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Joseph Bettes Obituary
Joseph, and Stella; life partner Dennis McCormack; two sisters
Eleen Slater, and Elizabeth Fox and one brother John Bettes. A memorial service will be held 11 am Saturday March 5th at the Altamonte Chapel. 825 East Altamonte Dr. Altamonte Springs FL . In lieu of flowers donations may be made to either Hope and Help, Vitas Hospice, or American Cancer Foundation.
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Carolyn J Bowen
February 25, 2025
Feburary 25,2025
Hello Joe
Wow I can't believe another year has gone by. Time is going by so fast now.
I think about you often and remember all the good times we had and the good food to. All that home cooked food. I really miss it. It was so goo
Dennis and the kids are doing great. You would be so proud of them. You have a beautiful family.
Joe I know you are having a great time in Heaven with all the family. Talk to you again. Rest in Peace.
Love Carolyn
Alana Washington (Nicky)
January 4, 2025
To the Bette´s family.. My deepest condolences.. I was just thinking of Julie, Joe, Dennis and all the great/fun times we had .. as Joe and Dennis neighbors..so I googled and saw this..I am forever grateful to had been blessed with babysitting their kids .. Julie was the bestest of friends.. Between her and Joe I could never stop laughing.. What an incredible family.. Dennis please tell the kids .. I miss them and will keep all of you in my prayers.. Rest-in peace -Joe
-Nicky
Carolyn J Bowen
February 25, 2024
Just wanted to let you know you are on my mind. It's been a long time now but it's funny how fast it goes by. I hope you and Ronald are having a great time together.
I think about you often and miss you so much. Dennis and the kids are doing great. You have a really big family now. You would be so proud of them.
Joe one day we will meet again in Heaven. Until then take care and I love you and miss you. RIP
Carolyn Bowen
Mel
February 26, 2023
I miss you buddy and so does everyone else. I often think about the days riding in the jeep , top off and coon hunting . Miss you and will never forget you my BFF!
Carolyn J Bowen
February 25, 2023
Well Joe it has been 12 years since you went to Heaven. I think about you all the time. I know you are at peace and no more pain.
You would be so proud of your family and Dennis. I know he misses you and loves you so much. You and Dennis was perfect together. There will never be another you for him.
Joe I will never forget all the memories and good times we had together. Thank you for everything! I always enjoyed coming down there to see you and Dennis.
So much has changed in this old world now. Thank God you are in Heaven and safe.
It's almost 2 am here now but you was on my mind and I had to write to you.
I miss and love you ! We will see each other again one day. Until then RIP.
Love
Carolyn
D. BRUCE FINES
February 24, 2023
I think of you often and the mischief we would often get into (trouble). Your smile would always light up the room. You are truly missed by so many. Until we meet again, fly with the Angels my dear friend,
Jerry Thompson
February 23, 2023
I met Joe (and Dennis) many years ago while visiting Orlando. Joe as a great man & will always cherish the fond memories of him and his happy smile. Rest well my friend.
Sharon Towner-Creighton
February 23, 2023
After all these years I still think of you and our antics in high school. You were a great friend back then and I am so sorry we lost contact. I will always remember you as you were...as we were...forever young. <3
Carolyn J Bowen
February 26, 2022
Hello Joe. Another year has gone by. You are in my thoughts always. You was such a good person. You and Dennis was perfect together. I am so glad you and Dennis was together and shared a life together. I know he misses and loves you forever. And I know for him there will never be another. Dennis and the kids and grand kids are doing great. I know they miss you too. You should be so proud of them. I am glad Dennis is a part of their life too. He loves them and they love him too. I wish you was still here. Oh what a beautiful life you all would have. I sure do miss all the good times we had together. I will never forget them and all that great cooking. I am proud to have been your sister-in-law. Rest in peace Joe and we will meet again in Heaven one day.
Love you always,
Carolyn
Erick Kiggen
February 28, 2020
A toast to you dear man!!
Mel Gaines
February 28, 2020
Missing you buddy, always in my heart and never forgotten. Toast to you my friend!!
Ron Johnson
February 27, 2020
I miss you Joey!!
Ann
March 1, 2016
I miss you dad, it's been so long yet it feels like yesterday you left us! Mom just passed away this month too, I hope you guys are together having the time of your life, no more pain for either of you. I love you with all of my heart and more!
Woody Wilson
October 5, 2014
Joe, I've thought of you and Dennis so often through the years, and I'm heartbroken to know that you're no longer with us here on Earth. I know, though, wherever you are, you are surrounded by happy, smiling faces. Our nights tending bar together are my best memories of the PH, and I'm so very thankful that I got to spend that much time with you. I love the picture of you posted on this page--that sunny smile and the mischief in your eyes. I'm sorry that I didn't get the chance to say goodbye, but if I'm lucky, it would have been only a temporary goodbye anyway. I haven't been able to track down Dennis, but I'll keep trying. Dennis, if you read this, know that you're in my heart too. Joe, my friend, I'll always love you.
April 19, 2014
Just was laying in bed thinking of you and aunt Julie. I loved when I googled your name this came up! Makes me think you are listening. Miss you uncle joe.
Love Matt
October 25, 2013
i miss you dad!
Carolyn Bowen
February 25, 2013
Joe you have been on my mind all day. I can't beleive it's been 2 years now. Time has a way of flying by.
I will remember and cherish all the memories we had together. You was an excellant cook. And we had so many good times together.
I know Dennis is still lost without you. You and him were the perfect pair. And he still loves you and misses you with each passing day. I'm glad he is in the kids life as I know they are too. You left them in the best hands.
Joe I miss you and love you too. You're in my thoughts all the time. You RIP. Love you...
carolyn bowen
February 25, 2013
Julie Deel
December 27, 2012
Joe,
I wrote to you on Christmas Day. I don't know why it did not post.
Anyway, Son, I just wanted to wish you another "Merry Christmas" and "Happy New Year" in Heaven.
Love and Miss you so much. You're still my "Favorite Little Yankee" and always will be.
Love Always,
Aunt Julie
Carolyn Bowen
December 26, 2012
Dec 25,2012
Merry Christmas "Joe".
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and miss you very much. You would be so proud of your beautiful family. Tell everyone I love them and miss them too.
Love,
Carolyn
carl jones
September 9, 2012
Still thinking about you both.God bless you always.
February 29, 2012
Miss ya Joe B. Love ya! Rick Smeaton
February 28, 2012
February 26, 2012
Joe, Its been a year and I still can't get used to the idea you're not around. Everyday there are things I want to tell you about from work that would make you laugh.I always loved that I could tell you a story that would send us into giggles. Almost everyday someone mentions you to me. Or asks about Dennis and the kids. I miss you everyday my friend. Everyday. Love VICKI
Carolyn Bowen
February 25, 2012
Well Joe it's been a year since you went to Heaven. We sure do miss you and love you so much. I know this is a very hard time for Dennis and your kids. And your grandchildren are beautiful. Joe you know I pray to you and for your family to be safe every night. I thought the world of you. I know Dennis is so lost without you. Just know you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. RIP Love you, Carolyn
Ann Bettes
February 25, 2012
hey dad its a year today and it still hasnt gotten any easier. I miss your voice and your face so much. Im buying you tulips today and stellas been kissing your picture all morning. we love you so much
Julie Deel
December 26, 2011
Hey, My "Little Yankee,"
Just wanted to stop by and wish you a Merry Christmas in Heaven and tell you we love and miss you. It's not the same without you.
Dennis is still so broken. Making it one day @ a time. So are the children. They are well though.
We know that truly you are better off now not having to suffer but it doesn't make it any easier for us not being able to see you.
We know you're in God's hands and we do have the chance of reuniting with you in Heaven when God's ready.
Gonna go for now. Always be happy as usual. Love you. Miss you.
Your Aunt,
Julie
Carolyn Bowen
December 25, 2011
Dec 25, 2011
"Merry Christmas in Heaven, Joe"
Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you today. And miss you so much. I know Dennis is feeling so alone. And the kids are too.
We sure do miss you and wish you were here with us. I know you are happy up there in Heaven.
Love,
Carolyn
Kyle Tardy
October 14, 2011
Dennis, i've just heard of Joe's passing from a friend. I'm quite saddened and tearful. You and the kids will always be in my thoughts and i will always be gratefull to have met and worked with/for you all at friends. Please give everyone a hug and kiss for me.
ann bettes
June 19, 2011
happy fathers day dad, i wish you were here with us! i love you so much and think about you every day. its going to be a hard day without you
Cheryl Stella Livingstone
April 6, 2011
It was so shocking and sad to find Joey’s obituary. He has popped into my mind so many times over the years and I have tried to find him without luck. Joey was a good friend of my brother John and I when we were small children. We lived a few houses from each other and played almost daily. I have so many fond memories of Joey. He and I at the barn with the horses, playing tag, riding bikes, but most of all I remember his infectious laugh and quick wit.
From the comments, it warms my heart to see he was surrounded with the love of his children and partner. If Joey turned out to be half the person in adulthood as he was as a child then what a wonderful man he must have been.
My heart goes out to his family. May your love and memories get you through this terrible time.
John Stella
April 5, 2011
Joey and I first met in kindergarden through 4th grade. We lived a few houses apart. We were known as the "North Main Street Boys", running around with our P.F.Flyers. We had so much fun, playing ball in the Bettes family front yard. You were a great friend, one I have never forgotten. Only wish we could have been in touch over the years. I am sure that you are in a better place. God bless you and all of your family. Our prayer's go out to you. Always remembered, John Stella, from New Brunswick, Canada
annie bettes
March 25, 2011
its a month today dad and i miss you more and more. im so sad that you arent here. its terrible to be in a world without you. you are loved by so many!!
Carl Jones
March 19, 2011
What a sad loss. Dennis, my heart goes out to you and your family at this time. Joe was one of the kindest people and I was fortunate enough to have him as my boss in the early 90's in Orlando. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I know that Joe will leave a huge void but I hope some of your many happy memories will help you through the days ahead. God Bless you,
Carl.
March 13, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Danielle Mondesir
March 12, 2011
Dad there are days that I still cant put words together to describe the pain I feel without you. You were the most incredible man I have ever known and a father like no other. Ive come to believe that you may have always known you would leave us early so you left us in the care of Dennis. Even in death you can't help but take care of your children. Just know we will take care of him too. I love you and I still don't think its fair and I miss you so much it hurts, I cant breath, talk or even move. I love you.
Barbara Cohen
March 9, 2011
my heartfelt sympathies go out to joe and his family and friends. This is a shock reading this, Rest in peace my friend and God bless you and your family. You will be in my prayers
Carol Butler Tardivo
March 9, 2011
My heart felt sympathies are with Joe and his family at this very sad time. From Sharon to Deltona memories are strong, Rest in peace Joe. From our family to yours all our love and prayers. The Butler Family Sharon/Deltona
Marijean Kuhn
March 8, 2011
Dennis, children, all. Joe was a very special person to me and anyone who was in his life. We dated in and after high school a bit, but we were always friends. I visited him and Julie in Florida, and then our lives were busy and we didn't see each other again. I will always regret that. I have wanted to talk to him for years and have missed him in my life. He was so great to talk to, just hang with. Always up for a good time, always a smile. He loved to laugh, and he was great to everyone he met. An amazing man and I know how lucky I was to spend time with him and the whole neighborhood group. We had some amazing times. I am so sorry to hear that he has left us. My sympathy and prayers to all.
Ellen Singer-Russell
March 8, 2011
My heart and prayers go to the Bettes family and Joe's partner....Knew Joe since growing up in Sharon and was saddened and shocked to hear of his passing..May you all find some comfort in knowing he is at peace and has all the love for you all still in his heart!!! Let your memories wrap you like a warm blanket!
Janet Phillips
March 8, 2011
I am so sad to hear about Joe's passing. We were classmates at Sharon High. I have fond memories of Joe and have thought about him often over the years. Every time I look at my yearbook I see the picture of Joe and I walking down the hall together. My sympathy and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Janet Wasserman Phillips
March 8, 2011
Dennis and Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Joe. Joe and I were friends in High School and he was a Great guy!!We worked together at Whitney's rest. We had a blast. He was a riot....he was also warm, kind and very caring. May your memories bring you comfort and His smile always be in your heart.
Maggie(Molloy)Patino
Steve Rochefort
March 8, 2011
Sorry to hear this. I have found memories of what a good friend and nice person Joe was growing up. He made a lasting impression on all his childhood friends in Sharon, Massachusetts
Ellen (Murray) Jelly
March 8, 2011
I have thought of you over the years Joe. Wonderful fond memories of our school years together since 3rd grade. You were the sweetest guy who was always so nice to everyone. My heart goes out to your children, grandchildren, Dennis and everyone else who loved you dearly. Rest in Peace.
sharon towner
March 8, 2011
I am so saddened and shocked to hear about Joe. He was one of my brst friends in high school and we even went to a prom together. So much of my high school memories and growing up in Sharon are with times shared with Joe. A lot of us have looked for him for years to recoonnect for reunions etc., and I wish we had tried harder now. Joe was a great guy, always smiling, and always so much fun. I would appreciate any information I can get about him. Rest in Peace Joe...you've touched a lot of us and will be in our hearts forever.
Jerry Thompson
March 7, 2011
Dennis - My thoughts and prayers are with you at this incredible time of sorry. I always remember coming to Orlando and seeing you at the Full Moon and seeing Joe's smiling face. It was very obvious you two were very happy and belonged together. You two were the perfect couple. I remember many years ago when the two of you made your way to St. Louis for a visit. I know you'll miss Joe terribly, but know you have wonderful friends that care deeply about you. My sympathy to you and all of Joe's family and friends. Take good care of yourself, my friend.
Joe's service
March 7, 2011
Joe grillin
March 7, 2011
March 7, 2011
ann bettes
March 6, 2011
dad your service was so beautiful i know you would be proud. Im so sad that your not with us anymore. Im so thankful for what you have done for joey danielle and i. I hope i can be half the parent that you were. Thankyou for the best 24 years of memories. I love you with all of my heart and more
loving the kitchen
March 6, 2011
Susan and Joe
March 6, 2011
Joe and Eileen
March 6, 2011
Great Memories
March 6, 2011
Brother and Sisters
March 6, 2011
Rick Smeaton
March 6, 2011
Dear Joe B.:Not only great memories as my manager at the PH but also a fun-great friend. I will deeply miss you! To Dennis:With sincere sympathy to you!
Daisy Labriola
March 5, 2011
Dennis, my love and thoughts are with you, sorry I couldn't make it today but you were on my mind. I know you will miss him more everyday in the coming months, remember, you will see him again one day. Take care, I love you!!
Ron Johnson
March 5, 2011
Rest in Peace buddy I miss you tons Ron J
Erin Clayton
March 5, 2011
Dear Kelley and the kids-I will keep you in my prayers as always-I truly love you all.Be at rest Joe.Love Erin
Carolyn Bowen
March 5, 2011
Joe I'm so sorry I couldn't be there today, but you are in my heart and thoughts. I will miss you so much. Thank you for everything you did for me and Ron, espically the cook outs. Now you are there with Ron. I know you two are having a good time. Take care of each other and I'll see you again one day.
Love,
Carolyn
Joe and Dennis @ their home. We had such a good time with you guys. Love you both.
Julie Deel
March 5, 2011
Joe and Dennis in Virginia @ Carolyn's home.
Julie Deel
March 5, 2011
Julie Deel
March 5, 2011
Joe, as we say, "goodbye for a little while this morning", just know that we All love and miss you so much. You were a Trooper battling the cancer.
I know Dennis is devastated. I so wish that Carolyn and I could be there in person with him, the family and you but he certainly under stands. But know that we are there in spirit.
God Bless you Dennis as you loose yet another loved one. And family, God Bless you also.
Joe, say "hello" to All our family and loved ones. It seems as though there's about as many in Heaven as here on earth these days but that's a good thing because we know we'll see all of you again.
Dennis, son, I love you. Remember my motto today and everyday, "If God Brings You to It, He will Lead You Through It." This is what gets me through everyday of my life.
Joe, until later, God Bless you and R.I.P. is my prayer.
Proud to Call Myself...Your Aunt Too,
Julie
Rene' Rozen
March 5, 2011
Dennis and the Bettes Family,
May God watch over you all. I know Joe is watching over all of you now, too. I'm sure Joe is in Heaven making everyone smile and laugh as he always did here. There will never be another guy like Joe. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Rene'
Chris Burdekin
March 4, 2011
Joe sorry to hear of your passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Dennis and your children
Joe Strizack
March 4, 2011
Dennis and Family, Thank You for sharing Joe with all of us. Friends was always the perfect name for you and Dennis. We all will miss you for a long time, we will never forget you. So Long Buddy, until we meet again. With all my Love, Joe Strizack
Russ Johannsen
March 4, 2011
Joe my heart is full of sorrow for those of us left to live without you in person. I am happy for your soul which is now pain free and able to move on. Dennis I am so sorry and love you very much. Please know as you move into the next phase of your loss I am available for you anytime day or night
Dennis McCormack
March 3, 2011
Joe, words cannot express how much I miss you. Your touch, your wink, and your smile. We spent the best years of our life together. We always said we were soulmates, and we still are. You will forever live on in my heart along with all my love. Until we meet again, with all my love, Dennis.
March 3, 2011
We loved always coming to "Friends" and seeing Joe and Dennis. Joe was always poking his smiling face through the kitchen door and checking out the room. We will greatly miss him. Our harts go out to Dennis, and Joes entire family. With Sympathy, Robert Parman, Brice Schroedel
Jeanne Kinney
March 3, 2011
We send our sympathy to the Bettes clan as we remember with love and gratitude our hospitable and fun-loving next door neighbors. May God be good to Joe and Julie!
Al Greene
March 3, 2011
Joe,
What a wonderful Spirit which showed always through your presence and I am thankful for you shining your light upon me. Dennis, thank you for loving him so very much. I am available anytime & any day for you. Both of You are so very Special to me. Always..
al greene
Greg
March 3, 2011
In Our Hearts
Author Unknown
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And the days before that, too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories,
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in His Keeping.
We have you in our Heart.
joseph bettes IV
March 2, 2011
Will never forget your kindness and your sense of humor...love u always
Rhonda Barnhart-Lovely
March 2, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Gail Barnhart
March 2, 2011
In honor of an old "lost" friend. I know you will be missed terribly. RIP - Pain free! My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Jeff & Rai Horn-Liauw
March 2, 2011
Our condolences to Dennis, Danielle, Annie, and Family. You and Joe always treated everyone like family so accordingly in Joe's passing it's as if we all lost a beloved family member. Our community is a better place for Joe's presence in it. May Joe's light shine on in each of us.
Love, Rai Liauw & Jeff Horn
Mel Gaines
March 2, 2011
To my friend Joe, I will always and will never forget you. You will be dearly missed. Love you always.
Danielle Mondesir
March 2, 2011
Dad I feel incredibly blessed to have had you as a father. I will miss you everyday for the rest of my life.
Bruce Fines
March 2, 2011
Joe, you will be in my heart and prayers forever. You are a Great Man,father,Partner, and a Great friend. God bless you Dennis and your family. My love goes out to you all. Bruce
March 2, 2011
Joe will live in our hearts forever.
God Bless All of you.
Our thoughts will be with each of you now and always.
~D & S
Erick Kiggen
March 2, 2011
Dennis, I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Clifford Cassidy
March 2, 2011
I love you Uncle Joe,You've always been there for me, you were the greatest man ive ever known in my life. I love you..... Clifford Cassidy
Carolyn Bowen
March 1, 2011
Dennis I am so sorry to hear about Joe. He was such a loving and caring person and will be greatly missed. We all had some good times together when we came down on vacation. God bless you and help you through this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Love your sister,
Carolyn
March 1, 2011
Joe, Thank-you for your blessing and for trusting Tim and I with your nephew. I will always do my best to honor you and Julie in Jack's upbringing. I will miss you. I love you.
Barb
Calvin Mays
March 1, 2011
Dennis & Family,
The world has lost a very special person. I know how much he was loved & how much he loved his partner & family.
He will always be there in our memories.
Danielle
March 1, 2011
I couldn't have had a better upbringing without Joe and Dennis in my life. I am so grateful to have had the honor of knowing him. I loved him like my own father and I will miss him. Dennis, Danielle, Annie and Joey are all in my prayers. I love you!
Ann Bettes
March 1, 2011
My dad was the best man I know. Words cant describe how much you will be missed. I will talk about you to Stella every single day. I love you with all of my heart
Ann Bettes
March 1, 2011
My dad was the best man I know. Words can't describe how much we will miss you. I will talk about you to Stella every single day of my life. I love you so much
Tammy Cassidy
March 1, 2011
Joe was the best man and father that I have ever met in my life. He will always be loved and missed.
Julie Deel
March 1, 2011
Joe, we're gonna miss you so much. We know Dennis is gonna miss you too. Our thoughts and prayers are with him as he looses another loved one with this terrible disease (cancer.) God Bless You. May you R.I.P.
March 1, 2011
Joe, I will always love you. We will be there for Dennis and the kids. Rest easy, my friend. Love, Vicki
Micki Jacobson
March 1, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bill Franklin
March 1, 2011
Dennis: Sorry to hear about Joe. He was a good human being and will is missed.
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