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Naomi Hecht Obituary

Naomi Abigail Hecht, 27, of Los Angeles, CA died December 8, 2020 of BRCA-related breast cancer at a temporary home in Virginia Beach with her parents and devoted fiancé by her side. She was born in Los Angeles, graduated from the Hamilton High School Humanities Magnet, and graduated with a double major in biology and sociology from Wesleyan University, where she was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa during the fall of her senior year. Naomi worked at a health clinic in Glendale, CA and tutored high school students before attending the Sidney Kimmel Medical College of Thomas Jefferson University in Philadelphia, where she was a third year medical student. She had an exceptional ability to grasp difficult concepts and then explain them to others in a very understandable way, which she was able to utilize in her responsibilities as a teaching assistant, or TA, for three semesters of organic and inorganic chemistry at Wesleyan as well as informally in medical school where she would use white board and marker to clarify material to study group peers.
Naomi was remarkable, not only for her many accomplishments, but for who she was. She always wanted to help youth who were struggling socially and academically, whether she was working as a camp counselor, a high school tutor, or a volunteer at Wesleyan's confidential listening service. She was passionate about those less fortunate and was involved in improving women's health and that of underserved populations. She was the most loving daughter, sister, fiancé, granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend, who always really listened to others. When she was ill, friends and acquaintances across the country recalled being inspired by her kindness, her intelligence, her radiant smile and lovely laugh, and her gentle and thoughtful ways.
She is survived by her parents, J. Randolph Hecht, MD and Lori Winer Hecht, MD, and her beloved brother, Matthew Hecht of Los Angeles, CA, as well as her grandfather, Norman Hecht of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by her amazing fiancé, Lucas Van Gorder, the love and light of Naomi's life who never left her side throughout her illness. She is predeceased by her maternal grandparents, Dr. Herbert and Phyllis Winer of Shawnee Mission, KS, and her paternal grandmother, Gloria Hecht of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by loving and supportive aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family across the country. Her family would like to thank the incredible network of physicians and scientists worldwide who provided so much help with her care. She will be buried at Hillside Memorial Park in Los Angeles, CA on January 4, 2021 at 2pm PST (5pm EST) with a video only service, link https://youtu.be/bntD4tCvFWQ. There will also be a memorial Zoom celebration of her life at January 24, 2021 at 2pm PST (5pm EST). https://www.watertreestudios.com/naomi-hecht, for friends and family who wish to participate in this event, please check the link as more information will continually be added. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the UCLA Jonsson Cancer Center Foundation for breast cancer research.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 2, 2021.

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Anita Ortega

January 5, 2021

I had the pleasure of speaking to Naomi a couple of short moments while she was being treated at UCLA. Although I only interacted with her those couple of times, I could feel her sincerity and genuine gentleness through her kind beautiful smile. Her smile could literally light up an entire room. My heartfelt prayers and condolences go out to the Hecht family and all those who loved Naomi. May she forever rest in love.

Amita Reigle

January 5, 2021

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I never met her face to face, but I always felt as I have known her for ever. My daughter Akanksha was her class mate and very close friend in Sidney Kimmel medical collage. She always told me how wonderful Noemi is. She told me with heavy heart when Noemi got sick and diagnosed . I didn't understand the severity of her case. But she kept me updated with every step of Noemi,s treatment. She was very happy when she told me that Noemi is getting married. I saw the card of prospective wedding date of May 5th on my daughter's fridge. Later she told me that it got postponed due to her health. This evening she called me again with tears and told me that she has just watched Noemi,s funeral instead of her wedding. We both talked about Noemi and cried.
I don't know how to console you on the world's greatest loss. I can't imagine the pain you are going through.
I just pray to God that he gives peace to both of you.

Carol (Caplan) Pope

January 1, 2021

I saw Naomi, Lori, Randy, and Matthew and Norman at our family Seders, although I haven't been very often in recent years. I remember her as a charming and very bright young woman, full of promise. I am not at all surprised at the beautiful descriptions of her character as well as her intellectual accomplishments. I send my deepest condolences to Lori and Randy, Matthew, Lucas, Norman, aunts, uncles, and cousins. I'm sorry that we live in a time where our family cannot gather in her name. Hopefully there will be such a time in the future.
Carol Sue

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