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Charus Stalnaker Obituary

Charus L Stalnaker

Chesapeake - CHARUS LYNN STALNAKER, 69, passed away in his home on September 24, 2018 with his family by his side. Left to cherish his memories is his loving wife of 50 years Dorothy, Children Stacy Lynn Long (Chris) and Richard Charus Stalnaker(Adrienne). He was Opa to three wonderful grandsons whom he was so proud of and adored, Michael Long, Austin Long, and Rayne Stalnaker. He is survived by his sister Linda Terrien. Charus was an excellent builder, could fix anything with a motor, and was known as a local go-to expert for fixing lawn equipment when no one else could. He was an outdoors man and avid hunter who enjoyed hunting and fishing at Lake Gaston. The family would like to thank Dr. Tan with Virginia Oncology Assoc. and his staff, Dr. Louis Carideo, at Heart Hospice and staff for their excellent care and compassion. The family will receive friends on Sunday, September 30 between 3 and 5 P.M. at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., 1416 Cedar Rd., Chesapeake, Va. 23322. The family requests in lieu of flowers donations in Charus' name be made to Virginia Beach SPCA(www.VBSPCA.COM) or Hunters for the Hungry(www.H4HUNGRY.ORG). Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 28, 2018.

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Yvette Copeland

October 2, 2018

Dot, I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Chuck and Donna Miller

September 29, 2018

Our sincere condolences.

September 28, 2018

I'm so very sorry Dot. I will really miss Charus. I will miss his giant smile and warm welcome on those very early mornings at the gym. He was a kind soul. My thoughts are with you and your family. Janice and Andrew Lacerna.

Brenda Wright

September 28, 2018

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a very hard thing to lose your spouse but you will get through this. Lean on friends and family. My prayers are with you and your family

September 28, 2018

Dot,
My heart aches for you and your family. You are in my prayers.

Bette Brock

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