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David Barnstable Obituary

David Vernon Barnstable

Neenah - David Vernon Barnstable, husband, companion, best friend of Rose Schloemer (Holz) Barnstable for 53 years died July 22, 2020, at Heartwood Senior Living in Appleton of Alzheimer's Disease. In addition to his wife, he is survived by their children, Ann Barnstable aka Dare of Chester Maryland, Christine Holz (Tim Ball) of Underwood WA, David (Denise) Holz of Reno NV, Jon Holz (Frances Hearn) of Castle Rock WA, and Brian (Robin) Holz of New Windsor MD. Also surviving are 7 grandchildren Ashley and Jason Holz, Zachary (Jocelyn) Holz, Emily and Jennifer Holz, and Casey and Carley Dare. He is also survived by his sisters-in-law Shirley (Charles) Barnstable, Lois Toevs (Charles Grigsby), Marilyn Day, Linda Taylor (James), Martha Schultz (James), Deborah Segersten (Gorden) and brother-in-law Lawrence Schloemer (Susan Goulet). He was preceded in death by his parents Vernon and Lily Barnstable and three brothers, Robert, James and Charles.

Dave was born in Neenah WI on June 19, 1937. He graduated from Neenah High School in 1956 and joined the Army that fall. He was stationed in France for two years. Upon his return he attended UW Menasha Extension while working for Sawyer Paper. In 1962 he answered President Kennedy's call to join the Peace Corp. After three months of training in Hilo HI he was assigned to Jones, Isabela Province, Philippines where he taught English for two years. In 1964 he started working for Marathon Corporation and also attended UW-Oshkosh full time graduating in January 1967. He and Rose were married in August 1967 and moved to Buffalo NY where he completed his Master's Degree in History at SUNY. He then taught at Medaille College in Buffalo and was History Department Chairman until the family moved to Catonsville, MD in 1977. Dave worked almost 40 years at Florence Crittenden Services in Baltimore MD as Education Director and Assistant Director for the Agency.

Dave's love of travel never left him and he and Rose traveled extensively overseas to all Western European and some Eastern European countries, and countries in South America, South East Asia, Africa and the South Pacific. They also visited all 50 states. He wanted to instill his love of travel in his children and then his grandchildren so almost all the family made trips overseas, the grandchildren starting at age 10. There were also annual ski trips out west and numerous biking trips in the US, Canada, Italy and Germany. Dave played tennis for many years and continued taking lessons until this past December. As one of his grandson's observed 'I have always looked up to you and wondered how someone your age ...could play so much tennis, ride a bike for so darn long, grow a million tomatoes and consume as much ice cream as you did on a daily basis'. A son noted that Dave loved to tell jokes but he always started laughing before he ever finished the joke. He loved life, family and friends.

The family wants to thank the staff at Heartwood Senior Living Home in Appleton and the Ascension Hospice nurses for all the help and comfort they gave Dave during his last months. There will be no virtual visitation and internment will be private. For online condolences, please visit: www.kesslerfh.com.

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Jul. 23 to Jul. 26, 2020.

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Dr. Steve Goeller

July 30, 2020

I worked with Dave at Florence Crittenton Services. He was a great guy. He was the jack of all trades HR guy. A kind, gentle man with that wonderful smile. My condolences to his family and friends. Rest in Peace!

Elizabeth Savage

July 28, 2020

Dave was one of my dearest friends at Medaille College. He was always ready to share in work, in laughter, in reflection. The new program he developed--Human Services--reflected his values and his interests. Parties at his house were regular, and his knack for growing beans was a legend. I treasure the memory of his last visits to Buffalo: an evening in our back yard and lunch at his favorite spot--the PM. My love and support to Rosemary and all his family.
Liz Savage, SSJ

ToddGauger

July 28, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.I remember when my Dad Wally Gauger had his stroke.Dave came back a few times and kept in touch with my mom.And remember my dad telling stories about the guys. Sorry for you loss and keep the memories alive Todd Gauger

jim Coenen

July 27, 2020

Sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I walked to school with him almost every day in Jr. High and H.S. He was a great guy and did so well in life. He is one of "the good guys" that will missed by all that knew him. Again, so sorry. Jim & Bev Coenen

Nate Engle

July 26, 2020

I worked with Dave at Florence Crittenton. He was a great guy to work with. We became friends and he was like a mentor to me. He helped me through difficult times at work. We continued our friendship after Florence closed at lunches. Rose take care and your family.

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