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Benjamin Ward Obituary

Benjamin Wyatt Ward, known to his high school and college classmates as "Bootsie" and to his grandchildren as "Bear" died Thursday, November 5, 2020, at home, Northumberland House and Farm, Heathsville, VA. His wife of 55 years, Sandi, was by his side. Ben was born October 10, 1941 and graduated from Princess Anne High School in Virginia Beach, VA in 1961. He went on to attend Old Dominion University, from which he received his degree in History. During his time at ODU he was both president of his fraternity, TKE, and president of the interfraternity council. In June 1965, he married Sandra Jeanne Borgens. They resided in Norfolk, VA until moving to Heathsville in 1999. They have four daughters and twenty grandchildren.

Ben worked as an Allstate agent for thirty years and volunteered in his community as president of Lynnhaven Rotary. He was on the board of the Reedsville Fisherman's Museum, served as chairman of their yearly Reedsville Oyster Roast, and was a board member for the Rice's Hotel/Hughlett's Tavern. Ben was committed to promoting men's Christian ministry at churches in Virginia Beach and Heathsville. Showcasing his favorite hobby of cooking, he established men's breakfast meetings through his church, the Levite men's cooking group, and hosted a weekly breakfast for the Fishermen's Bible Study.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be given to Uganda Missions or Northern Neck Christian School c/o Light of Christ Anglican Church, P.O. Box 609, 9500 Northumberland Highway, Heathsville, Virginia 22473.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 10, 2020.

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Jeanie LaChance

November 21, 2020

Ben was such a gentle man! I will so miss his taste testing of the cafe food with an honest and gentle feedback always. We will miss you Ben! Jeanie

Stephanie McClain

November 13, 2020

So sad to hear this news. I know he will be missed by so many! Sandra, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lynda Montgomery Falkiner

November 11, 2020

Bootsie was a wonderful young man who brought joy and laughter to those of us who had the pleaseure of knowing him. He was a high school friend that I will always remember.

Gregg Elliott

November 11, 2020

Ben was a dear friend, fraternity brother, my insurance agent and most importantly a brother in Christ. I was privileged to know him from all of these perspectives but especially in our faith journey.
He was a special encouragement to me and heaven is rejoicing in his arrival. Love you, Bootise. YITB ~ Gregg Elliott

Ronald Saunders

November 10, 2020

Ben and I were Brothers in TEKE while at ODU, actually Charter members as a result of going national in '63. He, along with others, made guys like me feel special. There is a lot that could be talked about that some would surely remember, but not now. Bootsie was a friend to all and I'm sure, an asset to every organization he was a part of. He will be missed.
Ron Saunders

Vinesha Pegram

November 10, 2020

I will always remember that Mr. Ward always had a smile. He and Mrs. Ward had just as much influence in my life as my own parents. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Always praying for HHHHH and family.❤

David G Komornik

November 10, 2020

I am saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. I met Ben when we were Rotarians in the 1980s. Having moved away from Tidewater in the late 90s and then back to the area 4 years ago, I’d recently often thought about reconnecting. Alas, this did not happen and I regret not having made a more concerted effort to get back in touch. My condolences to the friends and family of Ben. RIP brother!

Becky Sisson

November 10, 2020

Dr. Ward - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Julia Jones

November 10, 2020

Prayers for Ben's family. Sandra your in my thoughts during this time.

Bethany Smith

November 10, 2020

Dr. Ward, so sorry to hear about the loss of Ben! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Laxa Dentistry

November 10, 2020

To Sandy and the Family Mr. Ward was a patient of ours for many years. His warmth and smile will always be remembered as well as delicious goodies he brought to us! Our thoughts and prayers are with Sandy and the Family. Laxa Dentistry and Team

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