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James A. Mulligan Jr.

1926 - 2023

James A. Mulligan Jr. obituary, 1926-2023, Virginia Beach, VA

BORN

1926

DIED

2023

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James Mulligan Obituary

James A. Mulligan Jr. 96 quietly died at home on January 18, 2023 with family and caregivers present. He was born March 27, 1926 in Lawrence, MA to the late James A. Mulligan Sr. and Louise M. Cayer.

He was predeceased by his wife of over 73 years, Louise Kolce and sons, Kevin John and Terrance Adam Mulligan. Surviving are sons James (Virginia), Mark (Carol), Sean (Kathy), Neil (Wesley), daughters-in-law Mary and Nina; 17 grandchildren and 21 great grandchildren. On 14 October, 1948 Jim (22) married Louise (19) in the NAS Quonset Point RI Navy Chapel. During their non-standard 31 year Navy career, Louise raised their six sons while Jim made six Med deployments plus the Bay of Pigs and Cuban Missile Crises prior to his West Pac deployment on the USS Enterprise to Vietnam (Yankee Station), where on his 80th mission he was shot down & captured on March 20, 1966 and remained a POW until his release on February 12 (Lincoln's birthday), 1973.

The following books recount those POW/MIA experiences: The Hanoi Commitment by Jim Mulligan, published by Louise Mulligan, which The Freedoms Foundation at Valley Forge recognized in 1982 as the "best military book"; Defiant by Alvin Townley (on the Alcatraz Gang) and most recently The League of Wives by Heath Lee. Louise was the outspoken leader of the League of Wives as she fought the National government and military hierarchy on behalf of the imprisoned and missing military family members. In October, 2022 her hometown, Lawrence, MA posthumously recognized her role as an original leader in what ultimately became the National League of POW/MIA Families with a street corner dedication. Of note, at an earlier date the city of Lawrence dedicated a street corner to James A. Mulligan, Jr., the only couple to receive such a distinction by the city.

Captain Mulligan enlisted in the Navy on February 9, 1944 (Aviation Cadet V-5 Program), received his wings on August 16, 1947 and served on active duty during WWII, Korea and Vietnam, retiring on July 31, 1975. He accumulated over 5,000 single flying hours and made 650 arrested carrier landings with over 150 completed at night under hazardous conditions worsened by a military readiness state held over from WWII known as "darkened ship". He was a POW for 2522 days and was one of eleven POW's held under the severest of conditions in a camp they named Alcatraz enduring starvation and torture, leg irons for twenty-six months and over forty-two months of solitary confinement. Upon his repatriation, Captain Mulligan obtained a Master's in Public Administration at ODU prior to his retirement.

Rear Admiral R. E. Rumble stated at his retirement ceremony "The many commendatory citations which are part of your permanent Navy record clearly indicate a high degree of courage and unwavering devotion to duty which have marked your service. Throughout your period of imprisonment, your inspiring courage, exceptional skill, resourcefulness, and devotion to duty reflected great credit upon yourself and upheld the highest traditions of the Naval Service and the United States Armed Forces." Awards and medals received during his distinguished career are: Silver Star (1 gold star), Legion of Merit (with Combat "V"), Distinguished Flying Cross, Bronze Star (with Combat "V" - 3 gold stars), Air Medal (1 silver star and 1 gold star), Purple Heart (1 gold star), Combat Action Ribbon, American Campaign Medal, World War II Victory Medal, Navy Occupation Service Medal (with clasp), National Defense Service Medal (with 1 star in lieu of 2nd award), Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal (Cuba), Vietnam Service Medal (with 3 silver stars and 2 bronze stars), Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal (with device-1960), Good Conduct Medal.

On Wednesday, February 8 at 11:00 AM, a Mass of Christian burial with military honors will be held at Holy Family Catholic church in Virginia Beach with a reception immediately to follow in the Family Room. Interment will be private. For those unable to attend the service go to www.holyfamilyvb.org and click on "live stream" or to the Church of the Holy Family Facebook page and click on "like". In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to Holy Family Church (Haiti Outreach Program), a longtime ministry of both Jim and Louise. Online condolences may be offered to the family at hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Feb. 1 to Feb. 4, 2023.

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Chief's Daughter

August 19, 2025

My Father was a QMCM (SS) who taught in the JROTC program at Bay View High School and in the ROTC program at Marquette University. I remember Captain Mulligan coming to MU a few times to speak on his experience. What an incredible human being. My Father insisted his students read his book.
I grew up reading, "The Hanoi Commitment". Fair winds and following seas, Captain!

Mary (Sisley) Butler

July 17, 2024

I met Mr Mulligan as a child. He and Louise were dear friends of my parents, Dale and Nancy Sisley. I have always been in awe of the Mulligans - their kindness, courage, and commitment to those they love. I´m late learning of Mr Mulligan´s passing, but would be remiss if I did not express our sincere condolences to the family on behalf of my mom and sisters. With deepest sympathy, Mary (Sisley) Butler

Julie Hill

January 13, 2024

Hello, My name is Julie Hill (Burks) Kansas cit, MO. When I was in high school in the 1976 to 1978 I was very proud to ware Captain Mulligan´s POW bracelet. I thought of him often in how he was doing. I´m sorry to read of his passing.I was glad to read that he lived to a very old age. Again my condolences.

Robin Taton Rock, of Colorado Springs

June 28, 2023

Greetings, my name is Robin Taton Rock, when I was a young girl on the island of Guam, I carefully chose a POW bracelet, made and kept that commitment to wear it and pray. I saw a newspaper photo of Capt James Mulligan descending down the plane ramp stairs Feb/Mar 1973 in Operation Homecoming . I took his POW bracelet off and placed it in my jewelry box where it has remained. I was writing a memory story for my kids so I looked up information. I was sorry to hear of your recent loss. I would love to return this bracelet to family.

Jim Doyle

March 3, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to the family. My name is Jimmy Doyle, Jamie and I went school at Star of the Sea together from 3rd grade to 7th. We loss touch after that but I do remember when your father was shoot down. I am so happy that he had a long life following such a horrible situation. Your father was a true hero. I live an Annapolis MD. Jamie if you are ever up the way,give me a call 410 562 9999. Sincerely,Jim Doyle

Mike Burns

February 9, 2023

My sincere condolences to the Mulligan family during their time of loss and sadness. Capt. James Mulligan served our Nation with honor and distinction, and he endured unimaginable hardships during the long period he was held as a POW in North Vietnam.

Through it all, he kept his strong faith in God and his commitment to the US Navy. I vividly recall wearing a POW bracelet with Capt. Mulligan´s name on it when I was a classmate of Neil´s at Star of the Sea (class of ´76). I also recall Captain Mulligan visiting our class after his return to America at the end of the war. Captain Mulligan was a true patriot, and I am grateful to have met him all those years ago. God Bless Captain Mulligan and his family, may he rest in peace.

Mike Burns
Alexandria, VA

Colleen Fields

February 8, 2023

Deepest sympathies to the family on the loss of a great Father and true American Hero who gave so much

Piedmont Silver Eagles

Rev. Dr. James Edwards, lll

February 8, 2023

Well done thy good and faithful Naval pilot and hero. Rest in peace.

Rev. Dr. James Edwards , lll
Army 1st. Lt. Republic of Vietnam
199th.LIB and Americal
January 1970-January 1971

Donna

February 8, 2023

Thank you Captain Mulligan for the sacrifices you made for this nation.

MCPO Retired HJ HUGUES

February 7, 2023

Did not personally know Capt Mulligan but was honored to read about him. Peace, comfort and grace to the family.

Mary Zimmerly Straley

February 6, 2023

My sincere condolences for the entire Mulligan family. A Real Hero in many lives will forever be remembered. Bless and prayers.

Mark A Raunser

February 5, 2023

Dear Family :

We are sadden to lean of the death of an American War Hero. I knew the family thru church. My father served with Mr. James A Mulligan. I was born in Quanset Point ,RI. My name is Mark as well, Prayers are with you this day and always. God Speed, Fairwell Sir. Bravo Zulu. Mark R. USNR?USN

Rosemary Aumais MacDonald

February 5, 2023

My dad considered it an honor to be from the same city as Captain Mulligan. I remember him reading The Hanoi Commitment and telling me about a real American Hero.
I appreciate his sacrifices and those of his family. God bless.

Charles & Shirley Dunn

February 3, 2023

Capt. Mulligan was a Hero in many ways not just military. I had the pleasant working for Capt. Mulligan for a few years. He was a fine gentleman the best I have ever worked for. Sending peace, comfort, & strength to his family only GOD CAN GIVE.

Kathi Reed

February 1, 2023

RIP to a real American hero. Neil and family, I cherish the days at Star of the Sea where I got to know your family. And my husband working in DC with your Mom on the Natioal League of Families. God bless all of you.

Cheryl Dougherty

February 1, 2023

I wore the Vietnam bracelet with his name. I thought of and prayed for him and his family often. I never forgot him. May he rest in peace.

James Farmer

February 1, 2023

A true American hero! Hand salute, sir!

Alan Manzie

February 1, 2023

My sincere condolences to the entire Mulligan family. What a man Captain Mulligan was. I was fortunate to have met Captain Mulligan as my mom worked at the Navy Exchange, Little Creek for many years Mrs. Mulligan and Captain Mulligan would always stop by and say hi to my mom and purchase various goods. I also read his book which he personally autographed for me. His quote "Life without commitment is a meaningless experience," has always helped me along my way. I am grateful. May he rest in peace.
Alan Manzie
Virginia Beach, Virginia

Lee Holden

February 1, 2023

Our condolences to the Mulligan family. A great man who we will remember as a true patriot. RIP

Susan M Hackney

January 28, 2023

Your mom and dad were always remembered by the Hackney family of Lawrence .
May he rest with his beloved Louise .. a life well lived , and American Hero and native of Lawrence , MA .

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