounce all over the place as he planned his day. I learned much from him. My deepest condolences to his family.

Marc Stern

June 22, 2008

I am deeply saddened by the news of Richard's passing. When I was a teenager in 1978, Richard took me under his wing during a political campaign. He taught me many outstanding life lessons about people, preparation, follow-through, and resiliency. Who can ever forget the spring in Richard's step? Richard, you will be missed.

Joanne Smoler Sterling

June 22, 2008

Want To ad to my previous message:
Richie's untimely passing is a great loss to everyone who had the privledge of knowing him. My deepest sympathies go out to Lucy,
her sons and Marcia.

Joanne Smoler Sterling

June 22, 2008

Dear Lucy and Marcia,
I'm Joanne Smoler Sterling. Richie and I grew up together. Our parents were good friends, and I remember Richie plowing out our driveway after a snowstorm, while working for Red Caruso, at the gas station. I went to college in Washington, and ended up staying in D.C. Many years ago, I was on a N.Y. to D.C. shuttle with Richie. Sitting on the plane, but not talking to each other were Barbara Walters and Nancy Dickerson. I could not understand why they were not speaking to each other. It was explained to me the other day while reading, "Audition". As the four of us stood on the curb outside the airport, Richie and I yaking away, a limo pulled up. The two women stepped forward, but the car was for Richie.

Cathy Di Somma

June 22, 2008

Lucy and Sally, I did not know Richard well, but Sally talks about him all the time. I do know that you are 2 amazing women with an amazing family and group of friends by your side. You are in my thoughts every minute. Cathy Di Somma.

Ricki Geiger

June 21, 2008

Dear Lucy, I'm Ricki Geiger, daughter of Lola, who knew Richy in high school. I was one year ahead of him but remember him playing the drums in band. I played the flute. He walked with a wonderful upbeat step, and was a really nice guy. Of course, since our parents were very good friends, I saw Richy at other times too. I am very sad to hear the news, and hope the knowledge of his loving and generous presence in this life provides you and your sons with comfort.

roger gladstone

June 21, 2008

I was deeply sadened to hear of Richard's untimely passing. His thoughtfulness and genuine concern in others was special. The loss we feel is a measure of the impact he made on our lives.

Edward hatch

June 21, 2008

Richard, know that your 8th grasde boys were always well behaved and welcomed guests at my son Kevin ?Hatch's house. they were a pleasure to have over you would be very proud of them.

lee fleischman

June 21, 2008

Dear Lucy,
Richard touched so many people in so many ways.He was a trusted friend and confidant. Please know we are there for you and the boys.Our deepest regrets and love to you all in this time of unspeakable loss.
Lee and Beth Fleischman

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