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Maria Aiello

1936 - 2020

Maria Aiello obituary, 1936-2020, Wappingers Falls, NY

BORN

1936

DIED

2020

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Delehanty Funeral Home, Inc.

64 E Main St

Wappingers Falls, New York

Maria Aiello Obituary

Maria Aiello

Wappingers Falls - It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Maria Assunta Aiello, of Wappingers Falls, NY, on March 31, 2020 at the age of 84.

Maria is survived by her husband, John Aiello, sons Joseph Aiello (Nancy) and Anthony Aiello (John), and daughter Lisa Aiello Nafe (Ben). Her spirit continues through her grandchildren Christina, Jennifer, Lucas and Ann Marie. She is also survived by her sister, Caroline DeMelis, her brother, Tony DeSantis and his wife Lucy along with many nieces and nephews, extended family and friends. She is preceded by her brother, Luigi DeSantis.

Maria was born to the late Giuseppe and Giulia (DePasquale) DeSantis on January 1st, 1936 in Alanno, Italy. She moved to America in 1955 when she was 18 years old. She married John Aiello on June 12, 1960. She worked at Kemp and Beatley in Wappingers Falls for many years before starting her own business. She was happiest when she was surrounded by her family and friends, as we gathered around the table, to eat one of her amazing Italian meals that included so much of her love, which we always said was her "special" ingredient. "Buon Appetito" is what she would always say. Every morning at 4 am you could find her in the kitchen cooking and preparing meals for the day. She loved to garden, cook, spend time with family and friends and dance, dance, dance. Her heart was kind and her love unconditional. She opened her heart to everyone she came in contact with. Everyone that met her would be forever touched by her light. She had a true passion for life and was always full of energy that you saw in her beautiful smile. She lived life to the fullest, and is deeply loved and will be truly missed. As we went through old photographs and memories we found a quote she loved: "Life is not the amount of breaths you take, It's the moments that take your breath away". She filled our lives with so many of those moments.

There will be no viewing or mass at this time. A Celebration of Life Ceremony will be postponed until a later date. At this time, we appreciate your prayers and condolences. In lieu of sending flowers or gifts, the family requests that people make donations in support of The American Heart Association.

Arrangements are in charge of the Delehanty Funeral Home. To send a condolence, visit www.delehantyfuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Apr. 2 to Apr. 3, 2020.

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Kathleen Reyes

March 27, 2023

Maria You are missed!! Kathleen Reyes

Kathleen Reyes

March 27, 2021

Maria You are in our thoughts and are missed. When this COVID mess is over we will celebrate your wonderful life of giving to others. Thank you for sending Lisa into our lives. Kathleen Reyes

May 1, 2020

Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one, Maria. May (1 Thessalonians 4:14) bring you some comfort in knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death. May the God of all comfort strengthen your family during this time of deep sorrow.

April 6, 2020

to maryann sorry for your loss .maria was a very sweet person she will be missed. from judy roger in hyde

Colleen Cuccia

April 5, 2020

Maria and I worked together at Kemp & Beatley many many years ago! She always had a smile on her face. She was always kind and her heart was filled with love! Rest in Peace Maria!

Colleen Cuccia

April 5, 2020

I remember Maria very much! We worked at Kemp and Beatley many many years ago! She was always kind and friendly to everyone. Rest in Peace Maria!

Mary Ranalli

April 5, 2020

My sincere sympathy to the Aiello family and to Caroline and also Lucy and Tony DeSantis. May God grant her eternal peace.

Her brother's 70th birthday

Megan DeSantis

April 5, 2020

Aunt Maria always made me laugh and feel special. Each time I would see her on visits to New York, she would grab my hand and hug me and made it seem like I was the only person in the room. And I will always remember how welcoming she was to my sister's family as she hosted them and 20 others for a special Thanksgiving one year. Future visits to New York will not be the same.

Kathleen Reyes

April 4, 2020

Maria You will be missed!! Thank you for giving me your wonderful daughter Lisa who is married to my son Ben and bringing your great family into my life. Rest In Peace. You are in a better place today. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Kathy Reyes.

April 4, 2020

One of the most friendly people I ever knew. She would always invite me in for coffee and goodies..Her son and my son were friends while attending St Mary's School.

Ann Marie Nafe

April 3, 2020

We will always love you Nona! Thank you for everything that you have done for us.

American Heart Association

April 3, 2020

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Bob Pantaline

April 3, 2020

I was blessed to have Maria Aiello as a second Mother


I will always love her and the Aiello Family
May God Bless Maria and the Aiello Family


Deepest Sympathy and Love
From Bob Pantaline
& Family

Brian Terralavoro

April 3, 2020

Joe, family and friends, I send my deepest condolences to you all. May your Mom Rest in Peace...

Brian Terralavoro

April 3, 2020

Joe, family and friends, I send my deepest condolences to you all. May your Mom Rest in Peace...

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