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Debra Hamlin Obituary

Hamlin, Debra

Our beloved sister, daughter and aunt Debra Hamlin, was called to God's side ending her battle with ovarian cancer on Wednesday, November 8, 2017. Deb was surrounded by her family and friends at the end of her journey. She was loved by so many and touched the hearts of all that knew her. She cherished her family most of all. She was a wonderful daughter and extraordinary, kind and loyal sister, and so much fun to be around. Deb is survived by her mother, Helen Carosella, Endwell; her sister Donna Flanagan, North Carolina and her sister Doreen Howard, Endwell. Deb is also survived by her nephew Ryan (Heather) Howard and two great nephews, Westley and Landon Howard, all of Endwell. She also has two aunts, Jean (Charles) Komar and Betty Rotunda, both of Owego, and several cousins. Deb was predeceased by her father Allio Carosella and several of her beloved pet dogs. Deb graduated from Seton Catholic High School and received her Bachelor's and Master's Degree from SUNY Binghamton. Deb's career at IBM/Loral/Lockheed Martin, spanned over 37 years. She progressed through the company and was a second line manager at IBM and over the years at Lockheed Martin, was a Program Manager of the successful Spanish Lamps Program. Deb was put in charge of creating a new program for Logistics and was the leading manager of this program and built it to its success. Deb retired in 2010. She later became a caregiver for our mother. Her patience, kindness, knowledge and leadership made her a success in all she had done. A special thanks to her sister-in-law Dee Shond, who stood by Deb's side from the inception of her ovarian cancer, to the very end. And to her best friend Carol (Eric) Starkovich, her longtime friend from high school on, who was by Deb's side for months at the end. Also many thanks to all of you who had sent cards and flowers, or maybe had a visit or phone call, to let her know you were always thinking of her and keeping her in your prayers. Deb will be missed by so many, but will live in the hearts of us all. May God bless you Deb and keep you safe and warm and pain free. We know you will be watching over us from Heaven, painless, care free and especially happy because your life was so full. You have gone before us to your creator. We love you and will miss you every day, but will cherish the time we were granted to know you.

The family will receive friends at the Allen Memorial Home Monday from 4:00 pm until 7:00 pm, followed immediately by a Service at 7:00 pm, at Allen Memorial Home, 511-513 East Main Street, Endicott. Graveside services will be held Tuesday 10 am at Riverhurst Cemetery, Endicott. Donations can be made to the Humane Society, 2 Jackson Street, Binghamton, NY 13903.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Nov. 11 to Nov. 13, 2017.

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Shakira Wallmar

April 24, 2018

I was her Assistant for a short period at Lockheed and she is unforgettable! I learned so much from you Deb, was just talking about you and did a search to find that you are Resting in Peace.

My condolences to Doreen and family.

Shakira Wallmar

Lee Stephens

November 15, 2017

To the Carosella family. I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Debra since I was a kid. I worked with her at Mr Donuts for a few years. Deb was the epitome of the sweet person that we should all hope to be. I have wonderful memories and will always cherish them. May you somehow find solace in the fact that Debra was loved by many and lives were better off for knowing her. She is now in heaven without the pain and suffering and I am truly sorry for the loss of such a special person.

Lee Stephens

Patrice Belford Allgood

November 14, 2017

On behalf of the Seton Catholic High School Class of 1972, our deepest sympathy to your family. We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.

Kelly Cavitt

November 14, 2017

Doreen,

Very sorry to hear about Deb. She was an exceptional lady.

With deepest sympathy,

Dr. Yolanda Carson

November 13, 2017

R.I.P. Deb!

Nancy Kidd

November 13, 2017

I absolutely adored Deb, and was crushed when reading of her death. She was beautiful, kind, funny and giving, and we will all miss her.

Nancy Kidd
Matthews Auto

Kim Bowman

November 13, 2017

Doreen and family:
So very sorry to hear of Deb's passing. She was greatly respected by everyone who crossed her path. May she rest in peace.

Kim Ksionzyk

November 13, 2017

Doreen and family, Thinking of you today as you say your farewell to Deb. Prayers that her memories will see you through the days ahead. She was a special person and had the ability to make you feel as though you mattered . Sincerely enjoyed the interaction with her at LM.

Bonnie Iannone

November 13, 2017

Doreen and family, I am so very very sorry to hear of Debs passing. She touched so many lives. You all are in my prayers.

Mary (Kocak) Outman

November 13, 2017

So sorry to hear of Deb's passing . She was caring and kind to our mutual friend Ginger who was fighting her final stage of cancer ( On her last day, Deb was at the hospital early in the morning before going to work) She truly was a blessing in this world.

Linda Ericksen

November 11, 2017

Doreen and family, I am so sorry to hear of your sister's death. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Linda Ericksen

Kathy and Mike Schoultz

November 11, 2017

Deb was an awesome person to work with! She always had a smile on her face. Deepest sympathies to her family..... Kathy and Mike Schoultz

debra stark

November 11, 2017

remembering the wonderful person Deb was. keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Debbie Smith Stark

Kathleen Arbach

November 11, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy to Doreen and family. She was loved and will be missed by many. RIP Deb with our Savior.

~Kathleen

Barbara Gance

November 11, 2017

My deepest sympathy to Donna, Doreen and all of Deb's family. Deb was a role model and mentor and also a friend to so many of us. We will miss you Deb, rest peacefully.

Sally Hutchison

November 11, 2017

Deb will forever remain in our hearts & minds. She was a very special leader, friend and co-worker. My prayers are with family & all mourning her loss.

Keith Farmer

November 11, 2017

Deb, on her visits to North Carolina, was always so thoughtful and kind to us, Donna's neighbors in Davidson. Her obituary is so lovingly presented and a wonderful tribute to an accomplished lady. We will all sorely miss her, a truly fantastic daughter, sister, aunt and friend. Rest In Peace, our kind, considerate friend.

The Farmer Family of Davidson, North Carolina

Barbara (Blodgett) Olevano

November 11, 2017

To Doreen, Donna, and family, my heartfelt sympathy. I have appreciation and gratitude for Deb's leadership, strength and caring about those of us who had the opportunity to work for and with her in Owego. And wonderful memories of lots of laughter in the good or tough times!
RIP, dear friend.

Joanie Delafield

November 11, 2017

Aunt Helen, Donna and Doreen, I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. R.i.p. debbie.

Christina Arthur

November 11, 2017

So sorry to hear of Debs passing. God be with the family.

Sharon Hickey

November 10, 2017

Dear Doreen, please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Debbie and extend my condolences to your sister, Donna, and your mother. I will keep your family in prayer. I have a special memory of Debbie (as my manager) that I will treasure. And we know that not many of our managers gave us treasured memories! Feel my hugs, my dear Doreen. xx Sharon Hickey

Connie Weaver

November 10, 2017

Rest Peacefully Deb!

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