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Robert Neil "Poppy" "Bob" Utley

Robert Neil "Poppy" "Bob" Utley obituary

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Robert Utley Obituary

July 6, 1954 - Dec 18, 2011 EDMOND Robert Neil "Bob" "Poppy" Utley was born July 6, 1954 in McAlester, Oklahoma, and went home to be with the Lord December 18, 2011 at the age of 57. He is survived by his wife, Debbie Smith Utley; daughter, Karyn Johnson and husband Damon; granddaughters, Lily Alana and Addy Irene. He is also survived by his parents, Leo and Hazel Utley; brothers, George Henderson and wife Lori, and Jim Utley and wife Sandy; along with many family members and beloved friends.He was an encouragement to everyone he knew. He worked as a school teacher, counselor and minister of the Church of Christ for many years, specializing in youth and music ministry. For over 20 years, he worked with the Dept. of Visual Services of Oklahoma as a certified rehab counselor and currently served as a project coordinator.Family visitation and viewing will be Tuesday, December 20th, 5-7 p.m., at Matthews Funeral Home, 601 S. Kelly, Edmond, OK. A private family burial will be Wednesday morning, and a Celebration of Life Service honoring him will be at 1 p.m., Wednesday, December 21st, at Memorial Road church of Christ.In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Memorial Road Celebrate Recovery Ministry.

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Published by Oklahoman on Dec. 20, 2011.

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James Anderson

April 27, 2018

I did not have the pleasure to meet Bob in this life, but I know his work, and I know what he left here. I know a lot of people who he quietly kept an eye on, quietly encouraged, and quietly made a profound impact on their Christian lives marriages and the bringing up of their children. Even though he's not with us anymore and I never met him personally makes we want to be a better Christian man.

Tia Stafford Dugan

December 22, 2011

Bob was a member of my church when I was a child. I always remember how he and Debbie would share the communion cup each Sunday and as they did it, he would look at her with such love in his eyes. I knew I always wanted a husband to look at me that way.

Lisa (Carter) Gibson

December 21, 2011

Mr Utley was my High School Chorus and Oklahoma History teacher while at Fox. I loved playing the piano for him. I have thought of him often during the past years. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Teresa McDermott

December 21, 2011

Bob was in my life for the past 20 years and helped my husband and I through rough times in the early years. He truly was a good man, an inspiration to all of us. Much love to Debbie, Karyn and the rest of the family.

Smitty Lorey

December 20, 2011

Debbie, Karyn and Family. I will truely miss Bob and our yearly calls to each other. Lots of Love and Prayers to all!
Smitty & Susan Lorey

Ross Willingham

December 20, 2011

Debbie/Karyn/Family... We are deeply saddened by Bob's passing. He had a profound influence on many people of all ages. He will be missed. My prayer for you: The LORD bless you
and keep you; the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace.” (Numbers 6:24-26)

Ross & Candace Willingham

Jim Kettler

December 20, 2011

I met Bob through one of my dearest friends. Bob and his wife stood faithfully by my friend during a really difficult time. To know Bob was to love him. I'll miss his wit and wisdom very much.

Maxine Barnes

December 20, 2011

Debbie & family,
We are so saddened to learn of Bob's death! Our love and prayers are with you all at this time.
In Christ,
Maxine & Manlif Barnes

Becky Wiersig

December 20, 2011

Bob and I use to work together developing employment opportunities and accommodations for the Blind. He was blessed with so many talents. We had many conversations between “us girls” as he used to call it. What a great man who truly made a difference in so many lives. He will be missed dearly and will always have a place in my heart. I look forward to being greeted in Heaven by Bob because I know he is there serving the LORD with a gentle heart.

Rodney Avant

December 20, 2011

I went to college with Bob; sang in Chorale and Chorvettes with him. He was a great guy. The world will miss him. We sometimes played pinocle till early in the morning, even made road trips to museums in Tulsa from Durant. May God welcome him with open arms. Rodney Avant

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