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Brian Groves Obituary
Brian R. Groves, age 56, Appleton area, passed away June 17, 2017 after battling a lengthy illness. Brian was born on September 3, 1960 in Appleton, to the late Roland and Margaret (Merkel) Groves. He spent the majority of his childhood living on Lawrence St, hanging out with his brothers, playing sports in the neighborhood, and catching fish, turtles, and snakes down by the Fox River.
When Brian was older, his family moved to Menasha where he graduated from high school. Brian was a very intelligent man, and after high school, he furthered his education by earning his bachelor's degree in Computer Science from Lakeland College and his M.B.A. from UW-Oshkosh. He worked in management in the IT field for most of his professional career.
Brian was an avid boater, and the Wolf River was his happy place. He also enjoyed fishing off his dock in Fremont. He was a devoted fan of all Wisconsin sports teams. He loved to talk about sports, politics, and finance.
He is survived by his brothers: Dennis (Linda), De Pere; Patrick (Colleen), Eagle; nieces and nephews: Cecily, Minneapolis, MN; Elena and Elliott, De Pere; Emily (fiancé Kyle Simonson), Waukesha; Collin and Cameron, Mukwonago; great-nephew, Easton Simonson.
In addition to his parents, Brian is preceded in death by his brother, Robert; sister, Barbara Dewey, and his infant niece, Celine Groves.
Family and friends may visit at Cotter Funeral Home, 860 N. Webster Ave, De Pere, on Friday, June 23 from 4:00pm until the time of service at 6:00pm. Online condolences may be expressed at www.cotterfuneralhome.com.
Although he struggled these past several years, Brian is now at peace.
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January 21, 2019
I remember Brian as being my first 'crush' in high school although he didn't know. He was so kind to everyone in high school. I believe he played the trumpet in the school band with me? Such a sad loss. It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
Jody (Kusserow) Reader
Elizabeth Lewandowski
June 22, 2017
The Plan of the Master Weaver
My life is but a weaving
between the Lord and me,
I may not choose the colors,
He knows what they should be;
For He can view the pattern
Upon the upper side
While I can see it only
On this, the under side.
Sometimes He weaveth sorrow,
Which seemeth strange to me;
But I will trust His judgment,
And work on faithfully;
'Tis He who fills the shuttle,
And He knows what is best,
So I shall weave in earnest,
Leaving to Him the rest.
Not till the loom is silent
and the shuttles cease to fly
Shall God unroll the canvas
And explain the reason why--
The dark threads are as needed
In the Weaver's skillful hand
As the threads of gold and silver
In the pattern He has planned.
Author unknown
May God bless you and keep you, Brian
Sandie Maurer
June 22, 2017
Brian,
From the first time I met you so many years ago, I found such a caring and gentle soul, a smile that lit up a room, a sense of humor that everybody loved, your swagger and kindness were loved by all that knew you.
God had a different plan and that was to save you from the demons that were taking you over.
Watch over all those that struggle Brian....we need your wings of encouragement, your soul to guide all the others that have suffered and are suffering.
One last hug to you my friend.
Jayne Lotzer-Quintero
June 22, 2017
such a shock to hear of Brian's passing! My heart goes out to his family! He was such a great person!
Lynn (Schramm) Stinski
June 21, 2017
Sincerest condolences to your family. I'm am so sorry for the loss of your brother, son, Uncle, and friend.
Shelly Verbrick
June 20, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I was a classmate and would run into Brian over the years in Fremont. He was a wonderful man and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.
Woody Barthel
June 20, 2017
Dear Dennis and Pat,
Sorry to hear about Brian. We remember him from when you guys were "little ".
Blessings,
Woody and Ruth
June 20, 2017
So sorry for your loss Pat. Sending prayers.
Shirley(Pagel)Wisnet"77"
Rob Reinhardt
June 20, 2017
Dennis and Pat, very sorry to hear about Brian. Condolences to you and your families.
Rob Reinhardt
Kim (Rucynski) Hollander
June 19, 2017
So sorry to Brian's family for your tremendous loss! I was a high school mate of Brian's. He was a wonderful classmate &
I am certain he turned out to be a wonderful man! Luv & misses, Brian!!!
Jeff Rudolph
June 19, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with Brian's family and friends.
Mike Court
June 19, 2017
My Condolences to Brian's Family and Friends He was a good Person who will be missed Rest Easy Brian until we meet again
Sarah
June 18, 2017
Forever in my heart❤
Sarah Miller Long
June 18, 2017
Dennis, Pat and families I am so truly sorry for your loss. I personally am devastated by the loss of Brian and the loss to your families. Brian will forever be in my heart and a very very special person that touched my life in so many ways. Over the years we stayed very close and only lost touch when we left Winneconne and moved to the Western UP. I remember all the times we drove to the UP to ski even when it was such a whiteout but we were determined. Never did I ever believe I would live there and own a business there. Every time I go to Ironwood which is almost daily I think of those times and the fun we all had. I will forever hold him in my heart and the memories that we shared. God Bless you Brian you are in a better place and at peace.
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