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Mary Catherine Deckebach

1929 - 2019

Mary Catherine Deckebach obituary, 1929-2019, Port Angeles, WA

BORN

1929

DIED

2019

Mary Deckebach Obituary

Mary O'Brien Deckebach passed away unexpectedly on July 30, 2019, in Port Angeles, after a series of health issues. She was 89.

Mary was born Mary Catherine O'Brien in Klamath Falls, Oregon, on December 8, 1929. Her parents were Archibald and Gertrude O'Brien.

Her early years were spent in Algoma, Oregon, a small mill town. She graduated from Klamath Falls high school, in 1948, and graduated from Oregon State University in Education, in 1952.

While at Oregon State, Mary met Frank G. Deckebach lll. They were married In 1951. She dedicated her life to Frank and they spent 62 years together until his death in 2014. Mary was a devoted and loving wife and mother.

Over the years, Mary and Frank lived in Svensen, Oregon; Port Angeles; Vernonia, Oregon; Canby, Oregon, and then retired, in 1985, in Port Angeles.

Mary was a locally known master weaving artist. Her weaving received many local awards and was regularly donated to charity sales. She was also an active member of her neighborhood association and a member of Dungeness Valley Lutheran Church In Sequim.

Mary is survived by her three children, Dave (Holly) Deckebach of Atlanta, Georgia; Anne (Alan) Bialik of Germantown, Maryland; and John Deckebach of Port Angeles. She also has five grandchildren, Daniel Deckebach, Rachel Bialik (Tyler) Clifford, Adele Deckebach (Blake) Brettschneider), Derek Deckebach, and Aaron Bialik. The family will miss her greatly.

Mary's memorial service will be held on October 5th at 12:00 PM at Dungeness Valley Lutheran Church in Sequim. In memory of Mary and in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to DungenessHomes.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Peninsula Daily News on Aug. 4, 2019.

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Tony and Louise Van Vliet

July 29, 2020

She and Frank were our closest friends-a friendship that lasted from college to the last meeting we could do at Gearheart, Oregon a few years ago. We miss them both everyday and especially Mary's wonderful letters!

August 20, 2019

Mary and Frank were our closest friends Mary arranged the blind date that lead to our marriage.Frank and Tony were roommates at Oregon State U and both graduated in Forestry.We were best man at each other's weddings. We have stayed close for 70 years. Mary was a wonderful weaver and gardener. We will miss her and all the good memories

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