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Evan Bender Obituary
Evan M. Bender, 80, of West field Center, Ohio, died July 19, 2003, in Akron.
Born in Bath, Ohio, he was a Medina County resident for 22 years. He was a member of South High Poker Club, Bath Hilton Head Social Club, Westfield Senior Hackers, and B-Team Group. He retired from B.F. Goodrich after 36 years as a mechanical engineer. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army, serving during World War II.
He is survived by wife of 34 years, Lily Bender of Westfield Cen ter; son and daughter-in-law, Ron (Jenise) Bender of Bath; daughters and son-in-law, Yvonne (Scott) Slaybaugh of Hartville and Patty Alleman of Wadsworth; stepdaugh ter, Susan (Allan) Kiekka of Char lotte, N.C.; stepson, Bruce (Nancy) Boyd of Davis, Calif.; grandchildren, David, Michael Evan, Jeff Bender, Shannon and Cory Slaybaugh, Jan zen Alleman; sister, Esther McCul lough of Montrose; stepgrandchildren, Lisa, Denise, and Allyson Body, and Tim Richardson. He was preceded in death by his parents, Mary and Milton Bender, and sis ter, Holly (Ruth) Richardson.
Funeral services at 3 p.m. Thursday, July 24, 2003, at LeRoy Unit ed Methodist Church in Westfield Center, Ohio, with Rev. Larry Black officiating. Interment will be private. A celebration of his life will be held from 4 to 6:30 p.m. at the center on South LeRoy Road. Arrangements are being handled by Armstrong-Waite Funeral Home (330- 769-3427) in Seville, Ohio. The family suggests memorial contribu tions may be made to Westfield Center Fire and Rescue Squad.
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Marlene Hall-Wyzynski
August 7, 2003
I was so sorry to learn of Evan's passing. I was only 20 years old when I came to the company and I called Evan "Mr. Bender." He was always very nice to me and I remember him attending my wedding reception almost 24 years ago. My friend, Geneva, who worked for him always spoke very highly of him also. I see my cousin, Gary Fisher, also posted on this board and knew him well. It was easy to become a friend of Evan. He had a big smile and heart. The last time I saw him was about 12 years ago at the store. We'll miss you, Evan!
Cousins Jean,Mary, Gladys,Betty
August 7, 2003
Our Hearts and Prayers are with you and your Family.
Ruth Ann Struglinski
July 27, 2003
Dear Lily,
Len and I have been thinking of you and remembering you and your family in our prayers. We pray that God will give you strength and courage during this sad time. Please accept our deep sympathy and we hope that the happy times you shared with Evan will help ease the pain.
Bob and Mary Jones
July 23, 2003
Dear Lily- We were quite surprised to hear of Evan's passing on. We said "hello" just a few weeks ago at Westfield. When I first met him at Bath Church I thought he was such a handsome man and had that precious genteel quality that some men have. The two of you complimented each other so beautifully. My the Lord be your strength and comfort and may He fill the void. Love in Christ, Mary
Darla Bender Winnefeld Joan Bender Benfield
July 23, 2003
We are very sorry to read of the death of our cousin. Evan's father, Milt was one of five brothers and four sisters. Evan's grandsons are the only boys to carry on that Bender name. We hope that they know of their importance to the Bender name.
Jackie Hane (DeWitt)
July 23, 2003
My prayers are with the whole family. Your dad was like a second father to me, growing up with Yonnie in Copley. There are very found memories.
Gary & Debbie Fisher
July 22, 2003
I will always have fond memories of the OHIO STATE BUCKEYE trips/parties with Evan, Lily, Ron and Jenise. Evan always made people feel good about themselves. Thank you for the pleasent memories. Gary
Millie & Tony Apicella
July 22, 2003
We will really miss you Evan. Always a joy to be around even in pressure situations. Will never forget and will miss our B Team outings with the Colonel. Maybe when I join you I can finally become a member of the B Team.
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