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Jim Ingersoll
November 5, 2020
Ray, I miss our talks. No matter how much time passed between phone calls and conversations. It was like we had just spoken a few days before.
Miss you very much my friend!
Love The Ingersoll Family
April 6, 2015
I just saw a notice on an old insurance policy that Ray had passed and we are so sorry. Our whole family loved him. Joyce and dean cook
Andrew (Andy) Maske
March 3, 2013
Not having talked to Ray since HS, I was for some reason moved to do an online search for him. That shows how much of an impact he had on people - I really didn't know him that well. Imagine my surprise to find that he passed away, more than three years ago already! While I was saddened to learn that he has left this earth, I was encouraged to read the comments of so many people who were touched by him in the course of his life.
I remember an incident on a jr. high basketball bus trip in which Ray's friend S. Moran told a joke. Ray replied, "Ha Ha, Moran." He then led the whole bus in singing "Ha Ha Ha, Ha Ha Moran" to the tune of the Beach Boys' "Barbara Ann". Typical Ray Cone humor, even as a 9th grader! I wish all comfort on Ray's friends and loved ones until we all meet him again.
Tom Gamache
August 7, 2012
I knew Ray for just one year at Jefferson High. I was a transfer student for my senior year and I do recall seeing Ray in the hallways or sitting on the benches, and he always seemed to have a smile on his face. Though we were not close friends, it was quite apparent that he loved life and loved the warmth of the friends around him. I pray for his family's peace and continued strength in the Lord.
Tom G.
Bonnie Starsky
October 23, 2010
Dearest beloved Trish,
I am dedicating my book on lighting the Menorah to you and your beloved family. Sweetheart King/Sovereign Yah Veh Sabaoth (the Lord of Hosts) is sending His Seven Burning Spirits before His throne through the Lamb of Elohim (God) to you! The Lamb of Elohim is releasing His seven horns of power, and His seven eyes of revelation knowledge with understanding to you, and your precious children. You are God's beloved daughter, your heavenly Father (Abba) is blessing you, and giving you His strength and comfort, and He (the Lord of hosts/armies) is keeping your family in His righteousness. Let us exalt his holy name together, and give Yah Veh all glory and honor! His holy presence is upon all who love and adore Him! Sweetheart I look forward to hearing from you.
With all of my love,
[email protected]
XXXXXXXOOOOOOXXXXXXXXX
old friend
October 19, 2010
on the anniversary of your death, my prayers continue for your family..the children of Honduras wil not forget their works of service. I enjoyed the fellowship with Ray every week at the Band of Brothers. Men of Orangewood please continue to open your hearts to fellowship and sharing your hearts.
Nanci Alderson-Cooley
August 2, 2010
Trish, I just found out about Ray through Liz Swanson...oh my dear I am so sorry. I didn't know you guys had moved and had no idea of this happening. Please let me know how you are and what I can possible do or bne praying for you at this time. Please contact me at [email protected]. My love to you and the kids, Nanci Alderson-Cooley (970) 618-2551
Abdoulaye Saine
April 7, 2010
Dear Marty,
This is Abdoulaye Saine, the African student who attended Jefferson High for one year and graduated in 1975 with you. Every so often, you come to mind, and today I decide to Google your name- I had done so before several years ago, and found out you were at CU. I remember you fondly along with a few of our classmates (Michelle ?), (Terri,?) Lisa Mango, Tiscano (?). I also remember fondly Mr. Moore, one of our teachers, Mr. Dohrty (sp. ?), the gentleman who taught psychology, Mr. Jensen (History) and Mr. Larry Longwell, who was my counselor.
Today’s search indicated that you brother, Ray, had passed. I do not recall meeting Ray but suspect our paths may have crossed at JH. I am sorry for his untimely passing and wanted to express to you and your family my heartfelt condolence.
After graduating JH, I went to DU and received a Ph.D. there in 1989, following a short stay in Canda, and have been teaching college since.
All the best my old friend,
Abdoulaye
N.B.
If this is not the “crazy” (laugh) Marty Cone, I once knew and attended high school with at Thomas Jefferson High, Edgewater, Colorado, please forgive me.
March 3, 2010
Why today, after nearly three months, I choose to sit down to write my own entry to a book I have read and reread with my eyes welled up in tears? I guess I too want to contribute to saying how very, very much Ray is missed. Not an entire hour in these three months have I stopped thinking about him. Somedays I cry at every memory, and I am not even ashamed to publicly display this, since I cannot even withhold this deep pain from anyone, my children, even my students. It's unbelievable to lose someone so close and not even know it was coming; I try to imagine I will wake up soon and it will all be normal again. But, instead, I wake up and a huge void fills my heart and the presence of our home. Each of our children suffer daily too, because they miss their dear, beloved Daddy. It hurts. We do hold and cling to the HOPE of Christ, "whosoevereth believeth in Him shall not perish, but shall have ETERNAL LIFE." This is all I could say on his headstone. But, as we cling, the waters of life pound so heavily, that we are overwhelmed and crushed again and again by the thoughts of such a wonderful, loving, and giving man. Ray was so very special to me, to us, to you. The evidence is not only by the outpouring of these notes filled with beautiful words of encouragement and fond memories, but also by the strength of God's people who surround my family. OH God, by Your almighty love and power, continue to lift us up. Thank you again and again for those who have written or contacted us. Continue to pray, dear friends, that we may have peace. Write us, [email protected]
Kris King
January 14, 2010
Trish-
May God hold you and your family in his loving arms. I was deeply saddened to hear the news of Ray's passing. I have wonderful memories of him while he was playing for Colorado and of going to your wedding. Susan, Angela, and I love you. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You.
"In His Grip!"
The Ingersoll's
January 6, 2010
Trish, Patrick, Daniel, Andrew, Stephen and Caroline:
We just want you to know that we love you and we are here for you. Ray was a consummate Husband, father, brother, son and friend!
We love you!
Ed Lazo
December 5, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Ray's sudden passing. As a college friend of Marty's, I got to know Ray fairly well. What I will never forget about Ray...after college, while I was in the US Navy during Desert Storm, Ray would call my parents every few weeks to see how I was doing. He had never met my parents, yet he thought enough of them to call, check on them, and let them know he was praying for me. They never forgot that! Sadly, I was unable to attend Ray's service in Denver as my mother was ill in a Denver hospital. Mom passed away on Thanksgiving morning. A few days before her passing, I informed her of Ray's untimely passing. She simply said..."I'll never forget his phone calls. He was such a nice guy. Let's pray together for Ray and his family". You never knew it, Ray, but you impacted my family greatly!
Robert Capra
December 3, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Cone family. We share the same memories of Ray as all the others have written. Reading these comments and tributes have brought to mind many pleasant memories of high school and the antics Ray was involved in.
Wendy Morgan-Ehrman
December 2, 2009
My heartfelt sadness goes out to your whole family, children and friends. He will be sadly missed, but think of that great smile, shining down on all of us, making us smile inside when we think of what a special person he was and how he touched so many. God be with you all, and God bless you and your children as these sad days pass, may you find comfort in the Lord.
November 30, 2009
Marty,
We go back so many years my friend. I knew Ray before I knew you because of his friendship with my brother (Ray). I know your connection with my brother was close when you roomed together in college. I know it must have hurt you deeply when you learned of my Ray's untimely passing. Just as it breaks my heart to learn about yours. I just want you to know that I still consider you my friend, and unfortunatley I know what you are going through. Losing my brother was and will always be the most painful time in my life. If you need to talk , I just want you know I am here for you. I don't know if I can help, but I can understand. My heart breaks for you, but I can see both of of Ray's together again....(hope God has a sense of humor!)
Call anytime...Deb (Whiteman) 281-733-5624
Susan Fabiano Swanson
November 30, 2009
Trish and family,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We were very sad to hear the news about Ray. It has truly made me think about how precious and fragile life is. I will always remember Ray for his smile and outgoing nature. We had lots of fun over the years...I remember studying/writing a paper our senior year of high school with many of our friends in my parents family room...only Ray could make someone laugh that hard while studying. We all had so much fun. I also remember Ray organizing a Bible Study at our home.....it was obvious in later years that he continued his walk with God. When I got married, you and Ray lived in my parents duplex....it was nice to know that when I was gone there was someone there looking out for my folks. My folks loved having you both there. My dad (age 90) has been deeply saddened by the news of Ray's death. Ray was also there for us when our children were born....he sold us the life insurance policies that we still have. I wish I could have been at the 30 year class reunion to see Ray again. Words cannot express my sadness for you and your family. I pray that you will some how find peace. May God Bless you and your family. With Love, Susan (Fabiano) Swanson
The Ernst family
November 29, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole Cone family. We will not forget how Ray took our children under his wing as he coached them in basketball. He was funny, and giving and an incredible example of a loving father and husband, loyal friend, giving neighbor, and true-blue - real deal - Christian... we will miss him.
Robin Greenfield Klein
November 29, 2009
I am so sad to hear of Ray's passing, although I haven't talked to him in a number of years I will always remember him as the sweetest, funniest guy. He could always make me laugh. We were neighbors and went to school together since kindergarden. About 10 years ago he called me out of the blue just to check in and see how I was doing. He talked so much about his family and how proud he was of them. We were all very lucky to have had him in our lives.
Art Nelson
November 27, 2009
Dear Marty and the Cone Family,
I attended CU with Ray and will always remember him for his great sense of humor. He was part of the Cone brother duo, teaming up with Marty to make people laugh. I lived with Marty while attending CU, and always enjoyed hearing stories about Ray. Ray, Marty and I took classes together at CU, and I found it difficult to pay attention in class, because I always had my eyes on the Cone brothers, wondering what funny thing they would do next. They were responsible for many great moments that I will always remember.
Ray visited my wife and I when he was on a business trip to New York about 10 years ago. He was the same Ray I remembered from CU; big smile, personable and warm. I am sad for the Cone family, and I'm sure that Ray's influence will live on in each of his children, as they grow older. My thoughts and prayers are for all of the Cone family.
Mike Devereux
November 25, 2009
Ray was the kind of guy that if you met him for 5 minutes he was in your life forever. That truly is a special gift.
All Our Love,
The Devereux Family
David Witaschek
November 25, 2009
Ray was 2 years older than I. He took me under his wings while I was in 9th grade at Wheatridge Jr.. He tought me how to lift weights and condition for football. I would take the bus to Jefferson High and meet Ray for our workout. In the summer we would go to other schools to lift and run (Pomona, A. West) just so we could meet new people. To Ray I owe a football scholorship to Mines. To Ray I owe an introduction to Christianity as I would meet him for breakfast and he would teach me. God Bless all of his family. Rest in peace.
Emilio Trujillo
November 25, 2009
I was saddened today to hear of Ray's death. I first met Ray in 1979 when my friend and I visited the Cone family during our Easter break from high school. Ray treated us well and we never forgot that. At the time he shared his ambition to play football at CU. I was proud to have a cousin realize his dream and play major college football. My prayers are with Ray's entire family. God bless you all.
Emilio James Trujillo
Serena Redger
November 24, 2009
My deepest condolences to the Cone Family. I played on one of Ray Cone's basketball team's with his daughter Caroline. It was by far the most enjoyable season of basketball I have ever played. I remember all that Ray has taught me both about life and about basketball. I will always think of him when lining up for a free throw or doing a spin move. These are two of the many things I learned in one season with Ray. I will miss Ray very much, but never will I forget his humor and his devotion to life and sports. I will forever continue to play basketball to my greatest ability in full dedication of Ray C. Cone. May Peace be with all friends and family.
HARPERS
November 24, 2009
ARE PRAYERS ARE WITH THE CONE FAMILY,AND ALL WHO LOVED RAY.
Steve Scrivano
November 24, 2009
Ray was the life of Metco Landscape and when he was around, there was never a dull day. The humor was always incredible and I just can't imagine that he has left us. It is difficult to get past this tragedy and he will be so very missed. His family and children are in our prayers.
Jerry Green
November 24, 2009
I went to school with Marty and Tom and Ray was just a little kid, but I do remember him. I just talked to him a month ago, it was a very plesant
experiance. It was nice to know that he remembered me after all these years. It was a shock to here this news. My prayers are with all of his family with sadness in my heart.
November 24, 2009
To the Cone Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Ray as the motivator. We went to high school together and I still have a car here in Arizona that I bought from him. Always a family man and loyal to his beliefs of the good in everyone. I wish I could be there for the memorial service but could not change my flight. With love from the Tezak family, Joanne, Pearlanne and Tony
Robert Reed
November 24, 2009
Our prayers continue for the Cone family.
Frank Snell
November 24, 2009
Whether it was sports, family, friends or faith, Ray was blessed with natural leadership skills and a pure heart that helped him progress through life and become the man we all knew and loved.
I have some very fond memories of growing up just a few doors from the Cone family. Ray was quite the prankster and seemed to never get caught.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, the Cone family, during this difficult time. Although Ray is no longer with us in body, his spirit and love will continue on in every life he touched.
The Snell Family
Frank, Dee, Amber, Adam and Andy.
Sheryll Shaw
November 24, 2009
To the Cone family, our deepest and most sincere sympathy goes out to you. My sisters, brother and I went to school with Ray at Jefferson and have fond memories of Ray and how he made people laugh.
I was fortunate to see Ray while he worked for a client of mine here in Denver before moving to Florida. We shared some funny stories about growing up, and he was proud to show me pictures of his beautiful family. He loved you all so much!
God bless each of you during this difficult time. Know that you and Ray are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
The Shaw Family
Bruno Bova
November 23, 2009
Trish and Family -
I grew up with the Cone family in Colorado and remain friends with Marty to this day. Ray was the little brother we use to pick on back then but he grew to big and to quick for it to last long. As you know Ray was an extrodinary individule and will be missed by all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Ray.
Dawn Cerrone
November 23, 2009
To the Cone Family - I knew your father/husband friend for many years and can only say that we are all touched by this event - remember that in the laughter and joy brought to us by those who loved us and now have left us can we be grateful for the time we had together and honor the memories as the true gifts left behind.
Mary Martinez Mahoney
November 23, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Cone family. We feel blessed to have shared in Ray's life. May the Lord continue to comfort you in your time of pain.
The Mahoney Family
Arlene (Geiger) Wallace
November 22, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Ray and Anthony 1969
November 22, 2009
November 22, 2009
Please come share in the Denver service on November 25, 2009 at 9:30am at Cherry Hills Community Church. We will celebrate Ray!
Deana Paprocki
November 21, 2009
Our Deepest Sympathy to the entire Cone Family. I did not have the pleasure of meeting Ray, as I was in Marty's class and my sister Donna was in Tom's. Marty, I truly understand the emptiness that you are feeling in your heart right now. I hope that Ray's memories stay close to your heart to help the family in this tough time. God Bless Deana (Fisher)Paprocki, Donna (Fisher)Ellis and Diana (Fisher)McGarry
Jack Rostetter
November 21, 2009
I heard this song this morning; it is "Why" by Rascal Flatts. With a spirit as bright and strong as Ray's I thought that this was so appropriate. I am sorry that I did not have more opportunity to know Ray and the family, but what I experienced of his faith and strength will always resonate with me. His childrens' confidence and positive attitudes reflect what I saw and felt from Ray; and the family's Christ-life. I am thankful that I knew him; even if only for a short time.
Ray and Anthony 1969
November 21, 2009
Leo "Anthony" Starvetsky
November 21, 2009
Dear Cone family,
My fondest memories with Ray are those of playing pee wee football together: practicing with Ray in his yard, helping my dad paint our team emblem on the helmets in my yard, and eating oranges together at half time. I left football in Jr. High, and Ray, being the consummate motivator that he was, in an always endearing way - never let me forget it. Through the years I have occasionaly thought about our pee wee days together and how much fun they were. I am just a few hours drive north, in Georgia, and often in the north Florida area. I did not realize Ray had moved so close. I feel the loss of a great opportunity to reconnect with an old friend, and now that chance is gone. To all of the Cone family, my deepest sympathy is with you; and unfortunately for the last time – Ray, I’M SORRY I QUIT FOOTBALL!
Pat Heffner
November 20, 2009
I had the privilege of growing up two doors down from the Cone family. Ray was two years older, but such positive influence. I enjoyed catching up with him at our church a couple of years ago. His smile would brighten the entire sanctuary. I met his beautiful wife and five children. I was deeply saddened by his death, and my prayers are with his entire family.
Freddie Filmore
November 20, 2009
Trish, Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline and Stephen
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you cherish the memories of Ray's life and devotion to you and to the Lord Jesus Christ. As he comforted me and my family at the time of my son's untimely death in 2007, we offer our condolences to you at this time. My son and I enjoyed our time on the basketball court at Orangewood with Ray and his sons. He was always bubbly displaying a love of family and Jesus Christ. Trish, though I have not personally met you, I feel that I know you through Ray.
Pastor Freddie Filmore, Sr. (The Rev)
Darin Schubeck
November 19, 2009
Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline, Stephen, and Trish,
Your wonderful family is in our prayers that the Lord comfort your hearts, and surround you with nothing but Love from those that are around you during this very difficult time. The passing of Ray is hard for us to believe and I want you to know that he was a Inspirational, Awesome, Passionate Disciple of Christ, and was a true Blessing and an Example of God's Love to all who knew him. His Frendship truely blessed my life! May God bring comfort to you all! We Love You!
The Schubeck's, Darin, Melissa, Bri, and Justin.
Velinda Knox
November 19, 2009
Trish, Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline and Stephen,
Our thoughts and prayers are will all of you in this time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
The Knox Family, Kirk, Velinda, Kai, Kiera, Bellah, Kameron and Katelin
Jeanne Robinson
November 19, 2009
When I think of Ray, the words "Ray of Sunshine" come to mind. He was always happy, supportive of all and most importantly, present at all the ThunderRidge basketball events. We noticed and appreciated you Ray. Our prayers and thoughts are with you Trish, Dan and the rest of your family.
- Jeanne, Todd, Jessica and TJ Robinson
Cedric & Angie Thomas
November 19, 2009
My husband played basketball at Orangewood on Saturday mornings. We just heard today and my husband I are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeff Winsor
November 18, 2009
Dearest Cone Family,
I am so sad to hear of your loss. Ray was an unbelievable person full of passion, heart and soul. I feel blessed to of worked with him in the car business, and gotten to of known him as a person. He always cherished his family, and brought a smile to my face, and the face of others around me. He was such an incredible, gifted person! I am glad to of been able to share time with him. He will always live in all of our hearts. As Ray would make me chant, Go Buffs!
DeAnna (McCue) Marler
November 18, 2009
"The first step to eternal life, is you have to die." - Chuck Palahnuik
Ray and Trish were a part of my life from a very early age. We went to the same church and our families spent many Sundays and holidays together. I remember the birth of their first child and how excited everyone was! Ray was always a jokester and made everyone laugh. However, what I remember most was his devotion to the L-rd and his family. I was shocked and truly saddened by the news of his passing and yet in that same moment, knew that he had taken that step to eternal life. From my family to the Cone family, we send our thoughts and support during this difficult time.
November 18, 2009
To the Cone family, you have lost a wonderful husband, father, coach, mentor and devoted family man. Even though I did not personally know Ray, I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. I attended Jefferson High School during my junior and senior year and Ray Cone was an outstanding athlete and my impression of him was that he was just an outstanding human being...judging by all the entries I know that is totally correct. Ray touched a lot of lives in his 48 years and God bless him for it. It is hard to believe he is no longer with us physically, but his legend and legacy will live on. May God bless his all his family in such a difficult time.
Bob Strickland
November 18, 2009
You don't know me, I graduated with Tom, Ray's older brother but I knew Ray. The last time I saw Ray, he spoke at our church with Coach McCartney while Ray was still at CU. From what I have read Ray was a Good Man of God that lived his convictions. My prayers go out to his family.
Kevin Hood
November 18, 2009
Trish I have great memories of Ray during the years I spent with him at CU. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 18, 2009
Trish and kids,
We are saddened to hear of Ray's passing. We will always remember his smiling face and calming demeanor. His love of children and coaching was demonstrated in the constant encouragement he provided. We pray that you will find peace in his memories, through the support of friends and through faith. God bless all of you.
The Noser Family
Laura Brown
November 18, 2009
Ray lives on. He lives in the lives of the fantastic children he and Trish have brought to us. The memories, the joys that you have all shared.
Trish, my heart goes to you and your family.
Laura, Katie and Cody Medina
Steve and Sharon Wichael
November 17, 2009
Trish,
Wow I wish we were there to help.. The only thing I can say is God has a great man with him in heaven. I hope he is hanging out with our Shannon..You all were very supportive with what we went through please do not hesitate to ask for anything from us...We want to help.
We love and pray for you daily..
Steve and Sharon Wichael
Lisa Gutierrez
November 17, 2009
Dear Marty and Ray's family,
I don't know if you remember me. I was Marty's RA at Libby Hall for at least one year---what a memorable year that was and Ray was such a part of it. I got into football because of these two who exhibited such joy for the game, for each other, for their friends and for everyone they came in contact with. Those are my memories of Ray and his smile, his faith, and how he'd occasionally side with me when I had to do my rounds and convince Marty to abide by dorm rules! God Bless all of you and know that Ray made a difference in so many lives, even mine.
In sympathy and prayer and with thanks that Ray is with our God in Heaven...
Kimbirly Orr
November 17, 2009
Ray was always himself with a true conviction to his faith and Christ.
I remember him praying at CU, when prayer before a meal in college could often draw stares. Ray had a kind word and sincere prayer when a friend was down. He truly cared for people in his life.
I remember the CU spring football games featuring "The Coneheads", Ray & Marty cracking everyone up.
I remember the kind words he spoke to me with every call or notification of a life or career change. Ray was the best networker! He knew where all his friends resided and kept us in the loop whether he was selling insurance, cars, landscaping, promo or nutrition products. I remember our last conversation discussing our 30 H.S. reunions this past summer and how they compared.
I remember a strong man, who was always himself, a man who had a kind word and could always make friends laugh. Ray did his best to be a good man, great Brother, Father and friend.
Ray, I am profoundly saddened by your passing; yet comforted you are living with the Lord in glorious heaven. My deepest condolences to Ray's family; with hope Ray's children will always remember the great man he was.
May God bless all of you,
Kimbirly
Dave Hestera
November 17, 2009
Ray was always there to lift you up, to encourage and to love. He was so concerned about others. He had such a heart for God and tried to be more like him every day. I will always remember the way he glowed when i talked with him. I learned a lot from Ray and will continue to learn from him. I wish I could see him again too. I miss you and love you Ray!
My thoughts and prayers are with and for the Cone's and all Ray's friends that are suffering his loss
Denise Hiben
November 17, 2009
Dear Trish, Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline and Stephen,
We just want you all to know how much we love your family. We are so sad for your tremendous loss. We will always remember Ray. He was so much fun and such a wonderful man. Annabel loved him very much and remembers how good he was to her when she spent so much time at your house with your family. You are a very special family and we cherish all of you. You continue to be be in our hearts thoughts and prayers. Love,
Denise, Tom and Annabel Hiben
Teresa Kitterman
November 17, 2009
Dear Cone Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Ray. I will always remember Ray teasing my sister Paula (Mariola). He was her good friend. Marty and Bridgette you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.
Teresa Mariola Kitterman
Donna Rafferty
November 17, 2009
November 17, 2009
I was out of town when I when my son Vince told me about Ray. I am deeply saddend and know that he is missed by his many friends and family. The years and games at CU will never be forgotten. He was so talented and fun to be around. God Bless all of you and comfort you in the days ahead.
maria satriano
November 17, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you now. I have known the "Cone" family for alot of years and when I close my eyes, i can see Ray with a smile on his face. Words cannot express the loss of a son, brother, husband and father. May you find peace. A note to Bridget: I love you and I am here for you.
God Be With You-
Maria Satriano
Frank Morgan
November 16, 2009
I was so sad when I heard what at happend to RAY. He always was the best and made me laugh when we were in school at wheatridge jr. I was able to play football with him... man what A player... he was the best. All my prayers go out to his family.
Lynda Ernst Reese
November 16, 2009
Like everyone else, I was so saddened to hear about Ray's passing. I saw him at our 30 year reunion and as he walked own the hall, his smile big and bright, I felt a tug at my heart realizing some things never change. I will remember him just like that. Full of life and joy. Always ready with a smile.
My prayers are with all of you but especially for Trish and the kids. I know that Jesus walks beside each of you. Lean on Him for your strength.
Peter & Brenda Plowshay
November 16, 2009
Trish and Family,
Words cannot express our sense of sadness for your loss. We really miss those days seeing you and Ray at Littleton Academy events. When Patrick and my daughter Jackie were in the same class, we got to see you often and appreciated all you did to make that school special. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Rest in peace Ray and best wishes to the Cone family.
Jessi Burk(Emery)
November 16, 2009
Aunt Trish and Family.. With great tears and prayers.. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during these troublesome times. To Uncle Ray, I thank you. I will always treasure the memories.
The Williams Family
November 16, 2009
My daughter, Olivia Williams, who is @ UF with Andrew, called us as soon as she heard the news of Mr. Cone. She asked us to pray for your family. She has enjoyed seeing Andrew @ RUF meetings and thinks fondly of him. We hope the Lord comforts you during this exceedingly difficult time...please know there are many of us lifting you up before the Lord.
The Williams Family
November 16, 2009
My daughter, Olivia Williams, who is @ UF with Andrew, called us as soon as she heard the news of Mr. Cone. She asked us to pray for your family. She has enjoyed seeing Andrew @ RUF meetings and thinks fondly of him. We hope the Lord comforts you during this exceedingly difficult time...please know there are many of us lifting you up before the Lord.
Cleon Braun
November 16, 2009
Trish and Family. I was very saddened and shocked to hear of the loss of Ray. Talking to Ray this summer, he was such great spirits and it full of life. After catching up on life and all our activities, Ray always wanted to know how my journey with Jesus was going. Ray, you will always be remembered by your fellow Buff brothers and you and your family will be in our prayers.
Jim Heighton
November 16, 2009
I have been reflecting upon how much I enjoyed visiting with Ray at our recent 30 year HS reunion only a few short months ago. It was truely one of the highlights of the evening to see that Ray was able to make it there, all the way from Florida. I first met Ray playing little league football about 40 years ago. I remember he used to put an orange-peel in his mouth at the half-time break for a big funny orange smile - and actually got in trouble for being funny fairly often. Until this last August, I had not seen Ray since the 20th reunion, where he joked about me looking like I was turning into my dad... (grin). I will always remember him as a member of my team. I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the Cone family.
kelly, Mike, Mick, Taylor and Sam Devereux
November 15, 2009
Trish,Daniel, Patrick, andrew, Caroline and stephen...Shocked and broken hearted we send our love and support to each of you. Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss! Be strong and hold onto your faith and each other tightly right now!!! We have many fond memories of Ray coaching the girls Jr nuggets team and seeing Ray at thunderridge events. Highlands Ranch lost a special family when you moved to Florida. We think of you all every time we attend TRHS events or go to Redstone. Trish we will be there for the memorial...please let us know how we can help! Our home is your home if you need to stay or if we can do anything at all! You are an amazing family and Ray will be in your hearts ALWAYS! It is rare in life that you meet a family such as yours that make you want to be a better, kinder person..you guys are that family. Take good care of each other and know Ray is safe in the arms of Jesus! We are here for you and need to help..so please let us know what we can do! See you in Colorado...God bless Ray and Gods peace be with each of you. Love and prayers, The Devereux family
Randy Capra
November 15, 2009
Over the past week, I have read the fond memories from the many friends and family members that have been touched by Ray. I wasn't really sure how I could add much more that would not already recap what all of you said; that is, until this morning.
As our family attended church service today, the associate pastor opened with a prayer for a wonderful person who who had recently left this world. He did not mention Ray by name but gave a brief history of a loving and caring father and husband; a person who had touched the lives of many as he helped to bring the word of Christ to so many people. As our pastor closed in prayer, he asked that we all remember this special person; a person who had played ball with a passion and a zest for life.
It hit me then, just what an incredible inpact that Ray had on so many people during his time on earth; it is one thing to to have lived... it is quite another to have lived in such a way that so many lives had been touched. This is Ray's legacy then; to have brought God's word and God's work to so many people.
Ray, I pray that all of us will see you one day soon. I pray that you have found peace and that you are now with our Lord and Savior. Peace to you...
Bridget Cone (Trujillo)
November 15, 2009
To everyone that loved and knew my brother, let that be what leads you to be kind to one another. There is nothing more refreshing to hear that he touched so so many lives, he was one that I hung out with for the first 15 years of life. He was the one that lead my sister to Christ, and then she returned the favor to me! I am in such deep shock and despair but I will lead by example and continue to celebrate his life in any capacity that I can. Know it was the light of Christ you were all drawn too. Thank you so much for the prayers and support for our family.
James Naas
November 15, 2009
Marty, you may, or may not remember me, I was a sophomore your senior year and you protected me from being hazed just the way Ray did. He must have learned it from you. I am so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through,I know how close you two always were. I am close like that with my two brothers. You and Ray and the family will all be re-united again and this terrible incident will no longer matter. Our Lord and Savior will help you through this. If you need anything at all please feel free to ask.
Your brother in Christ.....James
November 15, 2009
To the entire Cone family, we are very saddened to hear of Ray's passing and will always remember his beautiful smile and integrity. Thank you for sharing him with us as we were growing up in Edgewater. He had a huge impact on so many lives. God be with you all.
The Billen Family,
JoAnne, Doug, Terry, Sandee and Daniel
November 14, 2009
The Jefferson H.S. Class of 1979 has been devastated and crushed by our loss. Ray Cone was an athletic, bright, funny, popular, handsome, charming, witty, humorous and most of all kind person. He was there for most of us at one time or another, and his faith in Jesus Christ helped many of us thru our darkest times. Ray you were a blessing to all of us and you will never be forgotten. You will forever be remembered as the King of our class. Rest in Peace Brother.....
Paula Satriano(Busby)
November 14, 2009
To The Cone Famliy,I am saddened by the loss of Ray. From the moment I met him I new what a great guy he was.Always positive and happy.He would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. He will be truly missed by everyone that had the chance to meet him.My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Ed and Judy Miller
November 14, 2009
To Trish and Kids,
We were honored and blessed to have your family visit us at the beach this past summer. We will always remember Ray as a man with a heart like Jesus, who shared his enthusiasm and love for Jesus with all who meet him. He truly touched everyone he met in a special way.
You are in our thoughts and prayers and you are always welcome in our home.
November 14, 2009
His faith,personality,persistence, and helping hand will be what we all remember. He is the man that everyone who knew him, remembers him. We cannot forget his family, they need our prayers.
Phil Kennedy
Marty Cone
November 14, 2009
Dear Cone Family and all his friends, I have just gone through the darkest days of my life.
my heart goes out to all who have experienced a trajedy such as this. Did you know Ray was suppossed to come out to Colorado with his boys and go hunting with me? Didnt you know we were not done talking to one another? Dont you know what I would give to see him one more time. Do you you know how bad this hurts me? I do not how people can go through this. I can not believe this just happened. When I got the call Sunday morning I went back to work cleaning my garage, the news didnt even register. I tried to hide this from my family for three or four hours because I did not have the heart to break it to them. What I would give to see Ray again. Please do not worry about Ray, He lived for Jesus Christ, He is now in our Saviors arms in a special place prepared just for him. Just imagine Almighty God telling Ray "Well done my Faithful servant.
Tim Ladwig
November 14, 2009
Ray…In Jr. High you took me under your wings and made sure I stood up for myself. In High School you gave me a boxing lesson so that I wouldn't get beat up again. Thanks for that. And for the visits to me and my family later in life.
You are a bright shining star and always have been. I was so glad to see you this summer. God Bless You and your Family.
Go Buffs! Go Coneheads!!
Gary HS Aquaintance
November 14, 2009
May God bless Ray and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bryan& Christine Howard
November 13, 2009
To the Cone Family: we are deeply sorry for the loss of Ray. He was one man who could do it all! He could sell you anything , teach you God's word and become part of your family all in one day. Bryan and I grew up with Ray at Wheatridge Jr High and Jefferson High. We later met again at a Turkey trot in HIghlands Ranch where Ray proceeded to jump back into our hearts and lives. We have been truly blessed and shall never forget Ray: an angel sent by God to all of us!If ever a man led as God would have us lead: it would be Ray Cone! With love and prayers for you, Bryan, Christine, Savanah and Seth Howard
November 13, 2009
I just learned of Ray's passing today. There is an overwhelming feeling of loss and sadness that comes from losing someone who was once such a close friend. I was in the same class as Ray and we knew each other through our years at Wheat Ridge Junior and Jefferson High Schools. Although we had not kept in contact for many years, the years that we did share together are unforgetable.
In our junior high days, Ray lived just down the street from me and many times he would come over to my house to shoot some hoops or just throw the ball around. His laugh and his smile were contagious and I can't ever remember Ray having a bad day; if he did, you never knew it.
The words written here by friends and family are a testament to the kind of man Ray was. I will pray for the Lord to comfort and heal the Cone family and all his close friends. Rest in Peace Ray ....
Ronda Knuth
November 13, 2009
Dear Trish, Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline and Stephen,
Our hearts are broken. You lost your sweetheart, husband, best friend and father and the void is immense. With our everything we wish we could spare you this journey. Ray was an incredible man with a great heart for God and for his family. He had a great impact on Andy and Ben as their coach. They join Rob and I in sending our love.
Gary Wayne
November 13, 2009
We were all so very grieved & shocked to hear of Ray's passing. Ray impacted my life in a large way from the time he sold me a car, to playing basketball early in the morning in Highlands Ranch, to coaching our kid's basketball team. He was an honorable man who loved life, God, and his family - all with a passion that was contagious. Ray - you'll always be remembered in the Wayne/Wondolowski home. Trish, Daniel, Andrew, Patrick, Caroline, and Stephen....you will be in our prayers for many weeks & months to come. Please consider yourself HUGGED by us all! Gary & Johanne Wayne
November 13, 2009
My deepest sympathy to the entire Cone family. There's a reason why certain people become part of each of our lives. We needed Ray, he brought us all a little extra sunshine. It was an honor to have Ray grace us with his presence. He will be extremely missed.
Eric & Mardi Rumin
Aunt Wanda, Uncle Arkie, Cousin Judy Pat Braswell
November 13, 2009
We are deeply saddened to hear our cousin/great nephew has passed on to be with our maker in heaven. As we have read some of the entries in the guest book it sounds like he got some of his charms from Uncle Ray Cone and i am sure they are laughing together as we are missing them. May your special memories fill your heart with joy.
Doug and Peggy Finnefrock
November 13, 2009
My wife and I both are still in shock...A nicer, gentler, more passionate and spiritual Man this world will never see. I was fortunate enough to have grown up playing Ray in baseball, then reunited as we were both married and had kids when he lived here in Denver. We bought a Tahoe from him and in typical Ray fashion, he extended to us uber-friendly and helpful service, but more importantly, insights into the true meaning of life and the importance of God and family. May the Lord be with you in your time of pain!
Jennifer Klassen Delgado
November 13, 2009
I have nothing but positive and happy memories of Ray. He was truly a rose among the thorns and will live on in our hearts and minds forever. He made us all proud to be Buff fans and friends of his. May God bring you peace and comfort.
Linda Stieduhar
November 13, 2009
Ray and I were in the same class at Wheat Ridge Jr. High and Jefferson High. I remember Ray and being funny, upbeat, outgoing, genuine and kind. He naturally touched so many lives in such a positive way. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family.
Robert Leos
November 13, 2009
Trish and family, I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I have great memories of Ray from Wheat Ridge Jr thru Jefferson High and after. I seemed to always be on the receiving end of his sales skills wether New York Life or cars. He and Marty frequently stopped at my dads house and jokingly roughed him up. So funny and he so enjoyed them. He was a one in a million soul. He will be deeply missed by all that had any contact with him. God Bless.
c m
November 13, 2009
My heart aches for all of you and every one that knew Ray. A legacy left behind to continue what his heart had already accomplished; a love for Jesus Christ. May you continue to seek the comfort of Jesus and know that He alone can do all things through all things. We are praying for you.
November 13, 2009
My heart aches for all of you and every one that knew Ray. A legacy left behind to continue what his heart had already accomplished; a love for Jesus Christ. May you continue to seek the comfort of Jesus and know that He alone can do all things through all things. We are praying for you.
Dino Bobrick
November 13, 2009
Dearest Cone family,
I have many fond memories of Ray C as I was a friend of his growing up in Wheatridge Co. I had the priviledge to be one of his teammates at Jefferson High School. Ray was a leader and a comedian on and off the field.I still laugh as I tell stories of Ray to this day.
The loss for all of his family is unimaginable. May Christ our Savior hold you in the palm of his hand as you go through this trying time.
Our deepest sympathy,
Dino and Michelle Bobrick
C M
November 13, 2009
My heart aches for all of you and every one that knew Ray. A legacy left behind to continue what his heart had already accomplished; a love for Jesus Christ. May you continue to seek the comfort of Jesus and know that He alone can do all things through all things. We are praying for you.
Dopn & Joyce Shaputis
November 13, 2009
We are sad to hear of Ray's death. Our prayers go to you and your family. May he rest in peace.
David Doucett
November 12, 2009
I met Ray his senior year at Jefferson when I was a sophomore. I foolishly told the coaches that I would try and block Ray in practice, and he pummeled me. I followed him to CU and watched him become one of CU's greats, both on and off the field. Later Ray came to Loveland and sold me insurance, probably knowing the damage he'd done. Ray was one of God's great ambassadors. Trish and the family are in my prayers.
November 12, 2009
Dear Trish,Daniel,Andrew,Patrick,Caroline,& Stephen;
Our Family is in Ray's debt for his involvement in Our "2" younger son's lives as Coach Cone(Eagle Sports League, Denver,CO.)! I have not met anyone with more intensity and commitment to Family, and causes he felt were important! He is a valued Friend still -in perpetuity! We shared so much being co workers for "years", in the same profession! I shall always remember my Friend and Brother, Ray Cone! Truly, God's warmest and richest Blessings, Love, and Care to Our dear Friends, The Cone Family!-Rob Knuth;Denver,CO. -In Ray Cone tradition:-"Go Buffs!" ;-)
Glenn and Pattie Miller
November 12, 2009
Dear Trish,
We are so sad to hear of Ray's death. We are praying for you and will continue to. We remember the old days when you helped us disciple high school students with Student Venture while Ray played football at CU. And then, as you both coached soccer for Eagles Sports. Let us know if we can help you in any way now and in the future. We love you.
Paula Nick Palmour
November 12, 2009
I met Ray at Wheat Ridge Jr High but grew to know him at CU. He was endlessly cheerful, kind and oh, how very thoughtful. Peace to his family.
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