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Jeffrey Tompkins Obituary
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POUGHKEEPSIE - Jeffrey P. Tompkins, 52, of Poughkeepsie, passed away Tuesday, February 8, 2011 at St. Francis Hospital, Poughkeepsie, surrounded by his loving family and friends.
A lifelong area resident, Mr. Tompkins was self employed in the contracting business.
He enjoyed gardening, animals and was very family oriented.
Jeff was born in Poughkeepsie June 9, 1958, the son of the late Daniel Tompkins and Helen Darrigan.
He is survived by his brothers, Gary Tompkins and his wife Christine of Poughkeepsie, Eugene Tompkins and his wife Judy of Hughsonville, a sister, Vicki Tompkins of Wappingers Falls, best friend Susan Palmquist of Staatsburg, also friends, Monty Falconi-Gobbi and Emmette Miller both of Poughkeepsie; a son, Michael Meyers of Wappingers Falls, one grandchild, several nieces and nephews.
Memorial visitation will be Saturday from 2 to 5 PM at Delehanty Funeral Home 64 E. Main St., Wappingers Falls.
A service will be held during the visitation.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the SPCA, 636 Violet Ave., Hyde Park, N.Y. 12538
To send a condolence or for directions, visit www.delehantyfuneral.com
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Sleepy Scofield
February 22, 2011
I knew Jeffrey well and the times that we spent together many years ago were some of my best - Many Condolences and prayers for the family - love Sleepy
Maureen D'Ulisse
February 14, 2011
May the days ahead be lit with a soft glow, like a candle, similar to Jeff's gentle smile and manner. It more than saddens me to understand he has gone from this planet to a spiritual existence. Though I had not seen him for many years, I regret not being able to have a conversation with him to tell him he made a life-long impression on me and how special he is. He was my sweetheart in tenth grade & the time we had together was innocent & loving! I am truly sorry for our loss--Tompkins Family-- May Peace be with you Today & Always, Maureen
February 14, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Eugene and the entire Tompkins family.
Patty and Bill Diesing
so sorry to here this bad news a great happy fun person we had so great times in the house and in the woods miss those day true friend not to forge
patrick buchanan
February 12, 2011
Peggy O'Connor
February 12, 2011
Dear Eugene and Family,
My sincerest condolences in the passing of Jeffrey.
I'm very saddened at the loss of Jeff and the pain you are all going through now.
My memories of Jeff & Eugene together go all the way back to the big house in Hughsonville.
I'm glad to have known Jeff and the Tompkins Family for so long.
Jeff, Always with a smile and a hug for me whenever we met up. Never ever saw a frown. Jeff will be missed by myself & by many.
I Pray Perpetual Light shine upon Jeffrey always, as I know it will, and he rest in Eternal Peace, re-united with all those he loves.
Prayers will continue, especially to Blessed Mary, and include comfort for you Eugene and family in this terrible and sudden loss.
I'm sick today and unable to make the service as I planned, however you will remain in my thoughts and Prayers always.
Love,
Peggy
Debra DeBerardinis
February 11, 2011
My sympathy to the Tompkins family. Jeff was a really great guy. He was extremely talented as a carpenter. Although he was so young to pass on, May God bless his soul and may he rest in peace.
Dave Patterson
February 11, 2011
I remember Jeffrey & his twin brother. We used to play Basketball in his yard. My Deepest Sympathies
Dave Patterson
February 11, 2011
Eugene and the Tomkins family. My deepest sympathy to all of you for this unimaginable loss. Eugene and Jeff were some of the first friends I made when moving to Wappingers Falls as a middle schooler. Though I haven't seen you guys in years, I remember you as friends for life. Kenny Torreggiani
Stephen Morgan
February 11, 2011
I remember Jeffrey & his twin brother Eugene when we were children in St. Mary's School.Jeffrey's passing saddens me and even though it's been many years since I've seen him it is still a time of reflection.
My Deepest Sympathies to his entire family.
Stephen Morgan
J tompkins
February 10, 2011
We miss you, Jeff!
Eugene, Judy, Elizabeth and Jack
Tony Sidote
February 10, 2011
Gary, Vicky, Eugene and family. Very sorry to hear about Jeff. It's been a long time since I've seen you all, but I remember him well. He was way too young........ My regards. Tony Sidote
susan palmquist
February 10, 2011
We have always been together...you have always been there for me....my Jeffrey, my sweet, dear, Jeffrey. I trust now that you are with our Lord, with our parents, mom, nana....those of us left behind miss you so much already.....take special care of Eugene, put an order for some extra angels, actually for all of us...waiting until we all reunite in heaven is the order we have been given....May God bless our hearts to accept this painful parting, may it bring us peace and comfort to know that you are in the presence of God...and family gone before....I love you today, as I always have, and I always will...Mark loves you too, very very much...
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