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John Benware Obituary

ENDWELL, N.Y. John T. "Jack" Benware, 82, of Endwell, N.Y., went to be with the Lord and join his wife, Shirley Benware, on Monday morning, Dec. 3, 2007, at Wilson Memorial Hospital. He was a veteran of the U.S. navy, serving during World War II. An attendee of Brown University, Jack was a loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather who will be greatly missed by his family and all who knew and loved him. Jack was a retired I.B.M. employee with 35 years of proud service and a member of its Quarter Century Club. He was a member of Our Lady of Angels Church in Endwell. Jack was predeceased by his parents, his brother, brother-in-law and sister-in-law. He is survived by three daughters and sons-in-law, Donna and Richard Goodnough of Vestal, Melissa and Albert Salisbury of Timberlake, N.C. and Lori and Michael Sinicki of Endwell; two sons and daughters-in-law, Dr. John and Paula Benware of Endwell and Timothy and Susan Benware of Creedmoor, N.C.; 16 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Funeral services will be held at 9:30 a.m. Friday, Dec. 7, from the Leon Pucedo Funeral Home, Inc., 1905 Watson Blvd., Endicott, and at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Angels Church where a Funeral Mass will be celebrated. Burial will be in Riverhurst Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 4 to 7 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 6.

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Published by Post-Star on Dec. 5, 2007.

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Katrina Benware

December 14, 2007

I will miss you and I love you!!
Bampi
your granddaughter,
Katrina

Bob & Bonnie Moyer

December 10, 2007

Donna & family,
May your memories of your Dad be with you always to help you thru this difficult time. Until we meet again for eternity, God bless us all.
Sincerely,

Cousins Pam & Joel Hubal

December 8, 2007

To Donna, Dick & Family,
So sorry to learn of your Dad and Grandpa's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kevin & Rebecca Eggleston

December 8, 2007

Lori & Mike & The Benware Family,
Sorry to hear about the death of your father, Jack. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.
With sincere condolences,
Kevin & Rebecca Eggleston

Sandra Harper

December 7, 2007

Dear Tim and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. May you find strength and comfort knowing he is at peace. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Harper & Family

Dawn D'Agostino

December 7, 2007

Lori, Michael and family:
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope that all of your wonderful memories comfort you at this time. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Dawn

JOHN AND PAT URBAN

December 6, 2007

John, Paula and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

John and Pat Urban

Evie Nielsen

December 6, 2007

So sorry to hear of your Dads passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Ron & Rita Belisle

December 6, 2007

Dear Donna, so sorry to hear about the death of your Dad. we want to send a donation, but there is no charity listed. Could you please let us know where we could do that. Thanks and sorry again.Love, Rita & Ron

John Clarke

December 6, 2007

I worked with Jack for years, he was a good person and a friend.

Jack Clarke

James Carter

December 5, 2007

The Benware Family,
We have been friends with Jack & Shirley for years at Lake Bonin. They were two of the nicest people at the lake. Always had a kind word for all and a smile. He will be missed as one of the best at the lake. Our condolences to your family - Jim & Sheri Carter

Jackie Hart

December 5, 2007

Dear Tim, Susan and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing, but we have to beleive he is in a better place, happy and healthy. You are in my thoughts and prayers

Thomas Mercer

December 5, 2007

All of us at the City of Creedmoor send our sympathy and condolences to our Police Chief Tim Benware, his family and friends. We never met Tim's dad, but if he was anything like Tim he must have been a great man.

December 5, 2007

We would like to send our condolences to John's family. He was a very special man and we feel fortunate for the opportunity to have participated in his care. We will miss him, his sense of humor and his smile.
Nurses at Wilson Infusion Center

Lou Colombo

December 5, 2007

Dear John and Paula,
Marie and I are sorry to hear about your father. You know are thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gwynne Troy

December 5, 2007

Dear John and Paula, So sorry to read of your father's death. Parents are so important and they are missed. My sympathy and prayers to you and your family.
Fondly, Gwynne

Tina Gowe (DiRienzo)

December 5, 2007

Donna, Jill and family--
Please accept my deepest sympathies, and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane and Terry Szlucha

December 5, 2007

We knew Jack from Lake Bonin and what a wonderful man he was. He and Shirley were the nicest couple and always friendly to everyone. He has not been the same without her. Now they are together again and smiling down on everyone. Now he can be healthy again after such a long struggle. I pray that his family will be at peace with their loss and praise our Heavenly Father for the new life he will have. God bless you all. He will be sorely missed.

Butch Taladay

December 5, 2007

Lori, Mike and family, please accept my heart felt sympathy for
the loss of your Dad. He was a fine gentleman. He gave me my start in IBM and it turned out to be my lifes work. I'll miss him, as will we all. God bless.

Alice & John Rand

December 5, 2007

A generous and willing friend always ready to assist in any way possible.

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