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Derek Stanley Obituary
Derek L. Stanley, 20, passed away Sept. 6, 2004.
He was born on Jan. 22, 1984, in Barberton, Ohio, to Gary and Amy Stanley. He was pres ently residing in Kent, where he was a junior ma joring in business administration at Kent State University. He worked at Rohrer Corp. during the summer, and loved to play basketball.
Preceded in death by grandfather, Paul W. Stanley, he is survived by parents, Gary and Amy Stanley, who lovingly called him their "golden boy"; grand mother, Theresa Stanley; grandparents, Norbert and Har ryette Suppan; aunts, Ellin (Bob) McCoy, Nancy (Kevin) McComas, Mary (Jim) Gnap, and Rosalie Suppan; uncle, Jo seph Suppan; and numerous first and second cousins.
Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, Sept. 10, 2004, at St. Andrew the Apostle Catholic Church, 4022 Johnson Rd., Norton, Father James Maloney, celebrant, and Deacon Robin Adair officiating. Procession will form at the church. Calling hours are Thurs day from 6 to 9 p.m. at Cox Funeral Home, 7984 Ridge Rd. (state Route 94, one mile north of I-76), Wadsworth. Contribu tions in Derek's memory may be made to the charity of your choice. (COX, Wadsworth, 330- 335-3311.)
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Memories and Condolences
for Derek Stanley
Stout
March 10, 2023
Amy and Gary, I am so sorry to hear about Derek. I can't apologize enough for not only not being there for you but I just found out and am heartbroken for you all. Even though it's been awhile all of you have been on our mind and in our heart. 440-541-4964 Tammy
Beth Lucas
September 22, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stanley,
One of the best memories of Derek I have is Anna's Birthday party when they were about 6. I remember there was many little children gathered around the kitchen table with big chef hats on helping bake Anna's cake. And there was Derek,the only boy at the party standing next to Anna with a huge grin on his face. He is what made Anna's day so special,they were the best of friends. Please know that our family is thinking of you. God sometimes puts more on our plate than we think we can handle, but you are stronger than you know. If you need anything please give us a call, we are all here for you.
JOAN OSTERLUND
September 19, 2004
Dear Gary,Amy and Theresa;Thoughts and prayers are sent your way from Canada.Such a terrible tragedy and such a huge loss.Try and reflect on the good memories.Derek was a lucky young man to have such good parents and grandparents,your support of him was admired by all.My mother Mabel Munro sends her love to Theresa.They spent many happy hours together in Gowganda and she knows how much love she and Paul had for Derek.With time and healing we hope to see you again in Canada's north.It's a restorative place and we're sure it has more happy memories than sad.Love and sympathy to all of you.John and Joan Osterlund,Mabel Munro.
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Anna Lucas
September 19, 2004
Dear Amy and Gary,I have known Derek since I started school, and the memories will always stay in my heart forever. Derek will be deeply missed, but always remembered as the great guy that he was,your family is in my everyday thoughts and prayers.
DAVE FODOR
September 17, 2004
Dear Gary,Amy,and Theresa.Just got back from Gowganda.As I said when we got the the news,I'm still speechless about the news of Derek.My heart goes out to all of you in these troubled times.Derek will be remembered by all that knew him.I'm sure he's in good hands with Paul,and I'm sure you two are in good hands with family and friends.Sherry and I send our deepest sympathy and if there is anything we can do for you we're only a phone call away.We love you guys,stay strong.Dave and Sherry.
Susan Slagle Trenta
September 14, 2004
Dear Amy and Gary, a friend who still lives in the Akron area forwarded the obituary of your son to me this past weekend. I cannot begin to fathom the depths of your sorrow. My heart aches for you. I am sure Derek was a fine young man, and that you were very proud of him. My deepest sympathy to you and your families. Suzy
Wayne and Dana Durling
September 12, 2004
Dear Amy and Gary, My heart go's out to the both of you. We will be thinking of you at this time of pain and sorrow.
A Mother
September 11, 2004
To The Stanley Family.
When I read the obituary of your son - as a mother, my heart broke. I experienced the loss of a brother who was 22 years of age in a tragic car accident, I was a senior in High School. That was nearly 26 years ago and not a day goes by that I do not think of Michael. I remember his funeral mass vividly. Even as a 17 year old I knew that he was in a better place. I knew that God would continue to use him in Heaven - as St Therese said" To do good on Earth" Yet the pain was at sometimes unbearable. It was my strong catholic faith that God used to sustain me and my family through this time. The cards, flowers, food, love and support of family and friends. Also the knowledge that, by the grace of our Baptism, we will one day be together again in the presence of our Lord. Know that your are in the prayers of many many people. We have cried for you, prayed for you and asked Derek to watch over you as he savors the unfathomable love, peace, joy and mercey of our Risen Lord.
...Until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Chris and Jesse Forget
September 11, 2004
Amy and Gary, I realize there are no words that could possibly ease your pain right now. I trust you will allow yourselves to lean on family and friends who I know are there for you and want to help you through this difficult time. I believe the healing process begins through the sharing of wonderful memories of Derek. I hadn't seen him for several years, however, my memory is of a very energetic and polite young man that any parent would be proud of. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bonnie Durling
September 10, 2004
Gary and Amy - no words can express our sympathy for your great loss. Nothing exceeds the pain a parent experiences with the tragedy of the passing of their beloved child. We wish to extend our greatest feelings for you and yours in this time of need. God bless Bonnie Durling and Brent Wray
Paul and Gert Trudel
September 10, 2004
Amy and Gary, Paul and I send our deepest sympathy to you both .
There isn't anything that I can write that will take away one bit of the pain you are experiencing now. Just know we are thinking of you.
Brittany Kelker
September 10, 2004
Derek will forever be remembered in the hearts of all who knew him as the fun-loving, happy person that he was. We must all smile in remembering that thought. My sympathy and prayers to the family. God does everything for a reason, and Derek's death is already changing the lives of so many of his peers. Rest in Peace, Derek.
Ruby Waltz
September 10, 2004
Gary&Amy
I am so sorry.God Bless you both.
Ruby,
Tricia Serfass
September 10, 2004
Derek will always remain in my thoughts and prayers. He was a great guy and will live on through our hearts.
Dane, Mary & Bryan Jorgensen
September 9, 2004
At this time there are no words we can offer to help lessen your loss of Derek. Our thoughts are with your family.
Jackie Rohrer
September 9, 2004
Dear Gary and Amy,
I am still stunned over the news about Derek. I cannot even comprehend the pain you are feeling right now, but I hope that you are finding strength in all of those who cared about Derek as they gather to support you. He clearly was loved by many people. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Marie & Ted Gilchrist
September 9, 2004
Dear Gary, Amy and Mrs Stanley,
Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Marie & Ted Gilchrist
Kyle Bennett
September 9, 2004
Derek was my best friend since we were in grade school. He will live on through my thoughts and in my heart. As I have expressed this week my thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Until we meet again R.I.P. Derek Stanley.
Cathy Wood Buck
September 9, 2004
Dear Amy & Gary,
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God gives you comfort in this time of incredible loss.
Cathy Wood Buck
Ryan Dye(son of Pamela Dye)
September 9, 2004
I couldn't believe it when my mother informed me of Derek. It truly made me sit back and take into consideration the choices I make and how they will effect my life and the people around me. This also reminded me to never take advantage of life. I'm only 20 and there is so much more I need to do before I leave. Derek was one of the good guys.
Johnny and Bonnie Trajkowicz
September 9, 2004
Dear Gary, Amy and Theresa
We are so sorry to hear about Derek. It is just unbelieveable to hear of his passing. Just a month ago he was here laughing and joking with us. We will aways remember him as a handsome young man who had a huge heart. He was a very special person and will be sadly missed by all. Just know, we are all thinking of you and we express our deepest sympathy. Lean on your family and friends for support.
Shelley (Noirot) Maag
September 9, 2004
Dear Suppan and Stanley Families:
I pray that you find comfort in the awesome memories you all have of Derek. I pray that you find the strength to endure your loss. Hold on to the memories. We will pray for your entire family. I am just now reminded of the Footprints Prayer. Love, Chris, Shelley (Noirot) Maag and Family
Erica Cernoia
September 9, 2004
I met Derek at KSU and right away knew he was a wonderful person. All of my thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jody Ruther
September 9, 2004
Gary and Amy...You know how much I love you both. Suppan means strength is in our blood. I hope you find the strength and love of our family to continue on. Derek would want that. You raised a wonderful person and he will be forever in our memories, prayers and our hearts. Jody & Donny Ruther and Family
Kacie Jo Penrose
September 9, 2004
To all of those who had even the slightest encounter with Derek, I share with you the deep sadness of losing such a wonderful, free-spirited and fun friend, but at the same time celebrate his life and all the good times I shared with him & I will hold onto those memories forever. To Derek's parents and family, I pray for you to somehow find comfort during this tragic event and continue to trust in the Lord, becuase he will guide you...
Jason Forget
September 9, 2004
Gary and Amy,
I am so sorry to hear about Derek. I can't begin to imagine the amount of pain the both of you are feeling during this time of sorrow. I would like to express my deepest and most heart felt sympathies to both of you.
George & Joy Hunyadi
September 8, 2004
Dear Gary and Amy,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. We were stunned when we were notified of Derek's sudden and tragic departure. May our loving Saviour wrap His arms around your hearts to comfort and sustain you through this extremely difficult time.
You all are in our prayers.
We love you,
Adam Copley
September 8, 2004
My deepest sorrow goes out to the entire Stanley family. Derek was truely a great person and friend. I will miss Derek and everything we used to do together. He was truely a all around great person. As for Mr. and Mrs. Stanley I want you to know that nothing I will say will help the pain go away but I want to let you know that both of you and Derek are in my prayers forever.
paul and judy gnap
September 8, 2004
To the parents and family, our prayers and sympathies are with you.
Nancy Decker
September 8, 2004
Dear Gary, Amy, Theresa.
I cannot imagine your pain at losing Derek, but I can feel it from here. I offer words by Buffy Ste. Marie for comfort:
Where are you going, my little one, little one?
Where are you going, my baby, my own?
Turn around and you're two,
Turn around and you're four.
Turn around and you're a young man
Going out the door.
Turn around, turn around, turn around and you're a young man,
Going out the door.
*****
Carrie and Karli Cartmel
September 8, 2004
Gary,Amy,and the Suppan family: We just wanted to let eveyone know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Derek will never be forgotten.
Margie Stocker
September 8, 2004
So sorry to hear of Derek's death.
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
cathy few
September 8, 2004
So sorry to hear about your loss, our prayers are with you and Scotts family. Cathy
Carlie Betts
September 8, 2004
To the family and friends of Derek.
First to the family, I am so sorry about your loss. Nothing anyone can say will be able to make you feel better. I hope and pray that each day that goes by it will get a little easier. The road you are about to travel is not an easy road, but look to God and He will guide you.
To Derek's Friends. If you need a shoulder to cry on you can call me. I know what it's like to lose a friend. My best friends was killed in a car accident two years ago. I will be here to support each and everyone of you if you need me. Don't hesitate to contact me. Life is to short.
I didn't know Derek as well now as I did when we were in elementary school. I can remember a lot of good times.
God Bless each and everyone of you. He is watching you in your time of sadness.
Kristin Moser
September 8, 2004
To a beautiful person and a beautiful soul.You will be greatly missed, but your smile will live on in the hearts of the ones you have touched. Your spirit will forever live on. My heart goes out to Derek's family. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue Soppi (Bakita)
September 8, 2004
Dear Amy & Gary, I am so sorry to hear about your son Derek, I can't imagine the saddness & loss you are feeling. My heart goes out to you both. Take Care of each other.
Brett Haverlick
September 8, 2004
Dear Gary & Amy-
Words are so hard to find. Our strong memories of Derek are from his younger years. Although we go in different directions in life with our families and responsibilities, that does not change a friendship that has spanned many years.We have always loved you all like family. Please know that we are praying for all of you and if you ever need an open ear or a shoulder to cry on,we are here.
We love you
Deepest Sympathy
Brett & Jan, Brittany, Brandon, Luke Haverlick
Pauline (PR) Reynolds
September 8, 2004
Dear Gary and Amy, please accept my deepest sympathies and condolences. We just talked last week about Derek and my daughter, both students at KSU when you called CLE AFSS. Derek was in his first apartment and my daughter in her first dorm. I hope that you and Amy will find comfort in knowing that your many friends and co-workers, past and present have you in their prayers.
Lauren Marschall
September 8, 2004
My deepest sympathies to the family of Derek. My prayers are with you all. I met Derek in our 1st year at Kent State and saw him occasionally after that. In those few times I knew Derek was an incredible person. May God watch over you all as he is watching over Derek now. God bless.
pamela dye
September 8, 2004
i am so sorry to have heard about derek ,i know there are no words to ease your pain,i just want you to know iam thinking of you and wish there was something i could do or say.
pam
Paul & Nan Trenta Family
September 8, 2004
Our deepest sympathies. Please accept our thoughts and prayers for strength and understanding in this time of such great loss.
Vicki and Larry Rendall
September 8, 2004
Gary and Amy...for the 1st time in my life, I'm truly speechless. Larry and I were talking Monday about how we would try and feed our guests early so we could spend a couple of hours with you that night...was it just Sunday that we were playing volleyball???
Please know that we are thinking of you, and although we can't be there in body, we are there in spirit. We will wait to call at a later date, but if you ever feel like talking, you know where we are - any time, okay?
Sending all our love your way.
xoxo
Jim & Shirley Probst
September 8, 2004
Our heart and prayers are with you in this time.
May God bless you, and comfort you.
Jim & shirley
Donna Ocepek
September 8, 2004
Dear Amy and Gary, There are no words to which we can say how sorry we were to hear about Derek's passing. When we told Rachel, Tony, and Jacob about it, they recalled all the times out at "The Land" and the fun they had around the fire with everyone. May you can strength during this time, knowing that our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Tom and Donna Ocepek
justin gregory
September 8, 2004
I am sending my deepest sympathies in this time of need for your great loss. Derek will always be be in my thoughts and prayers. Along with the mending of broken hearts within your family. I will remember all of the good times we had growing up from kindergarden to our graduation day. Derek will never be forgotten till the day i meet up with him again.
Harold Jordan
September 8, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Jon and Laurie Halliwell
September 8, 2004
May you and your family accept our deepest sympathies in the loss of your son. There are no words that we can say to ease your sorrow at this most difficult time. Please take comfort in knowing that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
John and Laurie Halliwell
September 8, 2004
May you and your family accept our deepest sympathies in the loss of your son. There are no words that we can say to ease your sorrow at this most difficult time. Please take comfort in knowing that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
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