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for Mark Redding
Belinda Redding
August 17, 2024
I miss you everyday my love. My world is not the same without you. Continue to watch over me and help guide my steps. I will love you always!
Sending six kisses,
Your wife
Belinda Redding (wife)
August 18, 2023
I miss you baby more than anyone could imagine. I am so glad we made so many memories that help me keep your spirit alive. You will always hold a special place in my heart. My love for you is unbreakable. Rest easy my love. Sending 6 kisses from the Mrs; to the man I love, in the heavens above!
Linda Redding
August 16, 2022
Another year of missing you here on earth, but another year of appreciating you as my Angel. You´ll always be the best brother anyone could ever ask for There´s no time limit on my love for you!
Bea Redding
August 16, 2020
Still missing you like crazy; my life is forever changed. My heart is on fire and nothing seems to put out the flames.
Bea, your wife
Belinda Redding
September 21, 2008
THANK YOU
Today is the last day of Mark's guestbook. I would like to thank everyone who sent their condolence in my time of sorrow. I will treasure your thoughtfulness and prayers forever.
Marks' wife,
Belinda F. Redding
Thanks for your help in making me the woman that I am. I will always make you proud that you chose me as your wife. BEA
September 21, 2008
Here are the birthday girls. We're celebrating our birthday in San Diego, CA. This is Tonie, our long time good friend. She really loved Mark!
September 21, 2008
I'm sure Mark is giving his good friend Trent some worldly advise. They are enjoying the weather in sunny San Diego, CA. For their wives birthday. We had a great time. Trent was Mark's DREADLOCK mentor also:)
September 21, 2008
I JUST LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I REALLY MISS THE FUN!
September 21, 2008
WATCH OUT NOW. HE'S LOOKING FOR AN OPEN MAN!
September 21, 2008
How we enjoyed the yearly REDDING FAMILY REUNION. This yearly event has been going on for over 75 years. That's family.
September 21, 2008
THE DREAM TEAM. Mark is going to try is hand at basketball. Micheal Jordan was his favorite NBA player. However, Micheal he wasn't. This is at his family reunion in Michigan. This game was the young -vs- the old. Needless to say, the old lost.
September 21, 2008
A precious moment with Mark's great niece and nephew Nia and Nykyle.
September 21, 2008
Mark was so light on his feet. We loved dancing. He is beginning to spin me here. That was one of his favorite dance moves:) We are in Detroit, Michgan at the Redding Family Reunion!
September 21, 2008
Just a little family love. Sightseeing in Washington, DC.
September 21, 2008
Here's Mark at the Wax Museum in New York. He's hanging out with his favorite MJ'S.
September 21, 2008
We'll he look as if he's having a wonderful time at this party. I'm sure he is thinking, "Wow another one of Bea's boring work Christmas parties!"
September 21, 2008
This was Mark's favorite piece of art. He had it made while we were vacationing in Jamaica. This was the start of his love for the "DREADLOCK RASTA!" It was on since our Jamaica trip. Dreadlocks here we come!
September 21, 2008
September 21, 2008
Here we are spending a cold winter day downtown Chicago. We are enjoying the Christmas decor. Courtney really loved her uncle Mark!
September 21, 2008
Now this is a man with great taste!
September 21, 2008
Here's Mark on his way to make the donuts. I always enjoyed seeing him off to work. He smells just as good as he look. YUM! YUM! I loved the business side of him!
September 21, 2008
Santa Barbara, California was one of our favorite places. We often enjoyed bicycling around the boardwalk. It was one of our favorite places to take our visiting guest.-
September 21, 2008
Oh how Mark loved deep sea fishing. He didn't catch any fish this time out. We enjoyed the boat ride anyway.
September 21, 2008
Just chillin with "MANS BEST FRIEND" Mark and MO Betta Blues. I'm sure he's walking around heaven looking like a dog sitter. He's there with Khan, Zues, Mo and Pepsi. I'm sure they're keeping him busy.
September 21, 2008
Mark is on his way to the "Tables." He loved Vegas and the Black jack tables. He's holding on to his loot, ready to in his words,"kill'em at the tables!" The tables often killed him:)
September 21, 2008
THIS IS THE BUSINESS MAN. THIS LOOK WAS ONE OF HIS TRADE MARKS.
September 19, 2008
ON THIS DAY. I DO WED. NOVEMBER 27,1999
September 19, 2008
Mark really enjoyed the culture of Jamaica. He wanted to grow dreads, however, he wanted to know what they would look like on him. So, when in Jamaica do like the Jamaican's. He tried on this wig. How funny!
September 19, 2008
THIS WAS THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE, THE DAY YOU MADE ME YOUR WIFE!!!!!
BELINDA REDDING
September 18, 2008
TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,
A NOTE FROM YOUR DEVOTED WIFE
When I first saw you, on campus playing cards,
I thought to myself, "I need to persue him, will it be hard?"
Your smile, your kindness, your flirty ways,
Made my pursuit, one of many long and trying days.
I soon realized, I wasn't the only girl in love with you in this world,
Your charm, your Pizzazz and your flowing Jheri Curl.
But, with shear determination, patience and time,
Finally I conquered you, and you were mine.
Mark, I've loved you for most of my life,
Years and years before you made me your wife.
I'll always cherish the times we shared best,
Concerts, Plays, Vacations and the yearly Reggae Fest.
My wedding vows, I really took them to heart,
In sickness and in health, until death do we part.
You will always have a special place in my heart,
The fond memories of things we shared, will never part.
We fought a long and trying battle, side by side,
Though I must admit, it was one hell of a ride.
Oh yes, we did put up a gallant fight,
I finally realized you where getting tired,
So, go on my love and rest tonight.
Give Mo Betta Blues a kiss times three,
I'll see you again, when the Angels come for me.
YOU ARE MISSED,
"BEA"
YOUR LOVING, DEVOTED WIFE
OH HOW HE LOVED FISHING. THIS WAS A SLOW DAY OUT ON THE WATERS. UNFORTUNATELY, WE DID NOT CATCH ANY FISH. HOWEVER, I ENJOYED HIM TEACHING ME ALL ABOUT DEEP SEA FISHING. HE HAS HAD SOME WONDERFUL CATCHES IN HIS DAY. HOW HE LOVED THE WATER!!!
September 11, 2008
Just chillin with his favorite MAN'S BEST FRIEND, MO BETTA BLUES. I'M SURE THEY ARE WALKING ALL AROUND HEAVEN. HE OFTEN TALKED ABOUT GOING TO WALK MO IN HEAVEN.
September 11, 2008
AND HE'S OFF!!!!!! Racing on the sandy beaches in Mexico on his ATV.
September 11, 2008
Sharing a cold tropical drink with my baby after the hot ATV ride.
September 11, 2008
Mark was so competitive. Here we are getting to race on our ATV"S in Mexico. This was another sport Mark lovved. He always made our vacations memorable.
September 11, 2008
Horseback riding was another love of Mark's. He always wanted an experienced horse. Actually he as a novice but he would never admit it.
September 11, 2008
Thank goodness a successful landing. I was a breathe taking experience. Mark and I cherised this experience. I was absolutely wonderful sailing over Matzalan Mexico. I am so blessed to have had this experience with the man I love, Mark!
September 11, 2008
This is Mark getting ready for take off. He is getting his instructions. He was really excited about this adventure
September 11, 2008
Mark was a man who loved living on the edge. He was a true sportsman. Here he is trying his hand at parasailing. Of coarse he had me to go first. This was a wonderful time in Mexico on the beach.
September 11, 2008
THANKS FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL LIFE MARK! I'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART FOR ETERNITY!!!
Belinda Redding
August 27, 2008
MANY THANKS
I thought I would take this time to thank so many people who have shown me so much love and support since the passing of Mark. I can't thank my family enough. My sisters and brothers have never let me down. A very special thanks to my sister Avis. She has been there at anytime of the day or night when I needed a shoulder to cry on. Thanks for your daily support. My mom have been my rock. Even my very young nieces have shown me so much love and support. Oh how they miss their UNCLE MARK. They want to name everything after him, to help keep his memory alive. I must not forget Mark's special niece Anjie. I can feel the love she have for her favorite UNCLE MARK spilling over unto me. I'm also grateful for the wonderful friends and cousins and aunts that have been keeping in touch just to make sure I'm okay. Mark was a remarkable man and many people care about what was important to him which includes me. To my best friend Rae "Twiggy", I can't thank you enough for the fun and laughter you bring to my life. Thanks for caring. Let me not forget "All of your loving sisters" for extending this guest book a year, giving me a vehicle to express my love, thoughts, fears and memories of you for an entire year. I can't wait to have this book printed. This is something I'll cherish forever.
Again, thanks to all who showed me such love and support this past year as I embarked on this journey in life without the man I love, MARK ANTHONY REDDING!
BEA
MARK ADMIRING HIS BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS. BOY, DID HE HAVE A GREEN THUMB!!!
August 23, 2008
LOVING YOU WHILE THE SUNSET IN SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA!!!
BELINDA REDDING
August 23, 2008
Celebrating Your 1st Year of Eternal Life
It was one year ago, on a Saturday,
God wrapped His arm around you and took you away.
I've cried enough tears to build a highway to heaven,
You left me enough memories to pave a lane,
If I could, I would walk this road to heaven, and bring you home again.
I know that you are in a better place,
But, the hurt and sorrow still shows on my face.
My love for you is as fresh today,
As it was the hour you passed away.
I'm using your wisdom as my guide,
I feel your presence by my side.
So enjoy your time in heaven, you see,
I'll hold it down here on earth,
Until the angels come for me.
I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU DEARLY,
YOUR DEVOTED WIFE,
BEA
Anjanette Winners
August 20, 2008
It's been a year now, since you've been gone. Things just have not been the same Uncle! You were gone far too soon. But I know that you are in heaven having a great celebration with the other angels, singing Hallelujah and shouting Holy, Holy, Holy! I look forward to the day when I can see you again in heaven, but in the meantime I will continue to try and bring a smile to your face as you watch over your loved ones that were left behind.
Uncle Mark, I hope you ralize how much you are loved and how much you are missed. I miss the talks we used to have. I miss hearing your laughter and your lectures. For I know that everything you said was all out of love. I am so thankful to have you as my uncle and my friend. I am thankful for the love and support that you always showed me. I am thankful that you never turned your back on me, even when we would disagree. I am thankful for the encouragement that you always gave. I am also thankful that you respected the fact that I had my own mind and my own beliefs, and yet you loved me anyway.
Many times when I tell someone about My Uncle Mark, I have to try and hold back the tears. The pain is still fresh although it's been slightly over a year. My heart still aches because you're no longer here, but I know you're in a much better place with no more tears, pain, or suffering. I can still hear you speak to me every now and then, reassuring me to never give up and that things will work out fine.
I miss you more than words can say, but I am ever so grateful that I have memories to get me through the day. It brings a smile to my face when I remember things you used to do and say. You are indeed one of a kind, Uncle Mark.
I pray that as time goes on, that void will not be so painful. You are one of my specially appointed angels, so please don't stop looking out for me.
I miss you much and love you always.
Your niece,
Anjie
Belinda Redding
August 18, 2008
LUCKY ME!!!!
How lucky am I, to have loved you most of my life,
How lucky am I, to have been chosen your one and only wife.
How lucky am I, to have shared your dreams, your fantasies, your life plans,
How luck am I, to have been the last one to kiss your lips and hold your hands.
How lucky am I, to be left with a lifetime of fond memories,
How lucky am I, to still be able to eat the fruit from your planted trees.
How lucky am I, to be able to enjoy the place we made our home,
How lucky am I, in your own words, to have been able to "STAY OFF THE PAYROLL," and hold it down my own.
How lucky am I, to have had you to provide me with everything I need,
How lucky am I, to have had you to be so kind and considerate when you knew you were going to leave.
How unlucky am I, to have missed you 366 days,
How lucky am I, to have you watching over me, smiling down and guiding me in so many ways.
How lucky am I, to have been there to hold your hand, wipe you tears and listen to your fears,
How lucky am I, to have found love, happiness, joy and a soulmate, when I found you, for so many years.
How lucky am I, to think this was all luck,
When I really should say, "I'VE BEEN BLESSED!"
MEET CHARLIE!!
Belinda Redding
August 7, 2008
Got you heavy on my mind and heart these days. Charlie brings a smile to my face, but he will never take Mo's place. Missing you two more and more each day.
Your wife,
Bea
Belinda Redding
August 5, 2008
I bet you are having a blast in heaven, now that you have your fishing buddies there with you. Say hello to Derek for me. I miss you two so much. Isn't it ironic he introduced you to fishing and now the two of you can fish for eternity.
Love you much,
Bea
LOVING YOU JUST ONE YEAR AGO AT A WEDDING CELEBRATION IN WESTLAKE, CALIFORNIA!
Belinda Redding
July 18, 2008
LOST
My days are so long
Thoughts of you are so strong
Can't help to think, that this is all wrong.
My heart is still so full of grief
My mind is shocked in disbelief
Death came in the night and took you like a thief.
I walk around with a smile on my face
But under no circumstances does it erase
The fact that my heart is on fire, because you are resting in a different place.
They call this grief thing a process
If you ask me it's just a mess
Ups and downs, highs and low's, challenge after challenge, putting me to the test.
However, my faith has taken away the fear
As we approach your departing, a year
I miss you like crazy, my darling my dear
But, I know you wouldn't want me to shed a tear.
The loneliness has lasted day 335
My task in life, is to always keep your memory alive
Without them, I don't know if it is possible to survive.
When you left, I lost a part of me
loving you more and more, your devoted wife,
BEA
Belinda Redding
July 7, 2008
This weekend was very long and lonely without you. I can't believe just a year ago we celebrated the 4th of July with friends. Rolling with the top dropped down and the wind blowing through our hair, putting it down on the 210 freeway. I can even remember what you ate. I also remember how you enjoy the fireworks. I remember that as if it was yesterday. My, how the time is passing. It is these fond memories that keeps me going and I thank you for them. I'll cherish them forever.
My heart still weeps for you,
Your Wife,
BEA
LOVING YOU WITH FRIENDS DURING THE HOLIDAY IN WINNETKA, CALIFORNIA!
Belinda Redding
June 18, 2008
M-I-S-S-I-N-G M-A-R-K
My life without you is so,
Incomplete.
Someone as kind, as loving, and giving, will I ever meet?
So, as I continue this journey in life without you day 305,
I can't thank you enough for all the great times, that keeps you memory alive.
Never will I forget your laughter, your smile, your smell, your kiss,
Giving me security, knowledge, wisdom and more. Too much to list.
Making the most out of this tragedy in my life,
As I stand tall, strutting like a peacock, with pride because, "I'M MRS. MARK ANTHONY REDDING!" your WIFE.
Realizing that brighter days are coming, you see,
Keeping in mind that you are smiling down on me.
I JUST CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH,
FOR LOVING ME SO MUCH!!!!
Missing you,
BEA
Linda Redding
May 26, 2008
This is Memorial Day - a day in tribute to soldiers who fought for our country and our freedom. Well, my brother, you have always been our soldier fighting for our family and the beliefs that we should all be happy.
We stop to think about the times you came to our sides to do battle or teach and talk about how things should be done. We watched you grow through the ranks of manhood and become a spectacular specimen of the example of how life should be lived, honored and appreciated. You fought a long and courageous battle and we watched you conquer the odds against you time after time.
You became our hero and showed us how to do the "thang".
You are the soldier who fought our battles as a family and who preached that you never let anyone outside of the family know that there was any disagreement within our structure. If something was not right in public, always remain loyal to the family and deal with it in private. That's when you expected to "give" or "get" it from the family!
You demonstrated that when life throws you a lemon, make lemonade. You demonstrated that even if you are down, you are not out. You demonstrated that unconditional love has no price, reward or expectations - it is just simply UNCONDITIONAL. You demonstated that when others expect one thing from you, follow your heart and do what is right, because your heart will never lead you down the wrong path. You demonstrated that the only thing you have to prove to anyone else is that their expectations don't make you the person you are and some things are left between that person and God, because he knows your thoughts without ever a word being spoken, since He looks at your heart.
We honor and cherish you today and everyday as the special individual you are. We will keep your memories alive and honor your life by passing your legacy on to those who know and do not know of you. You will always remain that special brother, friend, advisor and hero to all of us. Continue to watch over us as our Ambassador of Heaven. We love you --- everyday---always!
Your sisters.
Belinda Redding
May 18, 2008
THE SIMPLE THINGS
It's the simple things in life,
That we shared as husband and wife,
Which makes your passing, just cut like a knife.
I miss the way you always held my hand,
Showing the world you loved me and proud to be my man.
I miss our casual walks around the neighborhood,
Saying, "Good Morning", to everyone we could.
I miss just sitting outside on our porch,
I'm glad you gave me the knowledge and wisdom to continue to carry the torch.
I miss you each day more and more,
I've missed you now day 274.
BOY, DO I MISS YOU!
My life is so empty without you,
Your loving, lonely, wife,
BEA
BELINDA REDDING
April 24, 2008
MISSING YOU
HEY BABY, I MISS YOU SO MUCH. MY HEART IS JUST SO HEAVY. I'M TERRIBLY LONELY WITHOUT MY LOVER AND MY FRIEND. I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE YOU AND MOE ARE NOT HERE WITH ME. I'VE NEVER FELT SUCH EMPTINESS. I MISS EVERYTHNG ABOUT YOU. IN THE WORDS OF ALICIA KEYS, "EVERYTHING MEANS NOTHING IF I DON'T HAVE YOU!"
I MISS YOU,
YOUR WIFE,
BEA
Family love in Long Beach, California!!
Belinda Redding
April 18, 2008
By My Side
I feel your presence around me everday,
Yours are the foot prints in the sand, carrying me all the way.
I use to be afraid wondering, "What am I to do!"
Between you and GOD I'm making it through.
I had to learn that by being afraid meant I had no faith.
If I had faith I wouldn't be afraid.
You left this earth leaving me with so much more,
And I thank you as I miss you day 244.
I love you and I miss you,
your loving wife,
Bea
Celeste Rhone
April 4, 2008
To My Beloved Brother,
Mark not a day goes by that I don't think of you, there is not a minute that goes by that your name is not mentioned. I miss you so much, it brings tears to my eyes and sadness to my heart that I'm unable to speak with you on the phone, hold you in my arms, seeing your smiling face and kissing you on your cheek. I miss your laughter, your smile, our joking around....I miss being with you, cooking your favorites and visiting you. Your voice and the things we talked about will always be with me and I can feel your present by me. I have another guardian angel and I know your hands are on me; keeping me on the straight and narrow road. If it seems like I’m going over, I know you will pull me up and guide me back. When I'm spending time with my sisters or just talking on the phone with them, your name is always mentioned; however, we know that you are sitting with us and you are a BIG part of our conversation. You are my shining star in the sky...taking me to bigger and better places. So keep me on my feet and I know you will. I love and miss you dearly, but all of your sisters, nieces and nephews miss you too. You are our one and only Beloved Brother and Uncle and there will be no other to take your place. We love you dearly but God loves you more!
Love, Your Sister
Celeste Zsa Zsa Redding-Rhone
([email protected])
Belinda Redding
March 23, 2008
Happy Easter Mark
I missed you under the tent today,
Service was great, I must say.
I love you more than words can ever convey,
As I think of you on Christ's Resurrection Day.
Loving You with a heavy heart,
Your loving, devoted,
WIFE,
BEA
I got it Mark, I really got it.
LOVING YOU FROM COAST TO COAST IN WASHINGTON, DC!
Belinda Redding
March 18, 2008
Thank You
For: Making me the woman that I am,
For: Showing me I can do it, yes I can.
For: Sharing over 20 years of your life,
For: Loving and respecting me as your wife.
For: Teaching me how to be strong,
so in times like this I can carry on.
For: Thinking of me even after death,
when I feel all is lost and nothing's left.
For: Showing us all what the importance of saying "Thank You" really mean,
As I miss you day 213.
For all of this and more, " I THANK YOU!"
Your loving wife,
Bea
LOVING YOU LAST YEAR ON YOUR 48TH BIRTHDAY AT ONE OF OUR FAVORITE RESTAURANTS BENIHANA'S IN ENCINO, CALIFORNIA!!!!
Belinda Redding
February 27, 2008
Happy Birthday My Love
Happy birthday to you my love,
I'm sending 6 kisses to you in the heavens above.
Mark, I remember your birthday last year so vividly. You had a good day. You were feeling well, you were excited that your sisters were coming to see you. Your nephew was here to share your special day. We had a wonderful breakfast at our new found breakfast spot. We got to have dinner at one of our favorite restaurants. I also remember you telling me how glad you were to see another birthday. Those memories make me smile today. I still miss your laughter, your touch and just you calling my name. I really don't think my life will ever be the same.
Missing you like crazy and loving you more than life.
Your Wife,
Bea
February 27, 2008
Celebrate your earthly birthday in heaven today! Mark, I hope that your first birthday in heaven allows you to celebrate with all our loved ones and friends who have gone on before you. I can't say that I don't want you here to joke about how old you are and for you to tell me how good you feel. I saw the need for you to go home and be with the other saints and to keep them smiling, laughing and having a good ole time. I want you to know that the tears have not stopped, the thoughts have not ceased and the memories will never fade. I miss you in my heart because that is where you reside. I miss you because you were my inspiration on many days when I didn't think tomorrow would ever come - my smile when I think of some of the things you did or said - my hope that everything will work out for the best. You are the person who is still loved, respected and truly missed. You will always be in our thoughts, conversations and in our prayers. Mark, you are the brightest star in the skies and will always be my loving and devoted brother --- the best that anyone could be blessed with. I send you 49 hugs and 49 kisses for your special day. I love you and miss you. All I can say is, now you have the juice! (Smile)
Love ya!
Linda
Anjanette Winners
February 27, 2008
HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNCLE MARK!!!
I know you're in heaven celebrating with the Lord not only today but every day. However, that doesn't take away the void in our lives that remains because you're not still here with us. I miss you dearly Uncle!!!
Love you!!!
Your niece,
Anjanette Deniece Winners
LOVING YOU IN DOLTON, ILLINOIS! WHAT A WONDERFUL TIME.
Belinda Redding
February 18, 2008
TIRED TIRED
Tired of coming into this house alone,
Tired of thinking, "You're not coming home."
Tired of eating by myself,
Tired of wondering what is left.
Tired of not being held at night,
Tired of waking up in such fright.
Tired of watching TV without you,
Tired of always feeling so blue.
Tired of not seeing you walk out that bedroom door,
Tired of missing you day 184.
I'll always love you Mark,
I miss you so so much.
Bea
Belinda Redding
February 14, 2008
Happy Valentine's Day
Happy Valentine's Day to the one I love,
Many hugs and 6 kisses to you up above.
Missing You like crazy on this lover's Day.
Your loving Wife
Bea
Anjanette Winners
February 7, 2008
Hello Uncle Mark!!
It's my 35th Birthday today and I'm thinking of you. It's been almost six months without you here, and it's been very lonely. I can't just pick up the phone and say Hi Uncle, I love you, I miss you, or I just wanted to hear your voice. But I do feel your presence with me often.
Sometimes I'll wake up at 3am or 4am with tears in my eyes or with a smile on my face because I was having a conversation with you where you were either giving me guidance or advice or you were telling a joke to make me laugh. When I awake it seems so real like you were right there with me.
You are truly, truly missed Uncle Mark. No one can take your place. You were indeed the glue that was holding us together. But I know that you are still watching over us all and protecting us.
Uncle Mark, thank you for always showing me so much love. Thank you being my special appointed angel to watch over me and keep me company when I get lonely. Thank you for being such a dear friend. Thank you for being the best uncle ever. Thank you for all the cherished memories that I will carry with me in my heart and mind.
Remembering you always, but especially today,
Your niece,
Anjie (aka Baby Girl and Smurf)
Love you much!!
Belinda Redding
January 30, 2008
My heart still yearns for the love of my life. I miss you more than anyone could ever imagine. I don't think anything can fill this void in my life. I expected to grow old with you as husband and wife.
Will the hurt ever go away?
LOVING YOU WHILE WE'RE JAMMIN IN CALABASAS CALIFORNIA!!
Belinda Redding
January 18, 2008
2008
A new year has come, it's 2008,
I'm trying to move forward, hope it will be great.
Thoughts of you, still make me cry,
You wanted happiness for me, so for you I'll try.
I often reminisce about the times we shared,
And I love and thank you so much, for how much you cared.
It's hard to believe that this is day 153,
That the Lord called you home, and away from me.
I don't think I've ever experienced such loneliness,
Your touch , your smile, your kiss, I'll always miss.
I miss you like crazy,
I LOVE YOU,
Your wife,
Bea
LOVING YOU AT HOME ON CHRISTMAS 2005!
BELINDA REDDING
December 25, 2007
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO THE ONE I LOVE
Christmas for me is just not the same,
No gifts under the tree, FROM YOU, with my name.
I heard a song playing on the radio,
Over the years I've sang it a thousand times, I know.
It said,"Xmas jus ain't Xmas without the one you love!"
This is so true , especially when their spending it in the heavens above.
So Merry Christmas, Mark & Moe,
You're having a grand celebration, this I know.
To be in heaven on Christ Birthday,
Must be awesome, I must say.
So I'm sending you a gift of Love, Hugs and Kisses,
From me to you, your loving wife the MRS.
MISSING YOU GUYS DEARLY ON THIS CHRISTMAS DAY,
LOVE LIL MAMA
LOVING YOU AFTER A DIRTY DUNN BUGGY RIDE IN PUERTO VALLARTA, MEXICO!!!!
BELINDA REDDING
December 18, 2007
BRIGHTER DAYS
I can't wait for brighter days,
My life is changing constantly in so many ways.
It is said, "The sun will come out tomorrow,"
But how can a light shine through so much sorrow?
I'm missing you more and more with each breath that I take,
One hundred and twenty two days without, this day will make.
Missing you so so very much,,
YOUR LOVING WIFE,
BEA
LOVING YOU IN MAZATLAN MEXICO ON OUR ANNIVERSARY!
Belinda Redding
November 27, 2007
11-27-2007
This day, 8 years ago, was the happiest day of my life,
On this day, I said, "I DO!" Becoming Mrs. Mark A. Redding, your loving wife.
Sadly, there was so much grief & sorrow, as I stood before you today,
I was so very close; but, yet you were so far away.
To see your name up on that wall,
Surrounding by so many, whom GOD had called,
It was hard to hold back, when the tears began to fall.
I didn't want to leave you, I thought it was wrong,
But, I heard your voice telling me, "Go on Bea and please stay strong!"
So contnue to rest until we meet here again,
And always remember, I really miss my husband, my lover and my friend.
Remembering you on our WEDDING DAY
Your WIFE,
MRS. MARK ANTHONY REDDING
Linda Redding
November 22, 2007
HAPPY THANKSGIVING MARK:
This is our first Thanksgiving with you in Heaven. I have come to realize that everyday of your life was a day of Thanksgiving. As I reflect upon your life, there are so many things to be grateful and thankful for. I'm thankful that you were that special child, number 7, and the only brother - God could have given us another sister. I'm thankful for your honesty, patience, wisdom and your love. I'm thankful that you were a good Uncle to your nephews and nieces and taught them what love is, how to endure the knockdowns of life and how to get up, dust off and keep going. You showed us all how to live and leave with dignity. Without any of these, you would not have been Mark. I'm thankful that you lived your life the way you wanted and never let anyone divert you from your happiness. I'm thankful that you gave as good as you got. I'm thankful that you showed many people what it is to be blessed. I'm thankful that you went in the water before you left. I'm thankful that you know how I feel about you and understand the love and special place you have in my life. I'm thankful that the suffering, pain and tears have passed. I'm thankful that God blessed you and took you onto His bosom to rest. I'm thankful that you taught us that it is not the quantity of life that God blesses us with, but the quality of what we acheive. I'm thankful for having you to look over our family. I'm thankful that the memories and times that we shared will never be taken away. I'm thankful that my heart holds you near and will never forget you. Mark, I am thankful that God has placed with Mom, Dad, Uncle W.C., Aunt Rose, Zeus and Mo and all the other angels you have met in heaven. Keep them laughing and enjoying their time with you. I know that one day, I'll see you again and be in the presence of God and you. Your smile is embedded in our lives and we all miss you. Look down and smile Mark, I keep going for you.
Love you,
Everyday Always
Your Sis
LOVING YOU IN SAN DIEGO!
Belinda Redding
November 18, 2007
LIVING WITHOUT YOU
Living without you, the world is so cold,
Living without you, is devastating to my soul.
Living without you, your wishes I'll always respect,
Living without you, I wish you were here to protect.
Living without you, has left a deep hole in my heart,
Living without you? Was unheard of, we would never part.
Living without you, now ninety two days have gone by,
Living without you, I still find myself asking,"WHY, WHY, WHY!"
Living without you, I don't know where to begin,
Living without you, who do I trust, who do I let in?
Living without you, has not been easy, Oh Boy!
Living without you, I wonder if I'll ever find my joy.
Living without you, is just living, not life,
Living without you, now I'm a WIDOW,not WIFE.
MY HEART WEEPS FOR YOU WITH EVERY BEAT!
Your wife for life
Bea
Deuteronomy 27:19
Courtney Earl Leonard
November 12, 2007
My Uncle, My Uncle Mark
Where is he
He is dead
That's where he be
He can't, no it can not be
Atlass it's true he's b4 my eyes
He's high in the sky
Uncle Mark plz don't leave me
Yet he's gone
Plz come back to me
He's left me
He's left me
How could this be
He left me and now inside me is my heart split in two
He's gone he's gone
Uncle Mark how could you
Loving you in San Diego. November 02, 2006
Belinda Redding
November 2, 2007
Hey My Love,
Today was so strange spending my birthday without you. I did my best to make the best of it. It seems like just yesterday we were in San Diego for my last birthday. I know I have some tough days ahead of me. I also have some wonderful people in my corner supporting me. I can't thank you enough for having such wonderful friends who loved you enough to care for me. You must be terribly proud of Anjie. She is such a special young lady. Missing you more and more each day. I'll love you forever and you will never be forgotten.
Your loving wife,
Missing you much,
Bea
Bonnie
October 25, 2007
Hey baby,
I think about you everyday as usual. But somehow this is so different, I can't pick up the phone and hear your strong advice, even though you gave it to me often enough that trust me I remember by heart every word you spoke. I miss you more than anyone can imagine. Love ya always, baby.
Yvette Redding
October 20, 2007
Hi Mark, I really miss you and our telephone conversations when I would call you so you give me that brother advice you were so good at doing. I especailly miss our conversations, when you would give your words of wisdom "You can have anything in life that you want", and to "reach for the stars". I also miss all the laughter we shared whenever we talked. You are greatly missed but will never be forgotten. Love You, your sis Yvette
Rose Winners
October 19, 2007
Mark - You are the only one who could ever walk in your shoes. There is none other. There will never be another. Every day is supposed to be easier, but I miss you like crazy. I know I always thought the world of you as my little brother; but it is truly a wonderful feeling to know that others thought so well of you.
Bea - Always remember and never forget that you are not in this thing alone. I love you because my brother loved you.
Loving you in The Big Apple!
Belinda Redding
October 18, 2007
MISSING YOU
The house is so quite. The phone never rings.
They say it will get easier, but, such sadness this still brings.
Sixty one days have gone by,
the toughts and memories still make me cry.
I could not have IMAGINED this kind of sorrow.
I just hope and pray for better tomorrows.
If only I could touch, smell or hold you one more time,
I'd never let go, that moment would be all mine.
I'm not looking forward to the month's to come,
Birthday's, Anniversary, Holidays, to spend with no one?
Many things are happening that I don't understand.
I'm so glad that YOU and GOD are holding my hand.
I do believe that you are watching over me.
I hope I'm making you proud in what you see.
Many of our conversations are coming to fruition.
You were so right. I'm really glad I listened.
I hope Mo Betta Blues is up there behaving.
The companionship of a new puppy is what I've been craving.
So until next time,with this I will part.
The love I have for you, will never leave my heart.
YOUR LOVE, YOUR FRIEND, YOUR SOULMATE, YOUR WIFE.
Thanks for giving me such a wonderful LIFE.
BEA
Linda Redding
September 27, 2007
My newest angel:
I'm thinking of you alot these days and although I'm happy for my new angel, I miss him here with me. I know that there were times I wanted to call you and didn't, but it is really hard to want to call you and can't. I know that now you are at peace, pain free and enjoying the rest of our loved ones there with you. You mean so much to me and I remember all the advice and words of wisdom about life and living. Your words are embedded on my heart and I just want you to know that nothing has changed between us except for the fact that your spirit is much larger now. God showed me that He would be taking you home before you went and when He showed me this, I finally realized that it would be selfish of me to ask Him to let you stay. I wanted you to enjoy peace and serenity without the suffering and putting on that BIG front for all of us. You showed us how God works through us and how His plan and time may not be what we would want. You were always the one who kept us together as a family and you are still the glue keeping all of us strong. You are the best brother anyone could ask for and I know that you are watching over us. My love and respect for you will never end. I miss you so much Mark and my heart is heavy without you. When I cry it is because I want to see you and hear your voice, but I'm only sad that my only brother is no longer here. I hope that I don't disappoint you and do all the things you asked. I try everyday to do this, but I need you in my life to keep going.
Rest on my brother, for I will see you again. I love ya!!! Your big Sis.
Diane McCullough-London
September 24, 2007
Valencia(Bridget)and Family!
Sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved brother. I know you all will miss him very much. You have my deepest condolences. I will keep you in my prayers.Sorry I just found out.
I'll always remember the good times! Our love was heaven sent.
Belinda Redding
September 18, 2007
Hey Mark,
I am missing you so much. This is not easy. Continue to watch over me and help guide me through this difficult time. My heart is heavy. I love you so much.
Your Loving Wife,
Bea
Ava Williams-Haywood
September 9, 2007
Belinda,
I extend my sincere sympathy to you for the loss of your husband, Mark. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.
Your nursing school classmate.
Keith DeBowles
September 9, 2007
Dear Redding Sisters,
I was speachless when I heard the news of brother Mark Redding going home. We know God makes no mistakes. I thank God for blessing me with his presence during the small amount of time we had while growing up. My prayers of strength and understanding goes out to you, his family, and friends. He was a good man and I will remember his smile.
Sincerely,
Bro. DeBowles
Robin Freeland
September 7, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Simona Patterson
September 5, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Alicia Redmond
August 29, 2007
Valencia,
May the love, joy, good times, and laughter experienced throughout life comfort you! You are in my prayers! God bless
Kristen Broadnax
August 29, 2007
Linda and family,
Unfortunately, I don't have any recollection of your husband but I have known you all of my life and I know that he is an awesome person if you married him. It is my prayer that God bless and keep you in this time and in the future and I will remember you in prayer.
Denise Harvey Patrick
August 27, 2007
To Valencia
Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Kevin D. Fowler
August 27, 2007
To the Redding Family,
We offer our condolences in your time of grief. Mark, Brother, Sands I will always remember our times at IU and California. You will be missed here, but I also know that you are in Heaven doin' your thing up there. I treasure the time I 've had with you. I'll see you later Nupe.
#10 of the 16 F.O.N.
Wayne Campbell
August 26, 2007
To the Redding family
My deepest sympathy to you all .
Not only did I know Mark (who graduated with my brother William "Soup " Campbell ,class of 77 ,but I graduated with Yvette ) God bless his wife and family and he will now shine above us all .Keep your head up because he will always be you forever .
Wayne " Soup " Campbell
WS Class of 78
Tameka Lockett-Evans
August 25, 2007
Cousin Linda,
I know that we have not talked in a long time but please call if you need anything! My condolences to you for the loss of your husband. My family and I will be praying for you! Love you! Tameka
Cassaundra Billups
August 25, 2007
To the Redding Family
You are forever in my prayers
Emma Morris
August 25, 2007
Sabrina, Celeste and Family
I'm sorry to hear the loss of Mark. My prayers and condolences are with you and the entire family during this difficult time. May you find strenght in the Lord. Mark's essence will always be missed by many, but never forgotten by all who ever had the pleasure of knowing him. Don't think of him as gone away for his journey has just begun in a far better place and his love will always be with us. Remember nothing LOVED is ever LOST and Mark was loved so much. May GOD bless you.
Radcliff Redding
August 25, 2007
Mark,
I am going to miss you, “cuz.” Without a doubt. I will miss the times we shared, talking about our fathers and who we thought was the meanest ... or the coolest back in the day.
I will miss the advice you gave me, and the respect you always showed me — even as others doubted whether I would ever be about anything.
Most of all, I will miss your keen insight, your jokes and your love.
You have always been “my other brother.” Now I am one short.
I know you are in a better place now, and you deserve it.
So rest easy, cousin. Rest easy.
Sharon Hoye
August 25, 2007
To Rose Winners and family,
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. My prayers are with you in the passing of your dear brother. Rose I know that you loved him, but we must always remember that God loved him best. To those in the family that may not know the greatness of Jesus, I recommend him to you at this time. He will be all that you need in this your hour of bereavement. To those that know Jesus in the pardon of your sins I say continue to look to the hills from whence cometh your help and know that you will see you Brother, Husband, father, cousin, and friend again. My prayers are with you at this time and always.
Sharlene Morris Cannon
August 25, 2007
To Mark's Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I remember Mark well from my brother, DeWayne Morris, and from Carmen Gadsen.
Karan Lockett
August 25, 2007
To cousin Linda,
My condolences to you. May you find peace in your memories with Mark.
Love your cousin Karan
Valerie Tubbs
August 25, 2007
Redding Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Valerie Tubbs
West Side Class 77
Linda Redding
August 25, 2007
I realize that God only gave me one brother because He gave me the best brother He had. I will miss the lectures, the hugs and kisses but most of all I will miss that beautiful smile. I know that now your spirit has found comfort and peace. You always called me your angel - but now you are mine. You rest on now Mark and enjoy that mansion that had awaited you. You will forever be in our hearts and we thank God for blessing our lives with you.
Toni Phillips-Cassell
August 24, 2007
God Bless You All
I Went To Tolleston With Mark and Remember Him Well. Very Kind Person
RHS 1977
Diahanne Stewart
August 24, 2007
To: Rose and to the Redding Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Know that our Savior has the power to heal and to mend and with time we will join our loved ones once again.
May god wrap his loving arms around you.
Virginia and Cordell
August 24, 2007
Valencia and Family,our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. We love you very much.
Sharmaine Baity-Cody
August 24, 2007
Mrs. Mark Redding & the Entire Redding Family
Upon hearing of Mark's passing a thousand memories came to mind. He was an individual who was not easily forgotten. I'm glad to say that he was my friend. May your hearts be comforted in knowing that Mark is now resting peacefully.
Your Friend & 1977 Classmate.
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