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Thy Vu-Oliver Obituary
Thy is survived by her loving husband Benjamin Donaldson Oliver, her precious sons, Colyn Patrick Oliver, 8, and Masyn James Oliver, 1, her father, Bau Ngoc Vu, her mother, Hong Thi Le Duong, her sister, Hang Trang Vu, her brother, John Viet Vu, her brother, Andy Binh Vu, her mother and father-in-law and many special brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.
Funeral services for Thy Vu-Oliver were held Saturday, Dec. 8 at St. Therese Catholic Church in Mooresville, N.C.
We would like to express our thanks to the incredible staff at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital and the SECU Family House in Winston-Salem, N.C. We also want to thank the amazing company, Dave & Busters. Your caring support and thoughtfulness for Thy and the entire family was tremendous.
Thank you to everyone for the overwhelming support and prayers you have and continue to give the family.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations to the Vu-Oliver Family Fund, which was set up to assist with the children's needs and education. Donations can be addressed to: Vu-Oliver Family Fund, P.O. Box 43, Vernon, N.Y. 13476. Again, thank you so much for all of your thoughts and prayers.
Condolences may be made to the family at www.cavin-cook.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thy Vu-Oliver
Masyn James Oliver
September 14, 2022
my mother was the greatest mom a kid like me could have for a short time she gave it her all and did perfect best mom
Jessica Moore
January 7, 2013
I just found out about Thy's passing away this evening. She was a light that could be felt by an entire room. One of the kindest people I've ever met. My heart hurts for the family. Deepest condolences and prayers for comfort and healing.
Stephanie Schell
December 17, 2012
Mr. Oliver, I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your daughter-in-law.
Kristen Quackenbush
December 16, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The Kinne's
December 12, 2012
We are deeply sorry for your loss. You and your sons are in our prayers.
Stacy Woodward
December 12, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
Gretchen Helmer
December 12, 2012
Ben, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My heart goes out to you all.
~Gretchen Helmer
Sue Sykes
December 11, 2012
Ben and Family -
May God Bless and comfort you. Peace be with you. Prayers going our for you and your family.
Geri Wagner
December 11, 2012
Deepest sympathy to the Vu and Oliver families.
Todd & Kirsten Enquist
December 11, 2012
Ben, your family and Thy's family are in our prayers during this difficult time. May God bless you.
December 11, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. From the Oneida Company Store , Sherrill, NY
Jill Dixon (Andrews)
December 10, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss.
Tim Lukacz
December 10, 2012
Our sincerest condolences go out to you and your family. Our hearts and prayers go out to you all.
Angie Kipp Hough
December 10, 2012
Thoughts, prayers and strength to you and your precious family as you go through this most difficult time! GOD BLESS...
Deb & Clyde Woodward
December 10, 2012
Our continued thoughts and prayers are with youu and your family, Ben.
Rolando & Jocelyn
December 10, 2012
We are sad that your families have lost you. We were humbled to pay respects to you in person and wish we could have known you a little better. Keep a good eye on your husband and those precious boys. Sending more love to both sides of your family.
December 10, 2012
Benji & Family - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts & prayers will always be with you. Jeannie Hoehn
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