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Wilbur Lewis Obituary

Wilbur C. Lewis, M.D. died Friday, December 3, 2004, at Mercy Hospital in Oklahoma City. He was born September 10, 1930, in Okmulgee, Oklahoma, to Charles D. and Eula Cole Lewis, now deceased. An Eagle Scout, a photographer, a deacon, and an ordained minister, he was a graduate of Okmulgee High School, Oklahoma Baptist University, and the Oklahoma University School of Medicine. He interned at Harris Hospital in Fort Worth, Texas, and had surgical residencies at the Dallas V.A Hospital and the OU Health Sciences Center. Following his Dallas surgical residency, he spent two years in the Air Force as a Captain in the Medical Corps. From 1959-1970, he served as a medical missionary in the Baptist Hospital of Asuncion, Paraguay. After his return from Paraguay, he established a private surgical practice in Midwest City, 1970-1982, and in Oklahoma City, 1982-1993. During those years, he was on the staff and courtesy staff of metropolitan hospitals. Following his return from Paraguay, he and six other professionals established the Baptist Medical-Dental Fellowship (BM-DF), an organization of Christian physicians and dentists dedicated to carrying health care in international settings. That group has proliferated and ministers to thousands throughout the world. He was also a member of the Christian Medical & Dental Society, an interdenominational group with a similar mission as the BM-DF. Dr. Lewis was also involved with other organizations which offered, medical education to practioners in third world countries, and he traveled widely providing educational assistance. In October, 1993, he was knighted by the Knights of Malta for his activities of benevolence. Lewis married his wife, Gladys Sherman, January 28, 1955, at Exchange Avenue Baptist Church in Oklahoma City. They are the parents of Karen Lewis Kruger, David Lewis, Leanne Lewis Newman, and Cristen Lewis DeGraffenreid. Spouses of the children are Howard Kruger, Sadako Lewis, Carey Newman, and Mark DeGraffenreid. The Lewis grandchildren are Jason Lewis, Lisa Honn, Olivia Honn, Savannah Newman, Eliza Newman, Sam Kruger, Jake Kruger, Ezra Kruger, Erica DeGraffenreid, and Patti DeGraffenreid. Other family survivors include Charles and Maida Lewis, Frank and Beverly Lewis, Rose Livingston, Minnie Sherman, Connie Burroughs, and nine nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be held at First Baptist Church, Oklahoma, City, Tuesday, December 7, 2004, at 11 am., with burial at Arlington Memorial Gardens in Midwest City. Visitation will be offered at the home, 2220 N.E. 131st Street, Edmond, Oklahoma, from 3-5 p.m., Monday afternoon, December 6. Visitors should use the driveway on the west side of the house and enter by the furthest south door on the west side of the house. The family requests that, instead of flowers, donations be sent to one of the two following scholarship funds: 'Lewis University Scholarship for Paraguayan Baptist Medical/Nursing Students Fund,' addressed to Donald West, Director of Endowments, International Mission Board, P.O. Box 6767, Richmond, VA 23230-0767; or 'The Scholarship Fund.' Baptist Medical-Dental Fellowship, 920 Madison Avenue, Suite 825, Memphis, TN 38103.

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Published by Oklahoman on Dec. 6, 2004.

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Donna Nigh Jones

December 13, 2004

Gladys,

I have known you a short time, but it seems we have been friends forever in our hearts. I know how much you loved Wilbur and what an interesting life the two of you shared.



I look forward to a long lifetime friendship!

Love,

Donna Nigh Jones

Henry Maxey

December 11, 2004

Our deepest regret and assurance of our prayers for your family. We were deeply blessed by both of your lives and so much more the way Wilbur continued to glorify God even in his suffering.



God bless,



Henry and Helen Maxey

Martha Owen

December 10, 2004

December 10, 2004

Gladys, I don't know if you remember me or not. I was a nursing student at OBU when you were the school nurse. You really encouraged me to be a nurse and I have had a most rewarding career.

I did not know Wilbur. He was older

than me, but I remember hearing about him as I was from Weleetka and we were in the same association.

(My maiden name was Rasberry) I had heard about his accident, and my heart grieved for you. I will keep you in my prayers. Martha

Burton H Patterson

December 9, 2004

Dearest Gladys:



I am sorry other Foundation obligations prevented me from driving up for funeral. Although I knew Wilbur only through you and one brief visit in your home he seemed bigger than life in his acceptance of providence and his capacity to make good use of the time God gave him. You would have been married 49 years this coming month. One author expressed fleeting time:



“Full hours and multiple experiences, ticking in a fast march, one behind the other, have a way of vacuuming time and space, ballooning them out, making the capacity for even short distances and small segments seem larger than reality.”



Initially your time with Wilbur was full and fast and later short distances seemed larger than reality. I know the loss must be terrific and the void in hour life horrendous. It is comforting to remember that for the Christian, death is swallowed up by life. [II Corinthians 5:4]



We’ll talk soon.



Burton & Ginger Patterson

Liddy Kilpatrick

December 7, 2004

Gladys,

I did not hear of Dr. Lewis'death until today. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know he will be greatly missed. I have such fond memories of my years as his office nurse. He was a wonderful teacher. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Liddy Kilpatrick

Minnie Pack

December 6, 2004

When I first heard about Wilbur's passing, I remembered when we put up yellow bows to welcome him back from Colorado. I wondered if angels had put up yellow bows in heaven and were just now taking them down to welcome him home. God bless Wilbur. God bless his family.

Bob Dillsaver

December 6, 2004

Wilbur was a dear friend during our high school days in Okmulgee. You could tell even then that he was destined to be a great man. It was a privilege to have known him.

Everett and Jane Cole

December 6, 2004

Gladys, we are both saddened to hear of the departure of this Warrior of courage. You know, all of the family has always had a keen interest in his health and welfare. We know what a struggle it was to survive this long under these very adverse conditions. But now he rests in peace with his Heavenly Father. Our prayers are with you and the rest of the family. We are sorry we cannot attend the services and be with the family.

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